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 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Forums/profile
Posted: 10/11/2009 1:06:59 AM
I think that is a good question. I tried that.

Even if you search by user name, won't it just bring you back to a profile that doesn't have the threads at the bottom anymore? It doesn't show if the person posts in the forums that I can see.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Age range you are looking for. What's that say about you?
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:37:28 PM
I leave my age open to a wide range because I post in the forums. People sometimes want to send a message. I don't care what age they are if they want to make a comment about something I said in the forums.

It's completely different when people do their search. They may search for a certain age range than what age it says about who they can receive messages from.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
The New Meth
Posted: 8/26/2009 3:53:58 PM
I know people who have used it. From everything I have read, it stimulates the pleasure center in your brain so much that as soon as you use it, you want to use it again and again, and it takes a lot more of it to get that feeling back. It's so highly addicting, but then again, they say nicotine is more addicting than heroin.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
The New Meth
Posted: 8/25/2009 11:43:00 PM
This is why you can't even buy cold medicine in Oregon without a prescription. Not being able to get something for a cold or allergies without going to the doctor is ridiculous.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 198 (view)
 
Libido after 50
Posted: 8/25/2009 10:42:12 PM

LMFAO...and you have to question this issue?Sounds like your insecrue and cant handle your mate.Letm go so he can find someone that doesnt complain or make dramatic issues over something so petty.He deserves better.


Who are you talking to?
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Smoking: Trying to Quit
Posted: 8/25/2009 10:28:57 PM
I agree. If you are looking for someone to date or for a LTR and you don't want a smoker,
why sugar coat that you are really a smoker. Do they think that we don't notice? I have dated guys who are smokers but don't smoke around me, but they always smelled like smoke, and worse yet, their vehicles always smell like smoke too.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Best place to buy Supps?
Posted: 8/8/2009 11:59:11 PM
The big thing now a days is getting your Vit. D 3 tested. I got my test from the Vitamin D counsel. It is amazing all the different symptoms you can have from having a low Vit. D level.

It is almost impossible to have enough vit D from food alone. I feel so much better since I started taking Vit. D 3.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Best place to buy Supps?
Posted: 8/6/2009 8:06:22 PM
vitacost.com sells vitamins, supplements and a whole lot of other stuff at a very low price and their shipping is 4.99 no matter how much you order.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 81 (view)
 
I think I get it.
Posted: 7/27/2009 11:47:07 PM
This is a great thread. I have been getting a lot out of it.

Is it just men that don't want to work through things when the going gets tough? I was with a guy who refused to talk when there were problems. He thought by not talking they would just go away. It was very frustrating and difficult to pretend everything was fine when something needed to be talked about in depth. He was so NOT in touch with his feelings. If something bothered him, he just stayed busy to keep his mind off of it.

I would like to know if men really can work through things or if they do think that relationships are disposable and not worth working on when things aren't perfect anymore.


Cowards as they prefer to run away then stay and fight.


I wish I would have thought of those words when I needed them. That is exactly how to explain it. He was a coward because talking was just too difficult and running was just so easy.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
how to encourage meet up face to face rather than chating
Posted: 7/18/2009 1:40:14 PM
Keep the conversations light and don't bring up past relationships. Nobody wants to hear why your last gf was wrong for letting you go, etc. And the last thing you want to bring up is sex. We all get so tired of guys who want to talk all about sex when we have never even met him. It's amazing how many men think that we are all interested in hearing they are really good in bed, and we won't be disappointed.

If you ask them questions about what they are interested in, then you can suggest a meeting to do one of those things they mentioned.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Are you a happy person?
Posted: 7/18/2009 1:34:32 PM
Yes, I am a happy person. There are of course days where you wish had gone differently, but for the most part, tomorrow is another day. You just have to look at the glass half full type of thing, because if you look at it half empty, you're a gloomy person and who wants to be around that!
There are good ways to cheer yourself up on a bad day. Going outside in nature and looking at the beauty of Oregon always makes me grateful I live here, and brings out the sunshine in my heart.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Do women in Oregon ever mail first
Posted: 7/18/2009 1:31:09 PM
Women do send out messages too, but they also get the same as men do. they send one out, and see it's been read and deleted. That makes them not want to send one out again for awhile. Then they get brave again, and decide to take another chance.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
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Profile help please :)
Posted: 7/18/2009 1:28:35 PM
I think you have a pretty good profile. I do agree though that even though you have accomplished a lot, it does come across as bragging a bit. Maybe just touch on something and say you would love a chance to explain more later. That would get them interested, and want to hear more.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Motivation
Posted: 7/18/2009 1:24:44 PM
Have you tried finding a work out buddy? It's hard to change your plans when someone else is already counting on you. I have friends that I hike with, and we make plans ahead of time. I would feel really badly if I canceled out on them if they were counting on going.

As for the gym, I just get dressed in the morning for the gym. I don't give myself a chance to talk myself out of it. I get dressed and I go and it's just a habit.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Libido after 50
Posted: 4/23/2009 2:07:26 PM
Wow. I see I started that post last Sept. I wondered if after we were together longer if this would change, but so far, we are still in bed as much as possible. I told him last night we had to have sex as much as possible because there is a possibility that some day we would be really old and not want to as much!
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
why
Posted: 2/10/2009 11:15:48 AM
I am unable to start a new thread. I have tried several times recently and it will never post.
I have cleared my cookies. I check by doing thread searches to make sure it's not redundant.

Can you tell me why this is happening? I checked the help menu and see nothing about
trying to post a new thread and it not posting. I sent you a private message as well as I am not sure where the correct place is to post my problem. Thank you!
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 157 (view)
 
Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs?
Posted: 2/1/2009 2:59:21 PM
I don't know. My bf adores them and I love making him happy. I love the sounds he makes.
You can tell from those sounds he feels like he is in heaven.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Semen & Vaginal Secretions And The Way They Taste
Posted: 1/11/2009 6:21:29 PM

I could never really get where people say it actually has 'taste'! I always thought semen actually had a nondescript nothingness to it!! As well - regardless of the foods any man has ever eaten - they all tasted the exact same!! So I call BS on anyone who says men taste different - that food has an affect - or that it's flavoured in any way


I can tell you from experience that the pineapple does make a difference. My bf's definitely
tastes different and better since I told him to eat pineapple as often as possible. He started
taking it in his lunch and I am glad that I learned that from POF.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 773 (view)
 
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 1/1/2009 4:14:28 PM
It's so easily fixed by eating pineapple on a regular basis. I buy the dehydrated pineapple at the dollar store. I love doing that for him because he loves it so much. I am really glad that I read on POF that eating pineapple regularly changes the taste. I also saw on an HBO special that eating dried cranberries will do the same thing.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 97 (view)
 
How many of your dates are Ambiva-dates?
Posted: 1/1/2009 12:07:06 AM
All I can say is don't give up! I was sure I would be alone the rest of my life. I thought about giving up because I could not stand the thought of going on one more "first meet" dates. I met my guy on match. com and we are both really happy. There is no way we would have met any other way than online because we are both such home bodies. It really is possible to find love online even though I really had serious doubts
that I ever would!
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
~ Roll Call~ Storm Check~
Posted: 12/17/2008 12:06:49 AM
This weather sucks. I left Chicago to get away from weather like this. It's 20 here on the coast. Good thing it only happens once in awhile. I don't know how I lived all those years with the entire winter like this. That is the reason I left.
I will take the warm rainy days anytime over this!
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Texting
Posted: 12/17/2008 12:03:32 AM
Texting has become a problem for my daughter and me. She is a labor and delivery nurse, so she can't have her phone ringing in the hospital. She sent me a text when I was taking care of her baby, asking me to meet her in the cafeteria for dinner and to bring the baby.
She sent the message at 5:20 for dinner at 6:30. The problem is I didnt' get the text until
7:00. I wish she had just called me.
Like I said, texting is fine for my bf to say "I miss you" but when you need to tell someone something important, dial the number!
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Why are we still single
Posted: 12/10/2008 7:03:10 PM
I am still single because I want to be. I am in a relationhip that fulfills all my needs but I have no desire to live with him, let alone marry him. I lived with my husband before we got married and only got married because I thought it was the right thing to do since I wanted children.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Self-Induced G-Spot Orgasm
Posted: 12/4/2008 6:05:30 PM
is there a toy someone can recommend if the ol toothbrush does not do the trick?

Do some women never have success in finding it?
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Marijuna and relationships
Posted: 11/23/2008 7:09:18 PM
Years ago, , I had a friend who asked if I could knew anyone who smoked it and could get her one joint so she and her husband could have a nice valentines day. After valentines day, I asked her if they enjoyed it. She said "oh yes we did. We smoked half of it and put the other half away for next year"

Those were the only people I have ever come across who had control of their using. The rest of the people I knew who smoked it, did it from morning until night, and had little hissy fits if they ran out.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Marijuna and relationships
Posted: 11/22/2008 11:28:06 PM
I don't know very many people who can only smoke it occasionally. The ones I know smoke it all the time. As soon as they get home from work, they smoke it all evening long. They don' t have much motivation to do anything other than trying to find more. That was okay for me before I had kids, but all that changed when I became a parent. I am glad neither one of my kids smoke it, and they are against it. They have had the opportunity to try it, but both of them said their friends changed so much once they started smoking it on a regular basis.

I would not date anyone who smoked it because the ones I dated in the past, it was the most important thing in their lives.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
quick advise..how to loose 10 pounds in one month ...i know u can help
Posted: 11/21/2008 12:15:33 AM
I lost 22 lbs in a month drinking liquid protein drinks. After that, I stayed on a protein low gi foods, and made sure I exercised every day. I have never gained the weight back, but I am very careful getting my exercise in, and watching the high gi carbs.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Is anyone have a get together....?
Posted: 11/20/2008 11:44:26 PM
They had one on the coast. A lot of people said they were going to go. When it came time for the camp out, 4 people showed up.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 39 (view)
 
camping
Posted: 11/18/2008 6:57:40 PM
I know exactly how I got here. It's called menopause. I think it's a darn shame that we lose our hormones as we get older. I feel to young to not have the things that hormones give to our bodies. They have made a huge difference in my life.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
What is right?
Posted: 11/17/2008 7:41:36 PM
Why do you care what is right? Do you have to please someone besides yourself? If a year feels right to you, then it's right! When my husband died, I got tired of grieving and decided it was time to start living again. I was much happier. Of course I missed him, but I knew he wasn't coming back and that he would want me to be happy.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Woman who have difficulty having an orgasm
Posted: 11/17/2008 7:13:35 PM
I am just curious why you are looking for intimate encounters if you "love her to death"
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Woman who have difficulty having an orgasm
Posted: 11/14/2008 9:23:49 PM

She may be low in testosterone or estrogen.


this has made a huge difference!
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Woman who have difficulty having an orgasm
Posted: 11/14/2008 7:12:18 PM
I agree with the testosterone. If she can get her dr. to give her testosterone cream, and she puts it on the clitoris right before sex, it makes a world of difference.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 239 (view)
 
SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 11/14/2008 6:54:40 PM

well I have read all these comments I am 58 my wife is 58 we use to have a great sexual relationship, I still get horny every day , but my wife lost her drive about 15 years ago, says she doesn't need it , doesn't want it , we have not had sex for 15 years and she never gets horny and i want it all the time, she doesn't like to cuddle or kiss or any kind of intimacy, so undoubtly it it is not the same for ever woman or man, and i stay horny all time I sure could use some
and by the way when she says she doesn't want or need sex she has the nrve to tell me it is all in my mind that I need it. so beware this can happen to u


Your wife needs hormones. They make all the difference in the world. HRT got a bad wrap but there are bio identical hormones and I am really glad I found them!
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Dating a Widow
Posted: 11/13/2008 11:24:20 PM
That's the way I feel too Woodstar. I have happy memories of him, and he is tucked away in my heart, but I am sure he would have wanted me to carry on with my life. I am sure if the situation would have been reversed, he would have moved on too.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
threads are too long [Closed Thread]
Posted: 11/13/2008 11:22:07 PM
Why is it that threads get so long that there are pages and pages of stuff to read. I don't get why that is better than starting a new thread so people don't have to wade through all that. If they start a new thread, it's called redundant. Some topics need to be talked about again rather than having a thread a couple of years old still going.

I am sure this will get deleted too.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 37 (view)
 
when do you hide/delete profile?
Posted: 11/13/2008 11:17:20 PM
It's pretty easy to say not single not looking, and under what you are looking for can be talk /email or friends. It's also easy in the profile itself to say you're keeping the profile up for the forums. When you hide your profile, people can still read it if you're in the forums. It just wont' show up when people do search for someone in the distance and area they are searching in.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
orgasms every time... am i lucky or is it the chemistry or what
Posted: 11/13/2008 6:16:05 PM
I think it's you and you're lucky that you're built just right. Sometimes it's hard for a lady from just intercourse. No matter which position, if the right spot isn't being hit, it's just not going to happen. It all depends on a woman's anatomy.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Dating a Widow
Posted: 11/13/2008 6:12:43 PM
Please let us know how it is going. Just because it's been hard for her to let go, does not mean that she does not want to. Sometimes it's a few baby steps forward, but it's worth it in the end.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 84 (view)
 
men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 11/13/2008 6:11:14 PM

I have a vibrating 'cock-ring' which always get's a good 'tickle' from the girls, if they're up for it well hey, I'm all for it


Where do you get this? I hate buying things and not know if they are going to work. I'd rather get something that someone else told me works great. I have some stuff that turned out to be a waste of money.

I have trouble too. My guy always makes sure I get there, but if this thing got me there faster, that would be so much better.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 66 (view)
 
men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking
Posted: 11/12/2008 12:17:48 AM
Are you going to keep us guessing? How did your 5 hours go?
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Dating a Widow
Posted: 11/8/2008 9:21:29 PM

i know you miss him and i hope some day you can find the trust to share my strength to look back any time.(after all your the alive human in the shoes of the reality of today...


This is very good advice. You should talk to her about it. Let her know you understand that she misses him and that being in a another relationship is very new to her, but you want to be there for her. Let her know that you understand that his death must have been painful
for her, and that when she is ready, you are ready to listen.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
discussing sex in the forums
Posted: 11/3/2008 11:05:43 PM
I sometimes wonder if anyone even reads my posts. I notice people talk back and forth with each other in posts, but I never really have any sort of responses in messages or posts.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Texting
Posted: 11/3/2008 10:56:39 PM

Oregondaisy: And he's still your boyfriend? That would drive me nuts.


Yep, he is still my bf! He is not late very often, and it's not that big of a deal.I only live about 5 min from his job. He stops over every day after work, and will sometimes text to tell me he had an errand to take care of first. I just figure something must have come up or sometimes I will remember to check my phone for a text. He's not late for important things.

Most of the time he texts to say things like he misses me. I usually don't see it until I go to use my phone. It's rare that I can hear the little door bell sound that tells me a text has come in. I guess texting works well if you are in a meeting or something and can't use your phone. Personally, I would rather just call someone and find that easier than sending a text. Some phones are set up better to write out a text than mine is, that's for sure.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Need Opinions on Curves
Posted: 11/2/2008 2:46:54 PM
I hated curves. I got bored so easily. I hate that you can't go up in weight to fit your own needs. I really hated the music that they played. I hated it so much I had my dr. write them a letter to get me out of my contract.

I love the gym I go to now. They have so much more to offer. Curves is a waste of money.
It's okay for maybe a short while, but they usually make you sign a contract.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 207 (view)
 
female G-Spot...
Posted: 10/31/2008 8:06:15 PM
Do you have to be aroused to begin with? I mean, can you just start G spot searching right off the bat without being turned on first?
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 328 (view)
 
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 10/31/2008 7:26:11 PM
I have to agree with the pineapple. I started putting it in my bf's lunch after I read it on here and I must say, he is very pleased with the results. I love to do that for him. It makes him so happy. He is always telling me he feels like a lucky man.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Texting
Posted: 10/31/2008 5:05:12 PM
I never hear my phone's little sound when I get a text. I usually end up reading it the next day instead of going to the phone and looking for a text when my bf is late or something.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Making out
Posted: 10/31/2008 5:03:02 PM

Foreplay before sex is one thing, "making out" for days and weeks is another.


Days and weeks is another story. I guess I never really thought of making out for 15 min before wanting more is part of the foreplay though.
 Oregondaisy
Joined: 6/15/2007
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Making out
Posted: 10/30/2008 11:51:58 PM
my bf and I always spend a lot of time making out on the couch before we move it into the bedroom. I don't think it's possible for us not to make out for a long time before we are both ready to get down to business.
 
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