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darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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Girlfriend Dumped Me On Valentines Day Posted: 5/27/2007 4:01:16 PM
Sorry Nikita I ment to put his name there for some reason I screwed up.

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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Girlfriend Dumped Me On Valentines Day Posted: 5/27/2007 3:59:14 PM
Nikita, There are always signs of how good or bad a relationship really is. The problem is that most people do not see them or just see what they want. Thus is why when people look back at old relationship they can almost pinpoint the day, hour, or second when things went bad. Now I do not know how long you were with this girl but I'm guessing that it wasn't long. When you meet someone you have to do a lot of things before there is a spark. First you have to get their attention, then hold it. Also you have to offer her/him soemthing that no one else can no matter how big or small that thing is. Also being able to show her/him that your fun is key. Now most people after they have done this think they are in there but such is not the case. You have to keep this up or the other person will get bored. Also, a poem is cool and romantic but when you've wrote page after page it becomes less romantic and more like your needy. Not that this is all your fault but please don't be like other people and push all the blame off on them. If you went through something like this and learned nothing it's going to keep happening. Also once you find out what or how you went wrong, fix it. Don't keep making the same mistakes or find someone who can deal with your down falls. (Don't worry, everyone has them.) One last thing, if your in a relationship and it feels like work, get out of it because most parts of a relationship should be fun and feel effortless. Hope that helps and sorry for making it so long. Happy Tater

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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looking for my soulmate Posted: 5/27/2007 3:13:41 PM
Are you kidding? I am going to try and help you. You should really re-read your post and if your still unclear as to why women find you undesirable then just read on. Your whole post besides making it clear you have not read the rules is covered in needyness! I mean wow! If you want to attract women then here is my advice. Now it maybe considered a little harsh but it seems like you want some help so here we go. Take everything that makes you, well you and change it. Really, it's pretty clear that what you have been doing doesn't work. So, stop doing it andtry something new. I mean if you went to a little pond to catch fish using the same ol bait and never getting anything wouldn't you switch it up? Well, that's what I'm telling you to do. Only you should change it all. From the way you talk, walk, look, and everything you know or think about women. Buy some books on picking up women, body language, and any self help book you can find. That's my advice, take it for what it's worth. I was not trying to be mean, I just tell it like I see it. A lot of people pay for this advice and your getting it for free. No thanks needed. Tater Happy

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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A dater's guide at the local watering hole... Posted: 5/25/2007 2:30:46 PM
Your reading way to much into one simple thing. You can not EVER tell someones personality from the drink they have. People are not that simple. There are so many things that come into play. What type of day they had or the mood they are in that goes into what they choose to drink. This would be as silly as to say you know what type of person they are from the car they drive. It might tell you a small part of them but that's like painting a picture of someone using only one color. It will look like crap! Agree or Disagree, no matter to me. Cheers, Tater!

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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Do people really want friends Posted: 5/25/2007 2:19:37 PM
People on here really need to stop taking things to heart. There could be many reasons as to why someone did not respond to you. But in the end it is their choice and you should respect that. Now I'm not saying its not mean. But lets face the fact that most people judge you on your looks. It's just the way the world works. If they are attracted to you then they will respond. Or maybe whatever it is that your saying is not that interesting enough to peek their interest. Try switching things up and try something new. To many people write a huge note that is boring. Keep it short sweet and to the point, yet funny and have soemthing to offer that no one else did. Or at least the other five people who them this person a message. I hope this might help. Happy Tater

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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Why cant I just find the right woman! The real woman? Posted: 6/29/2006 9:53:32 PM
If you keep finding the "wrong" type of people. Then stop looking for that type. Change it up and look for it else where. They say if it isn't broken then don't fix it. But I'll add if it is, then put on that tool belt and fix that shit!

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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Coffee dates Posted: 6/29/2006 9:37:06 PM
You hit the nail on the head. Wear soemthing that's comfy yet makes you look good. Frist dates are always hard and you spend most the time worrying about what they are thinking about you. But a little bit of advice, don't worry. He's doing the samething. Pick a topic that you both share and can talk about. Something light hearted and fun. A first date is suposed to be fun while getting to know stuff about the other person. Never take what they say in emails as gold. People lie. Ask questions that will tell you about his personality. Watch how he act's towards people around him. Like a waitress can give you some good information. How does he treat her? With respect or like she is the dirt under his shoe. Just watch for little things like that. And remember, people tend to make theirselves look good or they really don't think they are the way they are. But I have yet to meet someone who can lie with their actions. Always believe actions over words. There's a lot of advice. Goodluck and I hope your date goes well.

darthtater

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What do women want ....Please spell it out Posted: 6/29/2006 1:12:29 PM
What to woman want? Different things. You really have to ask the one you really want to hear the answer from. By asking on here your going to get way to many different answer. People are all different and being such everyone is looking for something different. There isn't a right or wrong answer to that question. But it's like trying to get a woman off. Never and I mean NEVER use one girls tricks on another. Sometimes you might get lucky, but in most cases she's going to eather fake it to make you happy or look at you like it was your first time. Samething happens by the question you've just asked. It's like an old riddle with no true answer.

darthtater

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what happen to testing the water... everyone just rides the wave now a days ... Posted: 6/29/2006 1:05:06 PM
Thank you Jjsyrnkyk, he just proved my point. Whoever falls for his bullcrap is less than smart. When meating people you have to step back and really look at them and listen to what they say. If something seems to good to be true, then odds are it's nothing but a lie. I wish for once in my life women would stop trying to fix guys and learn when to walk away. Maybe when this happens the world will be a better place and people will start to fall in love with the right people. We won't have to hear how guys are pigs and women are ****es. Oh what a wonderful world it would be!!!

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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what happen to testing the water... everyone just rides the wave now a days ... Posted: 6/28/2006 5:30:08 PM
STOP PICKING PIGS TO GO OUT WITH!!! It's just that easy, you would think that after a few times of meeting guys you would change the type of people your dating. But noooooo, what do you do? Jump on your soap box and slam men. Putting the hand full of guys you have gone on dates with and put them all in the same box. I'd bet you hate it when guys say soemthing like, all women are a tease or something like that. I'm not saying there aren't ***holes out there. I'm saying it's up to you to find what works for you and if something isn't working for you. CHANGE IT!!! Don't expect that guy to change, because your going to be waiting a long time and living an unhappy life. Now, I'm going to run before all the women start to make voodoo dolls of me and stick that needle in a naughty place.

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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Not Girlfriend Material ? ? Posted: 6/28/2006 5:11:41 PM
In my opinion people try to force things to much. Just let things go the way they will. I hate going on a date with someone who is in a rush or expects something to happen. It puts un-needed pressure on both of you and in most cases one of the two is going to run for the hills. Next time you go on a date the only thing you should expect is to have a good time. Expect to be friends and nothing more. Now, I've never been on a date with you so I can only guess as to what's going on. But I think you look to this person that your atracted to to be the one and the guy can read it all over you. Remember 60% of how we communicate is nonverbal. Go get a few books on body language. When you know what you might be doing wrong you can correct it and even know what he's thinking. Now on the other hand you might not be "doing" anything wrong. You might just be picking the wrong people to go on dates with. But what do I know... Everything I've said was in no means to hurt your feelings I'm just giving a little advice and hope it helps. Good luck.

darthtater

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Forum relationships ?? and Happy Birthday Blast !! Posted: 11/26/2005 12:48:03 PM
Here's to one of the coolest, in your face yet most loveable women on here. She will call you on your bluff but give ya a lollypop along with a boot in the as* on the way out. But she doesn't do it because she is smug or full of herself. She does it because it tells it like it is. Anyone who could ever dislike this women is because she has showen you something about yourself you didn't like or couldn't take. So here's to Blast, the Queen of my Cyber World! Happy Belated Birthday Blast! (and we won't go into that cute little teddy bear side. she has a rep to keep up...)

darthtater

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virtual sex Posted: 11/7/2005 5:24:15 PM
Just like getting around to learning the whole spelling thing, right!

darthtater

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Things I've learned while I was drunk.... Posted: 10/28/2005 6:12:57 AM
Oh! so we are taking cheap shots now! You only pick on the ones you like.

darthtater

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Things I've learned while I was drunk.... Posted: 10/27/2005 10:08:32 PM
-=- Hey, I'd rather marry ya than date ya...then at least when it SUCKS, I stand a chance of walking away with all my stuff AND half yours. As it is, I'm running the risk of getting stuck with the bar tab. -=- If you aint no punk holla We Want Prenup WE WANT PRENUP!, Yeaah It's something that you need to have Cause when she leave yo ass she gone leave with half Words of wisdom by Kanye West OT: Never said I DO after a heavy night of drinking.....

darthtater

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Things I've learned while I was drunk.... Posted: 10/27/2005 11:03:47 AM
-=- Geeze...do we have to call it a "date"? I'm a dating pariah...(ask around). -=- Just because it's a date doesn't mean anythihng. we are going to shot each other in the head with a dart gun. LoL! Bring him along, he can bring the beers and fight the winner. The loser has to keep drinking and pick up all the lost darts. Geeze, you say date and women run for the hills like its marriage screaming I DON'T!

darthtater

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UNREAD DELETED-----EXPLAIN THE LOGIC PLEASE Posted: 10/27/2005 12:44:56 AM
Personally, I've never had soneome block me or not read my emails. A lot of women do not respond to them, but I wouldn't think it would matter if they read it or not. If they are not going to respond they aren't going to. Just don't take things so personally. It's only a dating site. Have fun with it. I've also done the same, I've gotten some emails and at first I tried to respond to them all even if I only told them I wasn't interested. But some people didn't take that to well and got mad. So it's easier to just not respond, as bad as that may sound. At least that way they can think I'm the bad guy and not that there's something wrong with them.

darthtater

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UNREAD DELETED-----EXPLAIN THE LOGIC PLEASE Posted: 10/27/2005 12:39:48 AM
You have to understand that women on here get about 10-120 emails a day. Some are only here for the forums and some are just here to talk to friends that they have made already. But whatever their reason is, it really shouldn't matter. They have the right to respond to whom ever they wish and pass over for whatever reason anyone they want. You shouldn't take it as a personal insult. It happeneds to everyone, male or female. Just keep sending emails out to other people and make sure that you put something worth reading in there, not just "hey your hot or I like your pics wanna chat" remember there are a lot of guys sending her emails and you need to stand out. If she wants to talk to you she will, if not well move on. It's no different than RL, only she doesn't have to pretend to be nice to you here. Well Happy and good luck...

darthtater

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Things I've learned while I was drunk.... Posted: 10/26/2005 10:38:39 PM
They sure do. This will be a first date to remember.

darthtater

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Things I've learned while I was drunk.... Posted: 10/26/2005 10:10:30 PM
OK then, Angie, you and me at High Noon! 15 paces turn and shoot! May I be standing in the end.

darthtater

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The REAL ugliness.... Posted: 10/26/2005 9:05:53 PM
So it's ok in your opinion to put down someone who has a physically or mentally handicapped? That makes you a hero? I don't really understand what point your trying to make here. I can understand if you say something that needs to be said that people are afraid to say, but to mock someone and beat them to the ground for no other reason but to make your self feel better or to have a good laugh is wrong, immature and shows your own stupidity. If I'm understanding you that is. But if I am, let me ask you this one last question. If you morth was physically or mentally handicapped and someone did that to her, would you join in and beat her down with your words also or would you get mad and stand up for her? People just don't think before they speak anymore. Again, when your a little kid, you don't know any better. But as you get older your supposed to mature and grow up. Treat people with respect. There is a law to protect people against things like this, it's called harassment and it's illegal. Now I agree that everyone has the right to their opinion, but when your opinion has no other goal other than to insult someone and beat them down mentally it's just plain wrong and you should have learned that in grade school.

darthtater

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Things I've learned while I was drunk.... Posted: 10/26/2005 8:50:59 PM
-=- Tater, you kill me... -=- OMG! Don't say that in a public thread! Do you want me to do 10-20? It wasn't me, it was the one armed man!

darthtater

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The REAL ugliness.... Posted: 10/26/2005 8:36:53 PM
I've personally have been the one who was picked on because of something that I could not control. I'm thankfull that I grew up that way. Because of all that I have learned how to deal with people who are just plain ass*oles and not let it bother me. Reguardless of what or why that person looks or acts or looks the way the do, does not give you or anyone else the right to make that person feel bad about who they are. Everyone has feelings and has the right to feel good about themselves. Does it really make yourself feel better about your own insacurities to put someone else down? Because that's all you are when you do that, that and a coward. But I would peronally like to thank you and everyone else for the pain you have put me threw in my life, without it I wouldn't be the person I am today.

darthtater

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What's your perfect date? Posted: 10/26/2005 7:54:01 PM
Going to Maggiano's for a nice quiet dinner and it makes for a good chance to get to know one another. Than after getting to know one another going to see a scary movie. Because nothing makes a better date (at least in my twisted mind) than a good horror flick. Than on the way back to your cars you can laugh at how many times you jumped over something stupid. Ahhhhh yes, it was a good date indeed. If you don't know what Maggiano's is, google it. It's an italian place.

darthtater

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The REAL ugliness.... Posted: 10/26/2005 3:00:40 PM
It sucks that people can be so mean, but at one point or another we have all done it. Not to say that it is right by any means. But for one reason or another we have all made a mean comment to someone who didn't deserve it. Most of us grow out of this at a young age. But I don't think that just because someone makes a comment it makes him or her a bad person. You have to look at the real reason why they are saying what they are saying. I think it's a little hypocritical to judge someone because of a few things they said when you yourself are basicly doing the samething by passing judgement on them. (Now I'm not saying that all of you do this and sometimes it's well deserved.) But sometimes there are reasons why, like it reminds them of someone in their life that they don't like and they are talking about the person who wronged them rather than the person they are directing it to or they are insacure and and despreitly seeking someone approval. Now there are some poeple who are just as*holes in life and think it's funny to mock someone for one's down falls in life. But I don't think they are ulgy, I just pitty them. Someone never showed them the right or should I say, the happy way to live life. It's more sad than ulgy. But that's just my two cents....

darthtater

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Things I've learned while I was drunk.... Posted: 10/26/2005 1:32:04 PM
Fun things to do while talking to a drunk person when your sobber. Make sudden and really fast movements when talking to a drunk person and see how long it takes for them to run to the bathroom. Start to sway back and forth to make it seem like the room is moving. When their eyes start to close get really close to their face and wait for them to open their eyes. (I love that one!) Switch their drink with the person next to them and see how long it takes for them both to notice. Do the reach around and tap them on their other shoulder. (Old school yard pranks always work on drunk people.) Start to move your eyes all round the room but keep your head still. This freaks them out. Tell the girl you think she dropped her bra. If you keep it up, she may end up flashing you to prove that she didn't. LoL Simple people are fun! (See you don't have to be drunk to have fun)

darthtater

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Things I've learned while I was drunk.... Posted: 10/26/2005 11:50:51 AM
Do not think that you can impress the waitress carring the shots by buying them all. A bigger tip doesn't get you any where, but broke and walking home in the cold. When something sounds really funny in your head, leave it there! Because it's not funny and they won't get it! When your get in trouble in a bar you can't get out of it by yelling, I'm a COP! The real ones show up, then you get a free place to stay for the night and a pissed off judge in the morning. When you think a girl is just grabbing your butt, you better make sure you still have your wallet. Just because a woman has her boobs pushed out, doesn't mean they can be used for pillows. I had that hand imprint for two days. When you see a lady talking to a guy and that guy goes to the bathroom, that doesn't mean it's your turn. DOH! As much fun as it might seem, do not throw darts at womens butts. It's just not funny and can be considered assault. When playing pool and your waiting for your shot, that is not the time to try your new move of kung fu with the stick. This could also be considered assault but with a deadly weapon... I think that's enough... Go forth and learn from my mistakes.....

darthtater

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if something is intensely personal, but relevant, when do you disclose? Posted: 10/26/2005 12:35:47 AM
I say, get it out in the open right away, if they don't like it. Then little time was lost. It's better than spending a lot of time with that person and getting feelings for them just to let whatever cat out of the bag and have them reject you because of it.

darthtater

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Advice for bullies... Posted: 10/25/2005 11:20:18 PM
She has talked to the teachers, all that's really happened is the kids got a few days off. Which made things worse. He is in the special classes, but it's in a public school so he has to interact with everyone. I'm not to worried about him going the crazy route, but I just wish there was something I could tell him to make him feel better. I mean, if I have to go to his classes with him for awhile so be it. But I know that will only make it stop when I'm there and it will go back to "normal" after I leave. I mean every kid gets picked on, but I just want to give this kid some advice and reassure him that everything will be ok. I make sure he has a lot of fun outside of school, but I just don't want him to get to the point that he doesn't want to go back. Other than school he's a very happy kid, with friends and all that.

darthtater

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Advice for bullies... Posted: 10/25/2005 10:58:23 PM
It's more like pick on the weird kid, people are afraid to be nice to him because they don't want these people to pick on them. He has a bit of a slurred speech but other than that you couldn't really tell he's slow. I mean, he's pretty good at math, but when it comes to money he has no clue. Good enough?

darthtater

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Advice for bullies... Posted: 10/25/2005 10:45:26 PM
He's slightly retarded.

darthtater

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Advice for bullies... Posted: 10/25/2005 10:25:33 PM
I'm not sure if this is the right place for this, but I figured with most the people in here being parents I could get some good advice. My little cousin has been having some problems at school, with kids teasing him and what not. It's gone as so far that they have threated to beat him up after school, so I would go pick him up to make sure that nothing happens to him. Now he's a little slow, so it makes him an easy target, but he keeps asking me for advice and why people are so mean to him. It's brakes my heart because he's the nicest kid. Never says anything mean to anyone. But you know how kids are. I mean, I just don't know what to tell him, besides pay no attention to them. But I just don't feel like that's enough. He looks up to me like I'm his big brother and yet I feel helpless. I mean, what do I tell this poor kid? His mom has talked to the school, but they really haven't done much and it only seems to make it worse. I feel like beating up some high school kids...

darthtater

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how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 10/25/2005 3:05:23 PM
-=- come on the best way is to buy her a new diamond ring lol it always works -=- Your better off buying her the Wonder Stick 2000...

darthtater

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how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 10/25/2005 2:45:48 PM
Of course she was an epileptic. They have the best orgasms. Feed that ego BABY!

darthtater

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how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 10/25/2005 10:10:08 AM
Ok, after all the advice you have gotten from here and I'm not saying it's bad advice, but you need to go to her. Stop asking other people how to please her and ask her what would please her. We can tell you what we have done to please women in our lives, but everyone is different. -=- edit -=- I never said that I have given anyone an orgasm for 40 minutes, I said a women can have one for up to 40 minutes. My personal best is only 10 minutes. She still tells everyone that and she doesn't like me. So you do the math. Unless by telling her friends that I can give a female a orgasm for 10 minutes is a bad thing, well she's really getting back at me then... Now it's not something that can be done at the drop of a hat, everytime. You have to be into it, sometimes you want a quick one and sometimes you want more. Just depends on what you want...

darthtater

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how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 10/25/2005 9:41:39 AM
-=- The female orgasm is a myth like the clitoris. -=- Kind of like a guy who uses his brain?

darthtater

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Relationship Started on Here? Posted: 10/25/2005 9:39:50 AM
Yeah I know it can happen, I was just wondering if it has happened for anyone. I thought it would be nice to here some nice stories instead of all these broken heart tails. Just kinda needed some good over all the bad, is all. Thanks

darthtater

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how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 10/24/2005 11:22:43 PM
Ummm, please go back and re-read that or better yet I'll just re-type it, she can have an orgasm for up to 20-40 minutes. Meaning one that lasts that long. But it's ok, I can understand that you have never had this before so you just "assumed" that I ment it took that long for it to happen. Maybe it's you who should find a guy who knows what he's doing. I'm sorry, but there is few things I will "toot" my own horn on and this is one of them. Every ex that I've been with has said nothing but good things about it and if an ex can say that your good after a brake-up well I'll take that to the bank. Thank You! -=- edit -=- LoL, Sorry thought you were a woman. LoL, shouldn't put woman in your name if your not one. Da, Well! But that whole just rubbing the clit thing, well. It's not a toy man and you can rub it raw. See, so doing as I said hitting the G-Spot and using slow soft movements on the clit well that's how you get the long lasting orgasms and less of a chance of hurting her. Give it a try....

darthtater

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Relationship Started on Here? Posted: 10/24/2005 9:45:50 PM
Ok, I see this was a waste of a thread, this should be deleted. Oh well. No happy stories, but it makes sense why thou....

darthtater

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how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 10/24/2005 9:28:30 PM
I've been told it is.. And people say books are a bad thing. Plus work in a warehouse with all women around you and you tend to pick up a thing or two.

darthtater

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how do u give a girl an orgasm? Posted: 10/24/2005 9:18:57 PM
There will be a few signs, you should see at least a few of them before you can assume that she really had one. She will start to take short shallow breaths. Her eye's will be dilated. A small red rash will be on her neck, maybe one side or both sides. It will look like you took your beard and rubed it on her neck a few times. Her body will tense up relax, tense up and so on till it's done. If it's the first time or the first time in a long time, she may be rather vocal. But it will sound more like a shocked sound rather than a Oh baby... (That's about all I can think of right now, but I'll give ya a few tips that have always worked for me.) First make sure that you have cut your fingernails down and your hands are smooth, if you can't do that because of your job or whatever, use a glove and some lube. But here we go... First start off teasing, touch everything but her clit, after a few minutes, start to rub the clit but then go back to everything else around it. Remember, there's more to a women than just her ****, but once she's ready to go, start to rub her clit, nowplace your thumb on top of the clit so it doesn't move and take a finger and start to rub it, but do this as soft as you can. Remember a women's clit is the most senceitive thing on her body and it doesn't take much. After about 5-8 minutes of this she should be very wet, now take one or two fingers and slip them in about half way and point your fingers stright up till you feel a little ball. This will be the G-Spot. Now and this is kind of the easy part, but might take sometime. Just make the motion like your telling her to come here. Now if you can keep doing that while with your thumb or abother finger start to rub the clit you should give her an orgasim in about 10-20 minutes. Now remember unlike men, women can have an orgasim for around 20-40 minutes so, if you can keep the same speed in the same place you can keep it going for as long as you can take it. If you do it right, she won't know what to say afterwards. Now keep in mind that you have to be able to ask her if she likes what your doing and is comfortable, but don't do it every second. Read her body language. Now you can add things like licking her clit while doing this and it should make it feel better. Just make sure there's a lot of spit on your tomgue and DO IT SOFT AND SLOW, this isn't a race. But that's all up to you. I have always noticed that after that they've always had a small rash or red marks on their neck (no I didn't do anything to her neck). Well, that's something that has always worked for me and might work for you. Good luck...

darthtater

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Relationship Started on Here? Posted: 10/24/2005 6:01:56 PM
I was just wondering if anyone has really found "the one" on here or if they have only found "the one for right now" on here so far...

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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Women in their mid 30's that want kids scare me!!! Posted: 10/24/2005 5:53:41 PM
Is this what a Midlife Crisis looks like?

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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Signs of Absolute Approval on first meeting... Posted: 10/24/2005 4:11:35 PM
There are way to many signs to list, so I'll do ya one better. If you like reading go pick up "Reading People, How to understand people and predict their behavior- anytime, anyplace." By Jo-Ellan Dimitrius, Ph. D, and Mark Mazzarella. It has to be one of the best books on helping you read people. Also she give's a huge list of other books that will help you get better and learn more. I've spent many years reading about this. Or goto a half-price book store and look under self-help /dating or psychology.

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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BLIND SIDED Posted: 10/24/2005 2:21:09 PM
Hmmmm, this sure is a hard one. But I think I can sum it up in one quick yet painfull sentence. Uncle Lisa (wink wink) wanted to get Tom (wink wink) out of a relationship with someone who wasn't going anywhere. The rest I'm sure you can figure out. But hey man, you still have the leather Members Only jacket and checkered Vans shoes, so you'll be in good shape. If that don't work, well there's always ...

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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Kisses etc, then blah. Posted: 10/23/2005 7:57:17 PM
MAn, if you went out and thought you both had a good time, but now she isn't responding to you. Well odds are that she didn't feel it. There's a reason why she doesn't want to talk and most of the time it's because she doesn't want to be mean and say she doesn't like you. I'm not tring to be mean, it's happened to a lot of people. You just have to put this one in the lost bag and move on. I'm sure it's not the first time it's happened and we all know it's not going to be the last. It sucks but not everyone can be honest about how the feel or don't feel. Just remember you can't control how she feels but you can control how you feel. Good luck....

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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Im I the only one that feels like were in a meat market? Posted: 10/23/2005 7:48:28 PM
There isn't that big of a difference from this and real life. Your judged pretty much the same as if you were in a bar. In the bar your judged by what your wearing and your over all look. But one thing about online is that you have a chance to talk to some people that you wouldn't normally talk to. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't, just like real life. But as always your first judge on how you look, but your looks only get you so far. Then your personality will have to take you the rest of the way. Yeah you get to pick and choose on here, but is it that much different from say the bar? Not really. Only on here you have a lot more people you can talk to. So, embrace, takes some chances and see where it takes you. What's the worst that can happen? Your in the same spot you are right now? Now go get'em tiger!

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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scared Posted: 10/23/2005 7:37:36 PM
There's not really awhole lot you can do. But the more you show them your affraid, the more likely the are to keep this up. Now I wouldn't go and provoke them, but walk with your head high and if something happens, do the best that you can. I've grew in some bad places. The more the know they can push you around, the more your going to get. If you don't have anything to show the police, they aren't going to do anything but tell you to avoid them. So you just have to wait. But be smart, if you know they are going to be some where, then don't be there. If they do something, eather stand up for yourself or threaten them with calling the police. Don't get**** or act like a b*tch and after while it will blow over. It always does...

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

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Stringing along? Posted: 10/23/2005 11:21:12 AM
Well first I would say if your seeing a therapist, listen to whatever he/she has to say. They can give you better advice than anyone of us on here ever could, because they know you pretty well. Plus, this is their job and have been well educated in this. But here is my thoughts on it... Next time he calls you or you call him, be upfront and honest with him. Tell him how you feel and give him a chance to tell you how he feels. Just see where it goes from there. Worst comes to worst, you still don't have him, but you now know that for sure. I hope that helps in someway...

darthtater

Joined: 3/19/2005

Msg: 111 (view)

Should prostitution be legal? Posted: 10/22/2005 2:13:27 AM
Hey, some people can't get it any other way. I personally don't think it's right. and Your one sick puppy for having to go to one, but to each their own. And for those of you who say, Oh well when you take someone out your still paying for sex. Well I guess that's true if your going in with the intention of screwing her. I look at it like I'm spending my time and money on getting to know someone that I could start a relationship with, not just get my rocks off. If I need to do that, well a good porn and some lube will do the trick for half the cost. I guess it's all in how you look at things and the type of person you are. But you get what you ask for. Well in most cases. So to answer the question, no I don't think it should be legal. It's just not right in my mind. It's taking something that should have some kind of meaning and making it cheap and dirty.

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