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endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

Msg: 109 (view)

Pulling Hair Posted: 7/5/2007 10:38:23 AM
I love having my hair pulled. Passionatly. I dont want it ripped out of my head or anything. But I have been known to grab a guy and diving my fingers thru his lockes and deepening a kiss a time or two.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Should Porn be shared or viewed alone? Posted: 5/31/2006 12:36:04 PM
I think you should watch it alone and with someone, maybe even a group of people. My friend just had a "toy" party/ slumber party. All the girls watched movies after and enjoyed their new purchases! Of course you could always create the video and watch it together at a later date.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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This thought just crossed my mind Posted: 5/24/2006 6:13:53 AM
I've never "planted" someone. I just brought my best friend along.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

Msg: 65 (view)

Women...would you pay for sex with a man? Posted: 5/24/2006 6:10:09 AM
No I would not pay for sex ever.. There are to many people out there willing to give it away for free. I can understand some men wanting to pay for it. It gives them a sexual thrill. It is also part of control. I guess some women might get a thrill out of paying for it I guess i am not one of them. With wonderful sites like this one and others the internet is the largest sex meat market available. Who needs to pay?

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly Posted: 5/12/2006 1:32:17 PM
BornAUnicorn Men are intimidated easily by a strong willed woman. You in fact dare to dye your hair peirce your face and be how and who you think you are. If you act shy and closed off then no one will aproach you. No matter what anyone else says here don't change your style to "get someone" if you had to change to get them then you dont want them. You are who you are blue dreads peircings tatts and all. What I am saying is change your attitude not your style. If you like the black nose ring keep it. But do email a few guys that interest you. Do walk up to some guy and say hey i noticed you wanna get a drink. or whatever. If you act shy it might come off as you're being a **** or un aproachable. Maybe smile more. I found that works for me. I am BBW too and I dont have any full body pics. Whatever my choice its your choice too. Again emphasis on change attitude and not style.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Shake it off Posted: 11/17/2005 9:56:37 AM
Fallen I know what you are going thru. I just recently broke up with my bf of 5 years. I left an abusive marriage to get into this twisted one our ex spouses married each other and she still called him telling him she loved him they played mind games with each other he said he had totalk to her because if he didnt she wouldnt let him see his kids, which is true. But then I started not trusting him and feeling angry at him all the time and we werent very nice to each other, things got prgressivly worse and finally we had a big big fall out argument where I accidently ended up with a splt lip, It was not intentional but in my angry state i saw hte blood and reated and lets just say he is in a bit of pain. No safe not smart not love. I am now on my own with my two kids that love him very much to he filled hte void of their dad ditching them. I love his kids very much, and after having a few days to think I see where everything went wrong. I think about him constantly during the day wishing he knew how I really felt and how sorry I am that I hurt him and treated him the way that I did. I walked away because I honestly love him and noone needs the drama, including our sick circle of spouses. He will always be my best friend and hopefully somewhere down the line we will both have grown up and have a relationship again. But at night I miss him, during the day I miss him I hear a song I miss him I see a cool car and remember we were supposed to build custom hot rods together and grow old together. I can't tell you how to move on but I do know how your feeling right now and your not alone.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Making Love or Getting Freaky Posted: 11/15/2005 10:55:43 AM
I totally enjoy making love the intesity the passion, but without a little freaky thrown into the mix making love gets boring. variety is the spice of life!

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Who treats their man like a KING? Posted: 11/15/2005 10:45:06 AM
Well maybe not king but sex god. all kidding aside everyone men and women do need to feel appreciated and needed and special. I'm sorry I stopped treating my man the way i used to. Now im single again. :( shoulda woke up before it was to late

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Fuel for Hatred Posted: 11/1/2005 8:41:54 AM
I will never understand how people can do that to one another without caring about the consequenses to others. It didnt just effect you it affected the people around you because of how you reacted. I am sorry this person did this to you, I cant call her a woman a real woman would not do something like that. Keep an open mind, open up your heart again, there are real kind compassionate women out there. Keep your chin up. One thing I have learned in my life is to remember "WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND" She will get what she deserves.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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~ Erotica ~ Posted: 10/27/2005 12:45:20 PM
passionate kissing, licking and sucking all over the body,postioning my self above looking deep into his eyes. Teasing his member with myself then sliding him into me. He pushes me up and off him to scoot behind me and bends me over the bed and does me hard and fast until i orgasim, grabs me by the hips pushes me back onto the bed onto my back to finish in a passionate missionary. Looking again into each others eyes worshiping each other."

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Guys - why do you not introduce your girlfriend. Posted: 10/27/2005 12:37:17 PM
Whip havent seen you on in awhile, nice to have you back

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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What's your favotite quote? Posted: 10/21/2005 11:57:04 AM
"Id like to run away From you, But if you didnt come And find me ... I would die."

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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I'm Sorry! Posted: 10/21/2005 11:24:01 AM
Very courageous post Dig.[100]

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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In progress Posted: 10/21/2005 11:19:57 AM
Everything is changing I want it all the same You say it’s all about me I can’t change what you think There’s nothing left to say I am moving forward Trying hard not to look back Not wanting to know where I went wrong I can’t look you in the eyes Or my cool facade might crack Being alone doesn’t really scare me Or at least that’s what I pretend to believe See without you I am fine I grow, I go on Without you, I am just me I tried for too long, forever I forgot what I was trying for Pretending is what we were best at What everyone else knows from us I deserve better than pretend For me I want more You can take this as a kiss off Or take it as good bye Take it as I never loved you It was all a game We both know you were born to lie Moving on, growing up, becoming who I was meant to be

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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What meal is your trademark? Posted: 10/21/2005 11:12:34 AM
Moose baked Chicken. I pound out the boneless chicken breast and boursin cheese and smoked ham. fold it over pressing the sides together and placing it in a ramakin dish covering it with white wine. I serve it with fresh garlic potatoes. I also make a killer lasagna, feeds about 30 people. I put three meats 2 cheeses and some secret ingredients, besides making my own noodles.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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what makes a women cheat more. Posted: 10/21/2005 11:05:56 AM
I think women cheat because they feel they are lacking something in thier relationship. Some may cheat out of vengance"well he cheated on me this will show him" People cheat for dfferent reasons. But in my opionion it's because some attention they percieve they are not getting.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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He didn't come home last night Posted: 10/21/2005 11:00:37 AM
You already assume what happened right? For the most part when it comes to her man and thier infidelity a woman's intuition is right? You are going to ask him and he will tell you he feel asleep, and if you believe it you are a sucker. Because most likely she would have woken him up when she got home. I am sorry this has happened to you, you have a choise to make. You can A. tell him to get the heck out of your life and only have a relationship based on your child. B. deal with it, let him know you know, but forgive him. C. Pretend it nevr happened worry yourself into an early grave. It's up to you do some soul searching and think of whats best for you. But make sure you can handle the consequenses.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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What floats your boat... Non Sexually? Posted: 10/18/2005 10:52:09 AM
Confidence, patience, the willing to teach me how to do something I know nothing about. Having an actual conversation. Someone that can drive! Fast! Someone that is really interested in my thoughts and what i'm about.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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thoughts on changing relationship Posted: 10/13/2005 7:07:07 AM
sounds like "the woman" and "her husband" need to quit drugs and alcohol, and get into therapy. first her now ex husband was the drunk, she didnt and still doesnt drink or do drugs

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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thoughts on changing relationship Posted: 10/12/2005 10:36:13 AM
OK there is this girl, she started a relationship with a married man. She was unhappily married also to an abusive man.The relationship was based on sex and 420, they "dated" for awhile. She knew what she was doing was wrong, but didnt know how to leave the marriage because she just wanted the husband not to drink and be just a little more attentive and a little less abusive. The man she started the relationship with had worked with the husband and lived five houses down the street around the corner. They were all friends, except for the other man's wife she was a nasty mean person who used her kids to hurt people. Another story there. One day the girl decided she had enough and told the other man she couldnt see him any more and she told the husband she couldnt take the drinking anymore and she dropped him off at his brothers house with an " I'll always love you" She went home and moped wondering how she ever let her life get this crazy. Hanging out with her neice whom she picked up from the husbands borthers house and her own kids they chilled for the night. The next afternoon the other man cals and says he has left his wife, because they are friends she listens and when he is finished telling his story she tells him she dropped her husband off and is getting a divorce. He asks "what now?" they laugh together because they feel they were meant to be. SHe isn't thinking clearly and wants someone to hold her and say it's all going to be alright. They meet and decide to go away to a camp his family owns. SHe packs hers kids and neice up and head off into the sunset. Shes worried about spend her first night with him, what if she snores, what if she drools what will he think? She puts those fears aside because this is the first man she has ever felt like she could be herself with. He liked her for who she was (or pretended to be). She is great at putting on a show. They fall alseep in each others arms and wake up to a phone call and lots of chaos. The husband calls and knows where she is and who she is with and the other mans wife knows too. The phone rings all day long and they get home to a trashed house and angry people. It has been one dramatic event after another and threw the storm they have stayed together. It wasnt easy it has been pretty hard, but they were doing it for true love and happiness. The other mans wife causes a lot of problems uses his kids to get what she wants lies cheats and does whatever she can to torment the girl that stole her husband(she didnt like him anyway) Three years have gone by and things are finally looking good for the girl and the other man, Except there is no trust, they were supposed to have an open relationship. It was ok if he saw other woman as long as she was his girl the one he came home to the one he treated with respect. But he didnt always treat her with respect and though he came home most of the time he treated her different than before. She used to be the one he ran to for satisfaction, she used to be his goddess, he used to make her feel like the world, his world revolved around her. She missed that and got jealous of the other people he was trying to have in his life because she felt they were getting what she wanted and had grown used to. The girl told him how she felt and he told her she was his girl he loved her and the other women meant nothing to him. They have had threesomes together, they have do so many things they never thought of doing before together. They are bonded by the pain and loss and triumph of their actions that seperated their families. Her kids live somewhere else(not with their father he isnt safe) and she live with him in his parents house. They have a dream of building on land the he purchased while he was married and he took her there and made love to her, she refers to that place her rock. Now that the divorces are final, things have settled down and the other mans wife cant cause so much chaos, the girl has lost her mind, she is yelling and screaming and hitting. She is hateful angry and jealous. She dosent believe he loves her, or she dosent want him to. She is used to people hurtting her. Now at this time that land was appraised and they can get finaced to buy that home so she can live with her kids and the more she wants it the more she acts crazy, she loves him and dosent understand that if she satisfies him why does he look elsewhere She would smile more if she wasnt always worrying he is with or looking for someone else a or trying to replace her she has seen some of his im's and emails he says the same thing he is single hes looking for someone to spend the rest of his life with and have kids with. The girl has had a few miscarriages and isnt even really supposed to be able to get pregnant, she had her tubes tied but some freak happening one semi reattached. She thought she was the one he wanted to spend his life with, so why does he say this to them? How does she get over her insecurities and fears and be the girl he fell in love with? Before she loses him? Why does he seek out other women to make him happy? He should just treat her the way he used to and she would smile again. They are so close to getting everything they worked so hard for, stayed together for. Together they have four beautiful kids from their marriages and some day hope to have one of their own. But instead of being the girl he wants her to be she acts hateful and pushes him away. When she really wants him close and all hers and the happy ever after dream. Sorry I took up so much space but if you have thoughts on this excerpt feel free to leave them here. Keep smiling and as the "other man" would say. "happiness is a habit"

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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best songs to shag by? Posted: 9/26/2005 1:29:09 PM
This thread has already been done. But i'll go with it.. Dee-lite "groove is in the heart"

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Do children need a father? Posted: 9/23/2005 1:31:59 PM
I think children need a good role model in thier life, sometimes it just isnt the father.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Falling asleep during a BJ Posted: 9/13/2005 1:29:39 PM
it could just be it is relaxing for him. if he thought you sucked at it that bad he probly wouldnt let you do it.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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DO YOU PREFER AN EDUCATED PARTNER? Posted: 9/13/2005 11:43:58 AM
I am lucky to have an intelligent partner. Im always joking to him about his usless bits of information. But he has knowledge and common sense and we can actually hold a conversation. Which is why he is my partner.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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C#ck Rings? Posted: 9/9/2005 8:56:25 AM
Is the topic c*ck rings or does the person mean getting it peirced?

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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All the gals wants mr right Posted: 9/9/2005 7:45:03 AM
Im not looking for Mr. Right. Im want Mr. Right Now!

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Do you love yourself? Do you know yourself? Posted: 9/9/2005 7:26:27 AM
I love and know myself. I know what I want and most of the time I know how to acheive it. My biggest problem is asking for help. There is one thing I need to remember. "you can't please everyone, so ya got to please yourself"

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Do you admit it???? Posted: 9/8/2005 7:34:51 AM
Of course i would admit it. People have this belief that only psychos come from online, that I would love to say hey I met so and so on this web site.. See im not chopped up in his trunk...

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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love or fun Posted: 9/8/2005 7:32:06 AM
I am 32, and speaking from experience have fun while you are young, settle down later in life. I got married at 19 had two kids and then decided he wasnt the man I wanted to be with (abuse was part of that reason). Here I am in my 30's not looking to settle down, I just want to have fun, but I know I'm older and I have responsibilities and cant do the things I could have gotten away with when I was 18- 25.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 9/8/2005 6:59:59 AM
Hi Fishiies! Im from the portland area in Maine. Just looking for chat buddies and such. Drop me a line.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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To hug or not to hug Posted: 9/7/2005 11:18:07 AM
I LOVE hugs!! the feel of arms around me. I love snuggling up with my kids though they are getting out of that cuddly stage. I love dogs and cats for that reason.. I met my first fish from POF for coffee and im kicking myself for not giving him a hug as we parted ways..

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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she got burned should he pay if she was wrong? Posted: 9/7/2005 10:28:06 AM
Thanx blue I keep in touch by phone, our relationship is like sisters. we love each other but we dont always like each other.. I tell her not to cheat but she dosent listen... anyway thanx everyone!

endogoddess

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To hug or not to hug Posted: 9/7/2005 10:24:43 AM

endogoddess

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To hug or not to hug Posted: 9/7/2005 10:16:58 AM
I am a hugging person.. I just dot want to invade another persons personal space

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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she got burned should he pay if she was wrong? Posted: 9/6/2005 12:54:05 PM
Thanx for everyones advise. I did talk to her and told her I thought she went nutz! She mentions this guy everytime I talk to her and I tell her to just move on. I think she did. Just wondered how everyone else felt

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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If you slept naked.. Posted: 9/6/2005 12:47:42 PM
For one night i could wear a t-shirt and undies to bed, unless of course .....

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Is this true at all? Posted: 8/31/2005 12:57:46 PM
Some people are just that way. Yes people can hate someone because of the way they look. IM not saying its right, but it does happen. It's a sad judgemental world.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Most....arrogant...person....ever... Posted: 8/30/2005 1:27:28 PM
I think this guy is a little hurt he dosent have a chance with the woman who worte it.. I dont see anything arrogant about it...

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Have I reached the party to whom I am speaking? Posted: 8/30/2005 12:56:04 PM
I had my first POF meeting today. My rule of thumb is ask for a pic first. I knew who I was meeting because I recognized him from his picture.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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the way to a mans heart Posted: 8/30/2005 11:13:14 AM
Good head and good sex I think is a bonus. It's amazing how much control being good at it gives you.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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she got burned should he pay if she was wrong? Posted: 8/26/2005 8:03:38 AM
I tried talking to her and told her she was being immature she made it clear that she wasnt looking for a relationship and if she wasnt happy at home she should end it with him and move on. Hurting this guy was foolish she knew from the beginning he was only out for one thing. Therefor she let it happen to herself she cant blame him he didnt lie to her or give her false hope he was going to wisk her away on his white horse to his castle and they were going to live happily ever after. Looking for sex on the internet everyone has thier opinion of it and to each their own. I agree with everyone when they say She should end the first relationship before looking for a new one and state that she is looking for a new relationship and not just sex. I think confuses sex with love. He current bf isnt having sex with her therefor she thinks he dosnt love her. Not the case. She would rather put up with someone treating her like dirt and getting sex than having the real thing she has. I hope she does read this and I hope she learned something from her experience. It hasnt stopped her form giving out her number and meeting people from online and i feel sorry for the next guy.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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she got burned should he pay if she was wrong? Posted: 8/26/2005 7:06:30 AM
ok never mind picking better friends I mean we were 16 when we met and she wasnt like that.. just because a person is doing something worng dosnt mean you bail on them. I dont agree with her action AND NO I DONT HAVE AN ALTERIOR MOTIVE. Just because I have talked to the guy? Get real yourself. I know so much about the story because she tells me everything and he wrote and asked if he had to worry and told me what was going on. He can look for sex all he wants it was a mutual agreement that it was a no strings attached sexual thing. it what they wanted. I am here for the forums. A person should not be judged by another persons actions. Part of me wants to let it play out, but they care taker in me wants to say hey cut the crap or your gonna get yourself in trouble again. Anyway Thanks for all the feedback everyone, im going to let it play out..

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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she got burned should he pay if she was wrong? Posted: 8/25/2005 1:37:28 PM
Im sure he dosent want to get police involved and I am a little wierded out that she is like this although the signs were there she did a good job of hiding it. There was an incedent involving another guys Jeep and I only got her version, but she ended up going on probation. And her story dosent seem to fit what she told me. So is it my place to tell this guy watch your back?

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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she got burned should he pay if she was wrong? Posted: 8/25/2005 1:18:46 PM
I have this friend I have known for 16 years she has a profile here on POF, she met this guy she really liked from POF. I her profile she states she is just looking for sex and nothing more. I talk to this guy once in awhile and he seems nice. She has a man in her life she calls her husband and he is a great father to her illegitimate child. Two days after she met this guy she started talking about leaving him and if things work out and so on. The only problem in her relationship other than her is it is a sexless relationship. She was just looking for sex. It was the understanding between the her and the guy she met from here. She starts calling him 20 times a day and it drove him crazy she would be demanding and whiney. She tried to get me to drive her down to where he lives and stalk him. He finally had enough when she called 7 times in 20 minutes and he told her they were done. When I talked to her she said she felt like being a vengeful Bytch, and was going to call his work and tell them he did drugs so he would get in trouble. He has a high profile job. And then she was going to come here and leave something about him in feedback. I love my friend but she has gone off the deep end. Should I try and step in and calm the situation down? This guy dosn't deserve any trouble just 'cause she has a bruised ego. Any Ideas?

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Love or Passion: Which? Posted: 8/25/2005 11:30:52 AM
Passion is a dangerous tool. Passion is all feelings at their most intense. Love with a little passion once in awhile well how about a 60/40 mix?

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Playing House Posted: 8/25/2005 11:29:20 AM
It's a maternal urge that starts taking more control the older you get

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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when your sex buddy turns into something more Posted: 8/25/2005 10:54:05 AM
Tell him, I fell for my sex buddy, I fell for him after a year. I was lucky he felt the same and told me first during Alicia Keys "fallin" He hit repeat so it played over and over during sex. Four years later we are still together, same passion as before.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Cat owners Posted: 8/25/2005 7:48:31 AM
I dont see anything worng with owning a few cats. I had two cats two dogs and two ferrets at one time. Not now though.

endogoddess

Joined: 3/23/2005

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Why are you single? Posted: 8/24/2005 11:49:28 AM
IM not single... I am addicted to the forums!!!

endogoddess

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Is it strange to want a man to treat you good? Posted: 8/24/2005 10:50:07 AM
Well said BeautifulSole

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