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 Author Thread: Using viagra and alcohol together.
 donrichardson
Joined: 9/14/2012
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Using viagra and alcohol together.
Posted: 4/10/2013 8:47:07 AM
Definitely is the best way to go.
 donrichardson
Joined: 9/14/2012
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Would you hire a escort to gain sexual experience
Posted: 4/10/2013 8:38:44 AM
If it were legal and regulated like it is in Nevada I certainly would. Even if it was just to get some no-strings attached sex from a beautiful woman who I might not otherwise ever meet, nor have a chance with. The problem I have with using an escort is the possibility of contracting an STD or being busted by the police. Just last month in my city, the police ran an ad on BackPage pretending to be an escort. They busted over 20 guys who showed up thinking they were responding to a real ad. Even if the penalty is a misdemeanor, you never know who might eventually find out. I would hate to have my children, a prospective employer, or date learn about it in a background search. I think it is a shame that it is illegal. There are a lot of single guys and older guys who are looking for sexual relief without committment. They keep saying its a man's world, but certainly not when it comes to his sexual needs.
 donrichardson
Joined: 9/14/2012
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Opening the Door for Sexual talk
Posted: 4/10/2013 8:23:08 AM
The guy is self-centered moron. I can't imagine how he could reasonably interpret your telling him that you are not willing to engage in sex as an invitation to do just the opposite. I have discussed various aspects of sex with women who I had only a platonic relationship with and never considered it as an invitation to take the relationship further. I have talked to new dates about various sexual topics (likes, dislikes) so that I will be able to satisfy her more when sex begins, but I don't consider her discussing as an invitation to start.
 donrichardson
Joined: 9/14/2012
Msg: 31 (view)
 
dirty talk??
Posted: 4/10/2013 8:13:24 AM
I have found that dirty talk by either or both people is very arousing during sex. I have been with women who I have never heard swear except in bed and then they can become like drunken sailors. I find it very arousing to hear dirty words when she is encouraging me to do various things. Whenever I have tried to apologize afterwards for my own dirty language the women will ALWAYS tell me it was no problem and most will say it turned them on. I think the reason it is so stimulating is because it makes me feel that I am turning on the woman so much that she has lost control and is totally into the act.
 donrichardson
Joined: 9/14/2012
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Blue balls: Your experience with it?
Posted: 4/10/2013 7:59:53 AM
Years ago Ann Landers told a female reader that blue-balls was a term that guys made up in order to try to influence their girlfriends into giving them sex. Bullfeathers!

It only happened to me once when I was 16. We double dated with another couple and were in the back seat at a drive in theater. My girlfriend and did a lot of kissing and petting with our clothes on (because of the other couple). It must have went on for about 3 hours, during which time I had a constant erection. I was convinced that if the other couple were not there, we may well have went all the way. I didn't notice any major pain until I started to get out of the car and began walking. The pain was so bad that I was forced to walk in a bow-legged fashion in order to keep my balls from being pressed on by my thighs as I walked. It felt like my balls had swollen to twice their normal size and the slightest touch was similar to when someone hits your funny bone.

I was home within and hour and in bed but the pain and erection persisted. I had no idea what was happening but I reasoned that my balls were filled with sperm to the breaking point. So it seemed like the logical thing to do was masturbate and relieve the pressure in my balls. Masturbation fixed the problem.

After that I learned what had happened to me and that my solution was appropriate. It never happened to me again because if I was even getting close I would have the girl get me off by hand or mouth.
 donrichardson
Joined: 9/14/2012
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Husband wants to watch
Posted: 3/22/2013 4:29:36 PM

What do you think this is all about? One of my worries is he may have gay tendencies. Men, are you attracted to other men if you would want to fulfill a fantasy like this? I just need some advice!

I have sometimes fantasized about my wife having a threesome with another guy. I can assure you that I am totally straight. The appeal to me is that some other guy has a chance to see just how good she is at sex (making him envy me), and the thought that her taking two guys at one time would double her pleasure, which would make me very happy also. We have never done it and I doubt we will but I wanted you to know that his motivation probably has nothing to do with him being gay.
 donrichardson
Joined: 9/14/2012
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Not Sexually Compatible? Devestated...
Posted: 3/22/2013 4:13:14 PM
I think you are understandably but overly concerned. Seems to me that everything else was right until he entered you too quickly and hurt you. If I hurt my lover while in the act it would also be a downer for me. Even if he stayed erect, I can see where it would be a mood killer. The answer to your problem is simply to communicate. As someone else said here, his size must have been a problem for him before you. So that doesn't single you out as being inadequate. If he cares as much about you as you care about him, he should not have any problem going slower at first. No question he will fit. You will stretch to accommodate him. Assuming you're turned on, lubrication is not a problem. He simply has to go slower to allow you to stretch sufficiently to accommodate him. Something the both of you can try is for him to use his fingers before he uses his penis. Start with two fingers and go to three. If necessary, go to a forth before he enters you with his penis. This should allow you to stretch naturally and be ready for him. And remember, the first time with a partner is NOT the best time. Everyone is different and the two of you have to experiment in order to find what works best for the two of you.
 donrichardson
Joined: 9/14/2012
Msg: 11 (view)
 
What if even cialis does not work?
Posted: 2/25/2013 5:51:02 PM
Cialis was not something I could count on. Sometimes it worked enough to do the job, other times it did not. My doctor switched me to 100 MG Viagra and it works every time. I'm usually ready to go the distance within 20-30 minutes.
 donrichardson
Joined: 9/14/2012
Msg: 263 (view)
 
How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally?
Posted: 2/25/2013 5:44:18 PM
It depends on who is giving the oral. Some women I can cum with because, frankly, they aren't very good at giving head. However, I have had two that were very good and I had no problem. I don't think its your problem, its the woman's lack of performance that is causing you the problem.
 donrichardson
Joined: 9/14/2012
Msg: 168 (view)
 
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/21/2013 8:38:50 AM
Doing 69 while laying on your sides has some definite benefits over the traditional 69 position. It allows for a lot more freedom of movement for the person who is giving oral sex making it easier for the perform at their best.
 donrichardson
Joined: 9/14/2012
Msg: 166 (view)
 
Why do some men tend to be horrible at oral sex? Ugh.
Posted: 2/21/2013 8:33:50 AM
I think its fair to say that we could extend the question to: "Why do people tend to be horrible at oral sex." And the answer for both men and women is a lack of communications. All of the material that is available on line should only be thought of as a starting point. When it comes to oral sex, every woman I have been with is different in what REALLY turns her on. I can drive one woman wild with one technique that will have virtually no effect on another woman. To a lesser extent the same goes for blowjobs. I have had some women who believe that if they put it in their mouth they are giving head. They don't pull their cheeks in to increase stimulation. They make no attempt to deep throat, which is extremely stimulating to all guys, and not all that hard to learn for someone who is motivated. Finally, some can't imagine swallowing cum, which is just plain rude to a guy. Not letting him come in your mouth is about the same as pulling out during intercourse just as the two of you are about to cum and finish up by hand. It is one hell of a letdown. Swallowing cum is no where near as distasteful as a tablespoon of some cough syrups or other medications. Especially compare to the immeasurable pleasure that it will bring him. No matter what you see or read on line, ask your partner to guide you so that you can tailor your performance to your partner's liking.
 donrichardson
Joined: 9/14/2012
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Has Porn Effected peoples Sex lives
Posted: 2/20/2013 7:01:20 PM
I would imagine that today's porn gives a lot of people unreasonable expectations in the real world. For example, it would appear that most women do and enjoy anal as much as vaginal sex. They make it appear that doing anal isn't much more than a question of which hole to put it in. The most disgusting part of today's porn to me is ass-to-mouth. Increasingly, there seems to be many porn actresses who are letting guys perform anal on them and then insert their penis in the woman's mouth. The worst part is that this action is often repeated many times in one scene. In 3-ways with fmf it is becoming quite common for a guy to pull out of one woman's ass and put it in another woman's mouth. The smell and taste of the excrement aside, why would anyone willing take bacteria from that part of the body into their mouth? Why would any guy who loves a woman want to subject her to such a degrading act?
 
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