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acecloak

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A close friend Posted: 6/23/2007 8:26:34 PM
A close Friend I'll wait for you under the starry night sky To take me home and take me to a high place of yours Show me, kindness, your true thoughts that you feel. Your smile reveals to me, your warm caring heart. Take me to your wonderful thoughts, your kindness that surrounds me. A sparkle from your staring eyes, show me your true inner site. For I will love it just the way you are. The friendship, the understanding of each others thoughts and hearts make us true friends. Acecloak

acecloak

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for those about to ROCK...we salute you! Posted: 6/24/2005 9:26:02 AM
Body Heat This woman I know gives off such body heat I fine it hard standing on my feet, She isn’t cheat, no sir re Pete, She makes me go tweet tweet, That’s those sweet, I’ll have a seat, Let her chew on some meat, Under the sheets we’ll heat it up, Boy I have a treat for my sweetie, We’ll be sure to eat some wheat, Next time we hit the streets, We’ll greet all the fleet, So don’t compete with my sweetie, She is elite, let’s get box seats, I think I’ll give her a Dutch treat, There won’t be a repeat, Let’s go back under the sheets, So we can be complete. ACE

acecloak

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Why in h!ll do people play games to get into a relationship? Posted: 6/21/2005 8:53:31 AM
Shit happens Mommy of 2 but I will not let people like that get me down or make me like them. I put it as a learning experience, I’ll put this on record for me. I just cannot believe how cruel some people can be so they can get what they want. Those are the people who will end up cheating on their spouse or the ones who are not very affectionate or loving. ACE

acecloak

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Why in h!ll do people play games to get into a relationship? Posted: 6/21/2005 8:29:06 AM
You are right hmmwellnow & grubeci. I do select those who I can trust and be friends with. I would never be dishonest with any of them or do anything behind their back. I even had this one woman who tried to hit on me yet she was married to my friend. I told her to back off and to get her shit together. If you need to have sex with others, then you need to be honest with yourself and your husband. ACE

acecloak

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Why in h!ll do people play games to get into a relationship? Posted: 6/21/2005 7:37:22 AM
I'm talking about how people lie about themselves to get a date/relationship or to cover something up. How they never tell the real truth about things as well. How some woman/man play a person like they want them and when someone better comes along they forgot about you. ACE

acecloak

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Why in h!ll do people play games to get into a relationship? Posted: 6/21/2005 7:06:37 AM
It really amazes me the number of people in here who play games to get what they want, yet are suppose to be adults. Is there a real purpose to play games? Are you trying out for some game show or something? The only people you are fooling and playing games with is yourself and it’ll come right back at you and bite you in the ass. I do not play the games and never will, there are enough nice people that I’d rather chat with and be friends with. ACE

acecloak

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Brockville Kingston Cornwall and surrounding area Posted: 6/20/2005 8:31:33 PM
Is there anymore people from this area or close to this area, please post away here and tell me something about yourself. Drop a line and don't be shy. ACE

acecloak

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Trust on the Net Posted: 6/18/2005 3:01:59 PM
@writingstar I run into the same thing but I have learned to just put that as another learning experience. Yes it is true, this is the net and people do tend to lie their little butts off. I cannot understand why they would lie in the first place when it'll come back and bite them in the ass. People lie to get what they want, they will go to no end to achieve their goal or what it is they want. It's about their greed and their needs only, they don't care who they hurt to get what they want. People are low in that way and I don’t feel sorry for those people. There are some real nice people out there as well and they will give you the love and affection you need. ACE

acecloak

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How to JUMP-START your lady?....... Posted: 6/18/2005 2:51:53 PM
Sure sounds like she has lost a little interest for sure and I would have her sit down and discuss the issue. Find out what is on her mind and let her know you are her with her. Tell her you care and show her you mean the things you say or do. When you are talking to her look into her eyes and mean what you say. There has to be something bugging her and if you she her you are there for her, she’ll tell you. ACE

acecloak

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Don’t try so hard on getting a date/relationship! Posted: 6/18/2005 10:52:08 AM
Ever notice when you seem to try to pick up someone or try to get something you want and you can’t? It never seems to amaze me how this works but almost every time this happens. So I have learnt not to be so focused on what I wanted or needed as well as a relationship. I tend to let my guard down and I end up not being the person I am. People seem to see through things like this when you act different and they stir away from you. So I am more like myself and I’m just having fun and enjoying my life. This way I know I’ll be happy and having fun and I’m not worried or wondering on what I want or when a relationship will take place. So be yourself and enjoy your life as it is and don’t try so hard, things will come to you. I have had this happen to me many times where I am not looking for a date and next thing you know she is right in front of you. If you have went through this before explain your story here! ACE

acecloak

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I've finally decided to throw in the towel on finding a decent man for a relationship Posted: 6/18/2005 10:20:39 AM
@RitzNB One thing I have learned from just not relationship but many other things in life as well. Whenever you seem to try your best to get something, (including your mate) things are never there for you. No matter what you seem to do you cannot seem to reach or get what you desire. The harder you even try, you seem to get more frustrated at it and give up. The best thing to do in situations like this is to not try as hard and let it come to you. Every time I have done this, it seems strange that when you least except it, than it comes to you right in front of your eyes. I remember a while back when I was going to bars and I was trying to get a date and nothing was happening. This went on for weeks going to the bar and ending up only getting drunk..lol So one day in the bar I was just having fun, playing some pool and next thing I knew is I was playing a game against a women. I did not let her win the game either, mean person I am, na it was a game and fun. So during that time we were getting along well and next thing you know this other woman ask me to dance. So needless to say I had 2 women that night to select from and I wasn’t even looking. I have other occasions where I wasn’t looking for a certain thing and next thing you know it was right there. Just I thought of what I have went through and right now I don’t even try to pick up any women. I will chat and post forums and be myself from this day on so nothing will bother me or get me down. I am having fun and enjoying my life so this is my story. ACE

acecloak

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How much responsibility do one have to take for their partners affair Posted: 6/18/2005 7:28:29 AM
If someone I was with was cheating on my there would be no way in hack I would take fault for that. First of all I wouldn't give her any reason to cheat and secondly she shouldn't even have any reason to either. If she cheat on me than it's all her fault, because I am there for her and if she has any problems and has not comforted me about anything and went ahead and cheated, she'd be at total fault and out the door? End of my story. ACE

acecloak

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Happy Fathers Day! Posted: 6/18/2005 7:01:22 AM
Wishing all other fathers a happy Fathers day and may you spend it with your kids who are so wonderful. I'm a Dad of 3 wonderful kids 2 boys and 1 girl. ACE

acecloak

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Trying to understand things. Posted: 6/16/2005 5:10:33 PM
Well thank you bucsgirl & squeak your words are comforting and lifting. I think I gotta move here to Florida and meet bucsgirl and pay a visit to squeak. take the two of you out for a few drinks,....... ACE

acecloak

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Trying to understand things. Posted: 6/16/2005 1:25:21 PM
Thank you Blondeambition, Rngirl, Iowadarling, chockingup, aquaman, boilermaker and many others for sharing advice with me and saying the things you did. You people are so kind and deserve a back on the back from me, since I cannot reach you, here is a drink for you. You folks are wonderful and it’s people like you that put smile on other faces. Thankyou again. ACE

acecloak

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Trying to understand things. Posted: 6/15/2005 1:06:59 PM
I thank all of you for you comments and thoughts, they are all very helpful and encouraging. I guess I except too much from on line dating. I haven’t been on the forums as much as I use to because of this. I guess it’s time to take a little break from here, but I will be around in and out. Again for those thoughtful and kind people who replied to this post I thank you from my heart. You thoughts and words mean something to me. ACE

acecloak

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Trying to understand things. Posted: 6/14/2005 7:15:48 PM
I guess I just don’t understand what a person is suppose to do to get a date or to get into a relationship. I think my profile says enough about myself. I have photos and I change them up as well. I have sent messages to a lot of women and 98% of them never reply. I guess you have to be a certain person in order to get a date. I’m starting to think that dating sites really hold nothing more then a place to chat and post your threads. I’m a down to earth person with a great sense of humor. Just wondering what it is women are really wanting or looking for in a man. Are there secrets to have women notice you or a certain way to present yourself in the correct manner? I’m just wondering and curious about this. Any ideas would help for sure to understand. ACE

acecloak

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What pushes your buttons in a relationship Posted: 6/6/2005 2:51:22 PM
For one thing I wouldn't do any of those things. If I had a woman that did any of those to me, I'd tell her once to never do it again or this relationship over. You don't treat anyone with disrespect especially the one your suppose to be in love with. This doesn't say much about the person who needs to speak like this, walk away and double think it before you speak it. ACE

acecloak

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Making your partners world rock in a relationship Posted: 6/2/2005 7:46:15 PM
Well, I couldn’t have said it any better, Lusty kitty2. You are right you do need to explore each others body and fine those secret spots to drive one another wild. I for one am one who will make sure that my partner has had her world rocked and to listen to those moan sounds. I don’t like the fast sex, too boring and now fun in it at all. I can fine those erogenous zones and make you quiver until you cannot take it any longer. There is nothing like one another able to explore each other bodies and able to understand them during sex. After I am done, there won’t be a part on your body that I wouldn’t understand. So yes I can say I understand sex and I would rather see both of the partners able to climax together. I never just go out to please myself, no fun there and it’s a much more satisfying experience able to climax together. ACE

acecloak

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Making your partners world rock in a relationship Posted: 6/2/2005 7:03:23 PM
Well lusty pick me pick me.... ACE

acecloak

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Making your partners world rock in a relationship Posted: 6/2/2005 6:23:31 PM
When you are in a relationship could you make your partner’s world rock? Have you been with someone where you hit it off just right and were able to make her/him smile ear to ear? People have been in relationship and never even discuss their sex or say anything about it. Are you the type of person to be open about your sex in a relationship? Are you the type that would just roll over and fall asleep or do you cuddle one another for awhile and talk about it? I have been always open about sex and straight forward. Nothing better then discussing sex and finding out what works and what doesn’t. It’s an awesome feeling to know when you can make your partner’s world rock and able to cuddle one another and talk about it. ACE

acecloak

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I'm lucky Posted: 6/2/2005 3:59:22 PM
@Fern Sure I ‘m a forgiving guy and I have forgiven in many areas. I keep forgiving myself right now for not having a girlfriend. I keep saying, “don't let it bother you some day you'll have a girl friend again, stop blaming yourself.” ACE

acecloak

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I'm lucky Posted: 6/2/2005 3:45:40 PM
^^^ It's ok loner I'm sure it's all good dude, Maybe it's just a recipe she is trying.. ACE

acecloak

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Why are man so cruel ?? ;( Posted: 6/2/2005 3:06:24 PM
b.a.b.e There are better men out there for you anyways babe. The way I see it is babe, you’re nice enough looking, so it's his lost. There are men out there that would love to have the chance he had. You'll always come across stumbling blocks here and there, don’t let this prevent you from wanting a relationship. Be strong and you can find your mate.. ACE

acecloak

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I'm lucky Posted: 6/2/2005 2:56:46 PM
@lonertx63 that’s awesome loner and there are more people out there I'm sure that are lucky as well and some that are not. One day I hope I get as lucky and I'm able to find someone. I congrats you loner on your relationship.. ACE

acecloak

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Do you tolerate your partner making mistakes in your relationship? Posted: 6/1/2005 2:02:31 PM
Forgiving I can understand that and if it happened a few times. What if this persists repeatedly and your partner says they’ll change and they never do? I’m talking more like 10 timesor more, they do the same thing repeatedly, yet knowing you’ve discuses this matter 10 times or more with them. Do you let the person keep doing it knowing they won’t change, or do you take a different approach after knowing things haven’t changed? ACE

acecloak

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Do you tolerate your partner making mistakes in your relationship? Posted: 5/31/2005 9:36:52 PM
How many people have had a partner make a mistake and ask for forgiveness and they turn around only to do the same thing again? The mistake isn't hurtful, like beating you, it's like saying you'd stop coming home late, but time after time your late. It could be telling little white lies as well. How would you handle this situation with your partner? How many times would you let this happen before you break your relationship off, or do you stay in the relationship knowing your partner does this mistake over and over? ACE

acecloak

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Cuddling Posted: 5/31/2005 9:15:31 PM
there are lost of us here ginnadrae,, to you.... ACE

acecloak

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Would someone's BMI cause you NOT to date them? Posted: 5/31/2005 7:15:45 PM
Body mass index, or BMI, is a new term to most people. However, it is the measurement of choice for many physicians and researchers studying obesity. BMI uses a mathematical formula that takes into account both a person's height and weight. BMI equals a person's weight in kilograms divided by height in meters squared. (BMI=kg/m2). ACE

acecloak

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Lack of trust in your relationship Posted: 5/31/2005 7:12:20 PM
Ever have a person who has no trust in you at all. Ever have a boyfriend/girlfriend follow you or call their friends to spy on you? Ever have boyfriend/girlfriend try to see who you called last or call you to see if you’re where you suppose to be? Ever had a boyfriend/girlfriend go through your things looking for clues of you cheating? Ever had a boyfriend/girlfriend come up to you if you were out, they’d smell you like you had woman/man cologne/perfume smell over you. Ever had a boyfriend/girlfriend have a friend phone you up for a date to see if you’d fall for it? It has happen to me and not having trust in the person will result in a breakup. One can only tell the person so long that you are trusting and not a cheater. It’s up to the other to relate to this issue and have the trust in them. ACE

acecloak

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CAN YOU REALLY FIND LOVE ONLINE? Posted: 5/31/2005 6:10:03 PM
Well if there is love online then please share it with me.. Supertramp - Give A Little Bit Lyrics Give a little bit Give a little bit of your love to me Give a little bit I'll give a little bit of my love to you There's so much that we need to share Send a smile and show you care I'll give a little bit I'll give a little bit of my love to you So give a little bit Give a little bit of your time to me See man with the lonely eyes Take his hand, you'll be surprised Give a little bit Give a little bit of your love to me I'll give a little bit of my love for you Now's the time that we need to share So find yourself, we're on our way back home Going home Don't you need to feel at home? Oh yeah, we gotta sing ACE

acecloak

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sharing your secrets ? Posted: 5/31/2005 5:42:45 PM
I had a secret and didn't have anyone to tell to, now I kept it pretty secretly, now the problem is I forgot the dang secret. ACE

acecloak

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Cuddling Posted: 5/31/2005 5:23:43 PM
Cuddling as 2 is way more enjoyable than a pillow...so get over here lusty kitty2* and give the old ACE a little cuddly hug.* ACE

acecloak

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How Good Are You At Communicating?? Posted: 5/31/2005 5:16:41 PM
2mseddress I do agree with this as well. I myself try to express in both areas, I was really shy like a little frog hiding in a pond away from everything else. But I have gotten much better over the last year. ACE

acecloak

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Do you really WANT to be in a relationship???? Posted: 5/31/2005 5:13:03 PM
<-------Is flirting with lusty kitty2 takes her hand and kisses it softly.....

acecloak

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How Good Are You At Communicating?? Posted: 5/31/2005 5:07:36 PM
Communicating makes a relationship work like no others. The ability to communicate is awesome and very rewarding. Communication solves more problems than just holding things in. Communication helps pave the road of understanding for each other. Instead of guessing what she might like in sex or as a gift or for dinner, why not communicate and ask. Communication only means a better relationship and the ability to know what each like and dislike. ACE

acecloak

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How Good Are You At Communicating?? Posted: 5/31/2005 4:59:59 PM
Communicating how good am I at it...hmmmmm What was the topic again ACE

acecloak

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CAN YOU REALLY FIND LOVE ONLINE? Posted: 5/31/2005 4:00:17 PM
Well I am still looking for the one for me, comes to mind, I have a song for this as well. I STILL HAVEN’T FOUND WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR LYRICS I have climbed highest mountain I have run through the fields Only to be with you Only to be with you I have run I have crawled I have scaled these city walls These city walls Only to be with you But I still haven’t found what I’m looking for But I still haven’t found what I’m looking for I have kissed honey lips Felt the healing in her fingertips It burned like fire This burning desire I have spoke with the tongue of angels I have held the hand of a devil It was warm in the night I was cold as a stone But I still haven’t found what I’m looking for But I still haven’t found what I’m looking for I believe in the kingdom come Then all the colors will bleed into one Bleed into one Well yes I’m still running You broke the bonds and you Loosed the chains Carried the cross Of my shame Of my shame You know I believed it But I still haven’t found what I’m looking for But I still haven’t found what I’m looking for But I still haven’t found what I’m looking for But I still haven’t found what I’m looking for... ACE

acecloak

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Straightest relationship on TV???? Posted: 5/31/2005 3:51:46 PM
How about Charlie Brown and Snoopy.......... ACE

acecloak

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Do you really WANT to be in a relationship???? Posted: 5/31/2005 3:46:22 PM
I guess that’s why most of us are on here, to fine a date and to get into a relationship. I do know that there are other people here who just like the forums and others looking for fun. ACE

acecloak

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mind over matter, and the winner is? Posted: 5/31/2005 1:51:40 PM
Mind takes matters in its hands. Your mind knows right from wrong, it's your subconscious mind that thinks in different ways. ACE

acecloak

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Saying that you love her Posted: 5/31/2005 1:34:35 PM
Yes that's true lusty kitty2. Since there are many types of love as well. If I'm with someone though I will only say it when I feel it is right. Other types of love are free to speak as well. We all feel the need of being wanted in some way, sure feels good..... ACE

acecloak

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Hope Posted: 5/31/2005 1:30:59 PM
Fern coming to Ontario, wow when is this happening? ACE

acecloak

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Where is the love? Posted: 5/31/2005 1:29:59 PM
That was nice mind reader..... ACE

acecloak

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Fake Pics and Fake Profiles, lies all lies?? Posted: 5/31/2005 1:25:29 PM
Well heathersofteathers, you've come to the right place because there are a lot of friends within these forums, not all of are as bad as you think. I believe in the person until proven guilty. ACE

acecloak

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When Is It Appropriate NOT to Be Honest? Posted: 5/31/2005 1:16:45 PM
it's all lies, it's a pack of lies I didn't lie, it wasn't me, I didn't do that.. ACE

acecloak

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How many spouses feel neglected because their partner puts the children first Posted: 5/31/2005 1:12:40 PM
Putting my kids first doesn't mean I will not pay attention to the one I'm with. I would have love/care and feelings for all in my world so this would never happen in the first place. ACE

acecloak

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Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 5/31/2005 1:10:05 PM
No one should be alone but some do prefer to be alone and some have no choice. People interact to each other and most people need human contact. ACE

acecloak

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What bothers you most in your relationship - the big things or a build up of small stuff Posted: 5/31/2005 1:05:37 PM
I just don't let the things get to me, if I've already explained the situation to her and it still continues, why fight it. Life is way too short to spend it unhappy and arguing over little things/medium things/huge things/itty pity things/ enormous things. Move on and be happy and enjoy each others company instead of trying to pick faults out. ACE

acecloak

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Cuddling Posted: 5/31/2005 1:00:25 PM
Acecloak gives weetee a great big cuddly hug...ahhhhh that feels sooooooo much better...... ACE

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