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Sweety_Pie23

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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 9/19/2007 1:57:42 AM
lol whenyer strange, I think I need to start trainin mine to do that ;) I wear the tight, shape showin, cleavage showin, just let it all show type of clothes, when I want to be noticed. I like it when guys look at me, I just don't like it when I'm not wearing something that shows off my chest, and the guy is still starring anyways. I find it kinda funny though, considering the fact that I don't have much there to flaunt anyways.

Sweety_Pie23

Joined: 7/1/2007

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I saw a study... Posted: 9/18/2007 11:58:34 PM
I often thought that guys only looked at blondes to "hook up" with, considering the fact that I am a natural blonde also. I dyed my hair, and well, guys still look to "hook up" with me even now. I don't think hair color really has much to do with anything, I think it all has to deal with how the person acts more then anything honestly.

Sweety_Pie23

Joined: 7/1/2007

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Backburner girls Posted: 9/18/2007 6:54:08 PM
:Sweety Pie, the bouncing green ball might be cuter than a dancing banana but if you want to be queen of cute maybe you should consider being a slinky spring or a tickle-me-elmo doll! (my posts are getting WEIRD! lol) : tickle-me-elmo doll I almost forgot about him....... but, I think that the tickle-me-cookie monster is cuter

Sweety_Pie23

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Backburner girls Posted: 9/17/2007 7:22:46 PM
Libertine, its not that I missed the point, I said what I have noticed. Its great that you have all of those qualities, I never said you didn't. Some guys perfer their "life long partners" to be their best friend. You might not be getting put aside, maybe the guy wants to see if you will change. I don't know how long you have been talking with these guys, or how well you all know each other. I do know, that most guys that I talk to, want a girl who can be their best friend, and lover. Just continue on being who you are, like you have been, you never know, one day they might just realize that you are you, and they like that more then they thought.

Sweety_Pie23

Joined: 7/1/2007

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Who's the daddy? Posted: 9/17/2007 7:10:01 PM
Shawn, when she gets checked out by the doctors, go with her, find out an estimation on the time she got pregnant. I have a friend, who had no idea who the father was to her child, and her doctors got her estimated date of conception down to almost the exact day. Besides, if she gained that much weight that fast, then more then likely she is further along then you think she is. Go with her to the doctors, and ask. You'd be surprised what they can do. Not only that, but if they do an ultra sound on her, they will be able to tell, roughly on the size of the baby and give you a better date on when it was concevied ;) Good luck, and yea, definantly get tested for STD's...

Sweety_Pie23

Joined: 7/1/2007

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Do players ever settle down? Posted: 9/17/2007 6:59:29 PM
hmmmm, well, I must say that yes, the so called "players" can settle down. It just takes the right woman to do it. I was cheated on by a guy several times. (yes I was dumb and gave him a second chance after he cheated on me the first time) Well, needless to say, he is now happily married, and has a child. He has not cheated since he met her. So, yes, "players" can settle down and change.

Sweety_Pie23

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Backburner girls Posted: 9/17/2007 6:53:50 PM
lol robfish what if I wanna be a bouncing green ball?? I know I'm not a guy, but in my opinion, and what I have noticed, is that men like a girl who knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to make the first step. A girl who takes care of herself, and has a sense of humor. Life should be fun, and not spent worrying about what other people think and want, just do what makes you happy

Sweety_Pie23

Joined: 7/1/2007

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Country vs. City Posted: 9/7/2007 11:08:37 AM
Okay, I have to add my own opinion. I don't think it really matters, I think it all depends on the chemistry between the two people. I say this because I am a country girl at heart, yet I love the city, and I perfer to live in the city. I was born and raised in Cheyenne, Wyoming, which is as country as you can get. Yet I have lived in Florida, and Oregon. I perfer the city, yet I don't have a preference on whether I date a country boy or a city boy, it really doesn't matter as long as we connect ;)

Sweety_Pie23

Joined: 7/1/2007

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Women who cannot work? Posted: 9/6/2007 10:21:16 PM
Charmy101, I applaude you and give you the highest respect. As I do to all the other disabled women. My oldest daughters grandma (from her dads side) is also disabled, even though she and the rest of us thought that she was able to work the doctors denied her that right, because she only had half a lung left, and because of many other medical conditions. She was a wonderful women. I respect all of you because you all are trying and its not your fault, things happen for a reason and I truly admire you all for continuing on. Do not fret about not being a good role model for your children. When they get older, they will come to appreciate all the things you did for them. I know that they realize that you don't work because you can't, and not that you don't want to. And if you read the story that I had posted above, I hope you realize that it obtains to you as well. You do have a job, and its full time. You are a mother.

Sweety_Pie23

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Is there any hope for an ADHD guy? UPDATE Posted: 9/6/2007 10:13:42 PM
Well I must put in my 2 cents on this topic. Alot of you might not agree but it is my own opinion. I do not believe that ADD/ADHD actually exsits. I believe that some people just never grow out of the curiosity age of a child. I have found in my own expeirences with people who have supposed ADD/ADHD that if you give them a cup of coffee in the morning, and a cup of coffee in the evening, that they are just as calm and collected as anyone else. I used to work with a girl who had supposed ADD/ADHD, we worked at a resturant together. I was her manager, and it started to annoy me that she couldn't remember to go back and check on her tables. So we agreed that whenever she passed another server that was wearing a specific button, that she would go back to her tables and check on them. It worked. So my suggestions are this, even though I don't believe in ADD/ADHD I suggest you give them coffee and if that doesn't work, then give them something that will remind them of you, and then everytime they look at it, they will remember what they are supposed to do when it comes to you ;)

sweety_pie23

Joined: 7/1/2007

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Do men really want women like their Mom? Posted: 9/6/2007 7:18:57 PM
Well, I think I found one man that wants a woman like his mom :( Its such a downer. I'm no where close to being like her. Oh well. Oh the only reason of why I say he wants a woman like his mom, is because his parents are around pretty much from the time we wake up to the time we go to bed... I'm family oriented and all, but this is getting way to much for me. Am I right or am I wrong, or is he just trying to let his family decide on whether we should be together or not?? I'm so confused.........

sweety_pie23

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Don't want children? Why? Posted: 9/6/2007 7:11:44 PM
oops, that was supposed to say locnar... sorry...

sweety_pie23

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Don't want children? Why? Posted: 9/6/2007 7:11:13 PM
loncar.... May I ask why you would count out everyone on this thread?? I will say this much, at the time I found out I was pregnant with my 1st daughter, I was excited, 3 months later, the father turned abusive. Just about the same thing happened with my 2nd daughters father, only though he turned abusive, I left him, and then 3 months later I found I was pregnant. I was not ready, for my oldest at the time was only 6mnths old. I hold my own with out help from the government. I do things that I want to do, mainly because the friends I do them with respect the fact that I have kids. I am going to college, and I work. Just because you have a child, does not take away your dreams, or limit you from doing what you want. You just have to work around the small things. Kids are fun, and wonderful. The pregnancy is a pain, but they are wonderful to have.

sweety_pie23

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Women who cannot work? Posted: 9/5/2007 7:20:06 PM
Okay, I know that this is the wrong forum to be posting this and all, but A Good Year, next time someone ask's you what your profession is, remember this story....... JUST A MOM? A woman, renewing her driver's license at the County Clerk's office was asked by the woman recorder to state her occupation. She hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself. "What I mean is," explained the recorder, "do you have a job or are you just a......?" "Of course I have a job," snapped the woman. "I'm a Mom." "We don't list 'Mom' as an occupation, 'housewife' covers it," said the recorder emphatically. I forgot all about her story until one day I found myself in the same situation, this time at our own Town Hall. The Clerk was obviously a career woman, poised, efficient and possessed of a high sounding title like, "Official Interrogator" or "Town Registrar." "What is your occupation?" she probed. What made me say it? I do not know. The words simply popped out. "I'm a Research Associate in the field of Child Development and Human Relations." The clerk paused, ball-point pen frozen in midair and looked up as though she had not heard right. I repeated the title slowly emphasizing the most significant words. Then I stared with wonder as my pronouncement was written, in bold, black ink on the official questionnaire. "Might I ask," said the clerk with new interest, "just what you do in your field?" Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice, I heard myself reply, "I have a continuing program of research, [what mother doesn't) in the laboratory and in the field, (normally I would have said indoors and out). I'm working for my Masters, (first the Lord and then the whole family) and already have four credits (all daughters). Of course, the job is one of the most demanding in the humanities, (any mother care to disagree?) and I often work 14 hours a day, (24 is more like it). But the job is more challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers and the rewards are more of a satisfaction rather than just money." There was an increasing note of respect in the clerk's voice as she completed the form, stood up and personally ushered me to the door. As I drove into our driveway, buoyed up by my glamorous new career, I was greeted by my lab assistants -- ages 13, 7, and 3. Upstairs I could hear our new experimental model, (a 6 month old baby) in the child development program, testing out a new vocal pattern. I felt I had scored a beat on bureaucracy! And I had gone on the official records as someone more distinguished and indispensable to mankind than "just another Mom." Motherhood! What a glorious career! Especially when there's a title on the door.

sweety_pie23

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Dominant or Submissive Behaviour,...which is more of a turn on for you? Posted: 9/5/2007 6:23:00 PM
Jayderaven, that is a great qoute. I like that. For I love to be dominated in the bedroom, yet I can take control at times. I know what I like and I'm not affraid to direct or even tell the person that I am with, what to do. I of course do love it when the man takes control, because to me, he is exploring my body and learning to please me. Of course after a while, if all he does is the samething over and over again, I have to switch things up a bit, and be dominate. I am some what aggressive when it comes to being in the bedroom, but I love it when a man shows me some aggressiveness also ;)

sweety_pie23

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One for all the guys here.... Posted: 9/5/2007 6:10:49 PM
I agree harrabylad, even one is more concerned with "what can I do" then they are on "what can we do". I must admit that alot of you guys are very romantic, I enjoy that. It is good to see that there is still hope. Every guy that I have met on here, except for the occasional few, have all been very sweet and kind. It really makes me wonder why so many of you are still single.

Sweety_Pie23

Joined: 7/1/2007

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moustaches, beards or both? Posted: 9/5/2007 12:39:24 AM
I love facial hair, as long as its not knotted or tangled. I like it when a man keep it trimmed. The sexiest thing to me is a man who clean, with facial hair. I love it. Besides I like the way it feels when he kissing me :) Very attractive. I just don't like hairy chest's or guys with hair past their shoulders.

Sweety_Pie23

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How do I get a response to emails? Posted: 9/5/2007 12:23:25 AM
If someone doesn't respond, then they aren't that interested, or they are busy. I have writtin emails to people and not a get a response till a week later. By that time, I forgot what I wrote and have to back track. It is annoying, but after a while, you get used to it. I figure if they don't reply then the email I send to them didn't catch their eye, and I go on.

sweety_pie23

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Girls In Boys Sports Posted: 9/4/2007 9:39:28 PM
My little sister, graduated at the top of varsity wrestling team at East High School, just like our brother James, and next is our brother Joe, who is also a varsity wrestler. I personally don't think that the guys should be worried about it. I understand and agree that a guy should not be aggressive towards a female, but they do need to remember that this is sports, and that the girl obviously has to practice with the guys on her team, then she should be able to handle what ever they bring to them. Besides if they are anything like my little sister, then the guys better be on their toes, and give their best, cause dear god, not even I will mess with my little sister :) (at least not to the point she wants to fight)

sweety_pie23

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How do I tell my girlfriend I like to wear a bra? Posted: 9/4/2007 9:09:05 PM
lol, I can't help myself. Oh wow. this is to much. I'm sorry, I understand that people have wierd fetishes, but I mean seriously now. Is this something that you have to do?? I mean, would you be willing to stop if she asked you to?? 40b, wholy wow, I don't even want to state what is on my mind now............ Okay, okay, I can't help myself, dear god, thats horrible, no woman I have ever met that has to wear a size 40 has ever had a B cup. You must have small man boobs or somethin, cause oh wow... Or are they specially made??

sweety_pie23

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How do I tell my girlfriend I like to wear a bra? Posted: 9/4/2007 8:24:44 PM
Ummmmm, wow, are you serious?? I mean, is there a specific reason to this, other then the fact that you like to wear them. Do you have something to put in the bra, do you stuff them, or can you fill them?? Do you wear her bra's without telling her?? I mean seriously, think about it, if you met her on here, then you just told her. I'm sure she will read this post, mainly because its gonna show on your profile. But, if not, then I suggest you tell her now. I mean if you want this relationship to be honest, and full filling, and you feel the same for her as she does for you, then tell her. If she truely loves you then she will ignore this little glitch in you DNA and continue your relationship. Or she might tell you only at night, and not while you all are in bed together. Or this could be the end of your relationship. But I really do believe you should tell her right away.

sweety_pie23

Joined: 7/1/2007

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Don't want children? Why? Posted: 9/4/2007 8:19:33 PM
Alot of people say that once you have kids you loose your freedom. lol, I find that kind of funny. Kids really aren't that expensive. I'm a single mother of two wonderful little girls, neither of them planned, and well the dads are no where to be found. I at this moment, work full time, and go to school full time, and I spend every moment I have with my daughters. Its not hard to do the things you enjoy doing when you have kids. I still get out, and hang out with my friends. My daughters come with, I still go to the bars, late at night, when my daughters are asleep at the baby sitters. Its not hard. As for making sure the significant other in your life is happy, thats not hard to do either. If you have kids, then the significant other in your life, needs to like kids, and trust me, if your kids are happy, and your happy, then your significant other will be happy also. Now then, as to why women don't want kids, its not a selfish act, its simply because they have more important things in their lives to do right now. Or it could also be the fact that they just plain ol' are not made out to have kids. My Aunt who is 45 yrs old, doesn't have any kids. Not only does she not want any, but she can't have any. She is funny to watch around my daughters, because she has no maternal instincts at all. I get a kick out of it :)

sweety_pie23

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Can a guy tell when a woman has low self-esteem? Posted: 9/4/2007 7:59:58 PM
I have a little suggestion. I know this might sound a little crazy, but I promise, it will help. Rent the movie "the secret" watch it. Its a good movie, and very true. The things it says to do, really work. In the mean time, take sticky notes, and write on them, write all the positive things about yourself, and stick them all over the house, your car, and even around your desk at work, or where ever you work. Every time you see one. Repeat it three times. Trust me, it will help build your confidence, and your self-esteem. Its a wonderful thing. Because you can't make someone happy unless you yourself are truely happy. ;)

Sweety_Pie23

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dating someone with potential heart problems.....could that create a problem down the road? Posted: 9/4/2007 3:00:39 PM
Well, for me it wouldn't matter, as long as the guy was trying to take care of himself, and speed up the process. I have dated guys with many different conditions. I am in the process of talking with a guy that has Muscular Dystrophy and Multiple Sclerosis, both of which can cripple him by the time he is 40, if he doesn't take care of himself. I am going to school to become a massage therapist, so I can help him through out his troubling times. Now whether or not we take this relationship a step further is another story, but no matter what happens I hope that we can still be friends so that I can continue to help him in ways that he needs me to :)

sweety_pie23

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Why are men afraid to IM or respond Posted: 8/31/2007 9:37:34 PM
Oh hun, the same thing happens to me all the time. No worries though. Most guys that do im, only want to have cyber sex, so your better off not iming anyways. As for the guys who don't reply, I don't know what to say about that. I have only associated with a total of 6 guys that actually replied, all I can say is keep sending those emails, and just see what happens. The person you want will open up and talk with you, no worries sweet heart, just keep on trying :)

sweety_pie23

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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 8/31/2007 9:33:15 PM
lol DavesKuntry, thats funny. I like that idea. Don't get me wrong, I do expect guys to stare when I wear something that shows clevage, I wouldn't wear if I didn't like the attention, and yes you are right, I would wear the glitter to be noticed, but my eyes are my best feature, so I do perfer my eyes to be noticed more then anything else. I'm a female, what can I say, I accept the fact that men are gonna look whether I want them to or not, but I don't care if a guy looks, just don't touch unless I give you permission. Now, if it is a guy that I have been dealing with (friends, employee, employer, ex, a friends boyfriend, or a client) and everytime I talked to them or even seen them, and all they did was stare at my chest and talk to my boobs, you better believe the first thing I'm gonna do is bend over and talk to their penis. I mean its only fair, especially if you have said something before and they continue to do it

sweety_pie23

Joined: 7/1/2007

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how long will you wait for sex? Posted: 8/31/2007 8:52:32 PM
Well, I have to reply to this one. I am not easy, I have never cheated on a guy before, but I have to make sure the guy is good in bed before I make up my mind on whether the relationship is gonna work or not. I haven't had a boyfriend, or sex in over a year and a half, by my choice of course, but when I find a guy that I am into, you better believe we are gonna be doin something fun underneath the sheets very soon ;)

sweety_pie23

Joined: 7/1/2007

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One for all the guys here.... Posted: 8/31/2007 7:29:15 PM
It is nice to see men who will actually show that they care in many different ways. But let me ask you something..... Do you really have to spend money on a woman to make her feel special?? I personally don't like red roses, I don't like it when a guy tries to buy me things when we are out at the store together. If a guy wants to get me something, then send me a text message and tell me you miss me, or just appear out of no where and hug and kiss me. Be more affectionate. I love it when a guy shows me he cares, when he cooks dinner, or even starts a bath for me to relax in. Maybe light up the house with candles, if you want to get me roses of another color, thats fine, I love it, but don't send them to me all the time, just for those special occasions at home is perfect for me. I don't know about anyone else, but a man who can do those things for me, and doesn't try to buy me things, is the man for me.

sweety_pie23

Joined: 7/1/2007

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full body massages- give or get? Posted: 8/31/2007 7:14:48 PM
I am going to school to become a massage therapist, as much as I would like for my man to show me he cares and give me a massage, I would definantly perfer to give one. As much as I like to have my mans hands all over me, I would rather give the massage and please him, for his happiness will make me happy

sweety_pie23

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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 8/31/2007 7:10:41 PM
I have a few ideas I would like to give. 1) The next time a guy talks to your boobs, kneel down to his crotch and answere it. 2) When I was serving tables, I used to put glitter on my eyes, that way whenever I bent over to take the order, the guys would stare at my eyes and not my chest. Just a few ideas, personally, I have found that #1 is very affective in getting the guy to realize how you feel.

sweety_pie23

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The perfect woman… Posted: 8/31/2007 6:53:51 PM
Well, just because I read everyone's post's I had to stop and say something. I am actually surprised by some of the reply's, I do agree that a man can have whoever he wants as long as he tries. hmmmmm, impresive..... Psssst.... supermanscousin..... Are you really 6'6" ??

sweety_pie23

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Are independant women a turn off? Posted: 8/31/2007 6:06:30 PM
Hmmmm, very interesting. I am glad to see that when I decide to date again, and actually try to find the "one" the only thing I really need to worry about now is whether or not him and my daughters get along. Now I do not consider myself an independent woman, like most people would say, I consider myself a woman who is doing what she has to do to get ahead in the world and provide for her family. To all of you guys who helped a woman become independent I must give you some respect, along with those of you who have tried to help a dependent female out also. When I found out that I was gonna have my 2nd child, I didn't know what I was gonna do, my bf at the time, wasn't working, I was supporting myself the unborn, my 1st born and him. I decided I needed a change, because I couldn't support all of us by serving tables. When I told him that I wanted to go back to school and get my stuff together, so that I could better support us, he threw a fit, and we got into a huge arguement, needless to say, I packed my stuff, and moved. I was decent enough to leave him the apartment. I wish I would have known a man who would actually show me support and push me to do better. I respect all of you who were there and helped

sweety_pie23

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Does a guy have to be a knob? Posted: 8/22/2007 6:13:31 PM
"the lower end of the sectrum" in my eyes is more of the guys who treat a girl like crap. I do like a nice guy, but he has to have self confidence, and yes be a little full of himself. That shows me, that has self-esteem. I'm the female, I should be the one who asks if I look fat, not the guy going "well why wont you date me" I agree that the thread starter should seperate himself from the women that consider him just a friend. They aren't worth your time. In my eyes, why are you trying to settle for someone that doesn't want you, and doesn't show you the respect that you deserve? Get over them, set your standers a little higher, show that you have a back bone, and go get 'em. No use in being shy, you'll never meet the "one" like that.

sweety_pie23

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I feel a little guilty and selfish. Posted: 8/21/2007 9:45:03 PM
Wow, I must agree, my daughters are always outside, even when we are inside, my daughters are constantly playing. As for only getting 5 hours of sleep a night, consider yourself lucky. I only get 3 hours of sleep a night. And its not because I'm out partying either. Its because I go to school, work, and I'm a single mother of a 2 yr old and a 1 yr old. I don't understand why at the age of 3 your child is still sleeping with you, and as for a tv in his room, I honestly believe thats outragous. I personally think you should break him of both habits at the same time, it will be easier on you in the long run. Why would you want to let your child continue to grow with a bad habit, which is just gonna make it harder on you to break him of it later.

sweety_pie23

Joined: 7/1/2007

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Does a guy have to be a noob? Posted: 8/21/2007 9:17:23 PM
Well, I must admit, I do like a guy who can take control. I like a man that knows what he wants and goes for it. Shyness is cute, and sweet but doesn't last long. Let me put it to you this way. If you aint got the balls to speak to a woman and tell her what's on your mind, then you will never have a girlfriend. So buck up, and let your balls drop and become a man..

sweety_pie23

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do younger women want to be pounded like a jack hammer? Posted: 8/20/2007 9:58:34 PM
Well, I must say that I do like to be "jackhammered". If thats the correct terminology you all would like to use. Personally for me, I do like it rough all the time, I like to be bit, have my hair pulled, tossed and turned. Does it really matter though? I mean honestly, if the guy means that much to me, then sex in general with him is good no matter how we do it.

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