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Joined: 6/14/2007

Msg: 183 (view)

MEN ARE MESSES! Posted: 7/27/2007 11:51:59 AM
Every one isn't a mess. My house is vacuumed, dusted, floors cleaned, and the lawn mowed every weekend. Laundry is done as the week progresses usually. You've just been finding "messes" I think. I've done the same thing when walking into womens places. Let me outta here!!! Steve

Joined: 6/14/2007

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What does Over the hill mean to you? Posted: 7/26/2007 8:25:58 AM
It's only a bad thing to folks that have lousy attitudes about aging. Their the ones with the issues with it. I'm more active now I've ever been in my life. It's all about attitude. We've all seen the worn out 30 year olds. You've got it, they don't. Steve

Joined: 6/14/2007

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Does their sun sign affect your interest level? Posted: 7/26/2007 8:21:31 AM
I'd never paid any attention to this in the slightest until a few months ago. A woman I went out with asked me my astrological sign. I thought she was a nut, but she hit it right on with what she was telling me. After that I Googled my astrological sign and it described me about 95% right on. I look em' up now. Don't know if it would change whether I did/didn't pursue some one, but I look it up to get some insight. Steve

Joined: 6/14/2007

Msg: 166 (view)

Over 45 Men, How should we dress? OK Ladies fire away! Posted: 7/25/2007 10:36:32 AM
Calling all men "fashion dudes" is enough for a make over call on you already. A lady once told me to "be yourself and everything will be fine". Words of wisdom. Don't worry about whether your boxers match your socks or not. Sheesh. Everyone is different and will look at you different. Be yourself. If your a metrosexual then do it well.

Joined: 6/14/2007

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I also am interested Posted: 7/22/2007 5:19:58 PM
Hmm. I'd think you need to say more about yourself and specifically what your looking for. Blow your horn some but don't give away family secrets. Good luck to you. Steve

Joined: 6/14/2007

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Wouldn't mind some thoughts on my ever changing profile Posted: 7/22/2007 12:33:22 PM
Do you kiss yourself in the mirror when you wake up? Annoying! I think you've found your one and only love. You.

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Am I being rude? Posted: 7/22/2007 9:25:13 AM
In print your response may be misinterpreted. If you were interested you might say "what exactly would you like to know" but qualify that with something on the nice side. Something that would be seen as encouraging. It's hard to understand the "tone" of something in print when you could say that in person and the guy would jump all over you. Steve

Joined: 6/14/2007

Msg: 105 (view)

Ladies take control.... Posted: 7/19/2007 1:45:53 PM
Go girl! I don't think too many guys would mind you approaching them. Steve

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middle aged scaredy cats :0/ Posted: 7/17/2007 12:57:57 PM
Hmm. Don't go to bars.

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Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 7/17/2007 12:53:15 PM
19! Your a child dude! Boy toy! I didn't think so at 19 either. None of us do.

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not shallow just not into u Posted: 7/17/2007 12:46:21 PM
I think a lot of us are guilty of looking for the "perfect" match. There's probably been millions of happily married couples out there that didn't match up perfectly and I surely don't want a carbon clone of myself. In casual conversation I've told people, not on online dating sites, that I'm not starting at ugly. Okay, so I'm I'm shallow. Steve

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Can someone please help me with mine profile? Posted: 7/13/2007 12:49:13 PM
Your "about me" section is mighty sparse. Tell me something about you and what kind of guy your looking for. Give some "flexible" specifics. The pics aren't very good.

Joined: 6/14/2007

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Can someone take a look at my profile!!!!! Posted: 7/13/2007 12:45:39 PM
That's not bad. I'd take the dislikes out though as their pretty common dislikes. Stay positive. Same with the foot/mouth sentence. Other than that it seems alright to me. It's definitely not too deep. Steve

Joined: 6/14/2007

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New here..Can you review my profile and tell me what u think? Posted: 7/13/2007 11:58:45 AM
Doesn't say enough about you. Get in there and tell guys about yourself. Don't divulge the family secrets. Just say something so that some one could see a little bit about what makes you tick. Good luck.

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Rate my profile Please. Posted: 7/13/2007 11:54:36 AM
There's a lot of "God" in there.............liked it till then. If your totally into that aspect of your life then you may have to bide your time till that "guy" comes along. Otherwise toning that down some would probably help. Good luck.

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New to this, Can someone Check and give suggestions to my profile? Posted: 7/13/2007 11:51:47 AM
No pics and your describing yourself in two lines.................that's it? Tell guys something about yourself. Open it up and talk about yourself some. No pics equals no click.

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Do I seem arrogant in my profile? Posted: 7/13/2007 11:48:06 AM
Arrogant. No, I don't think so. Improve your pics. Only two of them show you well, the ones with direct shots of you. You obviously love what you do for a living.........tell me about you......not your job. To me, it doesn't tell me enough about "you". I get along with cats too, I talk to them all the time......get my point? What would you like to do with a guy? My 2cents worth.......Hope it helps. Steve

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Some help please Posted: 7/13/2007 10:49:42 AM
Your main pic is too dark............can't see you in there. The "deal with it" to me comes across as kind of a %^$%. I think it would help to have some more interests in there. Other than that it's succinct and to the point.

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Rip it up Posted: 7/13/2007 10:43:02 AM
Thanks EyeDye.......I've rearranged the profile as I've been thinking about that a while now. For now though I'll keep the pics of me and Piper as I like the pics and I'm not trying to fake anyone out. I have gotten good feedback on them from women. I'm not bogarting it. Steve

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Over 45 Men, How should we dress? OK Ladies fire away! Posted: 7/13/2007 9:46:16 AM
If all you have to offer is the clothes you have on............you don't have much to offer. Dress the way you feel best and be yourself. Steve

Joined: 6/14/2007

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Calling all 40-60Something Males? Posted: 7/13/2007 9:41:54 AM
I'd definitely consider a woman my age long term but have found not one that's into the stuff I like to do. Not one in 4 months. I'm constantly looking at or contacting mid -40's women as it appears, at least in the D/FW area, that their still into outdoor activities. One woman told me that I'm in the wrong place for "outdoorsy" ladies but if I was in Colorado they'd be all over the place. Maybe so, but I'm not moving. The key question is this: when the mid 40's women get to 50....is it over then? Don't know the answer to that. By the way.............nice profile. Steve

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Rip it up Posted: 7/13/2007 9:30:03 AM
Alright, I'm looking for some honest feedback on this profile. Let me have it! I seem to be having some issues getting across exactly what I'm looking for and who I am, and I find that hard to understand. Help! Steve

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men.. your honest opinion please Posted: 7/4/2007 3:27:42 PM
Face it. You need to move on. Both of you have already made the decision once to do so.

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profile too upbeat? Posted: 6/26/2007 9:24:41 AM
Profile review? .......no, it's not too upbeat but it doesn't tell me much about you. Get some better pics as their all distorted. Get some one to take some pics that show what a good looking lady you are. Don't hide anything. God luck. Steve

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