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paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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Meeting the sooner, the better Posted: 7/8/2005 11:22:40 PM
definatly sooner. in fact, within the first 2 or three emails i would like to be setting up a time to meet for coffee or something.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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Why is it always about getting laid? Posted: 7/8/2005 11:18:40 PM
SEX!! YES!! MORE!! NOW!! if we aren't compatable in the bedroom, we aren't going to be compatable in the living room. so why pretend? let's just get down to it and have some real fun!!

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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Long Distance, can it work?? Posted: 7/8/2005 11:04:03 PM
i've tried the hour away distance, it doesn't work. there is always the excuse of "i don't want to drive that far, i'm too tired, i'll have to get up too early to go to work," and so on. but, that's just me. to each their own. personally, when i'm with some one, i like to be WITH them.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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Meet in Person is Only Way to Size Up Posted: 7/8/2005 10:57:48 PM
my 2 cents is face to face is best. the sooner the better. get it done and over with. that way you aren't wasting each others time.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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Dating more than one at a time Posted: 7/3/2005 11:30:36 PM
i've dated 3 at one time, all intimate but not exclusive relationships, at the understanding of both of us. then one found out i was seeing others (i guess he thought i was just sitting around waiting on him to decide if he wanted to be exclusive), so he wanted it to be exclusive. but it didn't last long. guess once he got me he couldn't keep up with me cuz his reason for breaking off the relationship was i wore him out sexually!! go figure...

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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Is there such a thing as sex at first sight? Posted: 7/3/2005 1:46:45 AM
i have had sex on the first date, does that count? and it wasn't an 'egg timer' experience either!!

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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Would you date a woman/man with kids,yes/no and why? Posted: 7/3/2005 1:20:08 AM
i would date a man with kids. i have always wanted more kids, but can't have them so an extended family would be just fine with me.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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how many people have you met from this site? Posted: 7/3/2005 1:09:54 AM
i have decided that i don't need to met anyone. i would be just as content 'chatting' as meeting. i am too tired of the 'game' and feel that i need to excuse myself from the 'table'. i am stepping down and laying low. besides, i'm too old for this dating crap. it's so fake.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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Women what would you choose? Posted: 6/30/2005 12:59:31 AM
men give romance to get sex, women give sex to get romance.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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serious message: Posted: 6/29/2005 2:05:41 AM
very good insight. it's what i've always wanted. the fairy tale. and the part about cradleing his face and telling him you love him. then DON'T HAVE SEX. exactly what i've been trying to give !!! my heart. unfortunatly there has been too many who have not be in the same instant i was, and my heart was not recieved. thanks for the cry, and the hope that there is one special guy out there for me.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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how many people have you met from this site? Posted: 6/26/2005 10:33:47 PM
the one and only guy i have met i have never spoken to again. crazy how that works. i must be really scary in person cuz he said i was wonderful to talk to over the phone. well, maybe there will be another, maybe not. but i enjoy the forums.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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after POFers meet.... Posted: 6/26/2005 10:28:34 PM
i met one, and never chatted with him again. i'm chatting with a couple, but will probably never get to meet them.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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dating over 30 Posted: 6/9/2005 1:38:50 AM
msreddress.....YOU GO GIRL!!! ..... i agree totally.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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how many people have you met from this site? Posted: 6/9/2005 1:30:15 AM
Congrats Dee!!!! I hope it works out for you!

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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how many people have you met from this site? Posted: 6/9/2005 1:23:55 AM
actually face to face 'met' and had not known them before.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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how many people have you met from this site? Posted: 6/9/2005 1:20:29 AM
I've spoken to alot of people from this site, but I've not met anyone yet. Have you?

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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Have You Ever Been Mentally or Physically Abused by a Partner Posted: 6/1/2005 11:20:37 PM
both of my marriages were to physically and emotionally controlling and abusive men. but, i'm getting better, and i'm learning to pick better men, and to be more confident in myself.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 5/19/2005 1:17:35 AM
Shappy.....I'm a red head, and my last boyfriend dumped me cuz I wore him out in bed. He said I was too much for him to handle... go figure.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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So, how many people here are full of Bull **it ? Posted: 5/18/2005 2:35:14 PM
Good God this is a fun thread!!!

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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Over 30 -- What is your biggest turn on Posted: 5/17/2005 10:56:59 AM
eyes.....when he smiles it has to reach his eyes. if it doesn't, he is not really smiling. good sence of humor, a little twisted, passionate, intellegent, honest, and can appreciate that i won't always agree with him and that is ok. and a butt that makes me want to reach out and grab it!!!

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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So, how many people here are full of Bull **it ? Posted: 5/13/2005 10:35:45 PM
Sht....everyone here knows I'm old, ugly, flabby and mental. Won't hurt to admit to being full of sht too. Yeah, my boobs hang, my butt hangs, and I'm alone in my bed at night.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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death sentence for love? Posted: 5/11/2005 9:18:45 AM
Pavlov, yes, it is a recent diagnosis. It does seem large in my life right now. I lost a 'boyfriend' to it already. He said he loved me before, and during the 'diagnosis', but 2 weeks later, all he wanted was a sex partner. Hence my 'death sentence' title....and unfortunatly, bipolar is about being over dramatic at times, sorry all..... My meds are helping. I take them as prescribed. And, yes, I'm looking for a boyfriend, not a shrink. The other thought I wanted to add here is YES!!! I have noticed that I am more creative during a manic cycle too!! Meds level the cycles out tho, and they are not as pronounced or as long lasting. Thanks all for your input. Honesty is my policy...

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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death sentence for love? Posted: 4/6/2005 6:25:45 PM
Yeah Montreal....unfortunatly most of the ones I thought loved me turned out to be the ones who aren't worth it. Oh well, saves on money at Christmas time right??

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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death sentence for love? Posted: 4/6/2005 6:23:32 PM
Thanks Justaguy, I feel that if I was to withhold my diagnosis, it would be a deception too.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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death sentence for love? Posted: 4/5/2005 10:36:28 PM
Thank you to everyone who has posted so far. Being bipolar is a type of depression. I will take your advice, and be true to me. I'm an honest person, so I will continue with being honest. Eventually I'll have to find a guy that appreciates honesty right?

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/5/2005 7:49:09 PM
My 2nd husband had kids. It was his ex wife that was the problem!! anyhow, wether or not a man has kids is not important if you have a good connection with him.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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death sentence for love? Posted: 4/5/2005 7:36:18 PM
I have recently been diagnosed with a mental condition that will require me to take medications for the rest of my life. While the last year and a half has been difficult, I am once again feeling like myself. I am honest with all the men that chat with me here, and on other sites, as I think honesty is the best policy. Unfortunately, they never seem to want to chat again once they find out. Should I not be honest up front? It just seems rather sneaky of me to wait till things are getting serious to drop such a bomb on the relationship. Any opinions?

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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How many relationships over a month.... Posted: 4/5/2005 6:59:47 PM
I have had guys react the same way, I've been married twice. the frist one was 10 Years, and the 2nd was 3 years. the guys i've dated either thing i'm ready, willing, and able the first date, or not even worth a second one.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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Would you date a woman/man with kids,yes/no and why? Posted: 4/5/2005 6:53:51 PM
Yes, I would date a man with children. I myself have 2 boys. I've always wanted more children but can't have them.

paintedpony

Joined: 3/26/2005

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You know you're old when... Posted: 3/26/2005 10:47:52 PM
"Happy Hour" = "Nap Time!"

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