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Reveal1K

Joined: 6/30/2007

Msg: 41 (view)

GAAHHH!! I think I blew it! :-( Posted: 10/8/2009 11:36:04 PM
Date other women all at the same time. You're less desperate and needy when you've got more than just one girl you're talking to.

Reveal1K

Joined: 6/30/2007

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Ok, so this is why I don't understand women... Posted: 9/21/2009 10:19:18 AM
You could have taken it a lot further on that first date. Most women will do that on the first date. When she pulled you back after you tried to leave, you shoulda stayed. But anyway, I would say don't sweat her not calling you. She is missing out on you because you're talking to other women anyway (You ARE, right?) Women flaking, not calling, etc. isn't a big deal AT ALL when you've got other women on the line. Call her and see what the deal is, but overall, don't sweat it. Like I said, when you've got other women on the hook, situations like the one you're in won't bother you at all.

reveal1k

Joined: 6/30/2007

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I don't understand, can anyone help Posted: 9/18/2009 10:10:32 PM
Take Rocks advice is the best advice I can give you. lol Why in the world would you suck up to her like that? You haven't even met. It's a big turn-off for women. There are women out there who will toy with you like what this girl is doing to you right now. Delete her from your MSN. Not worth the time or the heart ache.

reveal1k

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Difference between a slut and a stud?? Posted: 9/18/2009 10:01:16 PM
In most cases it is the lady who chooses the man. That's a lot more common. So if a woman is just giving her body to anyone she chooses, people will put a label on her. But there are a few MEN out there that actually choose the woman, and that's why they have a positive label put on them.

reveal1k

Joined: 6/30/2007

Msg: 60 (view)

does a hug mean she's not really attracted Posted: 9/18/2009 12:00:06 AM
There may be better looking guys out there, but it doesn't mean they have better "Game" than you. So get that nonsense out of your head. As for the hug, it could be anything. Maybe she was waiting for YOU to take control and go for a kiss. Maybe she doesn't kiss on the first date. Maybe she hasn't warmed up to you yet. Maybe she's not attracted at all. Unless we were there, it's kind of hard to judge what she wants just on one hug. Keep talking to her and see where it goes. If you guys hang out again, start touching her more. You can sort of see if she's digging you or not by touching her.

reveal1k

Joined: 6/30/2007

Msg: 59 (view)

Where have all the nice guys gone? Posted: 9/17/2009 11:53:21 PM
You've had a bad experience. Don't let it stop you from putting on that lipstick and shaving those legs. There's a guy out there who will definitely appreciate it. Your 'date' just wasn't one of them.

reveal1k

Joined: 6/30/2007

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am i just an idiot for going with my gut? Posted: 9/8/2009 12:54:52 AM
If you did that to me, as in dated me for awhile, and then come out and say "I've got feelings for my ex now, I don't know what to do!" I would do the same thing. I guess most of the people here expect the guy to put his dating life on hold for YOU so you can make a decision. Get out of here with that noise. You should have made that decision before you started talking to this guy. 'You can go ahead and run back to your ex, but don't expect me to be here when sh*t doesn't work out for you and your ex.' is what he's saying, and it's pretty much fair. When YOU can't make up your mind someone's going to get hurt... this guy was obviously smart.

reveal1k

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Msg: 163 (view)

Heterosexual sex is heterosexual. Posted: 9/8/2009 12:37:17 AM
Posted by DIVISION77 Sorry, I don't buy your propoganda. Since when does a woman determine what is deemed homosexual behaviour? Most of the time your gender can't even vocalize what they mean or feel. Anal penetration is most definitely a homosexual act if the guy is receiving..... I don't know any hetero guys who let their wives/girlfriends use dildos on them.... I'm sure there are people who are in to that, but it's not prevalent with hetero men. I would tend to believe that any guy who was in to that had at the very least bi tendencies if not a complete homosexual. .......but thanks for your female perspective. Well first of all, women can be homosexuals as well. So her opinion on the matter is just as valuable as yours. Actually, more so because you are obviously not educated on the matter. According to you, if a woman does her man with a strap on, that makes him gay? Really? Let's just ignore the fact that there's A WOMAN ON THE GIVING END OF THE STRAP-ON and call the guy gay... simply because he's receiving anal sex. Now I wouldn't be down for taking it with a strap on. But I've got enough brain matter to know the difference between heterosexuality and homosexuality.

reveal1k

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would you date someone who suffers from depression? Posted: 9/4/2009 9:36:35 PM
I've dated a girl who had depression. I got really attached to her, but at the same time, I don't think I had ever been so stressed out. All of his/her negative emotions will more than likely bring you down. I've learned from my experience; I won't be going through that again. Ever.

reveal1k

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Msg: 82 (view)

now I have herpes Posted: 9/4/2009 9:18:07 PM
Herpes is herpes, regardless of WHO you get it from, or how you get it. Don't be surprised if that guy isn't interested anymore. Most of the women here just can't handle the truth, and the truth being that if you've got some STD, it doesn't matter who gave it to you. All that matters to ME is that you have it. It doesn't matter if the OP got it from her cheating boyfriend. She's got it, and nobody else wants it. EDIT: LOL at all of the hate that Silentman74 is getting from the women in this thread. You're saying he's an ass because you ladies are trying to argue with him but you can't even get a foot hold in starting to argue with him... so since you can't argue with him because he keeps shutting you down, he's an ass. Yeah, OK. Grow up please.

reveal1k

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Msg: 147 (view)

Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/31/2009 10:38:28 AM
Porn is good. When a chick isn't in the mood, porn is always there!

Reveal1k

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tell tale signs in profiles Posted: 8/14/2009 11:41:50 PM
Anything to do with 420.

Reveal1k

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Long nails Posted: 8/2/2009 9:42:22 PM
Fingernails (and toenails!) with French tip=win!

Reveal1k

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when the sex is over is it wrong to want to leave Posted: 8/2/2009 11:08:59 AM
You're no more wrong than the women who will stick with a guy, let him buy her gifts, take her out for dinner, etc. but won't give him any action.

Reveal1k

Joined: 6/30/2007

Msg: 35 (view)

the burning question Posted: 8/2/2009 11:03:22 AM
I've never asked that question, except when the woman asks me first. And they usually do!

Reveal1k

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ex is trying to be friends with my enemies, help ladies, why would she do this? Posted: 7/31/2009 9:27:46 AM
Why would she befriend his enemies? How about because she is royally pissed off that your friend stole her dog and wall mirror, and won’t reimburse her for her half of the video camera? Perhaps she is gathering “unsavory character” witnesses to use against him in small claims court? As for what is his thievery compared to her infidelity? A red herring; two wrongs do not make a right. THEIRS doesn't automatically make it HERS. If you want something back, you don't go around causing drama. That's not how you get your stuff back. That's just an excuse for this brat to go around stirring up drama.

Reveal1k

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This site is so fake. Posted: 7/31/2009 1:23:20 AM
POF is serious business. Stop sucking so bad and people might stop ignoring you.

Reveal1k

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ex is trying to be friends with my enemies, help ladies, why would she do this? Posted: 7/31/2009 1:14:56 AM
The b*tch is playing games now. Instead of getting on with her life she's trying to cause drama and trying to make her ex jealous for whatever reason. That guy needs to disconnect from her ASAP. Myspace, phone numbers, everything. That girl is only going to cause grief.

Reveal1k

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Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 7/31/2009 1:06:11 AM
Porn is gross. Porn... is BEAUTIFUL!

Reveal1k

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Why would a guy leave the first and last encounter with me a two second explosion? Posted: 7/29/2009 12:14:04 PM
Why was he terrible in bed? Because he didn't have a power bar, a 10 minute nap and go at it again, instead he went to a BBQ and ignored her. That is a bad selfish lover and the foreplay was him trying to get laid.. DUH reveal. He went to the BBQ and she had to go and get stuff done. How can he ignore her if she isn't with him in the first place? You fail at that point. And about being a minute man, like I said, sometimes it happens. That's what the foreplay is for. To make sure she is satisfied to an extent. He might not have masturbated in awhile which can result in a quick release. And not everyone can get it up after 10 minutes. I'm sure most can, but maybe not this particular guy. That's like some guy making a thread saying how his lover was a bad lover because she had a smelly snatch. So really Erinlove, make another post where you don't fail so much. Thanks.

Reveal1k

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Msg: 40 (view)

Why would a guy leave the first and last encounter with me a two second explosion? Posted: 7/29/2009 9:01:01 AM
Wow. What terrible advice. He was terrible in bed? I guess the hours of foreplay that the OP mentioned doesn't count for anything. I don't think he was embarrassed. It happens sometimes. Get over it.

reveal1k

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Informing People That Someone Has Herpes Posted: 7/24/2009 11:59:35 PM
You could say it's none of their concern. But to all of the people in this thread, wouldn't YOU like to be warned, some way or somehow, about a sexual partner having Herpes, or any kind of STD? If you told me that someone I was about to sleep with had herpes, you'd be doing me a d*mn good favor.

reveal1k

Joined: 6/30/2007

Msg: 145 (view)

I don't think anyone has enjoyed the 69 position since 1969. Posted: 7/24/2009 11:44:21 PM
If looking at and playing with a woman's ass means I don't have any morals... then I never wanted them in the first place

reveal1k

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Why do some men believe receiving anal from a female is a homosexual act? Do you like it? Posted: 7/24/2009 11:26:17 PM
Posted by hersheyboy: Child molesters say their perversion is 'fun' too but you don't see society approving of THAT perversion do you? Didn't think so. What a terrible comparison. You're going to compare an adult who preys on minors to fill his sexual needs to two people (whether they be men or women) who have consented to have anal sex. I guess you're not enlightened because that comparison totally doesn't work. At all. Child molesters= bad. Anal sex= NOT bad. See how that works?

reveal1k

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Why do some men believe receiving anal from a female is a homosexual act? Do you like it? Posted: 7/24/2009 10:02:36 PM
Posted by Iamontmoten: I couldnt imagine what i would do if a woman i was with said she wanted to perform anal on me. lololol! By reading your earlier posts, you'd probably freak out because you thought that she was a gay man in disguise. So I guess that means BJs are out for you as well. I'm glad I don't think like you. As for the thread topic, nah. Haven't tried it and certainly don't plan on it.

reveal1k

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Msg: 56 (view)

what's with women going to the toy box instead of the real thing Posted: 7/23/2009 4:11:09 PM
In before the stupid "Bob is better than men because" lists.. Oh, wait...

reveal1k

Joined: 6/30/2007

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Men help me with Fellatio?? tips??? Posted: 7/21/2009 9:27:36 PM
I'm just gonna say, maybe he's not a BJ guy. I would not complain about getting a BJ, and if a girl wanted to do it, I'll damn well let her. But It's not the most important thing for me. Maybe your man is in the same boat as I am. Also, I don't tend to make much noise. I might like it but I still don't make too much noise, so your man could be the same way. Just because he doesn't say much doesn't mean he's not enj0ying it. As for advice... Watch the teeth. That's my 2 cents.

reveal1k

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Would you, or have you, ever cyber-sexed? Posted: 7/20/2009 10:46:52 PM
Tried it once, and it was a hell of a lot better than I expected. If you use your imagination it can be pretty enjoyable. I cheated and had porn playing at the time, but still.

reveal1k

Joined: 6/30/2007

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ladies.....you wanna know how you can tell if a guys into you or if he's full of shit? Posted: 7/20/2009 10:43:51 PM
It always amazes me how women just don't get it. Had a situation at work where my best friend hit it and quit it with a girl who also works there. After they did the deed he pretty much stopped talking to her, and even ignored her. IGNORED HER. And she STILL didn't get the hint. She kept coming to me (I also work there) asking for advice on how to talk to him, etc. And all I could think was, "If YOU were ignoring someone, what does that normally mean? It means that you don't want to talk to him, right? Well same applies when the tables are turned!" Not rocket science, people.

reveal1k

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world of warcraft get together :) Posted: 7/18/2009 11:21:27 PM
Level 80 undead warlock. PVP all the way Anyone on Jaedenar?

reveal1k

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Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus? Posted: 7/18/2009 11:09:52 PM
If it weren't for the whole 'getting sick' part I would love to do it. In fact, I'd still like to try it. Maybe one day I'll have her shower and hope for the best

reveal1k

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Kinda Creepy... Posted: 7/18/2009 1:07:40 AM
They should just remove testim0onials all together.

reveal1k

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How many Women out here Love SEX? Posted: 7/17/2009 9:04:46 PM
This is kind of a silly thread. Don't all people all inherently LOVE sex? If we didn't, our species wouldn't have survived cave man times. Agreed. Let's ask a bunch of woman on a DATING site if they like sex.

reveal1k

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Anal Sex...he wants it, but I'm scared to try Posted: 7/16/2009 9:43:59 PM
"God forbid" okay Grandma, whatever you say..........when hell freezes over. Grandma? Get back to me when you start making sense, lady. OP, if you want to try it, go for it. This thread is loaded with advice on how to make it enjoyable.

reveal1k

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Nice guys and gal pals Posted: 7/16/2009 7:07:59 PM
I'm talking in the sense that a guy likes a girl, so he befriends her. If he doesn't make moves, ley his interest be known, and flirt with her, then yeah, his window is going to get smaller and smaller. If such a window didn't exist, then we wouldn't have to worry about a friend zone, or being put into or getting out of the friend zone. Does it work like that ALL the time? Obviously not, like the girls you mentioned. I wouldn't say it is cut and dry "window or no window.' There's a lot of gray area in between. I don't believe people choose their sexual preference BTW, gay, straight, or bi. But that's a whole separate thread.

reveal1k

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Nice guys and gal pals Posted: 7/16/2009 3:08:01 PM
Of course there's a window of opportunity. A guys window is much larger. If a girl doesn't make a move on a guy (which rarely happens anyway) his attraction for her isn't going to get any lower. A woman's attraction for a man that doesn't make a move WILL lower. A guy who talks to her and tries to be friendly with her but doesn't make his interest clear is going to be put in that friend zone. To think that women and men are the same when it comes to this kind of stuff is silly.

reveal1k

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Anal Sex...he wants it, but I'm scared to try Posted: 7/16/2009 4:03:38 AM
"If he really cared he would be satisfied with the vagina." If that's not the most retarded thing I've read on POF God forbid someone wants to try something a little different to spice up their sex life.

reveal1k

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Staying off ex's facebook and myspace Posted: 7/16/2009 12:23:54 AM
I've done that too in the past. It sucks. You want to look, but you KNOW it's a bad idea... but you do it anyway, and then you regret it. Gotta cut off all ties, man! Delete her, BLOCK HER if you have to. Whatever it takes. Getting her out of your life 100% only makes it easier for you to move on. Don't even think about 'what could have been' because it's a load of crap. Delete her, remove anything and everything that reminds you of her, and start dating other women. There are other women out there!

reveal1k

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Nice guys and gal pals Posted: 7/16/2009 12:10:29 AM
You say, "If you had just been interested in me, I wouldn't have put you through that." Like a woman can control who she's attracted to. Most guys that come in all friendly like that DO have an agenda: To fck her. Big surprise, right? The thing with guys like this is that they think if they talk to a girl, buy her dinner, compliment her, and be her emotional tampon, they think that they are going to be rewarded with what they want. Obviously that's not the way it works. People say that women are only attracted to jerks. I think in a woman's mind, nice guys are even WORSE than jerks. He might be an jerk, but at least he doesn't try to manipulate a woman, or do something and expect something in return, like the nice guy. A jerk can put a woman on an emotional roller coaster. He gives her all kinds of emotions to feel, and when it comes down to it, yeah, the guy may be an jerk, but he's also doing SOMETHING that has those women going back to him for more. And when he does her wrong, she's got plenty of nice guy shoulders to cry on. As for that window of opportunity, yeah. It's pretty small. Once a woman finds out that you're a "nice guy," he's going to be put into that "I'll let him buy me dinner, and I'll let him comfort me when Mr.jerk does me wrong, but I'm certainly not going to fck him" category.

reveal1k

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Nice guys and gal pals Posted: 7/15/2009 11:19:39 PM
Nice guys suck. That is all.

reveal1k

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Men that taste test Posted: 7/15/2009 11:12:57 PM
Quoted by afashionlady: WTF Ummm...I'd flat out ask him what the hell he was doing. I don't think I've EVER had a man do a "taste test". If he did that and I saw it, I'd ask him what he was doing--and to be crass--ask him if I needed to do that for his d**k. It's a vagina, NOT a crockpot waiting to be tested to see if it's done. Haha, I would just do it right back to you. Probably say something like, "Just checking to see if it's edible." I'll do a sniff test but it's pretty subtle.

reveal1k

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What ALL Men Want... Posted: 7/14/2009 10:52:19 PM
Food, sex, silence. Feed me, fck me, shut the fck up. -Chris Rock

reveal1k

Joined: 6/30/2007

Msg: 92 (view)

Should foreplay be equal or mostly about her? Posted: 7/14/2009 10:47:42 PM
I'm one of those guys that enjoys turning a woman on, and loves foreplay. Now that I think of it, I'm almost always the one doing the foreplay. Rarely do I get a BJ or anything else that could be considered foreplay, besides kissing.

reveal1k

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Starting to hate women........ Posted: 7/14/2009 7:31:35 AM
Stop being a bunch of wuss-bags feeling sorry for yourselves. This is why you people are single. If you're not happy with something in your life, stop complaining about it on POF and MAKE SOME CHANGES.

reveal1k

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4x's going out with this girl-she goes out with me, but i hold her hand she shrugged it off -whyy Posted: 7/14/2009 2:04:39 AM
Tell your friend to make his own account.

reveal1k

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Msg: 68 (view)

Is no sex dating so terrible? Posted: 7/14/2009 2:02:00 AM
Definitely not UNFAIR, that's your decision to make, just like it's their decision to either stay with you, or keep it moving. There are guys out there that would wait I'm sure. But I wouldn't be one of them

reveal1k

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Like this Man but not the Jokes he makes Posted: 7/14/2009 12:43:52 AM
No need to dump him yet. He knows that that kind of stuff offends you now, and he apologized for it. If he keeps doing it though, then there's a problem.

reveal1k

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How to pull this off? Posted: 7/12/2009 9:07:01 AM
You're a regular. People always treat regulars at stores like that, because they know you. Doesn't mean she likes you like that though. Is she FLIRTING with you at all, or is she just being nice to you because you go in there one day a week or whatever?

reveal1k

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Msg: 57 (view)

Why is no head an automatic turn off for guys Posted: 7/10/2009 5:31:24 PM
Just tell the guy you don't want the sperm in your mouth if that is what is specifically bothering you. Have him tell you when he's going to blow.

reveal1k

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I thought I had heard it all but someone else's is always worse Posted: 7/10/2009 5:24:41 PM
Something on the TV might have been pulling his attention away. In a bad way. Like maybe some guy talking on the TV might have made him want to change the channel just so he didn't have to listen to the guys voice on the TV while he's doing the deed. Now if he actually just started watching the TV, then... yeah. I've got nothing.

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