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Joined: 3/25/2005

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anyone interested in a get-together? Posted: 8/26/2005 1:58:34 PM
Plan it in new thread. Talk to some of your friends, pick a place, POST IT. if no one shows up, you and friends have good time. (put big sign on table so people can find you) More men than women???? Where? try www.clubfullfilled.com always more women than men! and they play that hiphop stuff, too! Ask for Cat, or tell them I sent you. Every Saturday! I'm not there every Sat, it's usually a younger crowd. Last week I played cards with friends in the smoke free room. . :D I had FUN! Cat

Joined: 3/25/2005

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Nobody meets with others expectations. Posted: 8/26/2005 1:43:16 PM
Try being still alive at 57!! I've dated mostly younger men and am constantly being messaged by men as young as 22! I know what I want. I don't want a quick grope, I want a long long slow lifetime of many! I'm willing to wait. I'm not going to settle cause some guy thinks I should go gaga because he 'likes oral" I think chat is like sex. We both type equally! I type and type and they reply "yep" ((insert eye rolling smiley!)) Yes, I'm 57, ak! but I'm still alive, active, sexy, fun, intelligent, I even like rock n roll! Current! oldies only occasionally. It's a two way street, guys! I feel your pain! Cat

Joined: 3/25/2005

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Proof of Person Posted: 5/27/2005 2:17:45 PM
How about conversation and getting to know a person to find out if they are real? Take time before you fall off the deep end?? and a note from your mother.. . (that's very funny!) I've been chatting 10 yrs. People who lie always trip up. A good memory catches lies. Some people need to know who they are themselves before anyone else can find out, tho. Really should be doing errands and not sitting here avoiding responsibility! Cat!

Joined: 3/25/2005

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pets...what do they say about you? Posted: 5/27/2005 1:43:28 PM
my cat just turned 18. i told her it was time to get a job and get her own place. Cat

Joined: 3/25/2005

Msg: 34 (view)

My humble opinion on the fear factor of loving another. Posted: 5/27/2005 1:34:46 PM
reserved?? I'm downright scared! I've met ONE man who was so charming I gave all. I'd do it again! He said. . "I likeyour charm, wit, intelligence, that you're beautiful and sexy is a bonus!" Not one man I've met before or since has been even close. Most are, wanna have sex? (eye rolling smiley) so,yeah, I'm scared! Cat

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If You Say No To A Request For Chat On The IM..... Posted: 4/12/2005 10:14:21 AM
that didn't answer the question. If someone says no, will I see it as refused, or just failure to connect?? Seriously, how do I know I'm rejected????? :D Cat

Joined: 3/25/2005

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Should We Just Not Be Contacting Those Under 25? Posted: 4/8/2005 11:40:29 AM
friends are great any age. but I'm not raising another child. youngins that says " I like older women" haven't gotten to know me, they just want my numbers. Guess that's not an age thing, but a personality defect. I have lots of friends who are 18 and up. VERY few in their fifties. But I'm working on it! Cat

Joined: 3/25/2005

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Gray Hair--to die for or to dye? Posted: 4/8/2005 11:22:04 AM
I first colored my hair at 36. Went blond, purple, finally ended with a red red. Last halloween, did it black(it was for the costume!) and haven't colored since. I'm still me, still fun. . and don't have to plan to color so it will look good for this or that event! Still have about an inch of black on the ends. It's not as grey as I thought it would be. I reserve the right to go back to red any time I want!!!!! Cat

Joined: 3/25/2005

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Does anyone else here suffer from the hero complex? If so, why do you think that is Posted: 4/8/2005 11:18:37 AM
He is so busy concentrating on someone much worse off than him that his problems seem trivial codependents.org Or Melody Beattie books (half.com for used) the triangle, or 3 processes is very accurate. Well said. Therapy worked for me Cat

Joined: 3/25/2005

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Never Had An Orgasm Posted: 4/8/2005 10:39:03 AM
I was married for 21 yrs, Nothing. Many lovers before that, Nothing. I got therapy(for another issue) and in developing self esteem my long-denied sexuality came to the surface. I got the book "For Yourself" by Lonnie Barbach . Used book stores, library even. It's NOT the guy if you aren't giving them to yourself. This book changed my life! My first orgasm was when I was 49. DO NOT WAIT!!! Good luck! I know you can do it! Cat

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Your Nastiest, Dirty Uninhibited Fantasy........... care to share? :) Posted: 4/8/2005 10:20:23 AM
i think a lot of women have that fantasy...of being tied up and 'forced'.. Nancy Friday said that a lot of women had that fantasy in the fifties cause they thought sex was bad and this was one way it was ok to have sex with other than husband or the one you waited till marriage for. Tell your favorite fantasy? My first response: NO! So, in effort to be vague and save SOME mystery: police officer. Every time he sees my car, he pulls me over. Sometimes he has a partner, or canine patrol. the roofer who bought my truck: sigh sex clubs: never been to one, but could design one in detail!! airport parking lot: chest on my back over a new cadillac. .oh yeah. . Also. . fantansies are not real life. Rape is fun if you know and trust the guy to roll play it with a safe word. Right?? anonymous! back to reading yours

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No sex until you get married Posted: 4/8/2005 9:52:06 AM
no sex, heavy petting till marriage = something is wrong with him. Guys can't possibly be like that, can they? dump immediately? probably not. . I'd think it was "respect" LOL How long would I stay with them? If you are just dating and not sexing. . then you are free to date others. . . right? that's not a staying thing, right? Sex within bounds of marriage? Once married, it better be. But no, I don't want to wait till I'm married, just till I know I can trust the guy and like him. I'd like to actually meet someone who doesn't expect sex or heavy petting on the FIRST date. I guess they don't want to risk a chance I won't like them on the second! I agree that sex is an awesome part, but geez, not the ONLY part! Gotta love me! Cat

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Arizona forum rules Posted: 4/5/2005 5:07:57 PM
ever try a magazine called GET OUT! free in newstands outside library, some stores, etc. www.clubfullfilled.com university and mill for you youngin's I'm new too. Cat

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Want input please.......the day after the first meeting....... Posted: 3/28/2005 8:00:52 PM
congruency. . . words and actions match. His don't. Ariel was very right on with her advice, too. I read somewhere that dating one at a time is a waste of time. (I don't mean two on one night) If you are just 'dating' and getting to know people. . why not date several?? You want someone special to sex, right? That's why you date. . . to find special. Cat

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Why do most guys NOT SMILE in there pix?? Posted: 3/28/2005 7:42:43 PM
I've noticed that, too. a surly growling man talking about his good sense of humor. Taking your own picture you feel smiling is fake? You don't smile for yourself? Think of someone you can smile to, pretend they are in the camera. I rate no smiles very very low. Sorry guys! Cat

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Rigid rules and negativity in people's profiles Posted: 3/25/2005 2:50:55 PM
it's better to be alone, than to wish you were. the minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for.

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Rigid rules and negativity in people's profiles Posted: 3/25/2005 2:48:34 PM
Skasten. . . I'm reading your comments to my daughter. . . I tried to email you, but you have this CRITERIA that says I'm too old (or wrong gender?? AK!) so you'll have to message me. . Please! The letter she and I wrote to you is so clever! Even me cat approved! Thanks, Cat

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Rigid rules and negativity in people's profiles Posted: 3/25/2005 1:37:03 PM
When my daughter was little and I said 'do not eat the banana' all she heard was 'eat the banana' :D so I think. . maybe. . "no east indian men" sounds like "oh she wants me bad!" hmmm men are like little kids. . . hmmmmm Frrosty. .I like your style! Cat

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Men out number women 5 to 1. Posted: 3/25/2005 1:29:04 PM
uh, no. Most dating sites I've been to are more women. Not technologically inclined. . that's like saying girls can't do math! pshaw! :D Cat

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Men out number women 5 to 1. Posted: 3/25/2005 1:25:25 PM
Five to one? way cool! I'm not telling any of my gf's about this. . let them find their own dates! five to one. . awesome! come on, mens, I'm waiting! Cat hehehehehe

Joined: 3/25/2005

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Meeting with someone who looks nothing like picture Posted: 3/25/2005 1:07:27 PM
so how do you say. . oh I have 58 inch waist? What was the person like in chat? NO clue as to any 'problems'? My picture is six months old. My hair color has changed and I haven't a pic yet as it's still . . um. . not grown out. People tell me it looks good, tho. I'm waiting to form my opinion. BTW, it's a sears picture, not glamor shot, I do NOT look my age, but I am it! LOL I had a guy online, who visited me. Nice, passionate, however when I went to his place. . it turns out, he was flying to see me and not paying housepayments. His house was a disaster zone with only one sink that worked, no stove, fridge, etc. And I was so charmed in person and online. So now, I'm so careful I verge on suspicious. AK! Cat

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