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Philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

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Is it reasonable to expect that a man and woman in a relationship ought to have the same sex drive? Posted: 9/1/2007 8:35:30 AM
I wish you lived in my area Vanilla Bubbles. I find it hard to conceive that a man would be scared away by a woman with a high libido.

Philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

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Ever have a crush on a cartoon? Posted: 8/29/2007 9:15:25 AM
I was so in love with Daphne from Scooby Doo when I was only five. To this day, I still have a thing for red heads.

Philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

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to needy? Posted: 8/17/2007 10:30:22 PM
He soooo wants you to put the lotion in the basket. Tears came to my eyes with this one. Thank you.

Philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

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Maybe I should pretend i like sports? Posted: 7/4/2007 10:33:31 PM
I think some people fail to understand the OP. Yes, it does matter if a woman has nice hair as opposed to being bald. That's not the point. He is claiming that attractiveness must be present for the observing male. The OP is stating that the specifics don't matter. Hair style is part of the face as far as judging beauty. However, it doesn't matter what color her hair is. The specifics do not matter. I agree 100% with the OP. Attractiveness needs to be there, but a $1,000 pair of shoes is irrelevant. Red fingernails or un=polished nails are irrelevent. Etc. Etc. Savvy?

Philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 142 (view)

Would you date someone knowing they had at some point in there life been a prostitute? Posted: 7/4/2007 9:24:06 PM
I'll date you...lol

Philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

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What do I have to do to get you to care? Posted: 7/3/2007 8:15:05 AM
I never put much stock into peoples dating advice and books on the subject. The bottom line is that it depends on the man. Unfortunately, most people don't care for others. That includes both genders. All I know is that if someone treated me like they didn't care for me, I wouldn't stick around.

Philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

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Adding as a Favorite Posted: 7/2/2007 11:58:40 PM
I just use it as a bookmark. I will eventually send a message. If there is nothing, I'll eventually delete it. However, it would be nice to get a response from just favoriting someone.

Philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

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Enlighten me, if you would be so kind Posted: 7/2/2007 11:19:31 PM
Misticspear is correct.

Philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 147 (view)

Why do women look down on men.... Posted: 7/2/2007 7:36:57 PM
wpg chick 84: OK, what about WWI, WWII, or Vietnam veterans that may have paid for it during wartime?

Philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

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When does a guy become an old man? Posted: 7/2/2007 7:30:01 PM
Well, I had a 22-year-old tell me I'm an old man, and I'm 27.

Philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 57 (view)

Guys' Preferred First Contact Rejection Method? Posted: 7/2/2007 3:24:24 PM
I think it's sad how basic courtesy has disappeared, especially online. Just because I'm typing to monitor, doesn't mean that there isn't a real person on the other end. If someone takes the time to send me a message, I will respond. I'd much prefer someone to tell me that I'm ugly and a loser than to simply ignore my message entirely. Come on people, just because we're online doesn't mean we can't have manners. Now, if someone sends a nasty email in response, then that is unacceptable too. I basically appreciate the maturity and basic, human consideration of a rejection email as opposed to being ignored.

Philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

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Enlighten me, if you would be so kind Posted: 7/2/2007 12:27:40 PM
I agree completely. It's nice to have something to read, just for the sake of being able to start a conversation. I guess I'll just start sending messages that say "You're cute. Wanna f***?" But supposedly, that's not what most women here are looking for. Supposedly...

Philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 449 (view)

can you trust some one once they cheat? Posted: 6/30/2007 7:33:32 PM
Diamond Seeker is very wise.

philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 169 (view)

boobs Posted: 6/28/2007 3:34:30 PM
I have no problem with small boobs. I prefer the smaller, perkier ones to be honest. If they are huge, I'm not really impressed. Ultimately, I don't care so long as the woman is attractive.

philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

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Do women like men who like Feet? Posted: 6/28/2007 3:32:33 PM
Feet are a major stress point in the body. It is good to give feet some loving, in addition to the rest of a woman's body. Mostly this involves massaging, but I've used my mouth before to stimulate the feet. So long as they are fresh and clean. However, I don't really have a foot fetish. I have an oral fixation.

philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

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Hollywood Director'll rate your profile... Posted: 6/28/2007 1:32:07 PM
Hey, thanks a lot for your very thorough response. I edited both my profile and added a new pic. It isn't fantastic, but I did it myself with my cell phone. All the smiling ones looked cheesy, so I went for intensity. I don't know, is it at least an improvement? Should I utterly delete the other one where I'm standing on my deck? Oh yes, the missle photo is awesome. It was worth a tour in Iraq just to have such a photo in my posession. Thanks again. Phil

philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 252 (view)

I'll review and be honest Posted: 6/28/2007 11:37:09 AM
I'd certainly appreciate a profile review.

philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 82 (view)

Ask and Englishman to review your profile, be warned I never pull the punches and I am 100% honest Posted: 6/28/2007 7:42:18 AM
First, thanks for your military support. I'll heed your advice about not openly displaying my conservatism. It seems to me that women tend to lean toward the left anyway. It's a shame that I have to hide my political views as though I have some kind of incurable venereal disease though. Oh well, I'll reveal my "dark" secret when the time is right. Thanks again.

philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 80 (view)

Ask and Englishman to review your profile, be warned I never pull the punches and I am 100% honest Posted: 6/28/2007 6:26:40 AM
I love brutal, direct, and efficient ruthlessness. Review please.

philhelm

Joined: 6/25/2007

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New to this online thing...review please. Posted: 6/28/2007 6:13:41 AM
I suppose my review needs to be tweeked a bit, or maybe a lot. It's hard to talk to my computer monitor in effect, although my monitor is damn sexy. What should I say? If you're a female, what questions would you have for me that should be included in my profile?

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