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davenportkc

Joined: 3/20/2005

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Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 3/18/2006 2:43:34 AM
Kitty, I am sorry but if he made you sleep in the car. There is something wrong with him. You are supost to be the one he loves? I know it is hard, but it doesn't even sound like you two talk. Hun, you can not have a relationship without communication, Respect for each other. Love is a hard game to play, so many people have different ideas how it should work. So many think that you need to control each other.WHY I mean think about it, you control your dog, your cat but a partner in love? So many times I see people get the upperhand in a relationship, and are joyfull. That is thier goal to get something to hold aginst the other? Instead of finding good things whitch are happening, that you can celabrate with them, that you can praise them for thier accomplishment. Don't get me wrong, it is not easy, it is not easy to give and recieve compliments or praise. But just think how much better the love would be if you had that. Instead of holding things over the other ones head, thinking in thier Kindergrton ways to be the way it is suppost to be. To hold favors to obtain a footing, if you do this, hey you get this.Sorry, if that is the way you see life, love you have alot to learn try by understanding one another, be there for them not planning a war, and useing this or that stratigy Humans, we are a rough breed, but we do have it in us to make an effort to be better people in our relationships.

davenportkc

Joined: 3/20/2005

Msg: 194 (view)

Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 3/18/2006 2:21:32 AM
Sorry honey, it is not that cut and dry. The message I just read has some merrit, but at the same time you can never group people into catagories. We are as different as the flowers in the park, as different as the stars. How can you say all of one sex is the same at that age? That is so redicous, every person, man or female are unique. That is something that has to be rembered. Granted that there may be a higher ratio respect and deeper feelings as the male ages. but there are so many that grow up with that respect, the honor that has been instowed into them during thier childhood. To say all are just Lusting at that age or any grouping is so foolish. Do not get me wrong, there are plenty of men out there that are like that, wow there are just as many women in the same catagory. If you are to do that game he stated above, just think. He would be frustrated from the start, because she is useing that as a wepon against the one she is suppost to love. By his saying, men do the same and it is all kinda control. Wake up people, Love is not control, love is communication, love is shareing and HOPEFULLY the joy of just being there together.Life doesn't have to be control, I have seen that idea for alog time, and for along time I have seen couples just tear them self apart and why? because they couldn't talk, why they where to busy trying to control, which leaves no time for communication, no time for LOVE!!!!!!! Listen, Talk, Hold, but of all be forgiving, we all make mistakes, but that love word is pretty strong, the feeling is so much stronger. IT IS A PARTNERSHIP, there is no partnership in the world that will work with out compermise. No Age, No Time, And deffinatly not the full male or Female idenity come on.In short, unfortunatly you have been looking in the wrong spots, they are there just keep trying you will find it. Male or female we all have that search, but to find it is worth more then any gold mine, or oil feild. It is true, lord enjoy it because there is nothing better. Good Luck

davenportkc

Joined: 3/20/2005

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A Davenport get together sounds good, Need to get it out past here though. Posted: 6/10/2005 9:58:47 PM
Yes I agree that there is plenty in the area to have quite an nice gathering. I do not think that many actually look in here, So the question is how to get it out to the genral public on this page. Hey any ideas would certainly help to get this rolling, that is if there is any interest. I does sound like fun, lets try it worse thing noone shows and we get stuck with all the BOOZE :-P

davenportkc

Joined: 3/20/2005

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Iowa forum rules Posted: 4/14/2005 4:52:38 AM
As I recall there is a nice Italian place downtown called Babes. It has been awhile but was very nice then.

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