What would you women prefer, a man with a tight sexy body and handsome face who is shy and unassertive or a average (not ugly) man who is very assertive and confident in himself (has "the walk" and "the talk").

So would you say this is a sign she still has feelings and desires for me. It's been about 8 months.

To reiterate are regrets always to be regrets or sometimes shouldn't we explore our regrets to see if we can reverese them?? Seems to me many people have regrets and say never look back. Is ther future always brighter?

I once read that one should join Toast Masters, to gain confidence in speaking.

Women who have unrealistic expectations of men and relationships.People who can't or won't forgive and forget cause they've forgotten people make mistakes. People too quick to throw away a relationship cause they don't know what the word compromise means. Feminism has done nothing but ruin families and pitted the sexes against each other making men feel foreign brides are the only viable option. Women who don't stand by thier man anymore,men who lack honor. Japan is a tradional society where women are submissive, say what you like but they still have 60 year marriages compared to north americans who's average is currently 4,yeah thats progress.

This isn't Asia or Islam. I don't know where the more than three dates constitutes an engagement comes from anyway.

OK, that's the second time you've done that to me today queen. I'm going to make sure I check who's making the post before reading with a mouth full of coffee.

Thanks for all the other posts, I will see him tomorrow after work so will let you know how it goes.

Yes, you run the risk of antagonizing someone if you get carried away with repeated contacts. I don't agree that 2 or 3 additional attempts is overdoing it. As always, if you show politeness and respect for the other person in the message yourself, the mere fact of repeated contact is not in itself a source of...

started taking yoga last year with my girl friend. monday nights at 7 after dinner. we arrive at the classs this is like the third or forth...learning a new position i forgot what you call it...your legs are up in the air and you are holding your self in the lower back...well just as i got up a big fart he he he everyone was rolling on the floor after that ...

It is a power naturally bestowed upon an attractive woman, and they think they are the only elite group that has it. If you utilize this same power that you DO have, she will see that you have the same if not better "weapons" than she does.

We do have it, and it does all come down to confidence. I think a lot of guys aren't sure what confidence is. My description of confidence is being fine without a woman. That is the ultimate weapon to combat a woman's game playing. It may not prevent them from playing games or trying to manipulate you, but it damn sure will frustrate and confuse them.