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*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Sex is sex and we no longer need to give or receive affection? What has happened to our age group? Posted: 11/23/2009 4:50:21 AM
Op,i need affection MORE than i need sex.....and,thats really saying something........................!!!! Im a naturally affectionate person without 'being all over ' someone.....but,i absolutely love affection and it comes quite naturally to me........... In a past relationship when it was not reciprocated,i felt as though a part of me was dying inside because i wanted and needed affection so much. Not meaning to sound too over-the-top but i simply cant live without it...

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Doing it in the car/automobile - Do's, Don'ts, How to, etc. Posted: 11/23/2009 12:40:48 AM
I always wanted to die like my uncle Charlie, while receiving a blow job at the wheel. Not screaming like his passengers.... Clever to incorporate that joke into your Post,m church Not funny when your foot gets stuck in the glovebox and you cant get it out......

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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WTH was he thinking? Posted: 11/22/2009 3:58:24 PM
Op, very sorry about the loss of your son................................ Hope you weren't 'offended' by my query.....from your Thread,I thought you'd been here for 3 years and i was amazed if this was the first time ever some guy had tried this tactic to get back to your place ! Best to you..........

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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A Matter of Trust Posted: 11/22/2009 7:03:53 AM
and then to hold onto that for 2 years is beyond absurd. And,yet,YOU're doing the SAME thing -- posting about this incident 2 years later. I must be missing something................ My ex-girlfriend recently reminded me So......................you're still seeing/talking to her..?? Yeah.......lot more to this story,me thinks............

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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WTH was he thinking? Posted: 11/22/2009 5:54:47 AM
Op,this is just another variation on a theme......... The Forums are literally full of similar stories....... I noticed you've been here for nearly THREE YEARS...... So,is this the FIRST time you've experienced this sort of thing....?

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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met my 1st psycho ( might belong in the humor section)(Long read) Posted: 11/22/2009 4:17:25 AM
Op,i think YOU're the psycho for going out on date # three with her...... And,i dont understand the connection between heads in the fridge and being an atheist,either.....?? Maybe I ought to have another drink..........it might all make perfect sense then......

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Shake my tree Posted: 11/21/2009 5:08:37 PM
I think he's been looking for whatever he's wanting,hasn't found it,and,is hoping you're still available coz nothing's come of anything else............................. Used to happen to me a few times with various guys but if nothing eventuated with anyone i was interested in,I moved on.... I certainly didnt keep contacting them over and over every few months. Sort of reeks of 'desperation' to me....... "Sapphire"...you just havent met the right one for you,yet. Just dont be anyone's back up choice coz no one else has 'come through'.......

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Oprah show ending - Arrogant to the end. Posted: 11/20/2009 7:33:46 AM
Wow.......what a lot of Oprah haters on here................... Why is that......?? ...................weird............ Im in Australia and her show's on every afternoon,and while im not a HUGE fan,i wouldnt mind having a coffee and a chat with her.............

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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How to tell a woman to start paying for part of the date Posted: 11/20/2009 7:26:28 AM
she'll let you pick her up at her home, starting with the first date (after you have met once). NO. This is WRONG............imo. Just coz you've met someone ONCE doesnt give you the right to have their home address. A first meet is just that,ie: You're meeting a STRANGER for the first time !! She is a cereal dater... Is that the cereal with dates and nuts? Op,find someone else to date if this is such a problem for you!! Aah......so,if you were having SEX with her,would this still be a problem for you?

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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How are there so many people outside during the day? Posted: 11/20/2009 6:59:11 AM
maybe there is something wrong with you and you are hallucinating people doing what you really want to do. Maybe you need to see a doctor. I hope you are okay. I haven't worked 9-5 in over a decade and i wouldn't have it any other day. I work 4/5 evenings a week and get to sleep in EVERY day......bliss....plus,i have my days free. So,im one of those people you'd see out and about in the day!!.......

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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33 and tired of chasing @$$ Posted: 11/20/2009 6:37:39 AM
Op,stop telling us you're a Nice Guy........................ (Clue:- Read all the Nice Guy Threads.......) Telling girls they'll have to ask YOU out is not doing you any favours. But,doing DRUGS more than 3 times a week,coz you're bored and single is probably the biggest turn-off .....! Do yourself a favour and go to Profile Reviews ,ok....?

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Confused by my hormones - having sex with boyfriend for first time Posted: 11/19/2009 7:07:05 AM
try a man 35 or 40 Oh,paleeease................Op's NOT on here to find some old dude her father's age. She has a boyfriend and is interested in HIM!!!! It will happen,Op,when you're both relaxed and the time's right. No one can predict when. Edit.......Thanks,Silken.......!! I was going by what the Poster above you had said........should've known better....:)

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Should I hang in there Posted: 11/19/2009 5:24:19 AM
I think it's pretty pathetic he should spend his time on a dating site when he should be out there fighting and grabbing life by the throat. Sorry,Op..........................but,it appears he'd rather be on another dating site than continue seeing YOU................ YOU think he should be "fighting and grabbing life by the throat",whereas HIS choice is obviously Meeting,Dating and Whatever as many women as he can............ Sorry......but,thats how I see it...................

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Whats wrong with people Posted: 11/18/2009 7:16:59 PM
I have a fear of being alone..And I think I cant find anyone else... Its very honest that you've been able to admit this coz i think there's a hellava lotta people who are of the same mindset........you are NOT alone in this thinking! So they put up with all sorts of crap from their partner..................:( She's not the only woman in the entire Universe. Wishing you the best............................ Ps.Op,what IS that thing you're holding in your pics? A BIG fish ?????

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Obnoxious screennames Posted: 11/18/2009 7:03:43 PM
Aaw..............ive missed the argyle sweater.............i wanna see it.....stomps feet!! Op,there are some shocking Usernames on here but to each his/her own.....shrug But,from a female perspective p'raps the "Gangsta" bit's a bit of a turn-off........... Actually,the "Gorgeous" bit could be indicitive of someone who's full of themselves.... Hmm............................ Yeah.....................you should change your Username

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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just to gather opinions,would you date a guy who said this? Posted: 11/17/2009 6:34:44 PM
Least he's putting it out there,in more ways than one..........LOL! But,Op,if you're wanting something more meaningful with someone,obviously this isnt your guy.......... Keep him as a friend as im sure he'd be good entertainmant value........... On second thoughts,he doesn't really sound like the sort of guy who has females just as friends.......

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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No-one likes him except me Posted: 11/17/2009 4:47:21 AM
Op,you're obviously following your heart and not you head....................... He hasn't worked for 4 months.................. Your friends and family think he's sponging off you.......... Ask yourself what advice you'd give a girlfriend if she came to you with this scenario....... Please read what "A Fashion Lady" has said............absolutely nailed it !!!!!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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What does it mean when a girl invites you to her place on first date Posted: 11/16/2009 6:03:54 PM
Did she want me to put moves on her? Why else would she invite me to her place the first night? BINGO !! Seems you've figured this out NOW,but you didnt act on it,for whatever(your)reasons...................... Phone her and ask......

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Quest. 2: For a Girl Posted: 11/16/2009 5:57:10 AM
Lol @ "Womaninprogress"...... Op,your theory is NOT correct. And,no,its NOT just women who do it. And,sometimes its the less attractive one who's the owner of the profile,too! ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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cheating, how prevalent is it? Posted: 11/16/2009 1:02:20 AM
Are you the new gardener at the Playboy Mansion? " 1 toe"......You dont think ALL those bunnies would be CHEATING on dear ole Hef,do ya.............................???? RFLMAO !

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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What are guys thinking? Posted: 11/15/2009 6:03:31 PM
1)check your profile photos.. 2) same thing could be said of woman gold digging.. Huh??? I fail to see OR read anything in Op's profile to warrant this comment....?? Anyway,Op,just chalk it up to experience- a BAD one-and fergeddabout him. Least you know not to bother with this one again. Just crass and downright unclassy........................

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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How much doees it take. Posted: 11/15/2009 5:51:17 PM
Wow.................what a weird Q................. Im sure women dont gauge a guy's dating potential based on his income...! Op,i see you mention your 'worth' and job TWICE in your profile,so,maybe you're the one who has some sort of hang-up about money................?????

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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What should you say when a girl tells you she's fat? Posted: 11/15/2009 5:28:10 PM
I laughed when i read this,Op..............sorry (if you're being serious...????)...... Coz,the only correct response is ,"You're gorgeous"............... Thats IT. The stock standard answer that's the right one.....!!!!!!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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cheating, how prevalent is it? Posted: 11/15/2009 4:36:14 PM
You must be employed in an exceptionally erotic environment. ^^ "Malley",that's funny! I was thinking the same thing.......and,like "Cassa" i know very little about the sex lives of most of my co-workers...........?? Go figure,LOL! Op,anyone who's openly bragging about banging your co-workers is someone id be avoiding at all cost,and,in this instance,its 6 open-mouthed and open-legged women.............................. Just remember..............its the quiet ones who are most likely having the most "fun". Oh,and to the Poster who said its not normal to be monogamous,ive never cheated and never will.Just NOT in MY nature..........and i know plenty of non-cheating people,

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Want To Meet Him Posted: 11/15/2009 5:11:09 AM
he is thinking of a girl in NJ (does not mention my name, wish he would) Sorry,Op,but he probably doesn't even remember your name!! You're just the woman he has phone sex with...... If this is all you have going with this guy after 4 months,id say thats "IT".

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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cheating, how prevalent is it? Posted: 11/15/2009 5:00:58 AM
all of them have started having sex with someone in the office ALL of them...........?? Good gawd...........!!!! How do you know this Op? Talk in the Mens Room....?? Sounds very strange to me and of course totally unacceptable & crazy to be sleeping with work colleagues................. What a way to ingratiate yourself into the Company and make a first impression.

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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bf has bad time management Posted: 11/15/2009 4:53:01 AM
After 2+ years , he's NOT going to change. For you,or anyone. This's just the way he is......!!!!!!!! Blind Freddy can see that. Why cant you? Poor guy has diarrhoea and you're yelling at him at the top of your lungs......??

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Do women prefer men with long hair or short? Posted: 11/15/2009 2:26:14 AM
It's a no brainer that men with hair are in different leagues then those with no hair. True......they're in a league of their own and on their own coz no one wants them. Most of them,say over the age of 20, look absolutely ridiculous to be sporting long hair and thinking it looks attractive...........looks damned GROSS. Eeww factor is very high in my book ................... Just my opinion....

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Read/deleted messages Posted: 11/15/2009 2:15:15 AM
That's just creepy, stalker like behaviour. ^^^^ Huh? Id hardly call sending two emails to someone as "stalkerish".....................?? If it was relentless and they were bombarding someone constantly,id call THATstalkerish behaviour...........

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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traveling through town Posted: 11/14/2009 10:46:27 PM
^^^ "Forumfishie"......i thought the same thing............... Op,im sure guys would be more 'trusting' and open to the idea of showing you around..................... If you have no hidden agenda,why does it have to be women.................?? Things that make you go hmmmmmmmmm................

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Chivalry or babying Posted: 11/14/2009 9:11:59 PM
Chivalry and babying are two different things in my book..................... There's been Threads on "Chivalry" before........go take a peek......... Just be polite and show manners,Op,and you cant go wrong. Ps.Why are you wearing a shower-cap?

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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IS IT OVER! Posted: 11/14/2009 7:54:32 PM
So the lesser of two evils ie: an expensive divorce,is to go back to this unhealthy,volatile relationship rather than be alone........................... Oh,but wait.....................you've already had a couple of "hook-ups"..... So your idea of a first date doesnt surprise me...............ppfftt......... At 28,you've got a lot of maturing to do.... I feel so sorry for your poor children

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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traveling through town Posted: 11/14/2009 6:59:52 PM
Op,what's in it for me........................??? Nah,id pass...........a business associate is one thing ,as another Poster mentioned,but a complete stranger? I couldnt be bothered entertaining some fly-by-nighter.......sorry!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Looking For Some Real Honest Answers Here Posted: 11/14/2009 6:54:20 AM
With this rant and your profile,Op,its obvious you havent moved on in the slightest from this woman and its been TWO YEARS. Fergeddabout her and move the hell on....she was ONE woman. Its OVER. Or,should be but sounds like you're still dissecting every little thing. No woman in her right mind would want to take you on with your current mindset AGAINST women in general...................................: (

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Female Tool of the Trade Posted: 11/14/2009 4:27:58 AM
Op,while toys have their place in many womens' lives,there's NOTHING that compare to skin-on-skin contact and the pleasures that can be attained from that..................... Toys cant compete with a real living breathing person !!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Seeing more than one guy... am I outta line here? Posted: 11/13/2009 8:24:55 PM
Op,if you're sampling from the buffet,im sure you're not the only one in the queue.............................................. Until you meet someone who's "just right" for you,and it's reciprocated,you've every right to meet/date as much as you like............ Least thats how I see it.... As for being intimate with them,that's YOUR business. Its a jungle out there and im glad im out of it.......

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Why do men treat you in these ways Posted: 11/13/2009 6:21:48 PM
I really dont understand why you feel bad about this experiance.I mean,you enjoyed the sex too didn't you?You had a nice time didn't you?He was good and kind to you wasn't he? I think Op was hoping for MORE,maybe a relationship to ensue.............and,it hasn't happened.

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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do men your own age even like ya or older Posted: 11/13/2009 6:10:17 PM
Do guys my age not want someone my age?? Op,you're 38 and many,many 38+ yr old guys ARE looking for younger women. That's just the way it seems to be...............? I,personally dont geddit......but,read the Forums,LOL! You ARE a pretty girl,so i dont see why 40+ guys wouldn't be interested in getting to know you? Good luck!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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single mom's pressured into lesbian sex Posted: 11/13/2009 6:07:59 AM
Op,what is your OBSESSION with lesbians.............?? All your Threads have been about..............................LESBIANS> Do you wish you were one......................????? Or,are you just a troll with your inane questions.......................????

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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TEXTS FROM THE EX Posted: 11/13/2009 5:44:32 AM
Op,you state that you know it would never work,but your ego loves knowing that she thinks of you.....................tsk,tsk....................you cant have it both ways. So,make up your mind. Then,let her know.

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Gotta get out of the friends zone... Posted: 11/12/2009 6:29:55 PM
lol, the dreaded friend zone, the place where many enter, and 1 or 2 leaves, while others are consumed in agony and pain. lol. Yup,the Dreaded Friends Zone...........a fate worse than death...!! Op,if you've been in the Friends Zone for two years, im afraid that's your fate.............. And id say you're in there forever coz trust me,if she'd had an epiphany about you,you would've known about it by now !! Also,i think the boyfriend is imaginary coz she's not interested in you but doesnt want to hurt your feelings.......

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Living expenses and pride.. Posted: 11/12/2009 7:30:23 AM
Wake up and smell the coffee,girl !!! He already owes you $800................how long are you going to keep your mouth shut? The longer you stay mute................the more he'll be sponging off you..... SPEAK UP NOW !!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Playing the Posted: 11/12/2009 5:45:37 AM
But I have used it just to get a lady in bed, and then after some fun, if I don't enjoy myself with her I make up an excuse why I have to say thanks but no thanks. That's shocking......yet,you're on here,bragging about it......?? Op,ive never had to say that to "get rid" of a man.....id never even think of that.... Feel a bit sorry for the guy,actually................

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Man-shy Posted: 11/12/2009 5:17:36 AM
Op,you've TWICE mentioned the word,"beautiful" in your Thread....... Try not aiming SO high,if you know what i mean,and just talk to everyone,regardless of their looks..... If a woman is so beautiful,she no doubt has heaps of admirers,which is more competition for you....... Just a thought........good luck !

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Was this lady flirting with me? Posted: 11/12/2009 5:05:52 AM
So......a female surgeon DELIBERATELY got so close to you as to be perceived as "beaming " her butt right in your face........aah,too funny............ Wow..................way to go................... Op,you should be glad she didnt FART in your face..................

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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Addicted Posted: 11/11/2009 7:17:30 PM
Op,if hes lying to you and dating other people,why would you want to be with this guy.....?? If you BOTH are here just for the Forums,thats ok,but if he's still looking for women to date,id advise you to break ties with him.... Good luck !!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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i wanna know what you think of this?? Posted: 11/11/2009 8:10:16 AM
Op,the question is more ......why would you even entertain the idea of waiting for her and being sloppy seconds.............................??? Fergeddabout her. Move on with your life and find someone with whom you are a priority,not second best...................................shakes head Ok?

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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why is he leading me on? Posted: 11/11/2009 7:13:28 AM
why is he leading me on? Op,he wants SEX. (Messages this short may not be posted,bla,bla,bla,etc........but,sometimes,nothing more needs to be said,yannow??................) ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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How much is too much? Posted: 11/11/2009 4:33:04 AM
I have to wonder "why". Evidently, something was lacking, and not on her part, I think something WAS lacking on her part..... coz,no matter what her reason was,she should've had the common DECENCY to let Op know that she couldnt make it. Even,if she'd just changed her mind -- womens' perogative and all that.....!!

*~*ChardyGirl*~*

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People With Freckles Posted: 11/10/2009 11:25:26 PM
And,another freckle-face here,too!! Ive auburn hair with some freckles mainly across my nose,and i must admit when i was a little girl,i HATED them !!! Mum found me one day with a scourer and some detergent trying to erase them,LOL! As ive matured,they've diminished somewhat and are barely visible......... In Summer, i never tan. Its more like join-the-dots.........

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