Woman and Drama chat & forums.

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Woman and Drama Posted: 11/22/2009 1:58:31 PM
Men dont have drama? Men dont have drama with hysteria women are prone to hysterical drama...the hysteria mixed with drama is what is offensive to most men. It just becomes a bit too much you see.

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please review my profile Posted: 11/13/2009 7:20:48 AM
Thanks to everyone for your excellent feedback! :)

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please review my profile Posted: 11/12/2009 4:48:34 PM
Hi I have not been on here for awhile and have attempted to pare down my profile a bit rather than a long rambling narrative. Does this work? I would love to hear from you. Thanks!

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41 and 23??? I'm not ready for this! Posted: 11/7/2009 7:28:15 PM
I think the difference is that you have children and that is likely the reason you have issue w/ age differences. I have found that this is also an American cultural thing. Other parts of the world have less hang ups about superficial stuff like age differences.

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Texting but never meeting.. Posted: 8/3/2009 11:17:10 PM
so while you say it is a practical way to convey a message, I see it used more as back and forth conversation it is way over used in the manner you mention, you are right. Just because some people drink to oblivion doesn't mean we can't enjoy a****ail or two.

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Texting but never meeting.. Posted: 7/31/2009 8:03:03 PM
I personally love texting and I think it is an excellent form of communication. I would generally prefer to talk with a woman before meeting her as I think that is a clearer indicator of if I want to meet her at all so I would call before texting but I then would also enjoy texting with her especially if I hit it off with her and saw her on a regular basis. I do not really get the whole idea that texting is for teenagers because that seems to be a ridiculous notion. There are very practical applications for texting. I would much rather receive a text message conveying some information I need or want over a phone call interruption - especially if I am already on the phone and the person calling just wanted to call and give me some information. So, yeah...don't really understand the anti texting thing. Funny - in a certain way before phone calls were so popular we received telegraphs instead of phone calls, so in a way texting was here before phone at a time when not everyone had a phone yet.

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Did you expect to be single this late in life? Posted: 7/31/2009 7:17:01 PM
OP I feel pretty strongly that a man should definitely wait until he is in his forties to get married. Live a good fun filled life before settling down - travel, build businesses -take risks and live a life of adventure and excitement...then find a young wife, and have children. I think you are right on track. --BB

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Lying about your age Posted: 7/31/2009 7:03:11 PM
alot of women lye about there age as well as men dont thay 1.) “a lot” is actually two words 2.) “a” begins the sentence and should be capitalized 3.) “lye” is an obvious misspelling of “lie” 4.) “there” in this context should be a completely different word, likely “their” 5.) There is no comma after the word “men” 6.) “dont “ is missing the hyphen: ‘ This word should look like this: “don’t” 7.) “thay” is an obvious misspelling of “they” 8.) There is not any punctuation after the sentence, using the word “sentence” loosely … 9.) Actually there should be a question mark. So there you go. Proof positive that California is right on track with prioritizing budget cuts and should definitely start first with education with the eleven billion dollar budget cut…a very good start as, well what good has education money done for us anyway? on topic: Well, I do have personal experience with women lying about their age on this site and others and I do not think the experience that women have in finding men also who lie about their age as well is any different. I personally like websites that allow for one to fill in birthday and exclude the year, not that I am ashamed of my age - but because some people have rigid perceptions about someone in their 20s, 30s 40s, 50s, 60s and this is not always a very good indicator - or representative of how someone is. There are so many different experiential and environmental influences on someones life than just simply age. I personally do not have much in common with someone who may be close to my age but has spent most of their life raising children, for example. I find it easier to get along with and find more in common with someone much younger. Their are however women in their 40s who have never been married or have not had children which I would have more in common with. I cannot go on age entirely with this in mind. One problem I have found with people who are not truthful about age is because I tend to date younger for personal and practical reasons I do not hold to this ideal in all cases, allowing for someone in their 40s, I would possibly be interested in , but if I find someone on a dating site claiming to be in their 40s and if it turns out they have lied about their age - besides the negative of simply the lie itself, the practical application is maybe she is 55 instead of 45 and 55 is pushing the age bracket a bit too far to the wrong side of the scale - for me personally. anyway, whatever...I mainly wanted to play spelling police lol!

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Is This A Deal Breaker? If Not, then what now? Posted: 7/26/2009 11:03:18 PM
my honest gut feeling (and this is just my opinion) - however logically speaking you were having sex all the time at the beginning of the relationship and now only once or twice a month. A few things: 1.) in healthy relationships sex gets better over time and frequency may diminish slightly but not to the levels you state. 2.) he said he is "dealing with it the best he can" a couple of bothersome things...saying you are not attractive to him anymore because you are out of shape and then callously saying to you that he is just dealing with it the best he can is just plain mean. You just don't say this to people you love... 3.) it is very likely considering --and based upon all you say that he has a woman or two on the side.

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What do women on this site prefer, men who ride motorcycles or men who drive Luxury cars? Posted: 4/15/2009 5:51:14 AM
people should just drive the car they like...whatever makes them happy. I see people who select vehicles on the basis of what is in fashion which is dumb. One car that no one should ever drive, at least on the freeways is the mini compact ironically named SMART. I almost creamed one the other day during a suicidal four lane freeway lane change...it was just fortunate that I saw the little guy puttering along in the #3 lane

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Is anyone attending a Tea Party on April 15th Posted: 4/15/2009 5:23:52 AM
well I like the way you think, jack diamond. Paying income taxes is one thing what I don't like is the unfairness in taxing certain things. Like Newport 100s for example. I am opposed to paying 8 bucks a pack knowing that 6.50 of that 8 bucks is taxes/ if the true cost were 8 bucks I do not think this would be a problem for me... I am losing no sleep what so ever purchasing on the black market and I offer no apologies either.

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Women who smoke are far more promiscuous. Posted: 4/15/2009 5:01:35 AM
I know the correlation between smoking (and drinking coffee and even taking prescribed amphetamines) and ADD is true…all these activities involving stimulant (nicotine is a stimulant) benefit those of us who happen to be for whatever reason ADD. I do not think this correlates to promiscuousity though –or even boredom for that matter.

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Our New President Posted: 11/7/2008 4:49:06 PM
I am so proud to be an American at this particular moment in our history and just as proud of everyone, especially to under thirty crowd who supported Obama in his campaign. I am also amazed that 87% of Los Angeles County's registered voters actually showed up to vote in this election. That makes me proud to say I am a native Southern Californian. To the nay-sayers who make a big deal about our new President-elect "lack of experience" I would say you entirely miss the point. What we need is change and now there is Hope for that change. Experience as I hear some make such grand emphasis upon is not (IMHO) as important as having a person of extreme intelligence to lead us... someone who draws on that intelligence mixed with intuition and a "think outside of the box" mentality required for change in the way our government does things. President elect Obama is from my point of view the most intelligent, intuitive and person of incredible integrity to show up for this job and thank GOD he showed up at a time we need that most of all. Experience = Status Quo. *uck THAT 01-20-08 buh bye bush...

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Intellectual Attraction Posted: 11/5/2008 3:31:08 PM
Intelligence is honestly the first thing I really consider in someone after I am initially attracted to them. Not the single thing of course, but the first thing I notice. If she is not as smart or (even better) slightly smarter than me we usually would not have a chance relating to one another in a positive way.

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Who filed? Posted: 11/5/2008 2:57:04 PM
Dear Abby, Dear Abby...I was married for six years and waited way too long to file. I finally did escape a very bad situation with someone I never should have dated much less married. But I finally did. I am not sure of the point the OP is making and of course, men file and women file. I guess I have a lot of patience and hoped that I could be a good influence on her. Of course she was not 100% all bad otherwise I would not have married her, but the fact we did not have children was a huge plus because when I saw her in court for the last time for the dissolution hearing that was the last time I saw her about seven years ago and I am happy about that. Today, I am not cynical at all when I say "who in their right mind would want to get married?" One person for one lifetime. ppfftt!!! geeeeeez...rather limiting, wouldn't you say? Seems one would get awfully tired of hanging around with the same ol person... And these people who get married MULTIPLE times? What's that all about? pppfftt!! Thank God I am a FREE Bird... signed, Happily Single. subject to change without notice. There is a rare bird out there somewhere who is perfect for me. However, I'll likely never meet her. Mathematically speaking the odds are against that happening...so I am happy to be a free agent...for now and the foreseeable future sworn to fun, loyal to none. lol lol!!! --Bill

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Intellectual Attraction Posted: 11/5/2008 10:55:58 AM
Huh?

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3rd date/5th date rule Posted: 10/11/2008 7:49:30 PM
rules are for uptight people. I wouldn't sleep with anyone until I was completely sure she didn't have rabies. Not a rule...just not wise. ya never can be too careful. Rabies are a ****...

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BF suddenly freaked out Posted: 10/11/2008 5:52:31 PM
three months dating is not a very long time, OP...hardly enough time to even know each other. that is what dating is all about...date someone for awhile and get to know them and see how you work together. Clearly there was something not working out, so just brush him off and keep going. Have fun!

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The Myth of Los Angeles Posted: 10/9/2008 8:42:32 PM
we had bumper stickers commonly seen in the 80s that read "Welcome to California, now go home." One reason the cost of living is high here is that people keep moving here...it is a very attractive place to live in terms of weather...and beauty and a multitude of reasons. I am a native Californian and I have on occasion lived in different parts of the country as well as extensive travel throughout our beautiful country and I can say Southern California is one of the finest places to live anywhere in this country - or anywhere in the world for that matter. so, OP...feel free to go back to whence you came... one other thing...if you spent that much money in rent in five years, you no doubt should have purchased something.

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Is Height an issue to Men? Posted: 10/9/2008 8:20:54 PM
...and if I can help you with that, please do let me know. I do believe I owe you. tisk, tisk...oh, come on-- give him a break... uh...well whatever so as I was saying... 5'8" is not what I would consider tall per se. Maybe 5' 8" is what I would consider the low end of the tall scale...although there are certain redheads lurking around who by virtue of their statuesqueness makes 5'8" actually look taller...or it may be just the way she carries herself with confidence...or the magnificent way she walks or maybe it is just me blinded by the light of her glory muhhahahahahaha!!! my last ex was 5'8" and voluptuously proportioned perfectly for that height...and I had a gf once who was 5' 11'' and she is the one to blame for my particular affection to tall women...

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do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina? Posted: 10/4/2008 5:49:28 PM
" high-end blast of black cherry and black plum fruit, a tart cranberry finish and mouthcoating tannins. It is rich, ripe and racy, with admirable balance and fishiness Pairs well with 20 oz porterhouse"

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What's your own talent that brings you your most joy? Posted: 10/4/2008 4:10:26 PM
I love to write - mostly fictionalized non-fiction (think Hunter S. Thompson, Jack Karoac, Henry Miller), essays relating to sociology and psychology, and fiction (novels and short stories) There is no better joy for me than to be camped out, as I am at the moment, at a local coffeehouse with rain falling down...engaged in such activity, with interesting (and not so interesting) characters coming and going...flirting with the baristas...flirty eye contact with the thirty something across the room and wondering if I should wander over and introduce myself... ah, joy. Inspiration.

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Is Height an issue to Men? Posted: 10/3/2008 10:56:12 PM
I want to go on record saying I love tall women. :) the taller the better! bring on the amozon babes...and large brains --tall , smart and legs forever...

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marriage Posted: 10/3/2008 10:53:12 PM
marriage? this is a DATING site! :)

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Are you your Car? Posted: 9/19/2008 7:40:46 PM
right now I am a 06 mustang with a stick shift ...fast with a lot of torque hahhahahahehehehe...yep suits me quite well

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in love with someone, has a bf but still talks? Posted: 9/19/2008 8:59:55 AM
it is completely astonishing to me the level of possessiveness people have. If you enjoy her company, then enjoy her company when you are with her. Remember that you are not "second fiddle" to anyone if she is spending time with you it is because she enjoys your company. Enjoy your time with her and let go of your selfish desire to "own" her

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Liking two guys, One's a new guy the other is an ex. Posted: 9/19/2008 6:50:30 AM
there is no reason not be friends with both of them and enjoy their company. You are pretty young so that actually should be your goal: To avoid heavy emotional entanglements and keep things light and FUN. Don't give into the social pressure to comply with consensus consent- there is nothing at all wrong in dating around.

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Favorite Dog Breed? Posted: 9/7/2008 8:06:59 PM
I like those little guys the girls like to stuff into their hand bags. If I were a dog that's what I would like to be. ..one of those tiny hairy guys with my little bad hair day head pokin out of a Prada bag...

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What if I don't want to be a cougar? Posted: 9/7/2008 4:08:56 PM
(sexually)... he may want a (substitute)"mom", or someone with (sexual) "experience", because he's such a good lover. (Seriously, they are happy to tell you these things too.) I think this is true for the most part, but still a generalization. I have found there are exceptions. I also think men twenty-somethings and thirty somethings and women twenty-somethings and thirty somethings are two different things altogether - women and men - just as girls tend to mature physically and emotionally at an earlier age some just carry on...and if they don't marry their high school or collage sweetheart at a young age they have a chance to experience life through education and travel- straying off topic a bit but my point of my original post is that it is our experience in life no matter what it is -is what shapes us not just simply how long we occupy space here.

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I must love myself before I can love you Posted: 9/7/2008 7:39:51 AM
hmmm... I'm not sure if this is true about loving yourself. In my own experience and in all other relationships I've seen to fail, it is selfishness -- not lack of self love -- that ends things. Janet: I always love reading your posts and most of the time your point of view is right on the money. In this case I couldn't agree with you more. Yes, selfishness and self-centeredness, fear-based ego...all related and all do not serve us well. A good healthy love for ourselves is a good thing (an easy thing for you, Janet as you are easy to love )

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What if I don't want to be a cougar? Posted: 9/7/2008 7:14:55 AM
"...at least for me." if it is true for you then it is weird --for you. We all have our own experiences in life. I think that is a different issue than simply the age issue. You see, it is all about perception. Because of your experience (apparently) getting married young, having children young ...when a 27 year old comes along for example and wants to get to know you...he's a bit too close to your own late teen/twenty-something child - I get it - likely weird for you. My experience on the other side of the coin is no kids - so I do not have that internal issue. So you see the issue is your own perception/experience...rather than simply age. --Bill

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What if I don't want to be a cougar? Posted: 9/6/2008 7:24:06 PM
Barbie - maturity has nothing too do with chronological age - that is really a silly notion. it is quite annoying for someone to judge someone on that basis. I have dated late twenty-somethings/early thirty somethings that have way more maturity going on then some of the 40 to 50 somethings I have gone out with...and the same is true to say I have met and dated many 40 to 50 somethings much more mature than twenty-somethings life is about experience - age is simply a number

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This guy has been doing this since 1966! - What are you doing? Posted: 9/6/2008 11:34:58 AM
Are you doing something of giving in your community? Maybe not financially as the telethons are, but rather a different giving from the heart...and not on the national scale either............ Are you involved with efforts to make this a better place? .....consider this an opportunity to give your favorite charity or worthy organization a free plug. How are you participating / What great things do you see going on around us? Well, first- nice to see you again at least...you look familiar- maybe a new user name? I found an awesome church that is near USC that is amazing. It is a small church,, but the people are genuine and authentic - they have a real heart for serving their community and so I have been getting involved with the activities - reaching out to the poor in the community by providing actual food, and other resources, as well as spiritual food to the poor of the community. Also, I have been involved for quite a long time, about three years with Pepperdine students and others helping my friend Dan who started a Homeless Ministry several years ago in Malibu. We have five local churches including my home church Malibu Pres. who take turns providing a fabulous (elaborate) meal every Thursday night for the homeless and displaced in the community. A couple years ago I mentioned to a friend I was doing this (in the context of "Hey- let's go to the Viper Room Thursday-so and so is playin!" - so I have this thing I do and I told em I'd be there- sorry- I said...and he just didn't get it - "THE HOMELESS OF MALIBU!!"...he had said - in disbelief... well yes - in fact people have various reasons for getting themselves into circumstances...from drug abuse, alcoholism to just having an ill fated and ill conceived notion of moving to Californina to "be a movie star" or something and getting stranded here -so yeah, there are hungry displaced people everywhere...we provide a plane ticket home for those type and we have created "community" for the chronically homeless. I imagine it is against the rules to post a website here but contact me if you want to get involved-Doing something for others without any expectation for monetary reward ironically is the MOST rewardable. The spiritual law behind what Jesus said "It is better to give than to receive" is the same as saying "Karma" - or whatever way you wish to phrase it applies. The bottom line is it is good for our EMOTIONAL life because when we look for what we can give, rather than what we can get - we GET self esteem...because we feel good about what we are doing... so there is my contribution have a beautiful day!

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Please help Posted: 9/4/2008 9:45:31 PM
thanks prissy girl and stoothen . mmmmmm...well, edited the interests and edited about half of what was there in the about me - so I thought... looks like everything went away except the Miller quote - oh, well whatever I'll figure it out

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Please help Posted: 9/4/2008 10:35:27 AM
I recently updated my profile. please give some honest suggestion thanks

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What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? Posted: 6/29/2008 10:30:32 AM
just not enough info- chip, you are slippin dude

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Please help a girl out. Profile in need of review. Posted: 6/22/2008 8:17:12 AM
avoid using the first person personal "I" too much. the mention that you are a Tomboy is great. Men who are attracted to tomboys really, really are and the mention will always be a plus. add more pictures- and especially change the main photo- use one which shows a pretty smile! :)

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Best burger in San Francisco? Posted: 4/9/2008 8:17:21 PM
without a doubt...Original Joe's

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Do You Resemble a Famous Person or a Movie Star? Posted: 4/8/2008 10:58:32 AM
I definitely resemble beetlejuice in the morning - moreso now as I am growing my hair longer... --caveman Bill

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Let an accomplished screenwriter rate your profile. C'mon. Try me! Posted: 12/30/2007 8:34:38 PM
Thanks, Chris, you're the best! Happy New Year!

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Let an accomplished screenwriter rate your profile. C'mon. Try me! Posted: 12/26/2007 8:53:43 AM
ok, please check mine out and let me know - anyone who dashes around on a red Ducati is a-ok in my book!

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Text Messaging - the good, the bad, the repulsive Posted: 12/24/2007 11:45:54 AM
I can understand that if you are only saying, "whats up," "I'm thinking about you," "are you available to talk?" Then send a simple text. I would think it the other way around - text if you have something important to say I don't know anyone who uses text messaging as their sole means of communication and I find your comment overstated-at least that part. Texting is a very effective means of communication - especially when you know the other person is likely on a phone call and you just have some information to get to them - such as "we are meeting at 6:30 for dinner at Zoe's"

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Holiday Partying Alone Posted: 12/24/2007 9:45:57 AM
I prefer going out alone sometimes, you have a better opportunity of meeting someone out there and I always make new friends while out there - it's fun ali- get up and get out. go see live bands play- get out there and get your freak on dancedance dance.. oh, and drink a bunch of coffee so you don't get tired and leave at 9:30 - things usually don't get really going till after 10 and if you leave at 9:30 then you are constantly missing lots of good fun!

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How do you react to a suicide? Posted: 12/24/2007 9:24:58 AM
suicide is a permanent solution to a short term problem. it is a stupid notion to even consider. sometimes you even hear people threaten to off themselves and those are doubly as stupid and my reaction (I've only had the occasion to be subjective to this particular brand of BS once or twice, tops) : "Ok, go ahead" - this does the trick. often people are just looking for attention- this disarms them and makes them think. I wouldn't spend much time mourning this mominatrix...

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What makes you horny? Posted: 12/21/2007 1:07:50 PM
thinkin about Mominatrix doin her homework nekkid!! hehehehehehee... Happy Holidays Merry Christmas, etc.

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Making Enemies... Posted: 12/17/2007 11:08:39 AM
OP - I agree with dashriprock...they will actually forget the fact they even sent you an email almost as quickly as you determined there was no interest on your part. if you get an email from someone you really are not interested in the best way to handle is just do not reply. the thing I have hear from people I have talked with on this site is many are very insecure and don't handle rejection very well

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Internet dating: sucks for guys, good for women. Posted: 12/17/2007 8:33:08 AM
<----for entertainment purposes only...

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First date- and he ogles the 22 yr old waitress all night Posted: 12/15/2007 10:34:33 AM
you just met him, right? this was your first date. Maybe he just wasn't that much into you after meeting you. it happens all the time. pretty rude of him though.

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Quiet Riot lead singer found dead in Vegas home Posted: 12/1/2007 8:58:27 AM
FEAR ME, PEOPLE OF EARTH! I HAVE COME TO TAKE OVER YOUR PLANET USING MY HERD OF ORGANICALLY GROWN, GENTICALLY MUTATED RUBBER CHICKENS! SOON, VERY SOON, THEY WILL BE READY AND ALL WILL KNOW MY POWER, AND MY GOAL OF WORLD DOMINATION WILL BE IN REACH!! THE WORLD WILL BE MINE! MUHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA!!! Huh? Oh, wait, sorry....wrong transmission.... you have one of the best profiles I have seen in awhile! rock on cutie! quiet riot singer dead at 52? that's too young to be old...much lees dead. what happened?