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Joined: 6/4/2007

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Is it uncomfortable for women to have sex during their period? Posted: 12/3/2008 4:32:22 PM
The ex-Mrs. Top_Drawer would have really bad cramps, bloating, headaches, & a full raging attitude to go with it all. It took a while to convince her that I didn't think her period was gross & she was still sexy to me. This was back when I was twentysomething. When she would get all cranky & PMSing on me. I would just take her hand and lead her into the bedroom without a word & put her on the bed. I would lay down beside her & just start very gently caressing her bloated tummy. After a while she would start to feel a little better. Then I would just put down this Maroon towel & make sure she had a couple of good orgasms. She would be on cloud nine. Cramps would go away. Bloating feeling would almost be gone, headache would be gone, & man would she ever be smiling. That would be good for about a day & a half of relief. For both of us. Women have a higher tolerance to pain than men do. She used to say, "I wish you could experience it just once!" I would say why, so you can see a grown man cry like a baby? I had lots of empathy for what she went thru every month but zero desire to ever experience it first hand.

Joined: 6/4/2007

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Oh the Irony of Speed Dating Posted: 4/23/2008 10:38:06 PM
Speed Dating is alot of fun. Lots of practice meeting and conversing with women in a social setting. The ones I have been to have been 8 minutes with each woman. I have met 12-14 women in one night at one of these events here in Houston. It can get brutal on occasion. It has helped me to get to be much quicker on what makes me interested & easier with the conversation flow.

Joined: 6/4/2007

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You Know Your Date Went Sour When... Posted: 4/23/2008 10:28:59 PM
You are in the first minute or so of a Speed Dating event. You ask if she smokes. She answers with, "Smoke what exactly?". Mind you, this is after she has already told you how responsible she has become since she has a 6 year old son.

Joined: 6/4/2007

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Seperated and dating Posted: 4/23/2008 10:24:50 PM
Dating a separated person is a waste of time & exposes your psyche to really being badly hurt. Why would anyone do that when there are so many truly single people out there. Life is complicated enough without stacking the deck against you like that. That is going to be a high drama scenerio no matter what. Go on to the next meet &/or date.

Joined: 6/4/2007

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Why do tall big men want tiny women ? Posted: 4/23/2008 10:13:24 PM
I am 6' 2" & prefer taller women. 5' 7" and up. I don't really believe your question is accurate. I also need to add that a tall woman is hot, hot, hot.

Joined: 6/4/2007

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Would you stand a better chance IN-Person than on here? Posted: 4/23/2008 10:01:46 PM
I do way, way better in person than I do here online. Alot of things cannot be lied about when you are standing face to face with someone. First of all, I can see what she looks like today, not a 10 year old picture. I can listen to her talk. Carry on a conversation. Walk up to & away from who I choose to meet. I am very particular about what I find attractive to me. One thing that I find fairly amusing is the online woman that thinks it is a big deal to actually meet in a public place after exchanging many emails. I can walk up to and introduce myself to 10 different women in the same time it takes to compose and send 10 articulate emails to the same woman online. Online is overrated. I have had some hilarious stories to share with my family from internet derived lunch date meet & greets.

Joined: 6/4/2007

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How bad is cheating on your partner? Posted: 4/23/2008 9:30:05 PM
Any one of those characteristics would cause me to terminate a relationship immediately. She is toxic to your life! Why tolerate any of that under any circumstances? If someone causes more problems in your life than they solve, they have to go bye bye.

Joined: 6/4/2007

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No drugs---Are my standards too high??? Posted: 12/24/2007 3:46:03 PM
I don't smoke cigarettes and prefer the same. A few years back I was at a Speed Dating event and asked this lady if she smoked. She said, "Smoke what?" After contemplating that fully for a few seconds I said, "anything". Her reply, "Well, yes, I smoke a little weed now and then. Is that a problem?" I replied it sure is. She was upset with me because I cut her off maybe 30 seconds into our 8 minute allotment. You have the right to set any standards you deem appropiate for people in your life. For me that means no illegal or controlled substances other than what would be prescribed by a doctor. No tobacco use & a light social drinker. I don't need the drama those things seem to bring into my life.

Joined: 6/4/2007

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Would u still date a girl if she won't sleep with u? Posted: 12/16/2007 5:15:52 PM
I don't go out on a full blown date for a first meet with someone new. So if I have already gone out with you on a couple of dates, it is because I am fairly interested in you. If we are making out, it is only a question of when, not if we have sex. I wouldn't be upset with waiting. If we both are into each other, I don't think it is going to be too long before the inevitable occurs anyway.

Joined: 6/4/2007

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Why do some guys that look to handsome to be real go for average are ugly women? Posted: 12/16/2007 5:04:19 PM
An ex-girlfriend of mine was smokin' hot good looking. A 5'11" blonde. Guys hit on her all the time everywhere. She would be right by me. Wouldn't matter. I would be standing right there laughing at the most ridiculous pickup lines. If either of us stepped away from the other, someone would approach her or follow her. The guys were like little puppy dogs following her around, begging for attention. After awhile it just started to get sssoooo old. She did nothing to encourage this type of behavior either. If she had, I would have been long gone before we parted ways. I wouldn't want to date a woman that good looking again if it involved dealing with those same issues again every day. It is more about what type of person you are inside anyway, than it is about how you look on the outside.

Joined: 6/4/2007

Msg: 98 (view)

what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 6/9/2007 5:16:21 PM
I broke one of my first meet rules and agreed to a dinner date with this very attractive teacher at a nice mexican restaurant. She started to tell me about her stalker ex-husband who had her therapist concerned enough for her and her kids to convince them to relocate from Arizona to Texas. As she is telling me all about the things her creepy ex did, I am nervously scanning the restaurant to see if any guys are paying too much attention to her and I. Jeez, how does one decide it is appropiate to bring something like this up the first time you meet? I mean really, frighteningly bizarre story after story about her ex. Quickly finished up my meal and asked for the bill as I had somewhere else I needed to be. As in anywhere but there with her.

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