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yrknightawaitsu

Joined: 6/23/2007

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What Ive discovered about the living at home issue Posted: 6/3/2009 8:45:41 PM
There are sometimes good reasons to live at home ( although I would rather peddle pencils on a street corner). But what I have found from the many I woman I have asked for fun, is that its ok that a woman lives at home with parents for any number of reasons.... BUT, if a MAN lives at home with his parents... WATCH OUT... HE'S A LOSER? Interesting.... no? I find similiar hypocrisies with incomes and other interesting subject matters non related to this particular forum. It's too bad really. Maybe this will change one day... maybe for our great grand children.

yrknightawaitsu

Joined: 6/23/2007

Msg: 72 (view)

Should we try to love someone unconditionally? Posted: 6/3/2009 8:36:13 PM
Unconditional love without a healthy dose of wisdom and intelligance is not love at all. It's blind foolishness.

yrknightawaitsu

Joined: 6/23/2007

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You are everything I ever wanted in a woman... Posted: 3/29/2009 7:21:49 AM
I have experienced the "yo yo" as well. RUN!!!! If I truly felt that I found a woman that was everything I ever wanted, I would be wooing, persuing, complimenting, loving, adoring, gifting, love letter writing, making her laugh and much much more.... until I got her. THEN...... I would step it up for life. Nuff said ( any takers?)

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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What about cats?!? Posted: 1/7/2009 10:40:11 AM
I hate animals..... uhmmmm.... just don't tell the princess in the picture with me that I said that because I will deny it. Kidding of course.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Do women mature faster than men? Posted: 10/30/2008 3:09:12 PM
I tend to think woman mature emotionally faster although I have see some really mentally handicapped behaviour while online dating. I believe many men don't mature in some area until their mid 30's. But that is a personal opinion. I believe it took a emotionally devestating divorce to begin my personal road to "emotional" maturity. I believe I am a better and stronger man as a result. Again, my personal opinion.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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i just can't reach orgasm :( Posted: 10/23/2008 9:26:59 AM
After reading the responses you seem to mostly be getting good advice. All I can say is the following: 1) Thinking about it taking so long is the "O" killer 2) Watching a erotic movie, softly touching throughout but NOT proceeding until you can't stand it 3) Yes the G but many men ( accroding to woman) put too much pressure on it. All you need is a gentle "come here" motion 4) Small clit? No problem... put oral suction on it to stimulate blood to engorge it... that with some creative tonguing and the G fun shoudl do the trick. Bottom like.... no drugs, not much alcohol or any other mind altering chemicals. One tlast thing.... STOP WORRYING ABOUT IT! It makes the problem worse. Good luck dear!

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Re: Most Wild Place You Had sex! Posted: 10/3/2008 7:43:05 PM
In the walk in freezer of a Stop n Go. Believe it or not, it wasn't even slightly cold.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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If your date was bad in bed the first time would you not see them again? Posted: 8/8/2008 9:14:20 AM
YIKE!!!! He didn't even try???? Kick + curb = kickemtothecurb I would certainly agree that if the first was not goo to give them a chance. But if the man/woman doesn't even try..... keeping in mind people are usually showing you their best side early in the relationship.... then this is truly a RED FLAG!!!

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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fighting Posted: 7/30/2008 7:55:20 AM
No man or woman deserves to be cursed at. It's demeaning and shows you are simpy trying to reach out and hurt them on a deeper level. Emotional abuse is definately gorunds for a break up. Tne again, why people feel the need to cuss at each other is beyond me Sometimes you have to agree... to disagree.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Looking for True love, But they are not ready. Posted: 7/30/2008 7:52:27 AM
There's a fear facture here. You find what you are looking for then look for the tiniest thing to make it not work. You fear getting hurt. Your kids getting hurt. But you know what? Let love happen. Take a chance. Don't let that someone special pass you by. Chances are not unlimited

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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distance problems Posted: 7/24/2008 9:21:51 AM
I am quite certain many people find love this way. But my experience is that long distance romances lend themselves to sad hearts and lonely beds. So I try to stay away from them. Key word is "Try".

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Would you ever get your partners name tattooed on you? Posted: 7/24/2008 9:19:06 AM
I met a woman last year that I "thought" I had a chance to like until this little tidbit came up. I was standing behind her in the kitchen kissing her neck when I saw some Japanese characters... later I found out it was the name of her X boy friend. Ok then, I suppose I can live with that... at least it wasn't English. But later that night I found she had another name tattoo'd on her ankle.... again in Japanese. Then she had another on her A$$ and another on her shoulder..... another on her belly. I kid you not. All in all she had 5 different men's names tattoo'd on her body in Japanese. So my opinion about names emblazened on the body had changed dramatically. ... and yes we were not together 24 hours later. Call it a hunch.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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why is it that in this day and age.... Posted: 6/20/2008 11:42:25 AM
Personally, I believe in the old fashion way of doing things slow. You know.... become the APLHA male and fight your way in and out of the pack.... pee on all the tree's and her door step to warn all others of your intentions. Bring her a token gift like a rabbit. Howl at the moon until she notices you. Then mate with her for life.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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woman sues airline for passenger shooting semen in her hair Posted: 5/9/2008 1:08:37 PM
Guys like that might be an accent in a world of terrorist. All he need do is blind them long enough for the other passengers to help out.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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One for the girls.... Oral sex after intercourse Posted: 5/8/2008 8:48:57 AM
If I could, I would send EVERY woman on this thread a dozen roses. Thanks for making my day.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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How can men stop having feelings so quickly? Posted: 5/2/2008 12:30:21 PM
If his feelings were real a argument whether big or small wouldn't change the way he feels. It sounds to me like he might "like" you alot, but not enough to have a true heart felt relationship and wants to use the arguements to distance himself. If your having sex, I would honestly say that he says he cares in order to get it, then falls back emotionally until he needs it again. It's an old song. Honestly, no woman or man should put up with a flaey attitude. There are plenty of guys in H town looking for you..... the real you . So give them a chance.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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emails on dating sites. Posted: 12/21/2007 11:48:26 AM
I find it difficult because woman get so darn many emails they can't keep up with them all... hence while I am waiting for one woman's response, she might be juggling dozens of them. Also, communicating for too long on an email always lends itself to misunderstandings eventually. I am all for a phone call.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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So You Have Fallen in Love With Someone That is Married...Now What? Posted: 12/21/2007 11:44:05 AM
I'm sorry but this is a silly question. Don't be a part of Adultery... period .... ever....evereverevereverever.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship. Posted: 11/26/2007 3:56:40 PM
I can't live without friendship, honesty and sex I can live with silly personal quirps, personal imperfections and making me put the toilet seat up.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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How to make a Great First Impression Posted: 11/21/2007 6:29:14 AM
Kudos pearlstar.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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This is why Sex Should Always Be In the Bed.. Posted: 11/15/2007 5:11:08 AM
I believe sex should only be in bed... uh... and the stairs... the kitchen table... the closet... my office desk... my bosses desk.... in a tree house.... in any house..... in any room... outside... inside.... way up high..... WAY HIGH!.... and and and.... Oh never mind.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Do You Judge People By How many People they Have Slept With?? Posted: 11/15/2007 5:05:47 AM
I don't judge a woman by how many men they slept with.... BUT..... if one was two days prior, another last week, a few last month. In other words her vagina is a swinging door. YUCK!!!!! Run away!!!!

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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I don't do separated... Posted: 11/15/2007 5:03:12 AM
It's tough when someone has been seperated for a long time and wnats to date again. But I look at the chances of something good coming from it like this. 33.3% They will be on the rebound and not ready for a real relationship 33.3% They will reconciliate with X and leave you in the dust 33.3% They are ligitimately ready, but the divorce just isn't final. To me, the chances are just not good that anything positive will come of it. I support your decision because it's risky. Even though I was in the seperated position long before and trying to date.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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fucked up Posted: 11/9/2007 1:35:24 PM
I'll say the same thing to you that I say to my kids when they aren't happy or don't get their way... aaawwwwoooogooomagoojuupoopoowoobemooobiecadoobie The fact remains that this world is full of craziness and heartless self serving people. The fact also remains that the world is full of good, kind, true hearted people. So start fishing.... throw back the boney trash fish and wait for the glorious mermaid. I will say that comments like yours are likely to chase any viable interested woman away, or in fishing terms farting in the water and scaring the fish away.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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I miss married sex, she said. Can you relate to that? Posted: 11/9/2007 8:49:05 AM
What I miss is mutually beneficial eye rolling toe curling Married sex. Reason number 3 why I am holding out for Lady Right. Nuff said.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Wierd attractions Posted: 11/9/2007 8:47:18 AM
Woman with Pick tails and little booty socks.... AAAAAAGH! ! ! ! ! ! By the way, I mean ADULT woman.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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at what age was sex the best? Posted: 11/7/2007 6:36:31 AM
For me it keeps getting better with each birthday. I feel stronger, more experimental, more patient, more lustful, more cuddley, more kissy face... more more more. I'm in trouble if it keeps getting better. I noticed it was getting better when I turned 40. LET'S ROCK! ! ! !

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Not sure if I made the right choice Posted: 11/7/2007 6:25:50 AM
You did make a mistake. You spent the weekend with him and I presume " he got his" and now he throughs the " I'm not certain what I want ". With respect, it sounds like you just got played. Any woman should spend more time at 1st and 2nd base before whacking a home run... which I am presuming happened after you spent a weekend together. I think you should walk and not play his game. I would not be suprised at all if he goes back to his girl friend. Sorry for the bad comments but this is what I think is happening.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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CAN MARRIAGE CHANGE A MAN FOR THE BETTER? Posted: 11/7/2007 6:18:45 AM
I am wondering why a person would marry anyone they wanted to "change". Aren't you both suppose to be accepting of each others quips and querps before the vows are exchanged? Other than that, I truly believe a more natural progression is people adapting to each other. Not necessarily changing.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Multi-Orgasmic women and Faking it Posted: 11/2/2007 6:21:47 AM
There is a difference between climaxing and the orgasm. Climazing ( or the mini orgasm) is like a roller coaster of highs and lows. The orgasm is the BIG boom. This " might " be the explanation. Either that or she is just super duper sensitive. One way or the other.... CONGRATS !! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Cutting off contact... Posted: 11/2/2007 6:16:06 AM
I suppose it depends on how he cut you off. Did he tell you it was over and explain? Or did he just stop suddenly without explaination.... If he offered you a break up speech, say your peace then get on with life. If he suddenly disappeared off the face of the planet, then just get on with life. I know it's never easy when you like someone, but realizing that the ocean is VAST is the first step to recovery. So go fishing like the rest of us.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Do men like it in the morning? Posted: 10/29/2007 8:05:13 AM
Please PLEASE wake me... wake me often.... wake me anytime... just wake me. I don't have a "pup tent" each morning for nothing.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Passionless Relationship Posted: 10/29/2007 8:02:24 AM
Passion is a two way street. It definately takes two. I would try my best to create new and improved ways to make it sizzle. But if she isn't trying at all, ultimately resentment results. Trying to get marital help is also a solution, but again it takes two. In short, if I give my all and get no help.... I believe I would ultimately end it. But that decision would not come quick. I was married 14 years of which the last several years were passionless. I gave it my all. Then I gave up. LIFE IS TOO SHORT! ! ! ! ! !

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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How does one heal? Posted: 10/23/2007 12:52:33 PM
I believe healing is a matter of choice. You must choose to go on inspite of the pain. It is much easier to sit and whallow in self pity or sadness than is is to fight your way out of depression. It could take months, sadly it could take years. But the alternative to fighting your way free is a life of sadness. Sometimes your so down that it drags others around you down as well, then they start to avoid you. You have to decide the time has come to take the long road to freedom and be prepared to do it alone. As for how you do it... all I can say is anyway you can. Long walks. Spa pamperings. Church. Health improvements. Volunteer work. So get started.....

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Orgasms during childbirth Posted: 10/23/2007 6:04:54 AM
I am usually not speechless... but...... hmmmmm..... well... uhmmm... errr..... ok then. I hope I could be of help.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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The Dumbest Dump Posted: 10/22/2007 6:39:43 AM
Because I didn't make enough money..... AAAAAARGGGG! ! !

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Ejaculation question.. Posted: 10/15/2007 1:45:52 PM
Boy oh boy, you won't find your dream girl with forums like this. Sounds like you kinda throw it around.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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7 months no kiss need help Posted: 10/15/2007 1:33:53 PM
I really hate to sound mean but I don't think she's YOUR girl friend. You may THINK she's yours but I'm not so sure about that. Ask her then find someone else who will pucker up.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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What do you consider a no no on the first date? Posted: 10/12/2007 11:21:44 AM
First date no no's... hmmmmmmmm 1) self absorbance ( ME ME ME ME ME) 2) self misrepresentation ( Michael Myers Jewish Lady lookalike) 3) Lack of eye contact ( Watching the waiter more than me amongst others) 4) Bad hygiene ( yes woman do this too) This is a good start.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Never e-mail drunk! Posted: 10/12/2007 11:14:44 AM
I have never emailed anyone drunk.... suffering from insomnia is another thing and that has a similiar affect. I just saw the following today and thought all my POF's friends would enjoy it.... THINGS THAT ARE DIFFICULT TO SAY WHEN YOU'RE DRUNK: 1. Innovative 2. Preliminary 3. Proliferation 4. Cinnamon THINGS THAT ARE VERY DIFFICULT TO SAY WHEN YOU'RE DRUNK: 1. Specificity 2. Anti-constitutionalistically 3. Passive-aggressive disorder 4. Transubstantiate THINGS THAT ARE DOWNRIGHT IMPOSSIBLE TO SAY WHEN YOU'RE DRUNK: 1. Thanks, but I don't want to have sex. 2. Nope, no more booze for me! 3. Sorry, but you're not really my type. 4. White Castle ? No thanks, I'm not hungry. 5. Good evening, officer. Isn't it lovely out tonight? 6. Oh, I couldn't! No one wants to hear me sing karaoke. 7. I'm not interested in fighting you. 8. Thank you, but I won't make any attempt to dance, I have no coordination. I'd hate to look like a fool! 9. Where is the nearest bathroom? I refuse to pee in this parking lot or on the side of the road. 10. I must be going home now as I have to work in the morning.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Just curious Posted: 10/12/2007 8:49:57 AM
I would not date someone with no sex drive. It is simply too important to me to have that connection. Sex is more than banging away.... it's intimacy in it's pefect form. To be inside and one with someone... breathing in their exhales and heart felt "I love you's". Now if someone you truly loved became "incapable" for some medical reason, that's different. But where there is a will, there's a way. But there has to be a will.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Third time is the charm? Posted: 10/12/2007 8:45:50 AM
RUN WILL ROBINSON RUN! ! ! ! It's not that I don't believe they are good people.... but the truth is many people always come back when efforts made elsewhere fail. Then the same old thing happens again. "Someone" hangs around until something better comes around. Sometimes you just have to walk away and leave it behind you. ... forever.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Would you know true love if you saw it? Posted: 10/11/2007 8:26:51 AM
All I know is once ( just once) I fell so hard for a woman during our first meeting that somehow I absolutely knew I had to have her. Yes, it was the dreaded love at first sight. I hope it never happens to me again. Major heart break down the road. Slower is better.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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jealousy Posted: 10/10/2007 7:37:28 AM
I have several thoughts about your "boy friend" comment, but I'll pass on it. I will say that it is completely normal to be a little jealous. I for one am only jealous when I have to be, which hopefully is rare.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Im still in love with my ex, but he doesn't feel the same! Posted: 10/10/2007 7:33:51 AM
Is there a chance you are a trifle co dependant? It sounds like this guy has tried to let you down and you keep coming at him. Usually when woman do this they are using all their "capabilities" to reel him in and it appears that will not happen. Sometimes you just have to walk away and let go, no matter how painful. Anyone who "dates" you yet creates a secret profile of POF is without a doubt using you until something better comes along. Aren't you worth more than this? I would like to think so. I agree with a previous writer. Erase all contact info. Block his profile(s) and phone numbers where he can't reach out to you NOR you can contact in a moments weakness. I you open your eyes, you'll see a huge line on men waiting for you to give them a nod. Maybe it's time to.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

Msg: 282 (view)

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 10/5/2007 2:46:35 PM
I would have to say DEAL BREAKER ! ! ! There is a reason why I can tie 2 knots into a cherry stem. I figure if she wouldn't reciprocate, she's prbably unwilling to do a lot of other fun things I like to do. Now come here baby and give me a wet kiss......

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Have you ever tasted male ejaculate? Posted: 10/5/2007 11:42:33 AM
I am more than curious about some of these responses.... haven't any of you gone down on a woman after you had sex with her??????? If she wants more after her orgasm and you need time to recharge the batteries, it sounds like the thing to do to me, therefore you are tasting a bit of yourself. Some of you may think I'm weird but in my eyes, I do just about anything to please my woman. NUFF SAID!!!

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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CONFUSED in Edmonton. HELP!!! Posted: 10/5/2007 11:38:51 AM
It sounds to me like her priorities are screwed up... that is if she was willing to let her "friends with benefits" interfere with her relationship with you. I recommend you let this one go because it sounds like she is highly likely to bounce back and forth. It doesn't sound like you trusted her much in the first place and that is no way to have a relationship.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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how far away is to far? Posted: 10/5/2007 9:34:42 AM
They say that love conquors all. I must admit that I try to keep them close. I am a full time Dad whose children do not see thier Mom, so time is prescious. I simply don't want to spend it travelling. However, who can explain the power of love and what people are willing to do to get it.

egmegalith

Joined: 6/23/2007

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Ultimate Guy Question Posted: 10/2/2007 8:12:06 AM
Jeez, hasn't this happened to every guy at one time or another? I say just be honest... things like this happen from time to time. Trust me, there are many ways to help finish the woman off and I for one would explore them all. Patience is a very important factor. Try to laugh it off and go for seconds, thirds and fourths.

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