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 Author Thread: How do you stop missing your ex because it's so hard...
 -cheeky-
Joined: 6/6/2007
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How do you stop missing your ex because it's so hard...
Posted: 6/13/2009 3:26:58 PM
When you lose someone so close it is perfectly ok to feel how you are feeling and completely natural to think that it will NEVER get better ... However it will get better in time ... Do not feel bad for having time out and if you want to brood brood!! There is nothing unhealthy about sitting in the corner for a period of time whilst you heal your emotions .. this is natural!! One day you may wake up in and say right - I HAVE TO do something else as I am getting bored with feeling these feelings ... the world is waiting for you and it will still be here for you when you are ready ;) ... a little recipe is drinks warm milk and honey at night time, reduce caffiene after pm and read a good book, even learn an instrument to surprise everyone!! ;) xx
 -cheeky-
Joined: 6/6/2007
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How do I go on after a devastating breakup?
Posted: 6/13/2009 3:13:42 PM
WoW - the truth be told and heard .... i was in a very similar situation and being friends is just impossible when you have such strong feelings for that person ... unconsiously you want more, you test the water, you get rejected and its back to feeling there is nothing in the world to satisfy the yearning you have ... you HAVE TO DISTANCE yourself ... it will take a lot of courage but once you have made that first little step to do something for you more will follow .... you may still crave her attention and the emotions you have had with her but in time this will be filled by the new experiences you encounter and trust me it works!!! You know yourself that to be with a person who does not have the same feelings will bring pain to your heart and not theirs!!
 
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