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SteveO_74

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no cash date Posted: 7/4/2006 1:52:20 AM
thouse are awsome Ocean

SteveO_74

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no cash date Posted: 7/4/2006 1:49:13 AM
good idea cassidy and hey being a chef what better way to impress her

SteveO_74

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no cash date Posted: 7/4/2006 1:20:19 AM
ok here is the thing paying for kids summer camp ect ect. now a little taped outBut meet a girl on friday who really wants to get together on wed (only day we can get together for the next week or so) here is the problem i have about $46.83 till friday. now this is a great girl good head on her shoulders nice clean place has a 6 yr old and works full time and as far as i can tell has never been in a mental instatution. what more could a guy ask for! but how do you make a great first date with less than $50? I'm guessing we will be doing alot of walk down by the lake front lol

SteveO_74

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~~~Peterborough Camping July 15/16 Beavermead Park~~~ Posted: 7/4/2006 1:05:50 AM
well i'm a ten min walk from there so don't really think i need to camp there but i might just drop by and see whats up

SteveO_74

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A Long Dating Story Gone Wrong!Dont Do What I Did! Posted: 7/4/2006 12:52:15 AM
like most things in life ..... Your damned if you do and Your damned if you don't

SteveO_74

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Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash? Posted: 7/4/2006 12:42:39 AM
I try to pretend not to have alot of money when I first start dating some one. there are too many gold diggers out there you have to watch yourself.

SteveO_74

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What's the most exciting part of a new relationship? Posted: 7/4/2006 12:38:48 AM
yeah it's all about that goofy feeling walking around with that stupid smile on your face like you just won the gold medal at the special olympics

SteveO_74

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Church singles groups? Posted: 7/4/2006 12:27:56 AM
OP i think you should go I have been to a couple and i''m not into the church sceen. But you are right ppl say they are looking for a smart funny hontest person to be with but ya they also leave out "must look like you just came from a GQ photo shoot." So I say go you will find some like minded ppl there looking for the same things in life and unlike the bar sceen or online dating you will be less likely to question their moral values. Worst comes to worst you might only end up making a friend (but hey he might have a sister ;>)

SteveO_74

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The awkward question... Posted: 7/4/2006 12:14:38 AM
I just go every 6 months to get tested it's only a little blood work and with OHIP it's free for a little peace of mind why not.

SteveO_74

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Compulsive Lying Posted: 7/4/2006 12:01:29 AM
lmao Bubbynutz yes it is a sad sickness. I used to date a girl who did nothing but lie. even when she had no reason to even lie. it was a compultion with her. It finaly ended our realtionship because i could never tell if she was telling the truth or not. But guys tell white lies all the time like when we are asked if the jeans make her look fat we respond on instinct "no honey you look great" when were really thinking "it''s not the jeans that make you look fat it''s the half a cheese cake you ate last night"

SteveO_74

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Why don't tall men choose to date tall women? Posted: 5/6/2006 8:30:05 PM
I like dating a tall woman. I am 6' but like it when the girl is my height or even a little bigger. But I don't go looking for a cretin type the shortest girl I ever dated was 4'10" made it hard to dance some times lol

steveo_74

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What's your Southern sign? Posted: 4/9/2006 1:30:56 AM
ARMADILLO so i'm a through back am I well hey I always new i was now this conferms it.

steveo_74

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God's Creation Posted: 4/9/2006 1:25:26 AM
lmao yeah thats a good one

SteveO_74

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One Song.. Posted: 3/21/2006 8:05:26 PM
who can say sweet november - Enya

SteveO_74

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Pictures that look nothing like the person you meet!! Posted: 3/13/2006 9:27:48 PM
well yeah they should try and put up a pic that looks the most like them but then again i have never met anyone online before so i have nothing to compare it to

SteveO_74

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I HATE Line-ups -- do you ??? Posted: 3/13/2006 9:25:28 PM
I know your feeling OP I'm in the holding patern right now with someone. She just broke up with her B/F so now i have to wait till she is ready to date again and hope i time it right to early and she is not ready to late and she might be asked by someone else. WHY can't they just wear a sign open for busness.

SteveO_74

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Guidance for those born under Scorpio Posted: 3/13/2006 9:20:37 PM
I know the feeling OP when you tell ppl (girls) that you’re a Scorpio they respond in one of two ways with fear or delight. Yes we are dark and passionate jealous but only to a point we never let ppl know what we are thinking. Yet we can be very loyal (but never cross us) spontaneous and very passionate. We are what most signs wish they could be all I have to say is YEAH SCORPIO!!!!!! But when most ppl ask me what sign I was born under I just tell them it was a big blue and white H

SteveO_74

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Ever been to the Guvernment Night Club??? Posted: 3/13/2006 9:07:49 PM
Has anyone ever been to the Guvernment night club in toronto a few friends are taking me there. Well i'm just a small town guy who likes his little pub this place sounds way bigger than i can handle but have been told some of the best looking ppl around go there so it can't be all that bad ............ right?

SteveO_74

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Are there any credible guys here ? Posted: 3/10/2006 5:58:15 PM
As I said on the "are there any guys still looking for long term relationships" post yes there are still credible guys out there they are just hanging out with all the credible weman

SteveO_74

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How long do you wait? Posted: 3/10/2006 5:04:09 PM
as the saying goes "my devorce cost more than my marage .... but it was worth it"

SteveO_74

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pregnant women..ya or no? Posted: 3/10/2006 5:02:15 PM
I would have to say na! because you never know the guy could have just freaked at the thought of becoming a dad but he might want back in the picture a couple of months down the road and i would feel real bad about breaking up a family

SteveO_74

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Are there any credible guys here ? Posted: 3/9/2006 6:02:39 PM
most weman don't go for the type of guys they say they want and i have seen it time and time again. Take my friend John and I. we look very much alike we have even fooled ppl into thinking were twins. We both have well paying jobs ect. ect. but looks and bank accounts are where John and I split ways. John is your A typical bad boy tatoos all over will fight anybody just because he didn't like the way someone looked at him he has a rep as someone you don't want to mess with but he also has a rep of being a dog he knows it and he loves itlove em and leave em but when he does stick with a girl she is not a g/f but more property. Not alowed to go to a friends house if another guy might be there not alowed to go out with anyone he doesn't aprove of. Now there is me ppl would say I'm old fasioned I hold the door open for weman pull out their chair. Let them have a life away from me there has never been a jelous bone in my body. But time after time the girl will always go for him. Why because girls say they want the nice stable guy but when push comes to shove they will take the bad boy anytime. But hey I look at it in a good light he weeds out the ones i wouldn't really want anyway. As he would put it he's like a firewall for my dating computer he helps to keep the viruses out!

SteveO_74

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Can you sleep when you are cuddling? Posted: 3/9/2006 5:49:17 PM
no I can't i used to cuddle till my ex was asleep (thank god she always fell asleep fast) but then i would sneek over to the other side of the bed. It's not that I didn't like it it was just i would get too hot to sleep. I sleep with my window open in the winter time. She hated it. but once i was asleep it was fine she would come over to my side of the bed and cuddle with me then. but no I can't fall asleep that way!

SteveO_74

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How do guys really feel about being approached by women? Posted: 3/6/2006 10:45:05 PM
personaly I love it! I'll never say no to a girl who asks me to dance even if i don't want to i'll still do it because most weman have no clue how hard it is to go up and start talking to a total stranger.

SteveO_74

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Have You or would You consider Dating a Crossdresser Posted: 3/6/2006 10:22:08 PM
well it can be true for weman too this friend of mine told me that she likes me one time. now she is a nice girl tall slender smart but a huge tom boy for the first yr i knew her i thought she was gay. But i had to turn her down because of the guy factor. well told her because I just broke it off with some one and didn't want to date for awhile but hey it's better than the truth

SteveO_74

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Why is it that older men treat you better? Posted: 3/6/2006 9:54:42 PM
hey I'm an young guy Well compared to a red wood tree but I have never misstreated a woman and I have a few friends in there young 20's and i would let anyone of them date my sister (if i had one)

SteveO_74

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MUST DO DRUGS Posted: 3/6/2006 9:26:08 PM
OMG that is awsome! yes they should have that on here must be for canibus consumption why not there are alot of on here i bet

SteveO_74

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what is it with men who... Posted: 3/6/2006 9:21:26 PM
I find most weman can't handle the truth! example "do these pants make my ass look fat" guy responce: what they say "no they look good on you" what they want to say "it's not the pants that make you ass look fat it's the fat that makes it look that way" sometimes it's better to just lie and speaking about what they feel how many times has your b/f come home and your in a mood and he asks whats wrong and the responce is fellas say it with me "nothing" let the quessing game begin and wow do you ever get it if you can't guess it the first few times but if you say "okay" and walk away you get it even more. So I guess what I'm trying to say is that weman are just as bad as men we should both work harder at comunicating!

SteveO_74

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TATTOO'S do they make me less appraochable Posted: 3/6/2006 8:10:11 PM
well i know if it's a girl with tats she is more approachable it gives you something to start with.

SteveO_74

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Bar-Room Brawls Posted: 3/6/2006 8:03:19 PM
No i wouldn't. If she was having a hard time with him then yeah i might help out but if she is a good looking woman than she is used to it and can handle it herself. besides if they want to buy her a drink let them she is still leaving with me and they just made my night alot cheaper

SteveO_74

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dating and eating disorders Posted: 3/6/2006 7:32:58 PM
Okay this is an odd question but what should you do if you are dating a girl with an eating disorder. the girl i used to date was belemic oh hell she thru up every time she ate. And she seemed to get really ofended when i stoped taking her out to dinner. When ever we would go out we would go somewhere to eat first. but after i found out about what she was doing we stoped going out to eat i would just say i ate before i came over or that i was not hungry (I mean you would not buy a shirt just to throw it out as soon as you got it home would you) I'm pretty sure she knew that I knew after awhile. was I being unsensitive to her in some way by going about it that way. Just a question from a confused male.

SteveO_74

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Finicky eaters and relationships Posted: 3/6/2006 7:23:38 PM
yes i have and it did put a damper on my relationship. I'm a chef food is my life I like to cook new things to go to new resturants. I grew up with you had to try it once if you don't like it then don't eat it but you could not just go ewww that looks gross! Some of the most disgusting looking things taste the best my own father would not eat pizza for yrs because he said it looked gross but now it's his fav thing Food is like a relationship ... you never know what you'll like till you try it

SteveO_74

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Can you have sex with a man and not be together, but still be friends? Posted: 3/6/2006 7:15:48 PM
can you have a F&*k buddy well you can but only for a short while i myself have never had one but have known lots of ppl that have sooner or later some one will want more than just being buddies

SteveO_74

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Men: learn to cook. Posted: 3/6/2006 7:09:48 PM
I'm a chef does that mean i eat well at home hell no i don't know a chef that does. But yes there is no better way to a womans heart than with some little treats that you whiped up.

SteveO_74

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lets be friends first-hetrosexual Posted: 3/6/2006 6:47:49 PM
It sounds like you had a very bitter experience. there is only one of my ex's that i'm not friends with a couple of them I would even go as far to say they are some of my best friends. ppl I have shared everything with and them to me. I would be a fool to let some one that close to me slip away even if the physical part has.

SteveO_74

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Ms Ann's 'Improvement-Based' Profile Reviews Posted: 3/6/2006 6:36:29 PM
any help would be great!!!

SteveO_74

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Am I doing something wrong? Posted: 3/6/2006 6:34:30 PM
don't worrie Shygal I have been on here since june and still have never had a person say hi. But like a glouton for punishment I keep comming back I hate the bar but still have better luck there. (hard to dance online lol) just keep trying!

SteveO_74

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TOO MANY AT ONCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 1/12/2006 11:33:30 AM
a race I like that one lmao

SteveO_74

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Do women meddlemore than men? Posted: 1/12/2006 11:14:54 AM
well men do it but not to the extreem weman do

SteveO_74

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TOO MANY AT ONCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 1/12/2006 11:12:54 AM
Okay here is the thing. I have been going to the same bar for about 5 yrs now and sometimes I meet some nice women there (and I have alot of female friends to show for it :< ) but have been in a slump of late well the past yr. but the past couple of times i have been out I'm getting hit on left right and center. I'm a pretty shy guy when it comes to girls. I can talk to anyone but when there is a spark I start getting quiet. but what should you do when 3 girls you like are all wanting your attention. But you don't want to ofend any of them or make a wrong choice. I'm just looking to settle down so I start to weigh the options run a list of pros and cons for each girl but by the time I make a desision the night is over. has any out there ever had this problem what did you do. any advice would be great thx. the fat kid in the candy store

SteveO_74

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Is Chivalry REALLY Dead? Posted: 1/12/2006 10:52:17 AM
Chivalry might as well be dead weman don't want it any more I get made more fun of my "old fashion" way of doing things. holding open a door pulling out a chair ect. in modern times you are conciderd a door mat if you do these things.I don't know i was told to respect weman. it used to be weman and children first now it's just suvival of the fittest

SteveO_74

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Would you find it acceptable if your bf/gf would go out to a nightclub without you? Posted: 1/12/2006 10:38:54 AM
Yes I would trust is the most important thing in a relationship. But as long as they stayed home when you wanted them to then there should be no problem

SteveO_74

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Cheating in the past? A deal breaker? Posted: 1/12/2006 10:36:35 AM
never have I cheated before. so why would I go out with some one who has. I have standerds why can't they. and yes if they have done it once they can do it again. it only gets easier to do over time.

SteveO_74

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Dating people who have kids! oops- to late to take it back now! copping flack already! Posted: 1/12/2006 10:23:38 AM
well I perfer to date girls who have kids. they know more of what they want in a relationship. less likley to cheat. and hey being a big kid at heart I like most kids and get along well with them. as for other guys well I guess they will grow up one day and dicover that there is more to this world than there own needs. I have 2 of my own and they never even meet who I'm dating for 6 months or so anyway and most ppl I date are the same way

SteveO_74

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examples of messages that are lame and turn me off Posted: 3/31/2005 12:56:31 AM
i never know what to type to a girl in an email. what can you put not to sound lame or desprit. i just talk for a bit try to tell them a little about myself and try to put a little humor into it but yes my spelling also sucks it does not make me a stupid person by anymeans i am i read books most people can not even grasp. graduated high school and collage with honors but still can not spell worth a damn. i think your a sad person if you just turn your nose up to a person just because he/she is bad at spelling. because really how many time have you ever said "I love him sooooooooo much because his spelling and puncuation are amazing!" most ppl talk to one another. They do not sit at a returant passing notes. sorry i was going to ask a question there but got off on a rant (because ppl that act like the internet gramer police really piss me off) what is a good way to get a girl to respond to an email. And even a "drop dead pig!!!!!" would be better than no responce at all!!!!!!

SteveO_74

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When should BF/GF meet the kid(s)? Posted: 3/31/2005 12:33:06 AM
i usualy wait a good long time before they met my kids. but netty i do take my kids into acount they are 12 and 7 and have met a few girls that i have dated most of the time i introduce them as friends but kids are smart even if you hide it that your in a relationship with that person they can sence it right away. if they ask i tell them straight out yes we are dating. my kid are my best friends and i hide nothing from them even if they are to young to understand (in the case of the 7 yr old) thats how you keep open comunication with them when they start to go out on there own they see the things you have done in the past and thats how kids figure out how they should do things. But even now i will talkto my oldest about girls i am seeing if he dislikes her well out she gos. its funny they never take it well when you tell then sorry but its over my son just does not like you.

SteveO_74

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Free childcare... Posted: 3/31/2005 12:19:08 AM
gary your the guy who didn't want to tell all the girls he has slept with that he has crab in the sex and relationships form wow mate i did not think a human being could sink any lower than that thanks for proving me wrong. f**k man were you droped on your head as a baby. I realy hope she finds out and has you charged

SteveO_74

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Does Persistence Pay Off? Posted: 3/31/2005 12:11:15 AM
yes it can pay off but you can take it too far i guess. there is a line you just have to know it

SteveO_74

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Big std dilema... Posted: 3/31/2005 12:08:32 AM
man own up to it. i would kill a girl if i found out she gave me something and did not tell me about it. not because i have something but because of the phone calls iwould have to make after i found out!

SteveO_74

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Online dating, desperate? Posted: 3/30/2005 11:47:40 PM
hey you never know who's behind the door till you walk thru

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