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brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 50 (view)

Death For Man Who Killed Young Boy Posted: 8/28/2008 6:52:05 PM
What statistics back up a statement about a good number of rich murderers go scott free while minority people are falsely accused? As far as what caused it, who is to blame, it doesn't really matter at this point. This evil monster did what he did and should be punished. I agree with many on here that the death penalty is not a deterrent, however, I believe it can be an appropriate punishment - like in this case. I gave a passionate response to this thread and the circumstances that surround it. As far as trying to solve the problems you mention, society, etc... those problems will always exists to some degree. Probably more so now with both parents working (this is where I see problems with affluent families that have children that have little concept of right and wrong and a sense of entitlement) but to commit something this evil, well, this in particular is what I am commenting on. I agree he is mentally off anyone that does something like this would have to be, but he still did it and there is no place for someone like him on this planet. Seren, i admire you wanting to change things or to hope someone that did something like this guy could have been stopped, and i agree some can be, such as the child that see his father beat his mother and he learns to do this, there are cycles that yes if they were broken many kids would have more of a chance. i do not see this thread in the same way.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 86 (view)

When will actions match words from men? Posted: 8/28/2008 2:38:42 AM
dear mercy, i hope you are recovered and doing well. with that said, it sounds like you and this guy were in the beginning part of the relationship. at this point i would not expect exclusivity unless it was agreed on. texting, instant messaging, with others that is too be expected and he is trying to be discreet.. he just met you why would he stop contact with everyone else so soon. from what i read you just spent 3 days together and that was it. just because two people are chatting for a couple of months and meet for a long weekend, it is still a getting to know you kind of thing and in my opinion too soon for those kinds of expectation, but that is just how i feel. (you did ask for opinions) and i hate to say this to you, but i do agree with ***boston. if i were in your shoes and found myself suddenly ill while out on a date, i would be horrified that i was taking this guy that really didn't know me all that well away from his work and family. i would be appreciative of a couple of visits, but as far as totally being there for me, that is way too much to expect. i would hope my friends (not him) would be there for me even from two hours away. the kind of conversations you have on the phone that reference, "oh i wish i was there to take care of you..." usually we feel this because we are enjoying the conversation and getting to know each other , but we are talking about once we meet, and we hit it off, and we become truly friends and hopefully more. i have to say, if my first date and get together started out with a long hospital stay within the same weekend, i would have a hard time seeing the relationship for the potential it may have. it becomes very stressful. if your family is there or friends, he would be thrown into that.. that isn't a good thing for a first time meeting. it is just bad luck, but i would try not to be too hard on him.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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Death For Man Who Killed Young Boy Posted: 8/28/2008 1:56:57 AM
dear serenity, prevention? he is 100% accountable for his actions, not his environment, village or whatever else you believe could have saved him from himself. I do not believe that all serial killers and sickos come from deprived backgrounds. There is evil in this world. He is evil. I cannot imagine what those children endured. They are children and innocent. I do like the idea of medical testing and done in the most inhumane way as possible. A quick death is too good for him. But death it should be so his surviving sister will hopefully feel safer and no more tax dollars are wasted on his existence.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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Do I tell a family friend that our spouses have been having an affair right under our noses? Posted: 8/28/2008 1:36:02 AM
OP, sick child, unemployed cheating wife, etc...reasons for staying in an unhealthy abusive marriage -the specifics it really doesn't matter...because we all think our reasons are more worthy than others... such as staying because of children in general or staying until they are 18... it makes you a martyr... and to most women (although maybe it doesn't matter as much to those looking for an intimate encounter)....but most woman find martyrs a HUGE TURN OFF. ICKY and not sexy at all. With that said, my advice about whether or not to tell the wife would be no. If you are going to stay in a relationship in the same house with the same woman as if there is no consequence to her action, let the other spouse do the same. If you get some self esteem and courage and throw the cheating wife out, when the other spouse asks "what happened?" tell her. It is the truth and they did it. The kids likely know what is going on, kids usually know more than you think. And quite possibly walked in on the cheaters as you did. And hopefully they will all learn what is acceptable behavior by example in spite of what is going on around them. I do wish you all the best - no matter what you decide. It is a hurtful situation for you and the kids and no one deserves to go through anything like this.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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He brought his Fanny with him... Posted: 7/25/2008 11:09:27 AM
Then I am shallow too. Remember angel flight pants and member only jackets? I love a blast to the past as much as the next person, but usually not on a date. A deal breaker for me.... I was out with a very nice guy on a first date. After dinner he took the cloth napkin from his lap (yes we were in a fancy restaurant) blew his nose at the table in it and then set it in his plate. Totally grossed me out. That was all I could focus on when I looked at him.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 372 (view)

wat if she lied about age....... do you continue anyway? Posted: 5/14/2008 10:59:43 PM
Thank you fredhh (msg 8)...i agree... and in real life, if we can get away with it, also our weight. i usually subtract off a few pounds.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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The worst of head games!!! Posted: 5/3/2008 6:12:44 PM
I also know someone like this. My gf is the long suffering spouse. She wants to believe she is something special because he married her, but she is just there so he won't ever be alone. He strings women on, doesn't tell them he is married, making them feel like they are his one and only. He comes on very strong in the beginning, uses the L word etc.. It is really very pathetic and sad as this person has no life other than his work and he manages to hurt many women. He thinks he loves women, but he only uses them. Very sad for everyone.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 186 (view)

Bitch take this dick................. Posted: 9/15/2007 12:27:32 AM
it turns me on. i must be a guy trapped in a woman's body. exploring with someone you care about is hot and has nothing to do with fear. i will admit when i was younger, my attitude was different. it has slowly evolved. imho

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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does anyone get as turned off with a smoker as i do? Posted: 9/14/2007 5:49:23 PM
geez.....think we hit a nerve. poor rotagent he must need a smoke break. ive been lucky the smokers i do know (mom, sister, and a few friends) are very considerate to non smokers. and they know i'm so allergic.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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Why do Cheaters run and hide when caught? Posted: 9/14/2007 2:16:33 PM
dear knight, i agree cheaters are cowards and more, but i don't agree about the liar getting glorified while the good guys are tagged as stupid. maybe in high school i was attracted to the bad boy, but at my age, i appreciate a nice guy... not a doormat, but nice and someone that can handle me as i can be a handful.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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Dating and medical issues... Posted: 9/14/2007 2:13:01 PM
i wish you luck on your surgery and recovery. if you feel up to it, i would contact potential dates and just do mellow things and keep things casual. i wouldn't disclose too much detail unless you happen to really click and your other person seems to be sharing similar kinds of issues. how deep they disclose is what i would think about disclosing. i dated casually and not so casually guys that had to go in for knee surgery, wrist sx, and it wasn't a big deal that we couldn't ski or whatever together i enjoyed their company. one guy though went on and on about how he has one kidney, hemorrhoids the size of concord grapes, gas, etc... total turn off and to this day i cannot eat a concord grape and barely look at one.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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He Broke my heart..... Posted: 9/14/2007 1:00:30 PM
dear tnmomma, i will look for the stages of a relationship and try to post it. it is very interesting. it helps you recognize certain behaviors. some guys and girls cannot get past the honeymoon phase. once the newness wears off, they want their new fix. helps you not sabotage a relationship with potential. also helps you understand that eventually at times during most relationships you will have the low burning fire which i learned is ok and isn't an indication of doom.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 79 (view)

... going down like a ton of bricks??? Posted: 9/14/2007 12:52:47 PM
i would see that comment as a huge red flag. reminds me of a guy i had lunch with years ago, told me "when you do that, you remind me of my girlfriend - she's dead now". totally freaked me out. i was so out of there.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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Why do Cheaters run and hide when caught? Posted: 9/14/2007 12:28:34 PM
love the c. o. c k roach comment very funny. in my opinion serial cheaters don't learn from getting caught. its the act of cheating that gets them off, not what goes on in the relationship. whoo hoo what a prize - NOT!! the "omg i can't believe this happened - what have i done" cheater that is sick to their stomach and worried, will hopefully learn from their mistakes. the serial cheater, i would just leave without a word about the cheating, no explanation except "this aint working for me, you dont know how to please a woman with that thingy of yours" (yes i would be cruel) the "omg i did something stupid", may be salvageable to work on - it depends. jmo

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 525 (view)

does anyone get as turned off with a smoker as i do? Posted: 9/14/2007 12:23:43 AM
smoking is the deal breaker.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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He Broke my heart..... Posted: 9/14/2007 12:05:24 AM
dear addicted, i'm sorry you were treated this way. often times the three month newness wears off and that is when a relationship ends. some call the first three months the honeymoon period. perhaps this is what happened. but as another said on here, this is what happens in relationships. not for the faint of heart. but don't let it stop you from continuing on and finding love. ps. i have been on both end of this.. being dumped after the honeymoon period and finding the fizzle out of a relationship at the three month mark. it totally sucks.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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My ex says I am a disgrace for being on an internet dating site Posted: 9/13/2007 6:31:01 PM
because he has known you all these years he knows exactly how to push your buttons. shame on him. he needs to let go and let you find happiness. a happy woman is a better mother. the internet is a great way of meeting all kinds of people from dating to sharing experiences. as far as your kids being embarrassed, they are always embarrassed about what parents do. if your ex is so concerned about the kids, tell him to keep them for a weekend so they are not exposed to your new friends, dating, outside activities etc... i bet he won't. what an awful person he is.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 187 (view)

Helping himself to my computer............... Posted: 9/13/2007 6:11:55 PM
i would never use someone's computer without asking. and i would expect the same courtesy. too much personal info, business/client info, and photos. and yes i have a lot to hide and i am very private. my SigOther never was on my computer and i was never on his. we just respected each others privacy and trusted each other. sharing everything about each other isn't always a good thing. but regardless, very different from cutting someones grass or doing the dishes. I have a gf that i share everything with. and she makes sure her husband does not see all my emails, jokes, etc... because she choses to share with him info about me that he can live with. it makes their life easier. it seems this guy was just a bit clueless and not being nosey. so i would just let him know you can set him up on a guest account next time. that is why i have a password. but you are not wrong to feel this way.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 156 (view)

Bitch take this dick................. Posted: 9/13/2007 5:44:46 PM
dear shannon, i agree it is the trust and the relationship. i have no desire for sex with random partners or i should say i have never acted on that desire and never would but it is fun to think about. and as far as i know i haven't been molested by daddy or uncle joe. but i can see the concern.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 149 (view)

Bitch take this dick................. Posted: 9/13/2007 3:01:10 PM
shannon and claire, i agree, and love it messy and dirty all the better. the best part is that you can be this ultra conservative, neat compulsive freak (which i am) in society and dirty and nasty with your lover.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 144 (view)

Bitch take this dick................. Posted: 9/13/2007 2:45:03 PM
hehehehe ok ya all know that we will have "** take this** in our profiles...? greeneyes i will check out this objectifying Chair thing. got an image and it made me laugh. and i agree i love it when they say "thank you goddess" you guys are all amazing. isn't it interesting how we are as all much a like as we are different. very cool.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 141 (view)

Bitch take this dick................. Posted: 9/13/2007 2:34:20 PM
dear cjgregory, it is my belief that some men and women are not wired and will not be open to name calling, hair pulling in the bedroom no matter how you approach it. my gf said she tried to do the dominant/sub role playing and she just burst out laughing. very much a buzz kill. but she at least tried it. luckily this wasn't a deal breaker for her loving and understanding husband. i think you are putting a lot of pressure on the man to be cognizant of what is happening with a woman during lovemaking. most men (and some women too) from what i hear are clueless with just traditional sex. talking about this with my pof friend was enlightening and made it possible for me to talk to my partner about it. i still think communication is the best way. personally now (and this is just recent) i've discovered i don't think i could go back to ALL just mr or dr vanilla. i do enjoy seeing the pleasure my lover has and experiencing some of the darker side of sex.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 132 (view)

Bitch take this dick................. Posted: 9/13/2007 1:53:18 PM
hmmm let me chime in here... some women and men have issues as walkontheocean mentions in his posts. some like me and others on this thread find the rough sex, nasty sex, and even the make love sex with their partner very erotic. some TRULY it is not in their nature to want sex that way. We have heard from those here also. there is no wrong answer. we are what we are. hopefully the ones that don't like this kind of role playing don't end up with someone that enjoys it. i think communication and understanding is very important.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 51 (view)

HONESTLY, many people are on here because they lack the confidence to make the initial move Posted: 9/13/2007 1:12:10 PM
dear ladypagey, yes, i am witty, funny, and have the gift of the gab when i'm with friends or just hanging out well at least i like to think i am. however, when i'm with someone i feel attracted to, i become an idiot mute. so it may be normal. as far as teasing someone about their phone voice, that is either mean or the other person is nervous and can't stop what comes out of his mouth. hang in there!

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 126 (view)

Bitch take this dick................. Posted: 9/13/2007 12:55:53 PM
walkontheocean, i believe in some cases you may be correct as the act of surrender lets you leave all that baggage out of your head so it's ok and erotic. you could feel you are doing this for your partner and that makes it ok. my experience turned into trying something with my partner and discovering more of my sexuality. perhaps only when true intimacy exists you can explore your sexuality in such "taboo" ways.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 121 (view)

Bitch take this dick................. Posted: 9/13/2007 12:34:44 PM
i have to admit, this role playing is new to me, but i do like it. at first i didn't understand it, and thought it was a reflection of me, that i wasn't filling a need, but after having a pretty intense discussion about it (with a person on POF) i realized two people in a loving relationship can go where ever the mood or fetish or whatever takes you. i find it very erotic all the nasty talk just as erotic as the loving "i can't get enough of you " times.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

Msg: 53 (view)

Too many people on here seem to be looking for the next best thing...Is that true? Posted: 9/12/2007 1:17:00 PM
dear quicherbytochin, glad to hear you are "not ready for totally serious". this guy is either an idiot or he is not telling the truth. but i would be thankful that he is at least honest about what he is doing. that is a good thing. ya know, there is a window of opportunity a timing thing if he feels sparks and you do too, it's a shame that he can't just go with it instead of dating around. this window closes all too soon. just speaking from experience. i don't believe in the if it was meant to be it will be kind of thing. i think people can do things to change your feelings and alter how things turn out. i would let things go where they will as in all fairness he was honest about what he is doing and if i were you i would also be checking out what else is out there. hopefully you two will keep the spark alive and all will be good.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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HONESTLY, how many people are on here because they lack the confidence to make the initial move? Posted: 9/12/2007 12:50:24 PM
[It's a tragedy in the way things seem to work ~ for example ~ To get to one place you must first go somewhere else and then from there you might get where you wish to go. The old addage, I had to have the gun to get the gold, I had to have the gold to get the girl, comes to mind and so it is ~ you will have problems getting where you wish to go for the path is not a direct one. Nothing breeds failure ~like failure Nothing breed success~ like success] dear dancecard, i totally get it. i agree it is a tragedy the way things work.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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HONESTLY, how many people are on here because they lack the confidence to make the initial move? Posted: 9/12/2007 12:29:37 PM
ron, you seem to be an intense sort of guy. you seem compassionate (from what i can read on your posts) and you are well "spoken". most independent ladies out there (maybe not the ball buster types) appreciate those qualities. i have set up some of my gfs with some of my guy friends and it was unbelievable. the guys often thought the girls were not interested in them after the initial date, and i would talk to my gf and they said, i've been waiting for him to call and vice versa. just a simple example of fear. both did not want to call or make another contact. so both are usually off to their next no follow thru date and the cycle continues. i think if one is painfully shy this internet dating is helpful tool. it is easier for some to write and be engaging - in person they are tongue tied and shy. with this said, i also believe and have experienced that the person you get to know over the phone and internet (for too long) will often times get your expectations so high, when you meet in person, you are disappointed. in my opinion this is why a quick meet after a few emails or a phone call or two is better. as for the gal at the store, go back there and see what happens.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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People on here are so Goddamn MEAN! Posted: 9/11/2007 4:45:16 PM
Dear Kerry C, You are having a bad day. Come on.. please don't leave. I for one have enjoyed reading your posts. You are unique and interesting, it will take a while to find someone that will rock your world in the way that you deserve. If you were more of the same, it would be easy. Please just continue to be yourself. You don't need to flip flop strategies. It will happen. Hugs

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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Planning on leaving - Major issue with Website IM Posted: 9/11/2007 10:29:53 AM
dear theeternalom, i had a similar problem. the IM dialog box is not intuitive well at least not to me, so i clicked on the wrong icons and experienced the pop up windows as you did. once you figure out the IM/Chat function it is easy to use. or as another said on here, just disable the IM/Chat function.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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In my head... Posted: 9/10/2007 12:30:26 AM
dear miffys, what you are experiencing happens more often to many of us (in happy committed relationships) than one would think. my advice to you, is DO NOT tell your bf about this. it is your problem and you have worked on it and you seem to have figured it out. there is no need to hurt your bf's feelings or make this into some huge issues. in my opinion you have not cheated it isn't an issue unless you make it one. things like this happen, it is how we react to them or if we cross the line. i don't believe you have. we emotionally go places with many people throughout the work day and work week. it is where we spend most of our day, sometimes the dynamics of relationships do go places they shouldn't. you seem to feel horrible about the emails and such, so i would suggest just getting some distance by just talking to him about work related issues only and talk about you and your bf did this and that.. he should get the message. you see this work mate for what he is. as far as getting him out of your head, remember what you have, do some couple things together.. relationships cycle it is good not to make or do anything life changing because next month you could be saying "what was i even thinking with this slime ball at work when i have this wonderful bf" don't beat yourself up.

brazenangel

Joined: 7/5/2007

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amount to feed a cat Posted: 8/29/2007 9:26:44 AM
i just had to tell you what a kind heart you have. a stray can have food issues as being a stray she never knew when or where her next meal would come from. and it will also take her time to feel secure enough to go outside (if she is going to be an indoor/outdoor kitty). she doesn't want to be locked out of her new home. my cat also likes the routine of me feeding her. she loves that she can drag me out of bed, let her select the can of food she wants and pet her while she eats. so the meowing for food all the time will eventually stop. i usually keep dry out all the time for my kitty and feed her a half a can of fancy feast in the morning and the other half in the evening. you may not be able to leave dry out all the time for your kitty because she will bing. good luck with your new addition and let me tell you there is nothing hotter than a guy that is doting on his cat. good luck and let us know how it is going.

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