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 Author Thread: sex with pregnant women
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 117 (view)
 
sex with pregnant women
Posted: 12/25/2008 11:26:32 PM
There is something incredibly SEXY about a pregnant woman!
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 76 (view)
 
first date sex
Posted: 12/25/2008 11:02:42 PM
I was married forever, and then at 47 got a divorce and started dating (somewhat reluctantly). I met a nice girl online and had a quick dinner at a diner. For a second date she wanted to come over and fix me dinner, so I accepted.

When came over she brought her toothbrush and planned to stay the night. She really didn't know me, but after we had had a few drinks and watched a movie she told me, "I want you to f--- me now."

I have to admit I was more than a little surprised. I always figured I would get to know someone first. And I never expected a woman to feel that safe with a virtual stranger.

Nonetheless, I wasn't going to insult her at that point. I did everything she told me too for the rest of the night.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 183 (view)
 
If you came home and found your partner in bed with another...
Posted: 12/25/2008 10:54:06 PM
I divorced her. Now I send her a check every month!
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 195 (view)
 
Titties: real or fake?
Posted: 12/25/2008 10:44:35 PM
My ex-wife has A cups and eventually got implants. They were not enormous (so many women make the mistake of getting something comically large). And although my wife looked good in a dress, I was secretly disappointed with the crinkly feel of her hard boobs. I didn't like it at all. And she didn't like having them squeezed as much. I wish she had left them as A's.

http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3237/3124817446_c6c2b56597.jpg

After a few years, one of them developed a leak and she had to go under the knife again. This time she made them even bigger, and now she looked like a clown.

It is MUCH better to have small boobs then to have implants, from a guy's perspective.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Paxil/Zoloft etc and male orgasm!
Posted: 6/30/2008 8:41:15 PM
I don't know if taking it once would have that effect, as the drug usually has to be taken for a while before it affects the seratonin in the brain.

But as someone who takes low doses of it everyday, it definitely limits my ability to cum. Erections and libido are fine, but finishing what I started is very difficult.

I'm still looking for alternative drugs because this sucks.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 250 (view)
 
How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 6/30/2008 8:26:05 PM
I love BJ's, but it doesn't make me cum. Not enough friction.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 152 (view)
 
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 6/30/2008 8:23:39 PM
I think lots of guys (who are secure with their relationship) fantasize about this. It is a real test of trust to actually do it.

I fantasize about it ALL the time. When I was married, I would have loved to see her enjoy herself--knowing that she was coming home with me. That being said, I am divorced now, so the thought is kinda funny.

But if I was in a very secure relationship, and felt I could handle jealousy, then I would really get off on the idea--if she did, of course.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 80 (view)
 
FASTEST YOU HAVE EVER GOTTEN SOMEONE IN BED
Posted: 9/13/2007 6:38:22 PM
Hmm. I'd have to ask my wife's boyfriend. I don't think it took him long.

Of course it didn't take me long when she was married to the last guy.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 49 (view)
 
what is the kinkiest thing you have ever done?!
Posted: 9/13/2007 6:33:18 PM
While spending the night in my girlfriend's dorm room, I was performing oral sex when i took her wine cooler and carefully poured it into her pu$$y and then sucked it out of her.

Nice
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 93 (view)
 
Why do girls really care about this?
Posted: 9/7/2007 4:26:12 PM
...of course there are occasions when the porn content itself offends the woman, and I suppose I understand that. But assuming she doesn't faint when seeing porn, she ought to understand it doesn't threated her relationship (unless the guy is some wacko)
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 92 (view)
 
Why do girls really care about this?
Posted: 9/7/2007 4:21:46 PM
I think some people don't understand the difference between visual fluff, like porn, and real relationships.

The passion I have for a partner is not at all like the arousal I get from porn. Porn is entertainment, that's all. For a long time my wife didn't understand that. I think she felt threatened at some level. But porn does not replace the passionate relationship. It is a whole different animal. And I think I'll keep that animal as my pet!
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 176 (view)
 
How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 9/7/2007 4:17:19 PM
I don't think I've ever come from a BJ. It seems like there isn't enough friction, or maybe my partners weren't the best. But I never have trouble coming during intercourse or masturbation, unless I am stressed, drunk, or just miss my window.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 357 (view)
 
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 9/6/2007 9:18:00 PM
I don't suppose women cheat more often then men, physically.

But I always found it interesting that women, or at least the ones I've known, have a tendency to develop emotional relationships with others and think nothing of it.

If it is true that women are driven more by emotional ties, and men are driven more by physical attraction, then it should be a major offense for a woman to develop a close, non-physical relationship.

I don't think I am explaining this the way I wanted to.

My ex-wife cheated on my emotionally for years. The physical part wasn't so important to her, but she was closer, emotionally, with another guy. But since she hadn't slept with him, she felt that she was innocent. And technically, I suppose she is. But I also believe that on some level, emotional cheating is a woman thing.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Places you have masturbated.
Posted: 9/6/2007 9:11:56 PM
Us guys have to do it. We have no choice. It is part of our lifestyle.

-While driving alone
-While at the wheel of a boat at night alone
-On a football field with a girl
-At work
-In bed while 2 college roommates slept in the same room
-while riding a bike at night
-In the back yard one morning
-In a pool
-While my newly wed wife slept, on our wedding night!
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 93 (view)
 
Is there such a thing as MEN faking orgasm?
Posted: 9/6/2007 8:57:32 PM
I should add that when I was married, if that happened, I wouldn't fake it. I would just make sure she was satisfied and call it a night. She didn't really mind because she was a materialistic, selfish, cold-hearted devil and wasn't worried about my pleasure. That took the pressure off of me to fake it for her.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 92 (view)
 
Is there such a thing as MEN faking orgasm?
Posted: 9/6/2007 8:51:53 PM
Awesome question.

I was with a girl for the first time a few weeks ago and we were drunk and going at it on the couch. It was a very good experience, however, as we had been thinking about this event for a long time. But with my alcohol, and with the Zoloft I'm taking (which makes orgasm difficult) I finally realized that I wasn't going to be able to finish. So I faked it to avoid explaining the whole thing, as women seldom understand without being offended.

As other have said, I was also wearing a condom so she never really knew.

But I know there will be a next time, so i hope I don't have to fake it!
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 180 (view)
 
Female cum
Posted: 9/6/2007 8:14:54 PM
I am curious about this. I've never been with someone who could "squirt" like that, but I have seen plenty of amateur porn where the girl will either squirt a little shot, or gush like she is peeing. But I wonder how this works.

On some of the videos, in closeups, it appears that the fluid is coming from the urethra. Is this true? I know there are a couple small spongy glands in the vagina that produce lubrication, but I don't believe they could be responsible for 2 cups of fluid suddenly and with such force. So is this something connected to the urethra or bladder?

I guess this takes the eroticism out of it, but I was curious. And i find it to be a real turn-on...as long as it isn't urine. javascript:smilie('')
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 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 121 (view)
 
BICURIOUS WOMEN
Posted: 9/6/2007 7:49:24 PM

Some bi-curious gals go into action for the 1st time, not knowing how dirty and incredibly (ear waxy) tasting the inner (down below) area can be for oral pleasure. Stay on the serface you good, but giving her more action, will have you squinging.

Men are cleaner, until the end. Wemon are funky tasting all the way though. Every two seconds it's "tastes good, tastes horrible, tastes good, tastes horrible.

So bi-wemon, all the power to you, but be prepared, it's not the same as watching some lesbo porn movie.
On another note: Someone stated a womans body is more appealing in general?
Incorrect, for men yes, thats true.... but all in all, the males body is far more 'higher class'
wemon are all jigly, fatty. The good parts are best enhanced with fat.
Wemon do not have to work out their areas as hard as men to look good.


w t f ?

Are you an idiot?
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 438 (view)
 
boobs
Posted: 9/6/2007 6:11:51 PM
For women and their guys who are considering this, I can tell you that I was supportive of my wife when she decided to get them. Her boobs were very small to begin with, and the implants gave her new boobs on the smaller side of "C". They look fine in a dress, and they were done by an excellent surgeon, but I hate the way they feel and how fake they look when she is naked.

Everyone is different, but if you have a relatively small frame and little body fat, they look comical, as there is not enough fat to fill in around the implant. You can see ripples on the sides and they look blown up, in her case, even though they are not huge.

And feeling that crinkly plastic through her skin makes me shiver. Plus she is always worried about squeezing them, so that is forbidden. Even so, one sprung a leak once and had to be replaced.

Now I wish she had remained small, with no implants. I admit I like big boobs, but I like any boobs better than fake ones.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Sex with a Man who Can't Finish
Posted: 9/6/2007 6:03:48 PM

I deal with this issue myself because I take Zoloft. It makes me last forever which is frustrating for everyone involved. It sounds weird, but for me to finish I need to be incredibly mentally stimulated. The physical stimulation just doesn't cut it now that I'm taking this medication. Dirty talk works wonders for sure.


I have exactly the same problem with Zoloft. I often have a hard time finishing when with a woman (as opposed to alone!). And when I do finish, the quantity of ejaculate is much less than the old days.

But overall, if a man is having this problem, it is quite OK to tactfully say that you are satisfied and perhaps we could just cuddle now. Or suggest some other sex act, like a HJ.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Sex while pregnant
Posted: 9/5/2007 7:51:48 PM
I was very sexually attracted to my wife when she was pregnant, but unlike many other women, she was actually less horny during that time, and so I was frustrated. (Maybe her boyfriend had a different experience?)
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 98 (view)
 
have you ever tasted breastmilk?
Posted: 9/5/2007 7:43:08 PM
Tasted it from my ex-wife while she was breastfeeding. I loved it, mostly because it was a turn-on. It was not strong tasting. It was very sweet, almost like cantaloupe as someone said. Anytime I could get some I would. And it was especially exciting when her nipples leaked while we had sex. Eventually she would squirt it into my mouth while on top.

And once she realized she had taken medicine that we didn't know if it was safe for the baby, so she asked me if I wanted to empty her breasts. So, instead of pumping, I got to empty them myself. That was awesome.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 57 (view)
 
A Question About BREASTS..and IMPLANTS
Posted: 9/5/2007 7:32:42 PM
My wife had implants for cosmetic and vain reasons and I was not fond of them. BUT, I still enjoyed our sex life. And if I was very interested in someone I would not let reconstructive surgery deter me.

I suppose I would prefer to know up front. Maybe not on the first date, but before I was surprised in the dark.

Hope this helps the original poster.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/5/2007 6:56:41 PM
Sometimes I miss the way she would ride me while lactating.

And other times I miss the way she would call me names, insist that I drop all my friends, ridicule my mother, kick my dog, spend my money, and hit me with a vase.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Re: Mutual/group masturbation
Posted: 9/5/2007 6:52:56 PM
Some of my most erotic experiences, I have to admit, were watching my wife use her rabbit vibrator while I masturbated. Hot. Wish I had videotaped it!
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Re: Mutual/group masturbation
Posted: 9/5/2007 6:47:43 PM

When I was married, if my wife wasn't willing to help take care of me (after about a week or 10 days), I'd take care of it myself, right beside her. The result was 50-50....sometimes it would turn her on, sometimes she thought I was being rude.


I had the same experience (but with my wife). Although I don't think it ever really turned her on.

Which makes me wonder about these porn movies for females... I noticed Playgirl offers videos of men masturbating, for women viewers. Do women enjoy watching a man masturbate? (I'm not offering anything, just wondering :-) )
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 419 (view)
 
boobs
Posted: 9/1/2007 10:07:30 PM
My wife (now ex) got implants and I hated them. They were done by a fantastic doctor and they looked great. But I hated the way they felt. You could feel the plastic bag in there, all crinkly, and she would be so self conscious about them, always telling me to be careful with them.

I MUCH prefer soft, REAL boobs, even if they are small!
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Anyone miss sex with their ex?
Posted: 9/1/2007 10:03:21 PM
Ha. Of course I miss the sex we had, when we had it, which wasn't often. I miss it because she was a tiger. But a terrible wife.

I don't really miss her. But to be honest, I sometimes have erotic fantasies about all the guys that are banging her now. She is going through a mid life crisis and it screwing the world, and in some weird twisted way, that is arousing.
 Mr_Dudley
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 172 (view)
 
How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 9/1/2007 9:55:23 PM
You know, I never could cum orally. It feels great, but there just isn't enough friction. I think it is because I've spent so much time masturbating that I am accustomed to more friction. But I have no problems cumming during intercourse
 jim08234
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 325 (view)
 
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 7/21/2007 11:06:39 PM
It is not rape.

Perhaps it is unwelcome, but they are married and are actually entitled to some sexual relations, albeit, it should be to both partner's agreement.

In many states, the refusal of sexual relations constitutes Constructive Desertion. So it may be foolish to wake her up with unwelcome advances, but it is not rape in my mind.
 jim08234
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 324 (view)
 
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 7/21/2007 11:03:10 PM
The problem is that there was already a guy there in my wife. So i called it rape but she thought it was just a friendly wake-up call.
 jim08234
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 329 (view)
 
Men Shaved???
Posted: 7/21/2007 10:49:22 PM
I have to admit that (as a guy) I tried it (balls only) and it increased sensitivity incredibly. It was awesome.

I appreciate it when my women shaves her vulva. It means I don't have to venture through a forest. And I can see everything, which is a thrill in itself. Smooth is very nice.

So I suspect that many women appreciate it in a man.

Either way, I would do whatever my woman preferred, but honestly, it is much more enjoyable for me if there is bare skin. You feel more that way.
 jim08234
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 286 (view)
 
why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/26/2007 7:30:02 AM

. imagine you didnt have to worry about getting pregnant and had a "thing" hanging in between your legs that would swell at the mere thought of sex.... would you be able to go thru a day not wanting sex?


Wow. That really sums it up.

I was going to mention instinct and how we try to balance it with civilized behavior, but whitetigeress really captures the whole issue.
 jim08234
Joined: 6/11/2007
Msg: 475 (view)
 
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/15/2007 8:29:37 AM
Of course it is, unless you get the OK from your SO. And if you do, then you should wonder what they are doing.
 
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