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leprachan_laugh

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Who's Hot and who's Not! Posted: 6/17/2007 6:54:17 AM
I don't let people define how I look anymore. I don't think I'm that great of a catch but I'm not terrible either in my opinion. I wish that people wouldn't judge me on my looks and you can't tell how you look because someone said you looked a certain way. I used to listen to other people when they made fun of me for how I looked unfortionatly, and when some people were calleing me fat, and others were calling me anorexicly skinny eventually leading me think I was disgustingly misporportioned. Also it depends on personal interests too. I've had crushs on girls that were bbw, I've had crushs on girls that were chest or stomach height, I've had crushs on girls with glasses, and wasn't as into them when they took the glasses off. I dunno I think it might be the eyes. I've always found that big eyes intrigued me (is intrigued the right word?). Anyways I rate people on things other then looks

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Do you think human kind will ever evolve? Posted: 6/16/2007 5:31:11 PM
I think that people will evolve, but in history, most global evolutions occur from a global change. If some world wide spread catastrophe happened, then the survivors if any would adapt and evolve, though this is just a theory.

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Money or Love Posted: 6/16/2007 4:26:00 PM
I would go for the soulmate. I think I can get by without the air conditioning.

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Is my wife gay? Posted: 6/16/2007 12:58:07 PM
I've found that girls are usually more open and fluent around gay men. I don't know why but it seems like a comfort thing or something.

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I LOVE you......I'm just not IN LOVE with you... Posted: 6/16/2007 12:09:57 PM
When My first girlfriend's friend broke up with me for her saying she wasn't really interested in anyone anymore, but I did stay in contact with both my ex and her friend. What I did find interesting was that they said they loved each other on their profile and I asked them about that and they said they did love eachother, but only as brother and sister. maybe this person you're dating sees you like you were a sibling or cousin or something.

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Why men wont date independant women Posted: 6/16/2007 9:53:58 AM
I think that when a woman says she's independent, then it shouldn't be any different then if a friend said she's/he's independent. For sophmore year, I was able to sign up for a aerobic class second semester, and I decided to do it since I wanted to see what it was like. Our teacher was a old woman, and I was able to tell this at first because she had winkled skin and gray hair. During the classes, she was more with it then anyone (like any teacher should be). Part of the course meant going to the weight room and lift weights atleast once a week. This is where it gets interesting. She was able to lift mad lbs. One time there was another teacher (this one is male) that had a free period at the same time, and he decided to come and lift weights. Somehow they got into a stand off when people were wondering who could lift the heaviest weight and the aerobics teacher won. She did say something about lifting weights all her life, so it migh be just that, but still there was this old woman who beat a middle aged buff looking guy. I wasn't good at it myshelf, though what I'm used to all my life is helping around the house with cleaning and stuff. There's too incidence's where two opposite sexed people were able to do stuff that their gender isn't suppose to be good at doing. When I think of independent, I think that they would even have to be able to clean up the house and do ironing along with the organizing money and doing other chores. I don't think anyone is independent (this includes both sexs) although they can pay for special services like plumpers or laundromats and stuff.

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Hermaphrodites... Posted: 6/16/2007 8:52:17 AM
I belief the pc term for a hermaphrodite is a intersex person though I'm only guessing this from organizations that I found on the internet. As for the question, I wouldn't mind untill we were both comfortable enough for other activites, then I would say what I am comfortable with in the bed room and not comfortable with until we come to an agreement on what to do or we can't come to an agreement and just put off the sex, but all in all it's the sex that concerns me about dating one and we don't need to have sex so it really isn't a problem for me.

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Is there such a thing as the Alpha Female? Posted: 6/15/2007 8:16:35 PM
actually hyenas also have a female monarchy.

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Asperger's - Social Deficits - Looking for Techniques Posted: 6/15/2007 8:06:58 PM
I'm looking at this and find it touching that people that are either autistic, parents of autistic children, or just know about autistic people are throwing in their two cents. I didn't read them all but I did notice that some people were wondering what teenage years were like, and as an aspie at the current age of 18 I can talk about myshelf to try and help. Adolescence has not been easy for me. I've fell in love with people who usually didn't love me back. I've had three girlfriends by this date, all during high school years. I aske my first girlfriend out between freshmen and sophmore years during the summer, and it was someone I knew from summer school (wasn't enough room for all the classes I wanted to take, so I had to take one during the summer). I asked her out she said yes. The next day, a friend of her's AIM's me and says she was just feeling sry for me when she said yes and didn't mean it (nice blow to my self esteem, thx). Then I started getting depressed, and lost interest in life and stuff. Anyways, my suggestion would be to try to talk about dating and some relationships don't work out and not to give up hope because sometimes tomorrow brings better things to life.

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Asperger's Syndrome Posted: 6/15/2007 7:16:08 PM
I also have asperger's and I've noticed that it's hard for me to find someone too. I don't know what I do wrong, or if it's even something that I'm consciously doing or if I'm just not aware of or what, but the longest relationship I've had with a girl...... five days. That's why I usually tell the people to tell me straight foward what I'm doing wrong or what image am I projecting. I think there's even a book that's like $10 on amazon that helps with this sort of stuff, I would recomend buying it which I would do once I get my first pay from the summer job I havn't started on yet. Anyways, anyone else have Asperger's and would like to contribute?

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what do you really think of the size 0?? Posted: 6/15/2007 6:59:46 PM
politely ........ I almost went through an entire post proper spelling post without misspelling if it wasn't for that meddling politely.

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what do you really think of the size 0?? Posted: 6/15/2007 6:53:27 PM
if they're naturally that way then it's fine. It could just be hyper metabolism. I've had that for a long time and it isn't till recently I started to look better. A year ago, people would make rather interesting comments. "OMG, you're anorexic, you're like so disgustingly thin, you must eat a mint a day and that's it, I can tell from your face." This is being spoken to a guy who gets random cravings for food during the day, though when I looked in the mirror I did agree that my cheeks where to flat and boney. >.<. Anyways if they are that skinny naturally then that's ok, if not then try to help them politly.

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What do women need in order to want to have sex? Posted: 6/15/2007 6:32:29 PM
they need to know they can trust you to not be in it for only head, and they need to be comfortable enough with the idea of sex with you in the first place. If you give it time and let them grow more comfortable and trusting, then you might get somewhere. This might only work if you're willing to wait awhile though.

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Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 6/15/2007 6:10:06 PM
If you tell the person you're dating that you're gonna have sex with someone else, and she (or he) says it's ok, and you tell the person that you're gonna have sex with that you're already dating someone, and they say it's ok, then it's not cheating. but if one of the people don't know about your interactions with the other, then it becomes cheating no matter what.

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Why Don't Women Pick Up Men On Dating Sites? Posted: 6/15/2007 2:10:56 PM
lol I know I'm ugly but it dosen't bother me. It helps to keep shallow women away so that I feel like the person is dating me for me and not me for my looks.

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Why Don't Women Pick Up Men On Dating Sites? Posted: 6/15/2007 1:21:23 PM
I personally prefer if the women make the first contact because I don't want to give a too bad impression, though I guess that might be why some (not all nor alot but some) women won't contact first either.

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Please review and advice Posted: 6/15/2007 12:37:41 PM
Thanks for the advice. I guess I can say something about sm but just mention that it's not a required thing in my life. I would like it but I'ld rather have emotional then physical but if I can have both with everyone being comfortable with it then that'd be much better. (^; . Again, thanks for the advice.

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Please review and advice Posted: 6/15/2007 11:45:29 AM
ok forgot to quote all these but in case anyone's wondering i've been replying in the order of posts send to me on this thread. anyways, Juicers, thanks for the advice. I guess I got so used to the friends that I've asked always saying no that I forgot that some friendships do grow into something more. I'll get working on that. Also not sure what i said for first date, but it doesn't sound good. I'll try to fix that too. Again, thanks for the advice.

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Please review and advice Posted: 6/15/2007 11:38:58 AM
blush good points. Thanks for the advice. I guess I don't need to bring up sm untill well into the relationship. And the picture really does look dorky doesn't it? I would go to 55 except for the disturbing fact that my eldest sister is 25 and both my parents are.... believe it or not 57. But yeah you're right gotta ease up on that. Again thanks for the advice.

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Please review and advice Posted: 6/15/2007 11:34:57 AM
thank you for the advice. I'll try to copy and paste everything into word later today. as for the pictures I'm not good with uploading pics onto the computer, and the scanner that I used to get the pic in my profile is busted )^,: but I am planning to go to a social event at the end of the month where pictures will be taken and put on the internet by a photographer and I'll try to get a few posses of me in them. Again thank you for the advice.

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why do men only care about sex??? Posted: 6/15/2007 11:00:33 AM
I personally don't need sex in a relationship. I'm just fine with being with someone that makes me laugh and let's me rest my head on her shoulder when I'm down and hopefully I do the same for her. I would rather ask her if she had any ice in the freezer, take the ice to the bathroom, and ... well... apply it to myshelf so I don't have the urge to do anything like that with her if she or I didn't want to. I wonder if they sell anything like a crotch belt you can put ice into? have your men wear it and they won't be in much a mood to do bed activities (unless you count making the bed as a bed activity).

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Please review and advice Posted: 6/15/2007 10:32:45 AM
I'm not sure of what I'm doing wrong. Are people getting mixed messages or wrong impressions from my profile? Is there something that is scaring good people away from the profile and preventing them from thinking twice about contacting? Please advice on changes and don't hold back on necessary comments.

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Dating for 1month & he's still checking other profiles online. Continue seeing him? or Is it a sign? Posted: 6/15/2007 10:10:54 AM
Sometimes people check other people's sites to check their profiles from the forums. I've seen some profiles that says they're no single/not looking. if his says that then he probibly is just looking at their profile to better undestand a post that person might have made. that's what I do sometimes (rriiight.....not secreatly gay.....not looking at straight men's profiles for other reasons...) jk but yeah might be just looking at a posters profile, though i can be wrong.

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How much do you love yourself at this moment? Posted: 6/14/2007 9:30:19 AM
I do admit I've had some trouble loving myshelf the past few years, though I think I'm getting better. As for the photo, that was the most recent photo I was able to scan into the computer before the scanner broke (well second most recent but the first most recent was taken within the next week). I'm

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Overlooking phsyical flaws.... Posted: 6/13/2007 12:48:53 PM
One thing i can definatly understand is stretch marks. i have them on my legs and thighs a few months ago and the docter says it's part of adolescence.

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Strap-on Posted: 6/13/2007 12:41:01 PM
they might be bi. that, or usually some men get off at women who "takes their manhood away from them" or in other words, he might want you to dominate him. maybe asking him about how he feels about the relationship and give out your theorys.

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¿ Best Type Of HandCuffs ? Posted: 6/11/2007 8:59:12 AM
You know I've always liked the idea of handcuffing my hands to a bed post, putting a spreader bar on my ankles, and maybe somehow bond the spreader bar to the other end of the bed. I just hope that my partner wouldn't leave me there or worse "Good your now bound up. Now i have a surprise for you close your eyes." after closing my eyes my partner pulls out a blood soaked knife. Can anyone guess where this is going?

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why is it sooooooooo hard Posted: 6/10/2007 7:44:12 PM
my father and my mother actually never hooked up till like their mid to late 30's I think.

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What are your boundaries? Posted: 6/10/2007 7:05:51 PM
I try to keep my eyes out for red flags from the beggining. Something like them not mentionning anything about my profile or saying they'll go all the way with me is sorta not wanted so those would be red flags. I would not accept them trying to convert me to anything (like religion or belief system). I might just say "this isn't working out" to maintain my boundries but only if i feel the other person isn't listening (meaning i would have to point it out first or try to work it out before i consider breaking up).

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Preconceived ideas on men and sex Posted: 6/10/2007 6:40:45 PM
The best way to get sex is to say that you are looking for long term. Chicks get turned on by guys who want a ball and chain. Just tell 'em afterwards that you have a short attention span and your idea of long term is one night. i'm sry but that only supports the preconceived ideas that men only want sex, and though that might be all your after, it does still take the rest of the men who are actually looking for long term along with you.

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Pet Stories - Mother's Love Posted: 6/10/2007 6:32:22 PM
numerous amount of species of animals are amazing creatures. I'm guessing it's from natural instincts for when the horse's ancestes's were wild. some dogs still hold quality's of wild wolfs, and cats hold quality's similar to wild cats though they weren't descendent from lions or pumas or anything like that.

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Why men wont date independant women Posted: 6/10/2007 6:08:37 PM
[qoute]* she is an individual---separate and unique. she has a MIND of her own and will use it. she doesn't need you to tell her how to think or why she is wrong and you are right. she is not a man. she is a person. she is an individual. if you need reminding, go read the constitution of the united states. [/qoute] i am a man. i am an inividual that's separate and unique, i have a mind of my own and i do use it, and most independent men don't need people to tell him how to think or why he is wrong and the other people are right. my question here is why the "she is not a man." had to be in there? if it was "she's a human too." then that would indicate she's on the same level that a man can get to. the "she is not a man." quote however indicates that men are incapable of being independent. i've met many men that fit the description in the top qoute. i do agree with that makeing someone indepentdent though it would make anyone fitting that description independent.

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Why men wont date independant women Posted: 6/10/2007 11:42:08 AM
i personally like independent women though i am sorta wearry cause belief it or not, men can get used too and that's what happened to me in one of my relationships. just like women get a little cautious from bad relationship experiences, so do men. you can say both sides do have members that are intimated by the other.

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Should a womans breasts be refered to as tits, boobs or breasts Posted: 6/9/2007 4:38:49 PM
this could be Monty Python and the Holy Grail movie "Why don't you want to marry her. she's rich, she's famous, she's got .....HUGE....TRACKS of LAND." tough if i called them that i might get slapped, or burned on a steak either or.

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Women, just stop talking! lol Posted: 6/9/2007 3:44:33 PM
i've actually know some women that were one word answer people and didn't very much.

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Would You Help An Ex In Need? Posted: 6/9/2007 8:40:17 AM
i personnaly might help my ex depending on which ex it is. i mean one time i dated a person who ignored me and left the scene whenever i came and this went on for the two days we dated till they AIM me saying they want to see other people. a month later the same person AIMs me asking for sex. if that person needed my help then i would only help if it's life threatening. for my other ex's i would be easier on.

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Should a womans breasts be refered to as tits, boobs or breasts Posted: 6/8/2007 5:15:00 PM
i generally call them breasts. i might sometimes fool around and try to act like someone imature and say a sleezy sentence or phrase including boobs or boobies though that's only when people that know that i'm joking are around like my sisters or something and i say "My boobs are bigger then your boobs." And she would say "You don't have boobs." And i say "And they're still bigger then yours" then she slaps me over the head and i pretend to whine. plz mind me and my sister are "unique" and so "special" that they had a super small bus made just for us. lol jk but yeah we do say stuff like this sometimes.

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Dominate Women/BDSM Posted: 6/8/2007 5:04:43 PM
i don't see what's so wrong with it as long as both sides are ok with it. i personally keep it as an option between partners and me but i would have to wait to be in a relationship for at the LEAST a month to THREE MONTHS (sry for the caps but emphasizing an opinion) before i might mention it. i wait this long to see if they just wanted a sub slave or if they actually wanted to be in the relationship for real. if they say no then i'm ok with it and i can either wait until they are comfortable or give up on bdsm altogether. i mean there has to be more to a person then if they're willing or not. if they bring it up and i say i'm not comfortable at this time and they say now or never, then that never is gonna come real soon cause yeah i like some to be dominated but i believe that one of the biggest rules in BDSM is no/stop means no/stop. if i say no i'm not comfortable and my partner can't take it then goodbye. if i say no and the partner waits until i was comfortable enough, then good for them i think i found someone that i could trust cause what person would date a guy for three BDSM free months while caring about if they would get some or not.

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would u propose to a man Posted: 6/8/2007 3:56:19 PM
if i ever wanted to marry someone, but didn't know if the feeling was mutual, i would keep it to myshelf not in fear of rejection, but in fear of being that weird bf you had that freaked you out with a proposal. i have managed in freaking people out by asking them out when i thought they were into me though. i mean if it was a simple no thx it wouldn't have been so bad.

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Why men wont date independant women Posted: 6/8/2007 3:18:01 PM
i wouldn't mind dating an independent woman. i personally like women who stands up for themselves and can still pursue their interests without me being around, cause i'm sure to have interests that they don't like and i wouldn't want to force them to go through with doing with me. (like i can date a woman who dosen't like watching the stuff i watch on TV so i decide to watch that stuff when they don't want to watch TV nor wants to do something else with me like walks or cuddling).

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Preconceived ideas on men and sex Posted: 6/8/2007 1:18:52 PM
[qoute][qoute]Having a manly desire for sex is something that has become vilified in our society.[/qoute] Some would say thats karmic after women have been vilified for thousands of years for having any type of desire. The terms s1ut and whor.e have been around for a very long time and show up in each language while men get called something dashing like a Rake or a Lothario. What you get is totally contingent on how you treat the woman. If you treat her with respect and equality, she can enjoy the experience as much if not more than you do. If you treat her like a cheap play thing then you both walk away feeling sleazy. that's one way of looking at it, though i like to believe karma happens either in your own life, in your next life if that happens, or in the after life if that happens. i do agree that it's unfair for anyone no matter what time or place of history to treat women as inferrior when they're not, but treating men inferrior now doesn't justify it in my opinion. i personally think that if you're going to call a woman a slt for sleeping around, then a man should be called a slt too if he's sleeping around. i'm not saying either of them are slts but it doesn't make sense to call one a slt and the other a player if they did the same thing to get those titles. I do think there are people out there that think that all women are inferior, or that men are inferior, but whatever happened to equality? this goes towards men just as much as women btw.

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Overlooking phsyical flaws.... Posted: 6/8/2007 12:56:34 PM
i think i can overlook acne and body part sizes and stuff like that, though one thing is hard for me to overlook physically is facial features, though i wouldn't put a person out of the question over that.

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What are we worth Posted: 6/8/2007 12:51:21 PM
what i'm wondering is if he did anything else that vday. did he just give you that card or did he try to take you to like a picnic or to the beach or something too. i mean for vday i've always wanted to take my loved one to the countryside that evening and watch the sun set, then stay longer to see the stars. we would talk and laugh beneath the sky though this never got to happen because i was never dating anyone during vday before. anyways something like that i think would be a must better gift then something expensive, though i guess it's all opinionitive in the long run.

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Pet Stories Posted: 6/8/2007 12:26:06 PM
yay the mother and child stays united ok, um, i have a story about my mother's dog that was named Worf. Incase anyone didn't know Worf is a TV charicter in a few of the Star Trek seires. My parents were both trekies at the time but Worf was named by his previous owner who was my elder sister Danielle and she was also a trekie at the time. Anyways Danielle didn't pay full attention to Worf which made Mom have to take care of him instead. Eventually, he grew to love mom more then he loved Danielle. In fact he got hooked on mom and is the most pathetic thing when she isn't around. It's like he's narcotic when he isn't with mom. He whines and shivers and yelps and pee and yeah kinda wierd, but I still love him.

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