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*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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report users/domain abuse - halfway house/addiction treatment center have access to dating sites. Posted: 6/1/2010 8:41:54 PM
Op,i know you mean well and all i can suggest is that you email Trappedonbayst or Cowboy direct. Im positive they'll do anything they can to help. Fingers crossed!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Sex on the day you meet? Posted: 5/31/2010 2:46:38 AM
Omfg...............you went to this guy's house and you'd never met him before? You're a bloody fool. Lucky he didnt chop you up into little pieces and bury you in his backyard. Seriously,get a clue and value your own well being,geesh...............

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Relationship & casual sex Posted: 5/30/2010 8:45:57 AM
Gawd,Op,he's in his early 40's and has NEVER been in a committed,monogamous relationship in his life. You've 'only' been with him 5/6 months? I think he's tried to lull you into a false sense of 'security' when all he's done is to clear his conscience BEFORE the event (him cheating). You're a mess already at what could happen with this guy-- bet you cant really really relax and feel secure. And who could blame you? Sounds like he wants you and whoever else comes along/catches his eye. Dump the bum. to you.

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Are we in a relationship? Posted: 5/26/2010 1:20:57 AM
Op,with respect,how are "WE" supposed to know....... LOL : ) Sounds like you're sharing a lotta "stuff" together which is great,but,really,you'll get your answer by asking HIM,not strangers on the Net. Ok? Good luck!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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and then he kissed me Posted: 5/24/2010 8:45:27 PM
He wants to hop into bed with you coz he's a total Loser stuck at home with some alcoholic floozy who doesn't work and he can see no future with her. He thinks that one passionate kiss is going to make you drop ya nickers....... There. How's that sound?

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Do you only chat with 1 person Posted: 5/24/2010 7:05:31 AM
"Apollo",you do realize that everyone can read your Posting History....?? You keep bangin' on about RESPECT when i found this little gem in your History: Thread about "Finding Someone with the Same Sex Drive". Do you know anyone who suffers daily? Have you ever watched a cancer patient suffer? From "Apollo". Yes one of my last relationships, my SO had terminal cancer and we always worked around it and found sexual things we could do until one day my SO decided to use her illness as a crutch to avoid doing anything for me that I wanted, she just wanted me to cater to her, so I left. What a respectable CHARMER you are..............

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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IM back ??? Please oh please bring back REMOVE username from MY MATCHES Posted: 5/22/2010 7:56:06 AM
ok so the first thing I'm going to do when I log into the mail portion of the site is turn that thing off.... thanks for the warning that it's back! Now I can turn it off and not have to be bothered with it at all.. Amen to that! I found it intrusive and 'twas a shining beacon to the demented on here. I cant understand why that's being brought back and other more "important" things(the New Page Formatting in the Forums) issues are being so thoroughly ignored??? Hmm.........maybe in time?

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Am I in a relationship? Posted: 5/20/2010 12:58:48 AM
Op,in my opinion,you are NOT in any sort of a "relationship" at all. HE'S SEEING YOU FOR THE SEX. He's not returning your emails,phoning you,taking you OUT anywhere.......... What's his interest in you --- the person--- apart from the sex you're having? Ppfftt......................:/ You've already become sexual with him,so,you cant "go back" and it appears that the buck stops there,so to speak as he's quite happy with the status quo. Tiz obvious you'd like it to PROGRESS but i cant see this happening with this lazy,selfish,apathetic guy.

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Am I dating a potential stalker? Posted: 5/19/2010 6:55:56 AM
This is a joke question,right? He searched the web (I later found out) for over 17 hours to try to find some kind of dirt on me Op,you're a grown woman of 32 years with a PhD/Post Doctoral..??????? (Did you find it in a cereal box coz you cant be that DUMB.) As for afraid of loosing me .......... Seriously,WTF? He's a NUTJOB. Wake up!!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Single sexuality - how to deal with lack of Posted: 5/18/2010 9:47:20 AM
e*musing,can you please give me a call sometime? Now,Op,you either have to pleasure yourself with the help of a vibe,literature,or whatever does it for you.......OR find a real,live breathing MAN. Naturally you'd like to hear bells and whistles coz you've found your Mr.Right,but the reality is he could be some time off and in the meantime,there's a veritable smorgasboard of other men out there.............while you're looking for The One.

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Friend has no desire to meet or hang out with girls Posted: 5/18/2010 9:28:04 AM
This has to be a troll post, definitely. Either that, or youngsters these days are getting thicker by the minute I agree with you,"Pit".............just a couple of days ago,there was a Thread from another troll about the SAME thing.Ie: some young guy obsessing about a mate's lack of a lovelife at the grand old age of 25 and wondering what was to become of him.... Ps. I wished I had had $4oo,ooo when i was 22!!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Is it fair to me Posted: 5/17/2010 12:53:25 AM
yes i was hoping to get laid by him on my birthday Omg,Op,and how would you have felt if you'd gotten laid by him and a week later,he met this new girl? You have to face facts that he's not romantically interested in you and p'raps you're company for him in between girlfriends. DONT BE. It's up to you.

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Dating Brothers Posted: 5/16/2010 5:24:15 AM
Op,the mere fact that you're asking this Q makes me think you have concerns about it. I,personally couldn't go down this road..................but,hey,that's just me. If you still have respectful thoughts towards your ex and the family ,leave the past in the past and don't pursue anything with the brother. I cant see a happy finale....................

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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I don't know what to do Posted: 5/16/2010 5:18:10 AM
Dude,you're just an average looking guy yourself and you're bangin' on about hotttt women............get real. You also talk about alcohol..........as though its the home base of your life. Get yaself out of the booze cesspool,get real and start with just your normal,average girl-next-door........if your ego will allow it.................

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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leg shaving - what seems to be the best disposable razor for womens legs? Posted: 5/15/2010 8:29:03 PM
Whoops................realized i hadnt helped any,Op,but twas late at night and i had a chardy in hand what can i say? Go for any of the women-only razors(more gentle)and DO use a good moisturizer afterwards. Dont forget to paint your nails!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Would the real you step forward. Posted: 5/15/2010 8:25:07 AM
In real life i'm much worse. at this and like your honesty! In real life,id say im a much nicer person than i sound in the Forums. I usually like to cut to the chase here and state my opinion bluntly. Whereas IRL,im much more sensitive and caring.........

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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leg shaving Posted: 5/15/2010 2:07:24 AM
Op,this topic is redundant and will probably get deleted. Did you do a Thread Search?? Here.................take a look............. http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts9443522.aspx It would be helpfull if you read this OP's actual question before replying or putting forth a suggestion that does not help.

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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forums page size Posted: 5/14/2010 5:48:23 AM
"Steelman",theres already three pages complaining about this in the POF Help/Suggestions Threads. Here...........take a gander.... http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts14026053.aspx

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Indecent Proposal Posted: 5/12/2010 10:43:01 PM
If she just wanted to get laid, she could've said that she's looking for intimate encounters. Op,hate to break it to ya but guys do this ALL the time. Not all guys of course,but a hellava lot of them. They put themselves in the "Relationship" or "Dating" category when in fact,they're just looking to get laid by as many women as they can and keep moving on to the next one -- go read the Forums some more. You've struck a female with the same M.O and i applaud you for turning her down flat. A lot of guys would've jumped at the chance and would've been hi-tailing it over there in 5 mins!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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work ethics- what is normal at the office? Posted: 5/12/2010 10:27:33 PM
This is an UBER clique-y office- Op,i think you'll find this exists in just about anywhere and everywhere in the work force,particularly in office environments. Ie: Either you're "in" or you're "out" ! Your face fits..................or,it doesnt! I used to work in offices and am so glad to be NOT working in those sorts of hothouse gossip-mongering places anymore As for your co-worker who came in with gastro.......eeww......i DO think it's pretty disgusting that she wasn't sent home when it was apparent she was unfit to work. Im home from work today myself with a vile cold. Think your only option is to find another job if it's affecting you so badly. Send out those resumes and good luck! Ps.Gawd,isnt this a pain having to scroll to the other side of the screen........Aargh!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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OK.. so i just CHOKE Posted: 5/12/2010 6:02:48 AM
Op,though i do know where you're coming from,good luck in trying to find a man who wants to take things s l o w l y and genuinely wants to get to know you as a Friend first..... Because,i really think "cdnfinanceman" is bang on when he says most men if they say "friends" it generally means friends with hopefully a little leg on the side or FWB. Of course,this doesn't seem right/fair/understandable but i think he's right.........shrug. Oh,and,Op, STOP "choking" over every little thing--go out,relax and enjoy!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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under the sink he had 8 (YES , eight) boxes of Fleet enemas Posted: 5/11/2010 10:31:25 PM
Yannow,Op,after reading these responses,i think i would not have been able to help myself and i would've feigned ignorance,taken one to show him and asked him straight out! Obviously,it's "something" to do with his bum! My curiosity,rightly or wrongly would've gotten the better of me and i would NOT have been able to keep quiet about it,shocking,i know..................

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Few weeks into dating and cancer diagnose Posted: 5/11/2010 1:24:03 AM
Op,that's so sad but i encourage you to stick by your friend in any way you can coz it sounds as though you've made a wonderful connection with him and he'll need your support even more now. That is unless he tells you otherwise but i say to continue seeing him and be there for him. Others may think differently but I couldnt turn my back on someone id come to care about. I really wish the best for BOTH of you. Sounds like its been caught early and there's lots of treatments available -- be positive! HUGS

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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dating few weeks, can't tell if he's into me? Posted: 5/9/2010 6:43:05 AM
Op,you're a 59 year old woman and a teacher (with a degree?) and you're seriously asking this Q ...........??? Coupled with.... he also said in his view that our sleeping together doesn't mean the relationship is instantly a serious relationship. Imo,you two are NOT on the same page and you should've discussed this BEFORE you slept with him.

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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How much contact after 1 date Posted: 5/8/2010 6:22:33 PM
Op,just do whatever you feel's appropriate,ie: a text here and there,but better still a phone call. Im sure you'll be able to gauge her interest by her responses,though im positive she'd love the follow-up attention if your first date went so well. Hope your second date goes wonderfully!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Is She Interested? Posted: 5/7/2010 8:28:55 PM
She ordered a salad, but didn't say that her food (legumes) was too heavy for her to pick up this time. Huh? Legumes could be "heavy" ??? Op,im really sorry that some of us have been laughing/sniggering at you. Ok I have been coz you're obviously totally smitten and infatuated with this girl. She must be drop dead gorgeous and her perceived problems seem to be adding to her allure in YOUR puppydog eyes. Just use the head on your shoulders to not be suckered in by this sweet,innocent cough splutter girl

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Finding a girl with the same sex drive? Posted: 5/6/2010 11:37:19 PM
i like to have sex a minimum of 20 times a week. Op,you count ?? Too funny.............. Make it an even "21" so it works out to be 3 times a day,ok? Seriously,do as "Shel" says,though how you're going to incorporate THAT into a general conversation,i do not know!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Is She Interested? Posted: 5/6/2010 7:22:42 AM
She couldn't pick up her food off the plate b/c it was too heavy (sushi) Sorry,Op,but im ANOTHER one that cant get past this. Its turned my mind to sushi......................... Its not even cute. Its ridiculous. And,she sounds a drama laden,ridiculous girl....

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Don't want to get my hopes up, provide realistic answers please Posted: 5/6/2010 7:11:25 AM
He is fascinated by your insight on Kierkegaard and the corresponding philosophical perspective on the pursuit of faith and its relationship to moral relativism in a post-apocalyptic world. Yep,"Sexist user" is bang on here,Op,so,nuttin' to do with wanting to get in ya pants again....

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Would FWB be attractive if you list it as your marital status on your dating profile? Posted: 5/5/2010 11:49:49 PM
Would you prefer that the FWB people state their true status on their dating profile or remain deceptive? Op,im sure the FWB-thing is well and truly alive with MANY people on here but i doubt whether many would want to be open and honest enough to actually declare this on their profile. Would you pursue someone with the status FWB on their dating profile? I,personally wouldn't be interested in anyone with this on their profile unless that was "ALL" i was looking for and it'd be no 'challenge' to find that!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Is she really busy or just doesnt wanna see me again? Posted: 5/5/2010 11:20:34 PM
Maybe she lied about herself like her looks and weight No...........Op went out with her a few times and even "made out",LOL!! Sorry this has happened to you,Op,but it does kinda sound as though she had someone else she was interested in going out with. Dont put all your eggs in the one basket. I really think you have to meet a variety of people til you meet the one that's just right for you. Good luck and keep

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Would you date someone who is not as emotionally strong as you? Posted: 5/5/2010 7:50:49 PM
Hi "Rarebird".............nah,not so much "silly games" but sometimes i can be single-minded and impatient and somewhat "evasive".......... Not used to having someone wonderful in my life after a few disillusioning years so,its been difficult to trust again. But,im revelling in being on an interesting journey with a very special man........sometimes i have to pinch myself.............

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Would you date someone who is not as emotionally strong as you? Posted: 5/5/2010 7:08:32 AM
Would you date someone who is not as emotionally strong as you? Not just "No", but HELL NO !! I need someone with a strong character and backbone. Someone who can stand up to me,if needed and who wont 'let' me get away with anything Yes - I have - many times. It's the reason why I'm still single, and the older I get, the harder it is to find a man that I admire. "Discerning Virtuosa" ,i know where you're coming from coz i felt the same. Think i have in my profile that i need a man i can respect and admire. I never thought id meet him,but i have. So,dont give up!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Middle age Wanderlust Posted: 5/4/2010 7:53:24 AM
has anyone had a deep desire to start over and wander as it were in their middle age? Op,i have no doubt you'll get a lot of support here from people who've done it,or dream about it,but I personally can think of nothing worse,LOL!! Im so happy in my life right now. I have stability,a gorgeous house (roof over my head)and im as happy as a pig in mud. If i felt unfullfilled or that i was "missing out" on something,i could identify more with where you're coming from. Follow your dreams,Op,before ya get too old :)

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Need quick advise Posted: 5/4/2010 7:39:55 AM
Op,who are you trying to fool? You've mentioned THREE times how sizzzzzzzzlin' HOT she is.............. But "they all just want a piece of her ass." you're different,eh? She's fresh out of a relationship,her life's full of drama/finance/family,but you're in the Dreaded Friends Zone. Bad luck,pal,

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Am I the only one turned off by technology? Posted: 5/4/2010 1:12:45 AM
Get used to it or go find yourself an 62 year old former pervert to date. You're not going to find a guy - a real guy - who doesn't dig the gadgets. Unless he's a fairy like homo in which case he wouldn't want you anyway. Is this response really necessary? Why are you so pissed off with this Q? shrug Op's got a valid pov,and,im with "Peppers" and "Deborah" in that im Wilma from The Flintstones,complete with the red(auburn)hair. Technology is fantastic but i take a looong time to catch up with it, My computer is still a bit of a mystery to me,but im a whizz at texting ;) I'll NEVER get a gps or a blackberry (is that a diary?) though. Simple things for a simple gal..........

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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why would a guy do this? Posted: 5/4/2010 12:36:31 AM
Gawd,id like to playfully slap some sense into ya.................. Leave him the hell alone,ok,coz ball's in his court and he's playin' you like a fiddle!!! If you've been friends for "ages",his attitude to you is appalling- the treat em' mean to keep em' keen mentality..... Ggrrr!!! You're a pretty girl who "sounds" intelligent,haha,so,get on with your life. Be busy. Hang out with your girlfriends,etc.........bla bla bla....geddit?

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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maneaters Posted: 5/4/2010 12:31:06 AM
Huh? So,you've labelled her a "maneater" coz she went and danced with someone else?? Was she your girlfriend? Were you dating her? Op,she's a flirt who loves dancing but you hoped be getting to hopefuly know her more ,but SHE wasn't feelin' it......

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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why would a guy do this? Posted: 5/4/2010 12:25:08 AM
Op,is this the same guy from your other Thread? If so,why are you persevering?????? He "owes" you nothing coz in his mind,you're "just" FWB. And,though i agree respect would be appreciated,if he's not showing you this,no matter what the status of your relationship,why are you hanging in there and hanging onto him? Ppfftt ! You could surely do better and besides,he doesnt sound relationship material. Least not with you. Fergeddabout him ! Sorry for my bluntness,

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Pesto Posted: 5/3/2010 11:26:52 PM
~§~ "K", cant believe i saw your Post the other day and in today's Herald-Sun,there's a Coriander Pesto recipe from Donna Hay! 2 cups fresh coriander leaves,coarsely chopped. 2 cloves garlic,finely chopped. 1/4 cup toasted cashew nuts. 1/3 cup finely grated parmesan. 1/2 cup lite olive oil or peanut oil. s&p And,NO chilli! Hope this helps.......

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Shave chest yes or no? Posted: 5/3/2010 7:24:53 PM
I'm from the dinosaur age. I like "natural" men. If you're hairy, be hairy. If not, not. But a man shaving his chest? Turns me off. Plus one. Nothin' worse than laying your head on a guy's chest and there's all this prickly,irritating stubble.........UGH. I LOVE hair on mens' chests.........................

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Is it too late to get together again? Posted: 5/3/2010 7:19:59 PM
Go to the "Ask a Girl" section of the forums and ask the women to give you advice on your actual profile write up. Bad advice -- DONT ask for profile advice in the "Ask a Girl" Threads. Go to "Profile Reviews",ok ? Op,sound like you're feeling dejected and so trying to 'return' to a previous girl,but she's NOT interested. Good luck,and.........SMILE!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Dating someone who smokes Cannabis every day Posted: 5/3/2010 7:09:03 PM
he smokes Cannabis every night with a friend of his and thinks it only fair to let me know before meeting him again. So,obviously he thinks this could present a problem to you. And,he's 34 and hasn't had a girlfriend in YEARS because of this habit(as you've said)??? And,he's not socializing or interacting with people in the workforce either coz he's self employed............hmm.................. I,personally would go ahead and meet up with him again but with NO expectations. Then again,"no drugs" is the ONLY restriction on my profile. Good luck,Op,in whatever you decide!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Whine, Whine, Whine... Posted: 5/3/2010 6:51:16 PM
Op,i think you were "blinded" to the other not-so-appealing aspects of this guy because of the great sex and sexual chemistry you had with him. So,be assured there ARE other men out there who are great lovers. You would've put up with just about anything for God knows how long coz of the strong sexual connection,but,in the end,that's NOT enough. Stay strong and keep busy.

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Will he cheat on me too? Posted: 5/1/2010 8:19:38 PM
He tells me every day that he loves me with all his heart and that I am the love of his life. bla,bla,bla..................... Op,he was probably telling his ex-girlfriend this every day for the 4 years they were together. He's a young 24 year old guy who's very attractive and he travels for work........ C'mon,you're a grown woman -- what does your gut instinct tell you? Get OUT now before you find he's been seeing another woman for the last few months. Karma's a biitch. Edit Op,doesnt matter how much great sex you have...he's MORALLY BANKRUPT. Ie: its in his nature to cheat no matter what.

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Again he has me confused Posted: 5/1/2010 7:24:39 AM
text that he just sent said sorry I'm just not feeling it. So there is my answer I guess. Talk about mixed signals last night Imo,no "mixed signals"...sorry to be blunt,Op,but sounds like you were good enough to f*ck (though it didnt happen this time coz he was too pissed)........but not good enough to DATE. You said it yourself..... But he won't ask me out although we have gone out and yes we have had sex. Be glad you werent emotionally invested in this guy. Choose more wisely next time............... G'Luck

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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Staying at Ex's for hols Posted: 4/30/2010 9:02:44 AM
AmI reading to much into this and that he just wants to help a mate out whilst their over or is there more to it. He's probably in a slump..................going through a dry spell......................and,thinks if he has you in his home it'll be easy peasy to get into your pants. Remember,Op,this is a guy who did the Disappearing Act on you coz he didn't want to commit. Sounds an all round total Loser to me, shrug,

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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It seems she is interested Posted: 4/29/2010 1:08:05 AM
Op,good luck on your date,but forget the flowers. Lovely thought but waay too over-the-top for a first date. Your sparkling conversation will suffice : ) Jmo,of course..........................

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Everything was great until.... Posted: 4/29/2010 12:02:13 AM
Yannow,Op,ive NEVER lived with anyone coz ive never wanted to and reading stuff in the Forums and observing and listening to things in Real Life (friends),im glad I haven't! But,hey,that's just ME. Though,undoubtedly,its great for some couples.............! It seems passion and romance go out the window when you shack up together plus the ole saying "familiarity breeds contempt"...... There's no "surprises" left......... "Sex-on-tap" gets pretty boring.......... You never REALLY know someone til you live with 'em......... No "me" time............. These are just a few of the reasons living with someone 24/7 hold no appeal to me whatsoever. So,whats been YOUR experience so far,Op? Maybe your partner is pissed that you havent changed your Profile to show "Not Single/Not Looking".............

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

Joined: 6/29/2007

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New format of my inbox on POF Posted: 4/28/2010 9:01:13 PM
Op,get with the program snap http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts13948247.aspx Up to 17 pages now! (Messages this short may not be posted,but just trying to help Op.)

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