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a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 29 (view)

Plentyoffish Paid Virtual Gifts. Posted: 11/27/2008 4:10:49 PM
You get to pay real money to send a picture of a flower. Now that is real marketing. I know some Eskimos who could really need some snow in winter. Let me look around, I must have a bucket of prop wash to sell. In case my sarcasm has missed the mark, I don't think it's a good idea.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

what is taking it slow? Posted: 9/11/2008 6:53:15 AM
You need to communicate with him. I have woman say they want to take it slow and to them it means not having sex until the second date. Other woman mean taking it slow want to talk to you for weeks or months before meeting. It is an internal clock individual to each person. It usually means the person wants to be comfortable with you before going on to the next step. Or they want to be sure you are not a bunny boiler before they actually date you. You need to communicate to so you know what it means to him. Happy fishing

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

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I keep being dumped for other women Posted: 9/6/2008 4:56:29 AM
You are only 20. At 20 life is just getting started, both sexes are just in the discovery phase of life and dating. Don't take it that personal. Go out and have a good time. Meet new people. You will find the one that is for you.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 127 (view)

Married but looking .. a dilemma Posted: 9/6/2008 1:48:44 AM
There are a least a couple 1000+ people on here in the same situation. I continue to look even though I often get a nasty self righteous reply. Each to their own. Happy fishing everyone.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

Who likes coffee for a frist date?? Posted: 8/28/2008 8:26:45 AM
It's not a date, it's a first meeting. I have met about a dozen women from starting online. Only twice have we gone on to a dinner date. Only once have I gone on to a second real date. I am glad I did not have to spend a full evening with some of those woman. We had no chemistry at all. Email is nothing like real life. "Save the 7 course meals for someone you really want to be with." says it all.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 136 (view)

Did I overreact? Posted: 8/26/2008 4:55:04 AM
Yes, you over reacted, was it funny, only on TV. The solid stuff like lipstick hit the ground going around 100+ MPH. Not getting into the physics, but close enough estimate. If it hit something at that speed, that was breakable, it broke. Lucky you didn't kill someone. It is also a violation of FAR 91.15. You would have had a problem if someone like your ex had filed a complaint with the FAA.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

please bring me up to 20th century dating? Posted: 8/24/2008 9:21:42 AM
jerseychic you attractive, and your profile has an edge. Your posting and your profile don't give me the same impression. That may be why you are attracting men with what you perceive have the wrong attitude. I am the the type who would be more interested in the woman portrayed in your profile than your posting. Not that there is anything wrong with either but your profile seems more adventurous, and confident than your posting. In the real world not many woman can pull off the biker bar to little black dress. The ones I have known seen to have a more open attitude than you seem to have in your post. Just my grain of salt. Welcome to meeting people on the internet.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 44 (view)

Job Industries NOT in recession Posted: 8/16/2008 7:47:07 AM
Most RNs in Massachustts are making between $62,173 to $74,895 that is the 50 percentile going rate. 25% are making more and 25% are making less the bottom is 56K and the top is over 100K. Top nursing pay is CRNAs almost all are making over $100K.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

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How long do you keep trying? Posted: 8/16/2008 6:05:23 AM
He sound like an a$$hole to me . People who abandon people when the going get tough are the ones to get rid of. Life has it's ups and downs. The people that are only around for the ups are leaches. Move on you can do much better.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 9 (view)

Im taking a good look at myself! Posted: 7/5/2008 8:57:15 AM
A lot of people on here are "rude, crude and socially unacceptable" and would get their face slapped or tossed by the bouncer at lots of places. They can't get slapped across the net, so some forget their manners (if they had any to begin with). Don't take it to heart. They were A$$es before they started talking to you and nothing has changed. Happy fishing.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 572 (view)

Favorites List????? Posted: 5/30/2008 4:40:58 AM
It's the ones that put you on their favorite lists and will not respond even if you write them that really puzzles me. Let's see, I am your favorite and you will not even communicate with me by email. I always wonder if they will talk to anyone if they won't talk to their favorites.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

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date other asians or american? Posted: 5/5/2008 3:42:11 AM
If you were born here and you speak English you are an American. This hyphenated stuff is one of the major problems in America. You are not an Asian-American, you are not an American-Asian. You are an American and at some point your ancestors came from somewhere else. A hint, a some point everyones ancestors came from someplace else. Even if it was 300,000 years ago. Hope this helps.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

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Wants to date my daugher....WTF Posted: 5/1/2008 5:01:31 PM
It always makes me uncomfortable when people post their children's pictures on a dating site on the net. There are a lot of creeps on the net and it is just not a good idea. But each to their own.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 38 (view)

Remember when you were a man???? Posted: 4/27/2008 10:35:03 AM
Honey I still am. I hold doors open, I drive, I would pick you up, drive you home, (no matter how the date went). I like my bourbon over ice and my beer cold. I could go on but I hope you get the point. There are lots of us left, You just have to look. If it sounds like a metrosexual just delete and move on. There are plenty of guys left that don't sing soprano and still have a pair. There are lots of woman that prefer more girlie men. Each to their own. Happy fishing

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

Broke it off after 7 wks coz I wouldn't let him live with me! Posted: 4/27/2008 5:46:13 AM
Kick his ass to the curb unless you are planning to run a boarding house. He is looking for a place to live rent free. Let him move on the sooner the better.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

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age old question.... can women ask men to date? Posted: 4/25/2008 4:55:48 AM
Yes, when asked out I usually say yes. You just never know how things will turn out. Every shot not taken is a shot missed.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 127 (view)

Impatient To Meet? Posted: 4/24/2008 5:53:10 PM
I am impatient to meet. I like real people with real interactions. The keyboard is not a meeting, date, not a relationship, just a bunch of words on a screen. No tone, inflection, facial expressions, body language. Some women here are window shopping (that is a quote), never intend to meet anyone. I just like to meet real people in real places. Just my preference. I don't mind a few conversations, but it's not real. Women I thought would be a perfect match in person were no match at all. One I thought would not be a match worked out well. It's not anything close to being in person.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

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DATE FROM THE 7th Circle of H*LL Posted: 4/23/2008 9:54:26 AM
Lot's of good, bad and nuts people here. Just have to throw back the junk fish and keep fishing. Good luck and happy fishing.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 75 (view)

Parents giving sex talk and im 24. Posted: 4/22/2008 5:40:09 AM
1. Guess what, your 24 living at home, They know who will have to support the child BECAUSE YOU CAN'T. Maybe they don't want two more mouths to feed (as in mother and baby). 2. You will always be their child, they will always give advice especially when they are sure you need it. 3. If you don't like it, go out get a job and pay for your own life style. Lots of people go to school, have jobs and pay their way. 4. "When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years." - Mark Twain

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

Firearms and Dating Posted: 4/8/2008 4:52:31 PM
Since your a Texan, The Texax stats on permit holders. Google is your friend. # Licensees were 5.7 times less likely to be arrested for violent offenses than the general public - 127 per 100,000 population versus 730 per 100,000. # Licensees were 14 times less likely to be arrested for nonviolent offenses than the general public - 386 per 100,000 population versus 5,212 per 100,000. # Further, the general public is 1.4 times more likely to be arrested for murder than licensees, and no licensee had been arrested for negligent manslaughter. You can relax less than 2% carry in Texas. So only about 1% of Texans men carry. Some Licensees are women. You chance of meeting someone who carries is about 1 in 100.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 51 (view)

Men Who've Passed Their Expiration Date Posted: 4/6/2008 8:00:54 AM
Expiration Date, WTF??? I am just hitting stride hitting 50. I have just hit middle age. I intend to live to at least 100. I am having a blast. Anything is possible if you put your mind to it Each to there own. I am not getting older, I am getting better. I do not want to have any more children, If I did it would be a problem.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

Bush attempt to halt execution of child rapist/murderer! Posted: 4/6/2008 7:48:46 AM
International law is a bit on the complicated side and trying to explain it to those who don't understand the basics is not worth the trouble. Either you did not understand what the DOJ attempted to do or you are just a political jack*ss. Ether way if you don't understand a subject you should just leave it to people that do. What you wrote has not resemblance to what was going on.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 24 (view)

If you came across married people on this site, how did you find out Posted: 4/6/2008 7:34:06 AM
If I have to explain, you wouldn't understand. For those who understand it no explanation is necessary.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 57 (view)

Am I to insensitive? Posted: 3/31/2008 4:40:09 AM
We are all here looking for a good match. Just because he is willing to fix your plumbing doesn't make him a good match for you. You too have different attitudes to physical and emotional needs. Deposit gently to the curb and keep looking. PS. I agree with Naughtical, putting kids on an adult dating site makes my skin crawl. Some of us have seen the underbelly of society and it is not so nice. But is a whole different issue.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

Do men react negatively when women make the first approach? Posted: 3/29/2008 7:07:06 AM
I like it if they approach me. It shows an interest. Much better than sending out and email and wonder if it will be answered.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 29 (view)

Is the true battle in this election religion (Hagee vs. Wright) Posted: 3/20/2008 4:10:15 AM
it's not about religion. It about left, far left and right politics. HAS ANY OF YOU LOOKED AT THE OBAMA VOTING RECORD. HE HAS THE MOST LIBERAL VOTING RECORD IN THE SENATE. If you want a socialist welfare state vote for Obama and we can join the European welfare states that are drowning in their own mess. Hillary is to the right of Obama which is scary in itself. Hillary is to the left of most of the Senate and want to expand the government to twice it's size. If you want to be poor and have the government take care of you vote for one of these two. Because the only way to pay for their programs it to take most of your money and have the government spend it for you. The reason we don't have one income families anymore is the real tax rate it over 50%. The government takes most of our income before we get to spend it. Not that McCane is much better, but he is much better than those two.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 37 (view)

To go or not to go? Posted: 3/19/2008 8:23:39 AM
With friends like that you don't need enemies. Go out someplace else and have a good time. If it bothers you don't go, but in 6 months you may have a different attitude. Good luck fishing. If you have a new fish by then you may not care at all Bring your new fish to the party.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 97 (view)

if the guy asks you out on a date,, who should pay? Would you date him again if he asked you to pay? Posted: 3/18/2008 6:08:45 AM
What NoNoBadDog said. If I ask a woman out I pay. Just the way I have always done things. But some women still think I drag my knuckles anyway. If a woman wants to jump up and down and insist she pick up the check or her part of it, it's OK with me. It just a dinner check not a milestone in sexual politics. Picking up my dinner check does not mean I will sleep with you. That seems to be a preoccupation here. On a slightly more serious note some woman don't have the ability to pay their share especially if they are being asked out several times a week. If they are concerned they should have the discussion before they meet so there is no surprises. Money discussions are awkward before a first date but is sure beats surprises.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 55 (view)

The Pres OK's Torture Posted: 3/9/2008 8:37:18 AM
The bomb is planted, it will go off in two hours. Let ask him nicely to tell us where it is. Oh its in the car in front of your house and your family is inside. He just sat their and ignored us, too bad, we had to ask nicely. You house is now matchsticks on the ground along with your family. Now what? Waterboarding is pretty benign. does n0 permanant damage. It just makes a person feels like he is drowning. Scares the crap out of most people.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 43 (view)

Trusting Your Intuition on the First Encounter Posted: 3/9/2008 5:46:33 AM
Always trust your gut. I think you did things right. You were polite, she said said she wanted the gear anyway. You did her a favor getting her a discount. You canceled the date AHEAD of time. She wasn't sitting waiting for you to show up for a date. Time for both of you to move on. Happy fishing.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

Yes... Another cheating thread... Can you forgive me for posting it? Posted: 3/8/2008 2:44:55 PM
Eros was the Greek god of lust, sex and love. He was also a god of fertility.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 53 (view)

Do married men ,women have a shot on this site? Posted: 3/8/2008 2:26:02 PM
Some woman here are a lot of fun, others are self righteous and bombastic. I am upfront that I am married, some people care, some don't. I don't judge other people and their life choice and I don't care what you think of mine. Just a polite not interested in married men is all it takes for me not to message you again. I am having a blast, here and out in the real world. So to answer the question asked, do married people have a shot I can't answer for all, my fishing has been pretty good. Happy fishing everyone.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 104 (view)

Impatient To Meet? Posted: 3/4/2008 11:56:24 AM
Internet chatting is not meeting, not a date, not much more than a note left on the wall. You have no idea who is really typing on the other end. It could be a wonderful woman or a 15 year old teenager having "fun". I like woman real and in person. The rest is just make believe.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 29 (view)

How to be there for him? Posted: 2/2/2008 6:52:15 AM
This was my life 10 years ago. On one level there is nothing you can do. You are not causing the problems and nothing you can do can make them go away. Just be available when he wants you, listen to him, talk to him, try not to add your problems to his. He is most likely maxed out in the stress department. These problem take most of his energy. Just do your best and go with the flow. This will not last forever, it just feels like it to both of you. My world was not the same after it was over. My guess his will not be either. Just ride it out like a boat in a storm and hope it doesn't sink the relationship.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 65 (view)

Still Has Posted: 1/25/2008 4:21:56 PM
He is still fishing the pond. 1. She can either wait until he has put his pole away and hope he doesn't find a fish he like better. 2. She can keep seeing him and start fishing for a better fish herself. 3. She can throw him back and keep fishing. If he comes back to the bait again it's up to her of she want to keep him of throw him back for good. Happy fishing everyone.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

Do you care about finances when dating? Posted: 1/25/2008 1:49:30 AM
simple answer NO

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 41 (view)

ok, here's the question........ Posted: 1/23/2008 8:55:36 AM
If you offered to pay, you offered to pay. If you thought it was quid pro quo, you were wrong. Pay and shut up. I always find it amazing and amusing that people think they bought something other than a meal when they pick up a check. You bought a kid a meal, so what. My question is, if she slept with you for your $45 meal, what would have thought of her?

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

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personality test and personality test searches Posted: 1/23/2008 8:16:08 AM
I have taken the personality test and click on "NEW View Matches Based On Personality!" it shows 20+ people some with 95-99% compatibility close by. When I use the "Personality Search" feature to search feature of what is supposed to be my presonality compatible profiles it shows no one listed withing 200 Miles. I am an ENTJ looking for INTP, ISTP if that matters. Could you explain how the two searches are different?

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

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Do I contact him or wait? Posted: 1/23/2008 7:30:23 AM
Kick his butt to the curb. You did nothing wrong that needs forgiving. He is angry that he was not the only focus of attention in your life. He is not worthy of your attention or anyone else's for that matter. Happy fishing

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 83 (view)

First contact... how many times do you attempt contact before giving up? Posted: 1/19/2008 6:23:02 AM
I usually do twice spaced a good time apart. I have been told by many people the IM from here doesn't work on their end. I figure if twice, if they don't answer they are not interested. Once I might have hit at a bad or busy time. Any woman who sends me a message gets an answer. I think that is just being polite.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 42 (view)

Are women over-inundated with expressions of interest? Posted: 1/8/2008 4:22:35 PM
When you put Age between 19 and 99 you will get all the young/old men looking for a young F***. It gives the impression that the old men may have a chance. If you are the brightest in the crayon box you should be able to figure what is causing the deluge. I am more into sophisticated woman, than girls young enough to be my daughter, but thats just me. You get what you advertise for. Happy fishing all

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

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One dimensional personalities/not alot of fun/Supermom Posted: 1/7/2008 9:38:41 AM
The transition is hard and not quick. For the last 2 decades I was a father FIRST. My first job was to take care of my son. He is now off to college. I have time for myself. Now to fill the over 40 hours of time a week I have now free for myself. I am a little old for some of my old pursuits. I am looking to find new ones. And hopefully an exiting woman to do them with.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 103 (view)

Internet dating = The 'backwards' method? Posted: 1/7/2008 5:23:38 AM
First I am a "smart peeple" who can't spell, but I do have a spell checker loaded. I can't type either, so I am double challenged, love me anyway!? I don't thing internet dating is backwards, it just removes several of the initial steps of courtship. Internet dating has a couple of advantages, it widens the people you can come in contact with. I regularly meet women with 150 mile for several locations I frequent. I would never get to meet any of these woman without the internet. "It saves the are you available?", from the meeting of random woman. If you are fishing you are broadcasting your available (even if your not). It also takes out the "do we have anything to talk about or in common" step. I couple of emails back and forth and if the conversation dies, I have saved the gas and help save the planet (that's a joke for the greenies). Last but not least it speeds up the "get lost" I have no interest with the (un)read deleted. I look at internet dating as a dating accelerator, so many woman and men looking for each other and so little time. Happy fishing everyone

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 94 (view)

Can Friends with Benefits turn into a Serious Relationship? Posted: 1/1/2008 10:38:16 AM
All relationships have to start somewhere. I prefer it starting as friends, then anything can happen. Yes friends with benefits can turn into more. It can also be a dead end. One thing I have seen with the woman on here is everything has a category. It may be that all the choices here are binary, off or on. You can't contact me if you are x or y or you did z. You can be a friend, lover, friend with benefits, girlfriend, mother, b*tch, playmate all at the same time. I agree if you are having fun stay on the ride. Life and relationships are what you make of them. If you know he wants one thing and you want another, I would be looking for something more fulfilling. The key in any relationship is communication. If you can't ask the important questions, it has a problem When it's not fun anymore, get off and start fishing again. Happy fishing to all

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

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wondering about bourbon Posted: 12/26/2007 11:41:35 AM
My first choice Markers Mark followed by Knob Creek. Third was Jack Daniels buy not since they watered it down years ago, I will have to try Woodford Reserve. Cheers

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 58 (view)

what's the best used car for your teen? Posted: 12/15/2007 1:57:15 PM
I just went the Crown Vic/Grand Marque route (same basic car different chrome) For the reasons listed above. It's a tank, if he totals it, he has a much better chance of walking away. If someone hits him, he has a much better chance of waking away. I would rather my child was safe than I worried about being eco friendly. Your priorities may be different. That's why they make so many cars.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

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If you came across married people on this site, how did you find out Posted: 12/6/2007 5:15:52 AM
I make it easy, it's in my profile. Some woman don't even read that part, so I usually put in the first line when I contact someone. I just don't need drama.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

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Compromise good or bad? Posted: 12/6/2007 4:44:10 AM
There isn't a person alive that it perfect. There may be someone that are perfect for you, but that is not the same things. Some people see the glass as half full, some see it as half empty. Some people notice that the glass is chipped. I see any glass with something in it as, something to drink. Some people just always see something is just not perfect and keep moving on. Happiness comes from inside. If you spend your life looking for the perfect woman, you will die alone. Only 1-2 percent of the population has red hair, (over 10% in Scotland). You have really, really limited your available woman. Good luck on your quest.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 93 (view)

what would u ask admin for if u could?
Posted: 11/23/2007 5:43:57 PM

A couple of "Does not want" drop downs in the advance search screen.

I waste lots of time looking at profiles that say, must not have xxx,

Must not be xxx, must not what ever.

I will talk to almost anyone.

If I don't fit their wants in their profiles description, I am wasting time and bandwidth.

Such as does not want smokers,
married,
children under 18,
emailed someone for sex,

A way to make it a two way query, what you are looking for and what they are NOT looking for.

PS great site.

Such as does not want smokers,
married,
children under 18,
emailed someone for sex,

That already exists, some in a slightly varied Form, on both the 'Mail Setting' and "Search" Ends.

In Searches, you cannot currently eliminate those who have sought Sex or those looking for Intimate Encounters. So far, its purely a Contact Restriction.

a12004h

Joined: 6/25/2007

Msg: 14 (view)

guys copping out for no reason. Posted: 11/20/2007 6:46:52 PM
I once dated a woman a long time ago that a friend of mine also dated. We had a conversation about her long after we had both stopped dating her. She pushed us both away, after a relationship got to a certain point. If your getting the same result from different men and the only thing constant is you, you may be doing something to all of them after a point in your relationships. Just a guess. There is always a reason you just need to figure it out.

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