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totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

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Does God exist? Posted: 4/1/2009 7:03:40 PM
Yes 3 primary colors but the fourth color is the color "white" . Color is a frequency of a electromagnetic vibration. White light from the sun...with out the sun (or white light) there is no color. All colors are a vibration that only works in white light or sunlight. In darkness everything is the same color. Look thru a night scope at night. As humans we are so silly in our thoughts. The earth for example if you were in space looking down on the earth a human being is the size of a bacterium or even a virus. We think things that are large, that we built, are so big. Again from space we can not see that marvel it is puny! The Grand Canyon looks like a scratch on the planets surface. Now think about the dust mite crawling on your skin. We can not see it with out a microscope. From the dust mite to a virus, the dust mite has no eyes but it would not be able to see a virus. A virus is comprised of untold amounts of atoms. Then you pass the atoms to quarks and other particles. We are just a bag of marbles that spin around and gives us the human body plus everything else in the universe. So what do we really see and sense? Everything that goes to the brain is an "electromagnetic pulse". Quantum physics will bring about more closely the existence of a power beyond all things. Every thing in the universe is an "electromagnetic pulse" that exists from the whole universe to the particles below the levels of atoms. Yet all these thing know what to do? There is no chaos in the universe ...well except from us maybe.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

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Does God exist? Posted: 3/30/2009 10:41:55 PM
Well I decide to throw this out there. Something I wrote and share now with all. What is love? What is sex? What is intimacy? So many people on our planet live a life of fear. Most all Beliefs or religions in our world today are cults now! If you don't believe like they do.....they want to KILL you!(Not a religion but a control for the privileged few to use to get power and money). Don't believe in dressing like them(They want to beat you in to being controlled by being a member of a cult...it separates you from society control again ). Everything you do is a sin?(again control to make you feel less than anyone else and to get your money). So all this doom and gloom there is some truth right here right now. The Creator or Great Spirit( I will not use the word God anymore all religions and cults claim that name for their belief, but only their belief is real and only their God is the only one????Every one else is wrong!! So if you are still reading hang on we are getting to the goodies. So what are we and what is love? We are a bag of water with a little dirt thrown in stirred up and that makes our body! Pretty simple isn't it...well kinda. We are really an unimaginable number of little spinning atoms that combine together to form our body...that's it. Now the secret. Those little atoms have an intelligence they know what to do to form water, to form the air, to make all of our cells grow in very specific types of organs. Not only that but our body has nerves that uses electricity to control everything in our body(electromagnetic fields that is what the ENTIRE universe is made of). So now we get to the part that each one of us is a God/ human! We have a spirit inside that is pure love...that proves there is a higher power of the ENTIRE Universe. There is no Hell that is a control to make you bow to a select few that want power and your money! Do you think evil is a being that gets to punish us after we return to the universe? Evil...the word is LIVE spelled backward that's all. The things people do that are cruel, evil, hurtful are negative feelings to show how much they hate themselves. How much they despise things and issues inside themselves. The name of God has been used in some of the most violent and obscene cruelties ever done on the earth in all the time we have been walking upright as humans. The Creator did not do these things mankind did. The name of God, Great Spirit, Allah and all the others are but one spirit...kinda. If you look it up the Greek words of the Bible it says "In the beginning a dual spirit said let there be light" that is when they split to form the male/female. God/ Holy Spirit.....male/ female, positive/negative,day/night,Ying/Yang, North/South the list goes on and on. BUT all beliefs have a male and female in the beginning. This exist all the way down to the atom...positive/negative! So this love thing what is it. We love how we feel inside of ourselves! Now the love of parents and children is as close to unlimited or unconditional love there is or can be. This special group created each other from each other...a part of each persons SELF in YOU. So to love is to love ones self and to love ones self is to love the ones that gave you the parts of themselves. Do that and you can love another and another and another as long as you love YOURSELF and the parts(of love) that were given to you in an act of love! Well since we are Americans we will use what we are taught. In the beginning When all things were first thought into existence that Dual Deity split to form the Creator and the Holy Spirit(hey we use the term Mother Earth a lot?) that was the greatest act of love ever. They became our father and mother!!! Wow so now we know why everything on the planet is male/female, everything in the universe is positive/negative. I forgot bacteria...virus/anti virus..there fixed. So now the sex part. You know the little symbols of male female right...kinda easy..male has a little pointy thing pointing upward and the female has the head with a body(little round circle with a cross below the head) again a positive/negative sign. Sex is a gift for us to share with another person. We are playing, imitating the Creator in trying to create an offspring a child. Everything about sex is about reproducing...that is what drives us to have sex....and it feels pretty damn awesome also. That is another gift we were giving in this human form. Pleasure beyond any other pleasure we can sense. Sex cures us, heals us, makes us feel good inside and we remember how we LOVE how we feel when we are with someone that makes us feel good inside. There is another level that is just now starting to be proven in science. The exchange of body fluids from male to female and female to male, from having sex, makes our moods, our emotions even our spirit feel alive...aware, awake and living. I even will tell you it makes the universe a happy place also because we are sharing ourselves and anytime we share with others on our little planet even other than sex (like saying something nice, helping someone,even picking up trash beside the road) the universe becomes a happier place. Now intimacy...that's a interesting word. It has power, meaning and most of all love! Sexual intimacy is between lovers. We are sharing ourselves with another person. We want to feel pleasure and provide them with pleasure. We want to be respected and to give respect. Its OK to share ourselves...it is not a sin...it is not sending you to hell...it is the act of what the entire universe does...it creates either a child or the hormones and chemicals that heal us from within! Friendships are also a form of intimacy. We share our feeling, our hurts, our insecurities about ourselves, our happy moments, our sad moments, our trust and our respect. That is intimacy also just a different form. Energy can not be destroyed only transformed into something else. Life hands you lemons...make lemonade! See you already know how to,just now you have to relearn to learn how to. Living is intimacy. We live to be happy so many have forgotten that word...happiness/love/joy positive things to improve ones life. But is doesn't stop there. We clean up our trash to protect our world, we are trying to clean up our environment to show some love for our planet, we try to learn from our mistakes and our past mistakes. We try to make the world a better place for our children,grandchildren, our neighbors even our enemies we do not want to destroy others we want them to have the thing we all seek in the first place.....PEACE. Peace of mind, peace of body, peace of soul, peace of nations, peace of the world...peace of and in the universe. So what do you feel right now at this moment? That's the question?

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

I've realized something... Posted: 3/30/2009 10:36:53 PM
Something for you to think about. You have to love yourself. So just something I have been putting together.What is love? What is sex? What is intimacy? So many people on our planet live a life of fear. Most all Beliefs or religions in our world today are cults now! If you don't believe like they do.....they want to KILL you!(Not a religion but a control for the privileged few to use to get power and money). Don't believe in dressing like them(They want to beat you in to being controlled by being a member of a cult...it separates you from society control again ). Everything you do is a sin?(again control to make you feel less than anyone else and to get your money). So all this doom and gloom there is some truth right here right now. The Creator or Great Spirit( I will not use the word God anymore all religions and cults claim that name for their belief, but only their belief is real and only their God is the only one????Every one else is wrong!! So if you are still reading hang on we are getting to the goodies. So what are we and what is love? We are a bag of water with a little dirt thrown in stirred up and that makes our body! Pretty simple isn't it...well kinda. We are really an unimaginable number of little spinning atoms that combine together to form our body...that's it. Now the secret. Those little atoms have an intelligence they know what to do to form water, to form the air, to make all of our cells grow in very specific types of organs. Not only that but our body has nerves that uses electricity to control everything in our body(electromagnetic fields that is what the ENTIRE universe is made of). So now we get to the part that each one of us is a God/ human! We have a spirit inside that is pure love...that proves there is a higher power of the ENTIRE Universe. There is no Hell that is a control to make you bow to a select few that want power and your money! Do you think evil is a being that gets to punish us after we return to the universe? Evil...the word is LIVE spelled backward that's all. The things people do that are cruel, evil, hurtful are negative feelings to show how much they hate themselves. How much they despise things and issues inside themselves. The name of God has been used in some of the most violent and obscene cruelties ever done on the earth in all the time we have been walking upright as humans. The Creator did not do these things mankind did. The name of God, Great Spirit, Allah and all the others are but one spirit...kinda. If you look it up the Greek words of the Bible it says "In the beginning a dual spirit said let there be light" that is when they split to form the male/female. God/ Holy Spirit.....male/ female, positive/negative,day/night,Ying/Yang, North/South the list goes on and on. BUT all beliefs have a male and female in the beginning. This exist all the way down to the atom...positive/negative! So this love thing what is it. We love how we feel inside of ourselves! Now the love of parents and children is as close to unlimited or unconditional love there is or can be. This special group created each other from each other...a part of each persons SELF in YOU. So to love is to love ones self and to love ones self is to love the ones that gave you the parts of themselves. Do that and you can love another and another and another as long as you love YOURSELF and the parts(of love) that were given to you in an act of love! Well since we are Americans we will use what we are taught. In the beginning When all things were first thought into existence that Dual Deity split to form the Creator and the Holy Spirit(hey we use the term Mother Earth a lot?) that was the greatest act of love ever. They became our father and mother!!! Wow so now we know why everything on the planet is male/female, everything in the universe is positive/negative. I forgot bacteria...virus/anti virus..there fixed. So now the sex part. You know the little symbols of male female right...kinda easy..male has a little pointy thing pointing upward and the female has the head with a body(little round circle with a cross below the head) again a positive/negative sign. Sex is a gift for us to share with another person. We are playing, imitating the Creator in trying to create an offspring a child. Everything about sex is about reproducing...that is what drives us to have sex....and it feels pretty damn awesome also. That is another gift we were giving in this human form. Pleasure beyond any other pleasure we can sense. Sex cures us, heals us, makes us feel good inside and we remember how we LOVE how we feel when we are with someone that makes us feel good inside. There is another level that is just now starting to be proven in science. The exchange of body fluids from male to female and female to male, from having sex, makes our moods, our emotions even our spirit feel alive...aware, awake and living. I even will tell you it makes the universe a happy place also because we are sharing ourselves and anytime we share with others on our little planet even other than sex (like saying something nice, helping someone,even picking up trash beside the road) the universe becomes a happier place. Now intimacy...that's a interesting word. It has power, meaning and most of all love! Sexual intimacy is between lovers. We are sharing ourselves with another person. We want to feel pleasure and provide them with pleasure. We want to be respected and to give respect. Its OK to share ourselves...it is not a sin...it is not sending you to hell...it is the act of what the entire universe does...it creates either a child or the hormones and chemicals that heal us from within! Friendships are also a form of intimacy. We share our feeling, our hurts, our insecurities about ourselves, our happy moments, our sad moments, our trust and our respect. That is intimacy also just a different form. Energy can not be destroyed only transformed into something else. Life hands you lemons...make lemonade! See you already know how to,just now you have to relearn to learn how to. Living is intimacy. We live to be happy so many have forgotten that word...happiness/love/joy positive things to improve ones life. But is doesn't stop there. We clean up our trash to protect our world, we are trying to clean up our environment to show some love for our planet, we try to learn from our mistakes and our past mistakes. We try to make the world a better place for our children,grandchildren, our neighbors even our enemies we do not want to destroy others we want them to have the thing we all seek in the first place.....PEACE. Peace of mind, peace of body, peace of soul, peace of nations, peace of the world...peace of and in the universe. So what do you feel right now at this moment? That's the question?

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 31 (view)

Jack Hammer Sex and checking the merchandise out Posted: 3/2/2009 4:54:53 PM
Ok I just can't help it but I have to say this ...... if you want hammering (which I do not have a problem with) just go down to the local Ho Depot (Home Depot just in case that flew over your head) and pick up a reciprocating saw and mount a dildo on it!! I know I could not make myself stop thinking that....it was a visual image I had to share.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 114 (view)

Age Appropriate Behavior Posted: 2/18/2009 8:20:46 PM
My 2 cents on this one. Age appropriate behavior???? WTF.....first who decides what is appropriate and what is not? Now I go along with the rules of society or laws(if they make sense). Driving we need a standard of rules so everyone is basically driving the same all over our country. Laws we need those so things that are bad (like killing the dumb a** that comes up with trying to make others do as they want but not as they do) so killing, stealing so forth so on yes we need rules and laws. But appropriate programing for people to live by is a lot of BS. I live for me to be happy and do the things I enjoy doing. This is from the Wicca's way of thought..."do as you please as long as you harm no other". So would I wear old man pants up to my chest...hell no. Must I wear ugly dress shoes and shorts...Hell no. Must I cut my hair to match others my age...Hell no. Should I not have sex with my girlfriend ( single at the moment so...) hiding in the dunes at the beach late at night because I am old? HELL NO. The way I see it...it is up to me to keep active and moving (even if it hurts) because if you ever stop and just sit around watching TV you will die. I am not ready to give up the ghost yet so I plan on having fun...doing exciting and wild things until I slide in to the grave. So act your age by appropriate thoughts set by some one else....Hell no! Excitement, fun, risky, freedom the list keeps going. Live to enjoy your life and the time you have to be here. Stop worrying about yesterday (its gone there is no fixing the past) tomorrow has not gotten here yet... so today live it fully and when you wake up in the morning start it all over again.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 361 (view)

Squirting...can this be learned? Posted: 2/13/2009 6:50:36 PM
I am glad to see so much positive info and open minds talking about this. As men we are the ones that need to KNOW how to pleasure a woman. As a woman you deserve the right to feel these things that your body is able to achieve for you. You have the right and you deserve to learn of these things and never ever be ashamed of the pleasure you can and should be able to feel. Yes there is a lot of info on the web for all of us to learn from. The one thing that everyone has to understand is that a woman must be able to TRUST her male friend to be willing to let go completely to him. For the men, that read this, you need to be able to love and appreciate a woman for being the sensual and sexual creature she is. Men have to let go of the idea that anything about sex is a "sin"..."something dirty"..."something taboo". Sex is a wonderful gift for both parties involved. The problem is too many are just after self-gratification and no thought of the woman having pleasure also. Our gift is to each other to share our self with another person...to open up and feel the enjoyment, love, pleasure the bond of male/female...Ying/Yang...postive /negative. A woman's mind is the most important thing in learning this technique. She must trust the man, she must give herself openly and completely, she must love herself and know it is all right to do this thing and it is natural. The last most important thing is to know she is RESPECTED for being a woman, for being a sexual and sensual creature and most importantly that she is respected for what her body is about to do. If a man brings a woman to this state of pleasure and then makes a negative comment, an act of dis-respect, or to voice that it was nasty or dirty in any way he will do great damage to her mentally, emotionally and even spiritually. That is damage to a person's Karma and that is the true "sin" to harm another from ignorance.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 2383 (view)

gun control in the usa Posted: 2/9/2009 6:25:42 PM
Ace you have a very good point. Anyone who shots a gun of any type should have some training and pass a test. Me was old school...I was hunting at age 12 and I ate what I shot. So I grew up with guns around and how to respect them but also to care about where the bullet goes. Back then our neighbors had cows and horses (plus our own hogs and muless) so to shoot in any direction is a stupid move...what is the bullet going to hit when it comes down to the ground. A bullet shot straight up will not kill a person it goes up and up until gravity and air resistance stop it from going any higher then it free fall to earth just like a parachute. An bullet shot at a angle toward the sunset/ sunrise and above will have full power a mile or MORE when it hits the ground and it can kill anyone/anything in that path. These things are the reason for training and so many people are just city folks or urban folks these things never cross their mind they were never exposed to the responsibility of their actions in shooting a gun. That is why when I shoot I set my area up to a line of fire. From one point (like a fence post) to another point(like a tree) the area in between those 2 places are my safe zone as long as NOTHING beyond my eye sight is still safe. Like the backdrop is a bank of dirt, or a huge swamp or I am in a tree stand and I can only shoot into the dirt. The key thing is knowledge about the weapon, how to use it safely, how to shoot it, how to store it, how to take care of it....and understanding it is the one holding the weapon that is responsible for everything once you pull the trigger.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 2377 (view)

gun control in the usa Posted: 2/1/2009 7:41:01 PM
I amazes me to the ignorance of anti-gun people. Have you ever seen a gun just go off and kill someone? NO you haven't. Have you seen some one shot down in cold blood? NO you haven't. That number is very very low if you are one of those that have. Please do some thinking of what is real and fairy land here people. The law abiding gun owner is not the problem. Now the dumb ass that does not store his weapons in a safe place and kids get them and kill someone...we can not have an idiot free society unless you want to revive Hitler's idea of the perfect society and kill the stupid people...but who is going to decide that one...who is the one to decide who is to live and who is to die? Our country was founded on the knowledge that our government would become corrupt within a few hundred years and this(gun ownership) was to make the government know that its people could restore Democracy. Absolute power ...corrupts absolutely! How many of you have seen how many "police men/women" killing or stealing on duty and off duty. If you don't even notice that you need to wake up. How many politicians have gone on the "feed MY hand" or the "I forgot about those taxes I owe". Now if you are silly enough to think that someone bad is fixing to hurt you and you think that law enforcement is going to come and save your dumb ass...well you had better wake up and learn to depend on yourself for your own protection. So if you are scared of guns then go and be trained in them. If you want guns to be outlawed...go live in Mexico and stay there. Fear is such a good emotion to preach to others so they become afraid...wonderful tool...our government uses it against us...our religions use it against us...damn bunch of crooks use it against us...terrorists use it against us. Just because you want to be in fear doesn't mean others are going to listen to the BS and fall on the ground and cry like a baby. So if you want to cut back on crime....to cut back on murders...to cut back on stealing...legalize drugs. Make them so cheap there is no profit and crime will decline more than any one in law enforcement or the government would admit to....no crime no job!!!

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 18 (view)

Is there a TOO OLD standard? Or do emotions govern all? Posted: 12/20/2008 8:45:57 PM
Dude do what you feel right about. Special someones are not guaranteed to be your age...people put you down because they live in fear themselves or are jealous that you are friends with a younger female. Who gives a sh*t what happiness you and her can feel that is for YOU and HER to decide. I use to be a fireman...I have picked up a lot of dead bodies that never got that chance to feel love again. They are gone and if they depended on their own happiness by worrying about what others think...they cheated themselves out of feeling before it is too late.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 150 (view)

Short Men Posted: 12/20/2008 8:38:06 PM
Short men??? OK lets re-frame this idea. If you think it is a problem...then it is. If you think women do not like short men...then they don't. If you think people hate you because you are short...then they do! Anything you think bad about yourself you are making it that way. It shows up in your own confidence. If you have confidence that you are the prize...that you are a wonderful man for any woman...that you are worthy of the title..MAN...then everyone will pick up on that. Not all women will like you ...big damn deal...there are more than you can count of single women that are looking for someone like you...if you think you are worth it! Look to nature great example is the Badger. I have seen many movies in the wild that the badger is busy digging a den or digging for food. A Big ass bear walks in and thinks "easy meal here" until he gets to close. As small as the badger is he will rip the face off that bear. He will turn around and attack the bear...it won't be long before the bear will walk away and the Badger just keeps on doing what he was doing before the bear showed up. Small packages can be more than a handful. Just get rid of the idea women do not like you just because you are short. I like the idea that I do not have to duck my head when I walk through a door! The other idea of a woman that says she loves to be on her toes when kissing then be the best at kissing and make her knees weak...that is more important than your size.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 224 (view)

stripclubs... Posted: 12/20/2008 6:34:21 PM
Well if you are going to a strip club and thinking you are going to pick up a stripper...you are in trouble to start with. Those females are doing a job that tips very well. Those women are not after any ones mate, husband, boyfriend or any one else....they are after making some damn good money from the guys that think licking their money and stuffing it in her very small bottom is going to make her hot and want to jump him right there. As soon as she can get to a shower she is there counting the take for the night. Are these girls prostitutes...very few...most are injured inside. Some male (usually) has treated them like doggie poop and told them they were ugly as hell and how lucky she was that HE was willing to Fu*k her even. It is called mental abuse and years of it can damage a persons love of them self. I have been to a few strip clubs, mostly bachelor parties, but I admit I enjoy seeing a females body but am I going to waste my money on tips...HELL NO...lap dance...HELL NO..... I will smile and respect her as a woman... not trash or anything less than a woman. Its not my business...hell if a bunch of women would stuff dollars in my underwear I would be shaking this bootie also. So it is just entertainment that's all...like wrestling...a show. Worry about it...only if you man is there weekly or your woman is there weekly also ...unless she is the striper.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

Perpetual Energy Posted: 12/20/2008 4:05:00 PM
I like the fact you use hydrogen that you buy. MY POINT is I can make a hydroxy torch using distilled water and lye using 12 volts at 25 amps and I have not used any thing pulling the hydrogen from ...OIL!!!! Browns gas is real. BUT we have better metals now that back then and the ability to get anything we need to make things. Look it up yourself on You tube...Yahoo...any video on the web it is there. I used to be like that where I thought it was a scam so that is why I made my own a year ago. Been experimenting ever since. OH I use only parts from Lowe's or Home Depot so that what ever I can make any person can make also from a local store in your area. OH yea my rock or glass that is bright white take the torch away and it is glowing ret hot...you are welcome to come and pick it up so you can know....I learned as a kid to not pick up things that are red hot! There are those, of course, who argue that they are able to generate a "special" (read "magical") sort of hydrogen ("Brown's gas"), but I've never seen any evidence for it in the physical world (as opposed to the online world, where one is able to pick and choose between realities) . Now the statement above ....well some people are scam artist and they seek a way to get your money. You are the only one that can decide is it is true or not...make it yourself then you know what is real or not. Korea had the first commercial "Browns Gas " generator in the year 2000...it won the science award that year in the show. But that is one thing that is a so lame...when someone tells me something won't work I always ask..."so what happened when you tried doing that" so many "experts reply....I never did it or tried it I just know it won't work. Mmmmmmmm....never tried it...never proved it....but you know it is impossible..... Chinese have a wise saying...something about when a man says something is impossible to do ...stand aside so the next guy can do it! Interesting thing that in my school and college(I did graduate both) I have never seen any teacher or professor show us or me anything about making Hydrogen from water with electricity. I admit yes I did not know these things at one time. BUT I DO NOW! I thought it was a load of BS! But I built it and I know now it is real and it does work. Do I have a computer to model this and make the plans and spend months computing the data before I started...no I did not and do not. Do I put anyone down for telling something of truth and fact? No sorry I don't waste my time on the negative comments to prove myself superior...I just hope to strike a few cells in the Noe Cortex that would make you go.....MMMMMMM suppose he is right am I am wrong maybe I need to prove this to myself to see. Whenever any of you finally hit that stage we can all work together to develop the Hydrogen age WITHOUT ......OIL...it can be done. It will be done just you can fight it all you want but you become the dinosaur then.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

Perpetual Energy Posted: 12/19/2008 8:06:25 PM
OK lets think....by math and aeronautics...bumble bees can not fly much less hover or fly backwards! I wonder if we told them would they all fall on the ground? Then magnets last maybe 300 years or a little longer but give it a electric current and it is good for another 300? Silver is 105% at conducing electric current where copper is 100%. Water is made of 2 hydrogen atoms and 1 oxygen atom but give it some juice and now we have a gas that is the perfect mixture to burn...OH I make those for my self ..Hydroxy generator...wonderful to light my touch using just distilled water and some KOH and melt rocks in seconds or burn alum on contact. Interesting thing about this gas you burn it and it turns back into water...wonderful example of fusion ..what kind I don't know but the flame you can nearly touch with your hand but put it on metal, glass, rock, steel whatever it turns to the brightness of the sun. No it is not a flame in what we think of as burning but it is a fusion...the atoms are creating a heat (on the part it touches) like the sun itself but the tip is still cool. I have welded many things but you can never touch the tip 1/16 inch from the flame and it not burn your finger except this. This very thing many scientist have said you can not make anything with this simple bunch of parts...yet I can and several thousand others can and we are working every day to find out more ways to improve it. And to many scientist argue we are wasting our time...we I always was one that"tell me it is impossible to do and I think I can...either I will or keep trying until i decide someone with a different thought is the key to this problem. OH and don't forget the 2000 year old computer that the curator of a musem was the only one able to put it together and it works!!!

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

Perpetual Energy Posted: 12/18/2008 2:41:46 PM
Thank you for being an open minded scientist...the total BS of math is just a shocker to get the attention for people to think. I remember one time in high school I solved and equation in algebra and I only got half credit. The reason was because the way I solved it was not the way he taught us. He could not figure out how I got the correct answer but I knew how I did but it was outside of the normal thinking and teaching. Remember Tesla was made fun of in college because his professor called his dream of an electric motor a Perpetual motion device....thankfully he did not listen to a lot of closed minded people. That is why I wanted to write that. Just think about it how much more could have Tesla, Maxwell, Ohms, Faraday and so on and so forth, discovered if they had our techno we have today. Super computer to crunch numbers...modeling programs...high speed switches and electronics...we have so much and they had so little but their ideas were very impressive.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 17 (view)

Perpetual Energy Posted: 12/17/2008 8:27:44 PM
I love a good debate and here is one to sink my teeth into. Out of all the truly great minds of our past we here in the future have very few. As a society we only think that the ones that have a PhD are the only true geniuses! The fact that so many inventions from the garage of normal every day people shows that when you are trained, taught and receive a degree there is a paradox created. The guy or woman in the garage has no negative ideas of something can not work so they just keep going until it does work! The scientist they have the knowledge, that is a little flawed to start with, so in their minds E=Mc squared is a law that is not touchable or "you can't do that because he said so". Einstein was a brilliant man even though he could not find his own home most of the time...if you check history and records most of the great men or women had mental issues...today just like back then we would call them "crackpots". OK now lets look at some things that are not told. Edison invented the light bulb not electricity...Nikola Tesla invented electricity and the electric motor and basically every thing we use TODAY to power everything on the planet and that technology is 100 years old. Tesla knew Einstein and disagreed with some of the equations. He also had about 700 patents...like all great minds he was taken advantage of by the rich and powerful to suppress his inventions...J.P. Morgan ring a bell?? But all great minds has to be controlled by power, money and religions not the humans but the select few in the world. Again history tells about each case. Then we jump today...corporate greed is not about RESEARCH anymore but profit...endanger the profit of selling what they alone OWN and you can hang up the possibilities of some one's invention ever being seen. Now the big surprise...every thing we know or think we know is Bull shit. The math used by Faraday and Ohms, Newton, Einstein even Tesla is not really true. No one on our planet understands electricity or magnetism and how they work together or how to really make it other than the way (which is still 100 years old) which was developed long ago. We think that space is a vacuum and nothing is there but that is wrong. Space is filled with moving particles, things so tiny that we can NOT SEE them...we can NOT tell you anything that is truly correct(everything is theory). Think about it we are all(everything we are and everything we see) make of a untold amount of atoms. Our air we breath is invisible to us but it is made up of a untold amount of little marbles floating around that we depend on to support life. On top of that we now think there are even more particles that are even smaller then the atom (quarks and a few others). So what do we have is a universe filled with motion and light that is passing through our bodies just like a bullet being shot through us, these atoms and smaller particals go through us and we feel nothing and are harmed by them. Here is where the electromagnetic charges exist. There is a plus and negative in all things (battery...interesting) electricity is a positive going to ground(negative) light is a ray of frequencies...frequencies are everything to the atomic world. The atom and particals rely on a frequency to move but to communicate with other atoms and partials also. So if we EVER figure out how these things work ...yes perpetual energy is not just possible but doable and it is infinite. But maybe I am just another crackpot...maybe the answer to that question will be known a 100 years (or more) from now when some one reads this post and goes..."MMMMM..damn this person had a idea of what we have today"

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 332 (view)

Squirting...can this be learned? Posted: 12/16/2008 10:52:55 AM
CW dude you have a lot of anger inside of you. I can guess your glass is always half empty. You live in fear...you need to find yourself. Do I know what to do to a woman...yes.. but I also know not to use my knowledge to hurt any of them either. I think if you really read what the women and men have said here to your posts you will find the area of what you are doing wrong and why you are single with anger. I am not posting to bust on you but to help you change your line of thought!

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 327 (view)

Squirting...can this be learned? Posted: 12/15/2008 8:30:39 PM
It is a selfish lover that does not want to please their partner. ANY ONE that thinks anything about sex is disgusting well you need some profession help to dig deep inside your mind and find what hurt you so bad as a child. You know I am 51 and I never knew about this until 3 years ago. The minute I found out it was true ...I was looking the best of the best to teach me how to help a woman to achieve that. Now that i understand it and it works why should I keep that info to myself? This should be shared with every woman that is curious enough to want to feel more pleasure. So many of you guys that put this act of giving "more of yourself" is the key to a woman feeling pleasure that she has never felt before. 2 and I repeat 2 things have to happen for her to achieve this(maybe 3 ...guys getting their head out of their own ass and learning some things about females) 1 would be RESPECT for her and what she can achieve by being with you. If a woman's body starts squirting or, massive amount of lubricating fluid from her own body, well a man should enjoy it all. Me let me lay down and she can cover me talk about some monkey sex then.... ...! That is why so many women are so unhappy...their partner does not respect her for being a female...a lady..a slut...a ho..a animal...all of these things are inside every female. 2 Trust!!! If a female can trust you to be her lover...to be her guide to pleasure...to be open minded...to know that you respect her and love her as the sensual and sexual creature she is...there are things of pleasure no one will teach you about until they let go of the ego. Me I don't care what people think of me...fu*k'em they are missing out on a great friend...but I am not here to worry with guys. I am on this planet to be happy with who I am and to please any female that I allow in to my space, my circle, my life they are a guest. So if you really want to be a HAPPY male walking around learn how to please a female to limits she has never known. She feels...Wonderful and Sexy and Fulfilled...you feel great because you GAVE of yourself to please them first then yourself. I know 90% all i wrote goes right over their heads....standing there like a deer caught in the head lights with that blank look in their eyes. But guys every one of you can become much better than you are now...by just thinking "wow maybe I do need to learn some NEW things about sex and women". Thank you for reading.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 310 (view)

Squirting...can this be learned? Posted: 11/26/2008 9:00:31 PM
This is not a genetic trait people. Every woman has the same glands in the same spots and every woman can....let me repeat ..CAN have a vaginal ejaculation. What keeps a female from EVER experiencing it is not being told the truth about what your body is capable of feeling. Natural squirters are below 10% of the total female population. WHY??? One is no one will tell you these things can be done, then your friends(because most all parents will not tell their daughter very much about sex) don't know what is possible, so how can you ever learn what your body can feel. The next problem is most males do not look at sex as a gift from both parties involved. Yes pu**y is good(never had bad sex) but the gift a female has to offer is as important as the gift of a man that knows how to pleasure her ,not just please her, but to take her to a level she has never known before. Not only that but also the man must enjoy making her have orgasms one right behind the other. Now this is for all guys to read this one thought. ### A man MUST give MORE to receive MORE. #### Read that until it clicks inside the mind then you will understand. NOW for you women here is a secret from the guys mind that no one has ever told you. #### WE men want you to LOOK good for US! Keep your weight under control not be starved but nice shape, wear some make up to bed once in a while(its for US) but again it is the males fault of a lot of failed marriages. This is for all of you. Women have thoughts and fantasies that most men would blush over(and you thought we were the only ones that had some kinky sex thoughts) a woman wants to feel these things....she wants to feel like a queen, a princess, a woman, a lady, a slut, a whore, role playing sex fantasies. So guys every thing I have written is to be used with respect. Respect yourself but respect your woman a lot so she can unless that animal she keeps hidden from YOU. She is scared of the name calling most guys do to the female...it is called becoming a selfless lover (unselfish lover...duh)...masterful lover....a MAN!!!

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 352 (view)

Men-does it bother you if a woman's legs are not shaved? Posted: 11/26/2008 8:37:30 PM
Yes it does bother me. Give you an example of a mood killer....You are having sex and you bring her leg up onto your shoulder and gently start kissing her ankle and calf. NOW you start kissing and it feels like a cactus plant you are smooching on...mood gone...bye bye...time to go. Now if you like to rip your lips off on a cactus plant well you will do fine. NOT ME.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 288 (view)

Squirting...can this be learned? Posted: 11/2/2008 7:05:20 PM
Yes this CAN BE LEARNED. That is the truth. Some of these posters disagree well they just don't know how or are not WILLING to learn. All women can squirt, all women have the same body parts. The most important thing that is required is being able to trust the man you are with. Being able to let go and know that you can trust him and know that he is giving you the respect a woman needs to know and feel. So many of you women have thoughts that you think are bad or disgraceful to ever think those things...the truth is it is normal for those thoughts and desires. There is nothing wrong with you women the problem is too many guys don't understand their own sexuality much less a females. May all you females find someone that is able to be your GEASTEST lover and that will help you achieve these acts of pleasure.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 24 (view)

Guys Have You Contemplated or Had a Vasectomy Posted: 10/22/2008 7:56:27 PM
Had mine and no problems but I had kids before I did it. NO WAY would I reverse it. Now it is a responsibility to inform a women you are dating that you will not have kids anymore. So they can respond in 2 ways. "I am outta here I want kids" or "GOODY GOODY we can have fun and no FEAR of being knocked up". For the younger people that is part of the excitement of sex(not for all but quit a few) as you grow and learn... wisdom equals control. But yes it should be open knowledge.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 288 (view)

at what age was sex the best? Posted: 10/22/2008 7:47:49 PM
I would have to say it gets better until the day before you die and they plant your ass in the ground! Until then it is good, better, best!

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 85 (view)

Would you have sex with someone for the first time if they were wearing dirty underwear? Posted: 10/2/2008 8:37:19 PM
You know it does not matter who it is, what gender, what race ...what matters is being CLEAN for your partner. If you even have the faintest idea you are going to be intimate with another person...damn get some clean clothes on (that means underwear also... just in case your IQ is equal to a stump).

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 70 (view)

i love you on first date Posted: 9/18/2008 10:14:18 PM
He is needy as hell...run. It takes months to get to know someone so getting laid or needy would be my best guess. NOT GOOD.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

Am I a door mat? Posted: 9/12/2008 9:22:22 PM
Yes ....just stamp "Welcome" on your forehead! I know I am laughing but.....no one can stop being USED until THEY decide to stop ALLOWING others to control your power. A drug addict will always be a drug addict until they decide they want to live again. A woman that is abused will keep picking the guys to beat them until they DECIDE I am worth more than a punching bag and I deserve to be happy. The list goes on and on. Until YOU decide that you deserve to be happy and be treated well and that you respect yourself there is NOTHING you can do until you do it yourself or seek professional help. The human mind is deeper than any of you could ever imagine. Everything you think happens...negative or positive...it is your own doing. You keep thinking negative and that is all your life will be full of. If you think positive and keep thinking positive your life will do a 180 degree turn for the better. BUT only YOU have that power and no one else can do it for you.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 115 (view)

woman bad in bed? Posted: 9/12/2008 9:12:21 PM
Fish man that was funny as hell....bad sex for 15 years....

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Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 33 (view)

How much of the partisan division in our country has to do with the issue of abortion? Posted: 9/12/2008 6:45:49 PM
I have a cure for a lot of the issues between parties. Abortion is simple...those that vote for no more abortion will start paying 10% of their yearly income to a fund to supply the needs of so many UNWANTED or abandoned children The money would provide health care and all of the children's needs until they finish college. The end result not one person in Washington or Religious leaders would vote on anything that took THEIR money out of THEIR pocket...case closed. Fuel and our economy...again simple there are so many ways to free this country from oil that it is stupid and greed of why we have not done it. 1) We sit on the world supply of Coal...we can make gas from coal they did in the early 1900's. We could unlock the patent office and use the 4000 plus patents that are classified secret that are for energy use...your government is paid off by big money to leave the same old same old use of industry. Hydrogen on demand has been around since the early 1900's ,a car was running on hydrogen back then and gas was useless back then...until someone said lets fuel the car with this junk and make them pay for gas so we can get rid of it. They made kerosene and gas is a by product of doing that from crude oil...they were burning Hugh amounts in ponds of gasoline had no use for it. The first car was made to run on alcohol not gas. Our country was build for the people by the people...when are we going to take it back. The war in Iraq is only about OIL. We were lied to from the beginning why are we wasting our young men in a war that is based on OIL. OIL only makes a hand full of people rich...the rest of us are looked at like bugs that can be squished and not heard. People it is time to wake up. I am making Hydrogen with water using 12 volts....there are scamers out there but there are those of us that want to free us from the idiot-icy of our leaders and the big money buddies. Go see for your self on Utube, Yahoo vedios and others look up HHO or Hydroxy, Browns gas.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

Trying to figure this guy out... Posted: 9/3/2008 7:56:29 PM
He is either married or dating someone else.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 157 (view)

How often per week is a normal sex life? Posted: 8/25/2008 3:36:37 PM
In 8 years you had sex the maximum of 30 times! That equates to 3.75 times a YEAR??? On another thread some guy is addicted to choking the chicken nearly 7 days a week and he is having problems with him and his girlfriends sex life. Dude if a woman only wants sex 3.75 times a YEAR I would say she is not into you or she has some un-healed issue. But I have to ask why would you stay in a 8 year relationship when your needs are not being met? Sex pulls a couple together...lack of sex pushes them apart.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 33 (view)

Masturbation rules Posted: 8/25/2008 3:28:02 PM
OMG I have heard it all now. A guy has to ask permission to choke the chicken!! Damn dude that is the problem is you are trying to go blind( going blind from that is bullshit unless your hand slips and you hit your self in the eye ). Stop whacking the damn thing for a while and your sex with your girlfriend will improve. And Mr. Woody will work much better.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 92 (view)

How old is too old? Posted: 7/16/2008 6:19:43 PM
How old is too old.....mmmmmmmm when they start wearing depends? when their teeth are in a glass beside the bed? if their heart is not beating? when their last resort(their tongue) no longer can stick past their lips? when their skin is hanging in wrinkles and it looks like Lizard skin? if their greatest pleasure during each day is a BM? when their farts become lumpy every time? if they have more pee in their shoes that in the toilet?

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 108 (view)

Screw impeachment, how about some jail time? Posted: 7/15/2008 11:24:10 PM
Iraq has or had 2 things. Saddam which poppy Bush missed so baby Bush wanted to impress poppy Bush with getting him ....amazing that all the tech we have we can find Bin Laden. The other thing Iraq has is OIL. Cheney had all of the OIL FIELDS mapped out a LONG time before we attacked. Bush and Cheney have broken a LOT of laws and they should be impeached and sentenced to jail. Our men are fighting for OIL for the haves so they can control us the have nots.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 77 (view)

Starting to get turned off with shaved women Posted: 7/15/2008 11:10:34 PM
OK I can not walk away from this post...I tried but can't do it. But let me state this is me I don't care what anyone thinks it is a thing for me. A woman that shaves that thang(I spelled it right so keep quite over the spell check) to ME is the sexiest thing she could do for ME. The skin until that fur is so soft...so sensitive so why waste that area of from being able to feel the pleasure that a woman can feel. But again this is MY thoughts. To be clean shaven all over (armpits, legs, beaver) is my biggest turn on. Now most guys just do not understand a females mind and how they want to FEEL! One of the most intelligent men to share their wisdom for other men to learn from is David Slade. His stuff is real and very fulfilling for any woman that her guy has taken the time to become a true lover not just another Wham Bam Thank You ma'am (selfish lover). I am not on the planet to worry about what men think of me...I am not here to worry about impressing anyone...I am here to live my life to the fullest and to be someone a female would never forget. Any female that shaves to ME her body now looks like the statues of a Greek Goddess....curves....soft....smooth...sensual! So if she is going to do that for ME then I should deliver to her the most incredible passion, emotions and orgasms that she has EVER experienced. But that is just ME.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 2083 (view)

gun control in the usa Posted: 7/12/2008 4:47:16 PM
My 2 cents: Guns are not the problem the problem is criminals and lawyers. To me we could stand to lose a few on those 2 sides. The average American gun owner is a law abiding person...it only takes a hand full of crooks (yes also the lawyers not much difference anymore) to try to take away the power of the people. Our forefathers stated that the USA would be corrupt within 400 years and if the average law abiding citizen still had guns they would have to stand up and RESTORE our country to its former greatness. We are at the point now. Any attack on gun owners or gun control is made by those who want ABSLOUTE POWER over the masses. I respect the law but even our own law enforcement is getting out of hand now. Every day it is getting to be that of a paramilitary force. Cops should wear police uniforms not run around in black suits like they are special forces or CIA. The other thing is most law enforcement in small rural areas they are NOT showing up to save you until they think it is over with(they do not want to be shot either) so a person must be able to defend his home and family. You can not depend on any government or police force to protect YOU the only person to depend on is yourself. Ask yourself this why do so many police men have fully automatic weapons(weapons of mass destruction)in their own personal homes and these are their personal weapons? NOT as easy for a law abiding citizen to get that same permit? Look at the idiot we have in office right now....he has broken the laws many many times while in office...he lied about the intel in Iraq...he claims to be a religious person but dishes out TOURTURE and denied human rights...he has a hand in the oil problem(he is getting rich) didn't you people figure out yet that most of our oil pumped in the USA soil is being sold because they passed laws that our oil in Alaska is to loaded with sulfur to be used in the US? So they get to sell it at the 100 plus price and make the few that have control rich while destroying the USA middle and lower class. So gun control is BS a loaded gun will not fire on its own it HAS to have a human finger some where to fire it.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 166 (view)

Would you date someone with Herpes? Posted: 6/27/2008 6:20:43 PM
NOPE.....PERIOD!

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 87 (view)

Why would a guy keep asking if you're ok during sex? Posted: 6/27/2008 6:19:54 PM
I would say that one guy has a very inflated opinion of his penis SIZE! He thinks he's got a log in his crotch he just has not found out it is just a twig ! So he is asking to see if he is hurting you with the Q-Tip he's got!

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 38 (view)

So confused has anyone ever had this? Posted: 6/22/2008 7:44:54 PM
Simple answer.... Think about it...think of how many guys have used that line on her before and they lied or whatever and it hurt her. Guys tend to take things way too damn fast. Slow down let her enjoy the anticipation of something happening to her heart. What you did was take all of that away from her. She didn't have to work for your attention and that is boring to her because you just became all of the others before you in her mind. You did not stand out...you became the average guy she meets. A guys reading this now stop trying to fall in love and let it happen!!! You put a female on a pedestal and she knows she is not perfect. A woman takes a piss, a s**they puke, they bleed, they can stink just as good as us so STOP thinking she is all pure and white and magical....they are people...humans. A woman wants to look up to her man not look down on him. Let her fall in love with you and just keep your feelings held back until then and when you get into a RELATIONSHIP then you can get a little mushy and show your softer side not before then.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 71 (view)

Why have so many women never had an orgasm? Posted: 6/22/2008 7:34:06 PM
This is the problem with America now. Just because some dumb ass has a PhD does not make him/her anymore expert than the common person. Usually the wealthy or political brats get the most education....they have the money for the school and the school will want that person there as a selling point to others. Never believe everything some one tells you that has a PhD is fact. Ask any PhD how does magnetism really work no one really knows that answer. OK the more correct percentages are these. Around 33% of all females have never had an ORGASM! Around 3 to 5% of all females can have a vaginal ejaculation naturally(these select few nature gave them a break it just happened) Around 100% of all females CAN have an orgasm but a lot of the problem is in their mind from all of the lies and BS most guys do to them gets really deep on this one. But basically they have been used and hurt or insulted so much for being sexual that the pull back inside of their minds and keep a tight lock on opening up to another man. Around 100% of all females can have a vaginal ejaculation but here again is the problem around 98% of the males have no clue what makes a woman's body tick much less than knowing how to train her body to open up to this amount of pleasure.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 95 (view)

balls tight or loose...what does it mean? Posted: 6/21/2008 9:42:46 PM
That was funny. Our balls get tight when we are cold or become scared. The scared part is the evolution of the human male. Parts of our body defend them self when we are thinking of having to fight...they pull up to make it a smaller target so as to not get hit from having something dangerous to face because if a male takes a shot to the balls he is down for a few minutes. Cold is for everyone. A woman's nipples pop out when they are cold. So that is a myth much like kissing will knock you up. Or if a guy pulls out before cumming a female can't get pregnant.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 205 (view)

Smarter ladies have worse sex Posted: 6/21/2008 3:06:22 PM
What do I think of that study....Total BS! The fact is 33% of ALL females have never had even their own first orgasm. So that is BS. What makes a woman have an orgasm is the thing between her ears that is called a brain/mind! That has more to do with her pleasure than any one single thing. If a woman trusts you and if she repects you and you return that trust and respect her .....orgasms can HAPPEN from just a voice command. What really happens is the females date the guys that have no desire to learn about pleasing a females body just their own needs. This is called a selfish lover. A great lover... she will never forget.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 100 (view)

Not even spit, so forget about swallow.... Posted: 6/21/2008 2:58:35 PM
Bit of advice. IF that is something you DESIRE for your lover to do(swallow) there is only 2 things and that is it. ONE dump her and go find a female that does all the things you want to enjoy but remember that it is a 2 way street so if she loves oral on her then be the best at it everything will work out. NEVER settle for a lover that is not willing to give YOU pleasure in the end you will stray and find someone else just because of WHAT YOU want to feel with a lover. TWO your girlfriend has something deep inside of her that makes sex as something dirty and until she can heal herself from within nothing will change. BUT it could also be that she doesn't feel safe or respected by YOU. Do you kiss a female after she just gave you a BJ? If no THEN YOU ARE CAUSING THE MISTRUST AND IT IS UP TO YOU TO FIX YOURSELF. All females are sexual and sensual creatures and if they feel respected and accepted for being a female ...they will do anything for you.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

Internet cheating responsible for break-ups? Posted: 6/17/2008 6:00:52 PM
No it is not the problem. Does your computer say to you to go out and cheat? Nope! Can the Internet pull you out of your chair and roll your ass to the car to go out and meet someone? Sorry nope again. If you cheat on another person you don't love yourself. First and foremost if you do not love your self how can anyone else ever love you back? Here is something to chew on for some deep thought....there is no such thing as "love" the only people that you can truly come the closest to "love" is your parents and your own children. I know so many will fall out and get pissed over that statement. The truth is we "LOVE" how we FEEL when we are with another person. When another person in your life makes you enjoy life, enjoy the time you are together ,sex, hugging, touching you "LOVE" the way that makes you feel! So if you can not "LOVE" yourself for who you are and "respect" others life will never be that good for you.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 52 (view)

I love you but not sure that Im in love with you Posted: 6/14/2008 7:27:10 PM
Take advice from this one....did she say anything about being interested in you? NOPE but is an expert telling you how to become more interesting to females. And if she thinks I am picking her up at the airport....

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 159 (view)

Just eat me already! Posted: 6/14/2008 7:13:41 PM
Just eat me already??? Lets me and you get married...but I would divorce you in a week and take half your money! OK now to the serious side. HE has a fear, a problem with oral sex and it will NEVER change unless he seeks therapy and that is about as likely as pigs with wings. One of the women said it correctly he is a selfish lover and that is it. I bet he hates sex....when he cums does he pull out and run? This is a deep fear of a lot of guys that have hang ups with sex.....they look at it as something dirty. So many guys will never seek to learn or understand the things a woman's body can achieve. Virginal ejaculation is not a myth but something that has to be learned from others that are not so screwed up with sex and sensuality. I feel for you nothing is more fun than to feel the females body going crazy with pleasure that I helped her achieve...that should be a turn on for men but it isn't. So many guys talk a good game but never practise it. Good luck in finding someone worthy.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 148 (view)

Are men over 40 more afraid to approach women? Posted: 6/14/2008 7:00:21 PM
first my friend you are not to grieve your youth...embrace your wisdom and knowledge of living this many years. No chemistry is a sign that you are being too nice. Women in their 40's and up are mature sexual creatures and they love sex as good as any man. Take the knowledge of your sexual experience and share it with those women don't think that you are of no value but look at yourself as a man of value. Think about this one....33% of all females have never had their first orgasm...the sad part is this is the entire age range not just the older females but also the younger ones also. Be the gift to women...help her to achieve the most pleasure she can experience all women deserve that gift and all men should be the giver of that gift.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 39 (view)

She wanted to be engaged and had a timeline Posted: 6/14/2008 6:33:04 PM
RUN as fast as you can...I can smell what you are stepping into

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 32 (view)

15 year old daughter and condoms. Posted: 6/14/2008 6:30:28 PM
Abstinence has not worked for the past couple of million years...it still does not work...nor will it work in the future. Not very many here reading these post were virgins past 20 years of age and a whole lot of us lost that before 16 years old. SEX is good...SEX is fun...Sex is why we exist and SEX drives all of our cultures on the entire planet. So it doesn't matter how we think of WHAT our children should do... it matters that we give them the information to make their own choice and protect themselves from STD's and unwanted pregnancies.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 48 (view)

I love you but not sure that Im in love with you Posted: 6/14/2008 6:12:24 PM
What it means is this....she looks at you as a FREIND nothing more. She feels no excitement being around you. You were more than likely to nice to her and being "too nice" will always get you in the friend zone. That is the way it is and the only thing to do is fix yourself. Yes I am sure a lot of people are going to say I am a jerk...an ass...whatever but I could care less what others think of me...I know who I am and what I want in life and nothing will change that. You see females want a man that doesn't take their bullshit. They want to be lead not controlled...to have fun in the moment with the man(never ask a female what she wants to do tonight YOU decide). Be honest and upfront from the beginning. All females already know we want to have sex with them so stop acting like it is rude or some other bullshit in the fact intimacy. Damn I could preach on that one alone for hours but this stuff isn't free you know? So when ever you hear those words from a females mouth it means that she is looking else where for excitement(NOT THE USUAL BORING ASS SEX). And if any of you guys have a female tell you this it is too late you have crashed and burned...your ONLY hope to break up with her right then before she breaks up with you...then go and fix your inner self.

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 102 (view)

Why do women post provocative, yet state that sex is not their desire? Posted: 5/31/2008 7:47:48 PM
OK here is a answer for you to think about. ALL people love sex. Women love sex and men love sex. The big misunderstanding is that a guy can bang every woman in his town and he is called a "stud". A female does the same thing and she gets labeled a slut....a ho...trailer trash...etc..etc. So why do women show meat...to get attention and also competition against the other females. All women want to stand out in a males eyes. The one thing all males need to learn is a small word called "RESPECT". All women want to have sex but they also want the romance and intimacy part (that is how they are wired) but they also love to have some good wild sex on the beach, role play, sex in the staircase something DIFFERENT than just roses and candles all the time. This helps keep the sex INTERESTING and when sex gets boring they leave. But the next morning she wants to know you still RESPECT her for being the wild thing behind closed doors. Guys this is our problem that you must fix on your own. Ladies the one problem you all do is you want sex and you come to bed in a granny suit? Hair is wet and no make-up and we are supposed to get all hot and bothered over THAT? Some of you will get married and gain 50 pounds and think that males are not visually excitable? All males want you to look good for us...in our eyes you can either be the goddess or the grandma...your choice. Guys it is also up to you to stay in shape and so you are not the best looking thing on the block all you have to do is work with what you have. Learn some fashion sense and dress for females to notice you. In other words throw the damn socks away when you wear sandals!

totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007

Msg: 8 (view)

kissing is as old as motherhood Posted: 5/27/2008 8:28:50 PM
ME I love to kiss...if kissing is something a male doesn't enjoy I would suggest some therapy because they have an issue about it. Kissing came from when the female used to chew the food for her baby just like today baby food is easier to swallow. Also chewing the food for the sick and injured was a task for kissing. Some where along the line we developed kissing as a part of mating.

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