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Are women afraid of Attractive guys?
Posted: 3/8/2009 1:31:01 PM | Hey there! I question this myself. You are right about one thing 'carefree highway'. I think some of us do stereotype guys into that category of "Oh, I'm good-looking so I'm sure I wouldn't be interested in THAT average (or not-so-average) chick." I have found myself having an interest and have always been afraid to approach a guy. Not only have I made this assumption about some men, but unfortunately, have been proven right. Sorry, a lot women have, more time than we'd care to express. You show me a guy who hasn't been raised or conditioned by himself or society to believe women should all look like models and all be thin & pretty and I'll ask him out! ................Still waiting! UH, YEAH.........DUH! So NO, is it not always "bulls**t"! 
JUST A TIP: (to all men who are NOT in this category): MOST women are not "arrogant" about it. WE REALLY ARE AFRAID. Would rather not waste the energy on being rejected because were are not AS "good-looking" on the OUTSIDE. Which ALSO DOES NOT MEAN WE have low-self-esteem. We just know we cant "physically" compete for your attentions with the bottle blondes with fake fingernails, boobs and tans. (Yes, I'm SURE they're all lovely) 
NOT ALL men are in this category, of course! Therefore, IF you're MEN, who really want to find "something" with "substance", approach US for once.....don't be afraid yourselves. We want a man anyway, not someone who is afraid as well. I would bet most women would agree, we deserve no less! I think that 'old-fashioned' concept died in the 50's. Another little tip: Some of us are very old-fashioned!...Including myself. I may be interested in you, but I may not approach you because I want to know if you have enough interest in me or think I am worth approaching myself. 
I also believe that there are guy who do exist (somewhere on the planet) that are not superficial or into physical appearance as a priority. I also agree with you that we REALLY are missing out on meeting some pretty cool people because of it. People we/they judge just because we simply do not know them personally or what it's like to live their lives. All I can say is "Good to all the "NICE" guys and all women who have been interested in them!!!"  | | | |
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