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username search help Posted: 12/13/2007 3:02:57 PM
I tried doing a user name search cause I accidently deleted someone who just added me to his favs list .. was tryin to find him again .. all that came up was a blank page as well with only the text box for user name search and teh search button and the add on it .. is like the thread or link is screwed up to complete the search Any ideas?

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Just Why Do You Girls Love Motorcycles??? Posted: 6/27/2007 6:57:40 PM
cause of the vibrations between da legs... LOL Sorry but somewhat true !!!!! LMAO!!!! Cheers!!!!!

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What is it about Harley's? Posted: 3/14/2006 8:47:34 AM
AMEN Mesna!!!!!!!! You got that right ... Would rather be with a guy who loves the freedom of a hog than one who loves a mirror!!!!!!

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What is it about Harley's? Posted: 3/14/2006 8:45:49 AM
Those who don't like the harley's may not like the effect of the vibration it has when you straddle one ... LOL ... how do you spell repressed??? ROTFLMAO Just kidding My hubby and stepson build custom bikes (choppers and prostreets) for a living among other custom projects. I guess I have to say that Harleys and the like are the mascots (so to speak) of freedom Straddling that power and cruising down the road is really a heady feeling of being free as the wind. That's this blondes take on this subject .. LOL Wild

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Do you still believe in love or have you lost your faith? Posted: 3/14/2006 8:30:35 AM
Well surprise surprise!!!!!!!!!! I found it !!!!!!! I think ...... I met someone and he swept me off my feet!!!!!! Four days after we first went out he asked me to marry him ... though he's much older we clicked right off ... and all this happened after I stopped looking for something elusive So I guess the proverb or saying is true: Watch what you turn your back on because it may come up behind you and bite you in the ass !!!!!!! LMAO CHEERS and GOOD LUCK TO ALL It's out there for everyone you just have to stop looking Wild

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formula for figuring out if the age gap is too big Posted: 3/14/2006 8:10:39 AM
soo if I take 56 divide that in half .. which gives me 28 add 7 .... to end up with 35 ... is that what his age should be or mine ? ... cause if it's his then he should be younger than me .. oh wait if it's mine then I should be younger than me too ..... SHWEEEEEEET!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wild

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Is a 9 year age difference too much? Posted: 3/14/2006 5:55:25 AM
I recently got married again for the second time .. My new hubby is 17 years older than I am. I now have a stepson who is only a year and 2 weeks younger than me and I also have a step grandson who is 6 months younger than MY son. Age really doesn't mean much as you get older, it's what your heart says that matters unless you are very conscious about what people say. If that person makes you feel alive .. I say go with it and LIVE!!!!!!!! wild

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how do you deal with someone dying? Posted: 2/24/2006 5:35:51 AM
Is a hard subject ... You can only be there for her and remember the time you had with her.. I lost my son in Aug of '04 at the age of 11 1/2. He had been fighting a rare type of cancer since '97. He fought and sometimes won if only for just a little while, but we all kept spirits up or at least tried to .. but as time went on you learn to live by watching them deal with all they have to and how they did it It's not pretty, it's not easy, it's usually hell on earth, but you do learn and grow and tend to look at life and others alot differently because of it and you will always have a part of that person with you in your heart and in how you look at life from now on. You'll be stronger for it as well. When I was dealing with my son, I had to watch and encourage him many a time, but it was usually the other way around he encouraging me. Through all his chemo and dealing with his dad in court during the same period took its toll but I have to say my son taught me alot about life and if your friend can do that for you, you've become one of the richest in the world for it Cherish the time you have and remember her with a smile after Wild

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Got a Tattoo? Posted: 2/2/2006 5:34:22 AM
I now have 5 .... 1. flower and climbing vine on left ankle 2. climbing devil on right thigh (will be adding another hanging onto his tail soon) 3. blue/purple rose on left breast with son's initials in the banner 4. black panther looking out of ripped skin on right arm and my absolute fav 5. a gold ribbon for childhood cancer inside some scroll work with my son's b-date and death date in the ribbon points and his name across the top ...... have that across my lower back was informed by the hubby he has one he wants me to get done but won't say where or what yet .. says is a surprise .... guess we'll see ....LOL wild

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Paying it forward!!!! Posted: 10/8/2005 6:29:20 AM
I have been reading this and remembering. I had a son who too was an amazing child. He was diagnosed with a rare cancer at the age of 4 1/2. I had just split up with his dad a few months before. Through the custody fight, lawyers meetings, the divorce, the rumors my ex's family was spreading and all the chemo, scans, tests, my son always made sure he could bring a smile to my face. We had 7 years mostly on treatment and I never seen him cry til the end. We lost that amazing child a year ago this past August. He had touched sooo many hearts with his attitude and determination that at his funeral we had over 700 people go through. He was a spokesperson for Cops for Cancer during his whole battle with the dreaded disease and in return they held an honour guard for him during the extent of his funeral .... was awesome. Another friend had decided to go and raise some money for a plaque dedicated to my son and how he lived. After all the crap I had to put up with through all those years all I tend to remember now is how Jake handled life and lived it to the fullest ... every day was a new adventure. If I can bring that attitude to others and share a piece of him with all around who need it (hmmm think we all need it) then I feel I am doing justice to his memory. He taught me soo much about how to live and deal with people, it feels good to pass it along to others. He taught me that no matter what the day looks like outside you need to look for the sunshine. Sooo for all of you out there !!!!! I hope that this brief (LOL) letter helps your outlook a lilltle bit ..... life isn't always doom n gloom... it's a matter of choice on how you look at it. wild

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How do most ladies respond to this? Posted: 5/19/2005 4:46:26 AM
this cyber world has it's pros and cons .. and so does the meeting of a a person in real time ... I have been doin this for way too long and have had more than my share of disappointments from meets with online personnel....lol .... but allso have met some great guys that I still consider friends though there was nothing there to take things further with. but just lately I got extremely lucky and met an amazing guy ....(NOT FROM ONLINE) and now seem to be gettin hitched in July ..... so the hurry up but be careful does have its place big time So all I suggest is go with your gut feeling and you should do just fine Good Luck all .... and if your in Niagara Falls on July 15th stop into the old sin city bar (now called Route 66) for a drink or two and help me celebrate my welding ....that's where the wedding will be and the celebration afterwards .... jeans n t's standard dress..... Ciao all and good luck wild

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Explaining the origin of your profile name.... Posted: 4/22/2005 7:30:03 PM
wildnshy ......hmmm that pretty well sums me up ....

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Instant Messenger Help. Posted: 4/22/2005 7:14:22 PM
seems that i can IM people but they can't get thru to me ....all my thingy's work .....but still nothing pops up .....am at al los .....this happens at any time .....though i can still IM out .....wasssup with that ?

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How do most ladies respond to this? Posted: 4/20/2005 4:50:48 AM
I have found that talking to people on here gives a false sense of who they are. you can talk for ages and never know the real person ....have chatted with too many that have been who they thought I wanted but in real time were nothing like what they said they were. Depending on how the chat goes I may meet after a couple chats .....just to see if they are who they say they are. Too many guys list in their profile that they want one thing when they end up wantin the total opposite. Too much ear candy and not enough honesty, I find Wild

Joined: 3/18/2005

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Do you still believe in love or have you lost your faith? Posted: 4/8/2005 5:57:35 PM
wasn't it nazareth that sang a song called "love hurts" ?

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Do you still believe in love or have you lost your faith? Posted: 4/8/2005 5:13:58 AM
welll for those of you who can relate ....is it worth keepin the faith ??? I have thought back over the guys I have been with and on one hand I can't blame them for running scared. I had alot goin on and it's real hard watching a child fight a losing battle especially over 7 yrs. But if that was the case what I don't understand is why spew the ear candy and promises when they probably already know they will cut n run. I find it very hard to find one ....just one.....that will accept me for who I am. Didn't realize I was so "different". They all wanted me to conform to what they wanted me to be. Sooo not me .....I don't do well with conforming, is that a bad thing, ya think? Ahhhh think I will be taking a big break from the dating scene ....need to get the braincells rerouted......they seem to have shortcircuited from all the B.S I have been fed ....so you'll be finding me on the rock wall in St. Cats, gettin my head together and keepin my feet off the ground thanx for the feedback was interesting to say the least Wild

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Do you still believe in love or have you lost your faith? Posted: 4/7/2005 5:49:01 PM
hey IowaD....... I read what you had to say and you have some of it down to a T ...... The past 7 yrs I have lived thru the worse hell anyone could deal with and still stay sane. I had split with my ex gone thru the rumour mill thanx to him and his family ....dealt with the courts for custody and divorce issues .....and on top of that my oldest son at the age of 4 1/2 was diagnosed with cancer .....just a few months after we split. I found during that time (sorry to say guys) but the male species can't deal with that kind of stuff. I had been made promises and more promises by one guy after another and always ended up alone as soon as they got what they wanted. I dealt with everything I was goin thru on my own and was left feelin more disappointed and disillusioned than before. It's disheartening to keep the faith when that keeps happening. But for some reason I keep comin back with that little spark of hope. The last guy I was seeing ended things sayin it was because it was too good, so I lose again. Now my son has finally lost his battle as of last August, and I am dealin with that and tryin to get my life back into some semblence of order ...and I wonder if there's a point in still keepin that faith alive or if I am just settin myself up for more disappointment. What's your take ? Wild

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