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shadowedminds

Joined: 6/10/2007

Msg: 24 (view)

Where do you draw the line... Posted: 3/28/2009 10:46:16 PM
Thanks everyone. I feel alot better hearing other views. My family told me about the same but I always wonder if they say it because they're my family and they have to say whats gonna make me feel better. Hopefully this post helps someone else in a similar position.

shadowedminds

Joined: 6/10/2007

Msg: 48 (view)

Has society bred stupidity? Posted: 3/28/2009 9:15:53 PM
Not stupidy only the ability to push less important or thought provoking task on to tools. Popular culture on the other hand makes me wonder.

shadowedminds

Joined: 6/10/2007

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Question for the women of POF... Posted: 3/28/2009 9:01:43 PM
Personally I like to take a lot of time to think about my response. Letters mean something, they should take time. Other days I just get distracted LOL

shadowedminds

Joined: 6/10/2007

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So very very close but no cigar... Posted: 3/28/2009 8:53:10 PM
Sorry but what is OP? I keep seeing it but honestly I'm not sure what it is.

shadowedminds

Joined: 6/10/2007

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Where do you draw the line... Posted: 3/28/2009 6:20:52 PM
Well that was it, we were talking. I met him online we'd never met in person before. It was early in the morning and he'd sent me a message and started talking about this stuff. And I was going to let it go but I had been feeling sick the whole day since. So finally I sent him a message back that I just couldn't be with someone who felt that way. And it was like a weight had been lifted from my shoulders. But I can't help but regret because other than these 'huge' issues he was kinda the first guy I really liked and felt a connection to.... Maybe that's what is bothering me... He was the first guy I really liked for all my limited dating...

shadowedminds

Joined: 6/10/2007

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Freaky Dream... Help interpet... Posted: 3/28/2009 6:15:42 PM
Sorry I really wasn't paying attention.. Two year later, lol... I think I posted it here because I noticed one else had posted a dream thing in this section.

shadowedminds

Joined: 6/10/2007

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Where do you draw the line... Posted: 3/28/2009 6:06:39 PM
Close but no cigar.... Recently it struck me funny how often I meet guys who resemble that statement and I think the reasoning behind splitting the relationship makes since to me. For example the last one was because he's against gay marriage/relationships and has some racial issues. While I pretty much am good with everyone as long as they're good to me. Where do you draw the line and say these differences between us are just too great. The only reason I'm still thinking about this is because it seems like the reason for his issues with gays & the racism was to do with his religion. So, I feel like if I say I'm good with people of other religions but those type of beliefs within religion.... I don't know I wonder what anyone else thinks on this. Plus it was like we clicked on everything else, so... Like can you really put the resposiblity on someone's intolerance on religion? Is it something worth letting slide for a relationship? He was sort of okay that I wasn't racist against the religion he was but I wasn't okay that he was racist. I donno... comments? ***btw, i don't mind if this gets delete in fact its probably better if it does. I just want to know how a few ppl feel on this. So TY for the replies

shadowedminds

Joined: 6/10/2007

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Maintaining Optimism Posted: 2/18/2008 6:46:39 PM
I donno. I've talked to a few people but no one serious and I've been here for over a year. It's really annoying but you gotta keep trying.

shadowedminds

Joined: 6/10/2007

Msg: 49 (view)

Do you think there's someone for everyone? Posted: 2/4/2008 2:52:51 PM
I'm pretty sure everyone has some one but the problem lies in that person may not live anywhere near them and they may never meet because of it. I don't get why a person's other half doesn't come from across the world, how do they always manage to be local?! Which is probably my problem, my soul mate is probably in Europe or something, or at least I'm gonna keep telling myself this until some shows up. to sigh or to laugh?

shadowedminds

Joined: 6/10/2007

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Freaky Dream... Help interpet... Posted: 11/9/2007 2:55:59 PM
I have no idea. I guess being a freshman college student everythings alittle scary right now. But the whole thing was of the wall. And I think the strangest thing was these people like the young man and the vampire felt so familar to me.

shadowedminds

Joined: 6/10/2007

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Freaky Dream... Help interpet... Posted: 11/9/2007 10:49:26 AM
t started with me in a kitchen, I guess I was looking for a job or something to that sort because I remember spinning (me spinning away) and a news paper (tossing it). I found myself in a waiting room. There was a young man there I knew, and for a while I was with him, following his 'interview'. He entered a room, similar to a bath room and found a baby monitor/two way radio. There was water on somewhere w/in this room so he moved or turned off the thing spilling out water. It was glowing blue. When he moved it the man, an old man, not sure who exactly he was I assume the boss of what ever it was. The water thing turned red. The old man snapped and tried to kill/hurt the guy. The young man quickly replaced the thing and it turned back blue but it seemed it was too late for the man had him. Then it switched back and I was this white girl, I was scared, I knew something had happened to the young man. Terrified I prepared to flee. When the black guy returned he was young, strong looking. He had been in an earlier part of my dream involving a desperate chase and a river. Anyways, I run from the guy, he feels familiar too. It's the block where we used to live. He seems amused by my attempt to run. I do not get far before he traps me, grabbing my wrists and revealing his gruesome, bloody fangs. He is a vampire, recently turned I think. He tells me that I'm only scared because I think it will hurt. He also mentions something about being afraid because he's black. I wanted to tell him I didn't care he was black, but being a vampire scared the hell out of me but I woke up. ---Any how, this is a really weird dream to me and I'm having trouble interpeting it. Thanks!

shadowedminds

Joined: 6/10/2007

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Am i the only one online dating that's never had a stalker? Posted: 11/7/2007 10:46:19 PM
STALKERS!!! I always thought a stalker would be fun to have. Someone who loves and adores you and all things about you, including your garbage. How much more of an ego boost do you need? Sorry, I'm nuts, just skips this post and keep reading.

shadowedminds

Joined: 6/10/2007

Msg: 142 (view)

Beware: eHarmony sucks... Posted: 11/7/2007 10:38:24 PM
Oh man, I just wanted a personality test and I went through everything for them to tell me they couldn't catagorize me and so effort w/o reward. LOL.

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