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Joined: 7/10/2007

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Does accepting an expensive dinner from a man obligates a woman to have sex with him? Posted: 4/14/2008 10:24:10 PM
I'm a little bit different than everyone else when it comes to this sort of thing. The ONLY time I will ever and I Do mean EVER buy a woman expensive dinner is if she is my Girlfriend and we are in a Serious and Long term Relationship. Otherwise, I really Don't want to waste my Money on some Random Chick. I've said this before and I'll say it again...Money does Not grow on trees.

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Why am I picking women who cheat on me? Posted: 4/10/2008 10:35:23 PM
First of all. you should trust no one and I mean NO ONE! Seems to me like you need to wake up and stop being so blind in a fantasy bubble. If you Truly had any sense of Integrety and Dignity, you would notice Whores like her before even thinking of going out with her. You need to have some Very Serious Boundries and Restrictions on what type of women you should date. NEVER EVER treat a woman like Gold. In other words, Never give them more respect than you feel they deserve. A lot of women think they are automatically entitled to FREE Respect simply because they are women. What they don't Realize is that Respect is something that you Have to Earn. You have to Show them that You Are a MAN and Not just a "guy". The reason why this good for Nothing Slut-Bag-****-Ass-Whore cheated on you is because you made it seem to her that You are a nice little boy. You know what these Sluts think of men who are Too nice to them, especially in the beginning?...WIMP,WUSSY,BOY TOY,WEAKLING. Need I say more? So Wake up and Be the Man of the Good Old Days and not the Feminized, Pussified Wimp of Today.

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is there faithful or decent men out there Posted: 3/25/2008 10:41:40 AM
hi "red-alert". I happen to be that decent faithful Man who is Deeply interested in finding that special lady and marrying her. The problem is that, when you are a decent Man, some women call you a wimp. If not, they call you a Jerk. The Real problem especially with dating websites is that Women have Too many Choices. "Why settle for Great, when You can have Excellent"?

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What PlentyOfish has done to me? Posted: 3/19/2008 2:16:16 PM
If a man did what You did, he would be Bombarded with people wishing that he dies. but because you're a woman, it's ok. "no harm done".

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Would you still go to nightclubs if you had a boyfriend/girlfriend? Posted: 3/14/2008 8:07:13 PM
I guess for some people, it would depend on the nature of the Relationship. If I personally were in a Relationship and I wanted to go to a Club or Bar or anywhere else that was meant for singles, I Would Only go if my lady went with me. It's Not fair to tell someone that you Love them and then you hang out at places where you Know You'll have open access to Lots of other eager single who are waiting to be picked up. This is One reason why Most Relationships Fail. You Have to give Your Lover a peace of mind.

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Ladies. What's more important? Profile Picture or Written Contents of Profile? Posted: 3/13/2008 5:05:31 PM
"Cookienwa". I guess different people have different tastes. Men who Primarily post Topless Pictures of themselves are Not Real Men in my opinion. They Severely Lack Integrety. That is why a Real Classy Lady like yourself does Not find that attractive. As for the smiling part. It should be Both, Common Sense as well as Common Knowledge that A person Should ALWAYS Smile in His/Her Picture for whatever Purpose of the Picture.

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Ladies. What's more important? Profile Picture or Written Contents of Profile? Posted: 3/13/2008 4:57:35 PM
"SmartSassyBBWinLA". You are an incredibly Intelligent lady. I can certainly Learn a lot about life from from a Great Person like yourself. I wish I had a friend like you who I could speak to on a regular basis. You have Immense Wisdom. Thank You.

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Ladies. What's more important? Profile Picture or Written Contents of Profile? Posted: 3/13/2008 3:34:18 PM
"jlynnh". Thank You for Your Great and Realistic Answer. Much apreciated.

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Ladies. What's more important? Profile Picture or Written Contents of Profile? Posted: 3/13/2008 3:31:43 PM
Thanks "Mister Incognito". Your statement is True in Some Cases.

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Ladies. What's more important? Profile Picture or Written Contents of Profile? Posted: 3/13/2008 2:39:23 PM
Please help me out here Ladies. Although, this is far from giving me the Targeted Answer I am looking for. Atleast it will give me and possibly other readers of this Forum, some idea. Here's a Very Important Question I have for All You ladies reading this. Would You Actually READ and judge the Written Contents of a Man's Profile, if He does Not look "Good" and does Not apear "Photogenic" in his Profile Picture?

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Girls are dogs too!!! Posted: 3/10/2008 5:53:18 PM
What Really Sucks for Men when dating women is that Too many women are Gold-Diggers.

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I'LL TREAT YOU LIKE A QUEEN ??? Posted: 3/10/2008 4:20:27 PM
Sorry if this may offend anyone but, men who easily treat Any woman like a Queen have emotional issues. To treat a woman like a Queen and to treat a man like a King is something that Has to be earned. Nobody likes a "Kiss-Ass". men who Lower themselves, Kneel Down and Bow Down to women are Weak and Gutless men with a shortage of Testosterone. These men have very little self esteem. Most women Might not admit to this, but deep down inside, they know that they are psychologically wired to be attracted to Brave, Strong and Confident Men.

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Presidential Candidates Posted: 2/27/2008 7:46:47 PM
Mitt Romney is a Mormon. So most people might feel skeptical about voting for him. McCain is an Old Fart, so hell no. Hillary is a Total ****, so already she has lost her chances. Gulliani might be connected with the Mafia. The Only Candidate worthy of becoming the next U.S. President is none other than Mr. Barrack Obama. Mr. Obama is a Real Charasmatic Man with Pride and Dignity. He is a True Born Leader.

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Iran approaching the high frontier Posted: 2/7/2008 5:55:23 PM
I'm Not a Visionary or a Prophet. But based on the info You have posted about Iran, it looks to me like Iran may become the New Super Power of the 21st Century. If they become Powerful enough, they may as well form a "New Age - Persian Empire".

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Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 2/7/2008 4:39:45 PM
dude, guess what. Men do it Too. There is nothing Wrong with multiple dating, as long as you are NOT in a Relationship. If You are in a Relationship and You date other people without each others' consent, then that's a Big problem. Otherwise, let the good times Roll. You're a Man, so stop giving a shit what some useless women do. Realistically, a Woman of Your True Taste and Desire will date ONLY You, because she will see how Much You care for her. This is especially important to remember since Women Love attention more than anything.

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is it wrong to only date guys whom im attracted to? Posted: 1/31/2008 4:12:07 PM
Read Carefully what I am Writting here. In order for Men and Women to be together succesfully, the following is needed... Attraction and Compatibility. You Cannot have one without the other. So to answer Your question, it is Extremely important to date people who you are Attracted to. I am sick of Human Beings trying to forget that they're Humans first and people second. To hell with Social Stereotypes. We Humans must follow our Natural instints, especially when it comes to our needs.

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Is Chivalry Dead Posted: 1/28/2008 12:05:53 AM
"Now days it's called being a gentleman. Showing respect, courtesy, tact, and manners around the woman you wish to be with". I have a better idea for "Chivalry". If you're a "Woman" and Not a little girl and You have a Job where You probably make More Money than the Man You Choose to date, than as a "Woman" it is Your Full and Mature Responsibility to Pay for Your share of the dates. Only first dates can be an Exception. Don't ever ask a Man to Respect You, simply because You are a "Woman". Welcome to the 21st Century, where Respect is something You have No choice but to EARN. A Lot of Women in Society are Gold-Diggers who are interested in a Sugar-Daddy. Real Men are Not Sugar-Daddies and Real Women are Not Gold-Diggers. Sugar-Daddy=Loser Gold-Digger=Slut

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What’s the most important thing that men don’t understand about women that they should Posted: 1/27/2008 11:36:59 PM
From a Scientific point of view, the female Behaviour is Far More Complex than a male. There is Absolutely NO comparison. Women are Much more Complicated than Men. So to support the topic of this forum, Men generally don't understand women. As long as there is No Balance between Society and Nature, Men Will NEVER understand Women. Especially the Women who speak faster than they can think. It all goes back to the unfortunate Truth that, Men are Natural creatures from Mars and Women are Highly-Social-Identities from Venus.

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is Sex a Normal Human Need, or is it simply a Social Treat? Posted: 1/27/2008 11:15:54 PM
I am a 30 Year old Man. Yes, Unfortunately I am Not in a Relationship. As a Man and also and Especially as a Mammal, I Naturaly have my Needs. Sex is one of them. For me, Sex is Equally as important as Eating, Drinking, Breathing and Sleeping. My Psychological well being depends on it. So Ladies and Gentleman and especially ladies, please answer my questions. Does this make me a Perverted Loser who is better off Dead? Also, my Main Question is " is Sex a Normal Human Need, or is it simply a Social Treat" ?

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 1/22/2008 12:28:58 AM
I have'nt dated anyone from here who did'nt have a picture, but I would'nt mind going on a blind date if atleast the lady sounds really nice on the phone before I meet her. For me it's 70% about personality and only 30% about looks. I consider myself a nice guy and if a nice lady who does'nt have a picture wants to date me, I Will be Honoured to meet her.

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im still on here Posted: 10/11/2007 7:34:51 PM
Guys, please Hear me Out. The Only reason for anyone to ever use this POF website should be to read these Forums, that's It. Atleast you learn from reading the Forums. Otherwise, searching for the opposite sex on this Website is a Total and Complete waste of Time. The women who are actually friendly and nice weigh Atleast 300lbs. The average looking ones don't think we men are worthy. Don't even think about wasting your time and opening the profile of a beautiful woman. She will delete your message without even reading it faster than you can say Ouch.I've been using POF for 2.5 years now and still have'nt found anyone who is Atleast a Quarter Decent. My advice to you is to NOT depend on this or any other sources of Media Dating Systems. The best way to hook up with someone is to Actually Having the Balls to Walk Straight to their Face and tell them that you are interested in them, and that you would be Very much interested in taking them out on a nice date. Yes, You Will Risk Embarrasment, but Not all women are stuck up. If you aproach atleast 10 women, I'm sure atleast one of them will show Real Genuine Interest in You will Full Attention.

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