Oh my my----isn't this PearlJ a new breath of fresh air here----amazing AND cute too---truly a dangerous conbination in these eyes!

Actually , that's how it really is. I mean yes, they ARE angry. Angry because it's all changing. They are no longer in charge. They aren't running the show. They can no longer get by on what they earn or how they look. Now we're exercising the power of all these choices and I suspect that many are balking at that because they realize it reduces their chances. Then again I think perhaps some of us are just broken and hurt and instead of acknowledging that, we put on a brave face and pretend like we don't give a hoot. But maybe we just don't care about each other at all? That's a possibility too. I mean I don't feel like I owe any men here anything. Maybe they don't feel they owe us either?

It is rare that someone says ( and it happens, I'm just saying there is less of that than the negative stuff)..well, I can see where you may be coming from? Or, that point of view has some validity..it may be the nature of online or forums..but, I encounter it in the offline world too...

It feels, and someone correct me if I'm wrong here....that a lot o f men are just angry at women, and think we screwed everything up somehow...and that what we think or feel is irrelevant? Because it is wrong?

Form my personal experiences, most those women want big size are plus size themselves. It isn't that their vagina lose. They just have too much fat rolls before the entrance. It takes a good 4" or 5" to get to pass their fat barrier to get to the door. So a 10" penis is like 5" or 4" for them.

Those women who likes girth, on the other hand, are usually lose.

I don't follow a "scene".

Never have.

Half of those people are not true Doms or subs in any sense of the word.

People like to act, like to be spectacles and draw attention to themselves but honestly, I can look at them and see them for what they are.

I'm a "natural" dominant.

Props and toys unncessary, binds not required.

My definition of what a dominant entails is very basic, devoid of semantics.

It has nothing to do with being secure, but everything to do with the D/S relationship.

Sharing the flesh is simply a no-no. I don't know any Alpha males who share their women.

I don't either.

Rather, I have found that so-called Doms who share aren't Doms at all, but merely fetishists and actors who revel in scenes, but behind closed doors are not dominant at all.

It's a joke, honestly.

I point it out when I see it......

Most of those men are not strong enough to pick up a woman, much less dominate her.

Try explaining that away.

You can call yourself whatever you want........until you meet up with the real thing and it changes your perspective.

You're a female, so I don't expect you to understand it from my perspective.

Leather doesn't make a Dominant.......Strength does..

I've recently met a woman that I get along with good. It's early still, this weekend will be our 3rd date. At what point do you break it off with the once a week F buddy because you are dating someone else.

1. what's the real harm if adults - men or women - act on their libido consensually outside heterosexual wedlock?

2. who is served by these restrictions, and who is misserved?

The truth of it is that women who have a high number see sex as more of a casual activity than an intimate one. Cheating for them then carries less emotional relevance. If sex isnt tied to love and intimacy then they dont have to find those things first in order to cheat. Cheating becomes just a physical act with no importance. So cheating for a person with high numbers is probably very easy to do. Whats one more person?

Please tell me guys aren't jerking off at their office at work.

Yep... right up until you end up on the Maury show....

2hedz, ya got me. I am unworthy to even be responding to you.

I had enough respect for the future Mrs. TK that she did not and never had any reason to think I was comparing her to any one else I could have slept with

Lol... this is why I am here on a Friday night! Um...I didn't like her personality.

Anyone else???

so She messaged me back that i look like a Broken Down Steven King and was wondering if it worked for me.

Anyone else ever have any rude peeps like that?

i finally found that one person i clicked with and now she wont talk to me?!?

Is it normal not to be attracted to your own ethnicity? I kind of have a fetish for girls outside my ethnic group. When I interact with girls of my own ethnicity they remind me too much of my own sister and mother which is a big turnoff. Am I just totally weird or are these normal human being feelings?

why is it thta 80 percent of men say they are okay getting to know you and within five minutes go into the do you do sex on first meeting i am not aqgainst sex but i am no cheap slut what are other veiws on this

It was all good until....

As a rule, before I have sex with any girl for the first time I always ask the same question... "If something happens, and you get pregnant, AND I'm completely there and supportive of starting a family. Is abortion an option for you?" Because I won't participate in anything if it is... Lets face it, that's the only choice us guys get in the matter.

Only a coward would ignore a problem instead of dealing with it.

I am wondering if there are still any people left that think that sex should be the last thing we are worrying about when trying to find a mate?

Should not the relationship be well defined outside of the bedroom before trying to get into it? Have we not all had enough life experience to understand that relationships based primarily on sex are doomed?