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phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 33 (view)

POF Lessons Posted: 6/25/2009 2:23:03 AM
"clicking" online and "clicking" in person are 2 completely different ball games. How many times have you chatted to someone off of POF and its like sparks fly, you can talk and talk for hours. Then you eagerly await to meet this person and when you finally do, it's nothing, no chemistry, no connection.....nothing. Now consider the opposite, you don't really click too much online, you find it difficult to converse. How do you know if you are magnetized electrically if you met in person or not? Chemistry online is great but is nearly irrelevant. Do not base the potential spark that may or may not ignite in person solely on emotions consciously or sub consciously created from what you read on your 19' monitor. The only connection that should matter is the connection created when in the physical presence of another.

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 798 (view)

Hey all! Posted: 6/14/2009 7:44:20 PM
Just moved to Victoria recently, people are so nice around here its awesome, anyways have a wicked summer :)

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 95 (view)

What’s the best piece of advice you ever received? Posted: 6/14/2009 7:42:57 PM
What was the best piece of advice...... DUCK!!!!

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 149 (view)

Who watches Coronation Street ? Posted: 6/14/2009 7:39:35 PM
OMG that show is still around???? I remember my mom watching that when I was a little kid

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 49 (view)

What gives you passion? Posted: 6/14/2009 7:34:29 PM
Graphic design by far I totally get engulfed into that

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

5 to 1 ratio of women to men in Vancouver Posted: 6/14/2009 7:32:37 PM
They have this term "chictoria" here in Victoria and say 3:1 so I go to stats Canada and they state a 1.8:1. Of course once you take all the minors and seniors out its back to 1:1. I believe these high female to male ratios are from the many widowed females.

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 234 (view)

What do you find beautiful? Posted: 6/6/2009 4:35:14 PM
cuddles n smiles

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 42 (view)

Powerful woman..... Posted: 6/6/2009 4:05:55 PM
Feeling intimidated by a woman is a HUGE attraction. But it can sometimes depend how I am intimidated.

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 255 (view)

list 1 positive thing about being single Posted: 12/29/2008 5:23:18 PM
The ability to just up and move anywhere I want without having to answer to anyone

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 34 (view)

I don't understand the purpose of Favourites Posted: 10/21/2008 12:59:30 AM
I think its some kind of ranking system.....like a popularity contest. First one to 1,000 wins

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 44 (view)

What does Other Relationship mean?? Posted: 10/21/2008 12:55:48 AM
Means you hafta guess what they want

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 27 (view)

When a guy says he wants to Cuddle we all know it means more than that....or am I wrong? Posted: 10/21/2008 12:53:03 AM
I'm a fiend for cuddling and many times have done just that and nothing more. But if she starts getting frisky I'm not gonna stop her

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 15 (view)

Press 9 and start packing your bags immediately ... Posted: 9/27/2008 9:30:28 PM
The started something like this in Australia a few years ago but it was a bit more hardcore where if a company called you and you were on the black list the company could get fined up to a quarter million dollars

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

Is it too much to ask?????? Posted: 9/27/2008 9:27:34 PM
Personally I prefer to not be responded to then to get a "thx but no thx" style email. Of course if ya dated the individual a couple of times yeah there should be some kinda contact saying thx but no thx

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 64 (view)

Traveling Solo Posted: 12/31/2007 4:36:11 PM
Traveling solo is no biggie actually once you get to your destination and are doing and experiencing so much after getting backhanded with a culture shock and an overload of all your senses the last thing that crosses your mind is that you are on your trip alone.

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 622 (view)

The nerve...LMAO Posted: 8/31/2007 4:22:59 PM
I refuse to settle. I need to be dumbfounded with butterflies or whatever you wanna call em. Soul mates exist just don't limit yourself to one locale, thats a sure way NOT to find them unless you are lucky, the planet is huge

phoenix_cinder

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

Online Stalkers Posted: 6/10/2007 11:28:15 PM
Brutal, outdoes my experience. I was stalked for 6 mo from this one woman. First (and last) date she turned to me and I nearly had a stroke when she blurted out that she was falling in love with me. That "oh F#ck" feeling that courses through your vains cause you know you got yourself a serious problem.

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