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Kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 13 (view)

What is he thinking? Posted: 2/10/2009 12:57:11 PM
How come you didn't initiate the talking the first time you saw each other again? I'm just wondering. Sometimes it takes a little prodding, so he probably figured if you weren't going to push the issue, he would let it slide too.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

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How do you break up with someone without hurting them? Posted: 1/24/2009 3:38:43 PM
Contact a suicide hotline ASAP and tell them your story. They will help you with the situation!!! Do it, seriously....don't stay because of it, but you don't want that on your conscience if he does it....you need help with this your not going to be able to do it alone....they will know what the best thing is, I'm sure they've heard it before.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 919 (view)

Do you believe that there are some Good Men left ? Posted: 1/24/2009 3:33:09 PM
There are millions...the problem can be a woman's expectations and the 'let's try to change him and make him perfect' and if he doesn't change he's a jerk' thinking.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 938 (view)

Anyone Ever Dated A TRUE Narcissist? Posted: 1/24/2009 3:31:05 PM
OMG we should talk!!!!....seriously!! You NEED to be prepared if you are trying to divorce a NPD. And if you have children, it can be even worse. They will stop at nothing to ruin your life....and can hold a grudge for years!! You need a good lawyer!!

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 3 (view)

Dating after a month...she wants a commitment Posted: 1/24/2009 3:28:19 PM
a month is really soon...were you seeing each other daily at that point? And what exactly does committment mean to you or her. Are we talking marriage/cohabitation? or just exclusivity? Sounds like she was just a bit insecure and was afraid if she didn't get a committment that you would find someone better.....which kind of happened to her because of her actions....which is an irony too few people in the dating people seem to get.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 57 (view)

Double dipping...is this really OK? Posted: 1/20/2009 4:29:39 PM
Why ask us if its ok, obviously it isn't to you and your the one dating the guy. Personally, if its someone I'd consider kissing....no prob....if not, then I guess I'll wait for my main course so I don't have to share anymore.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 309 (view)

rape in a relationship? Posted: 12/19/2008 11:06:24 PM
The biggest obstacle facing women raped by their husbands or boyfriends....is getting the police to take it as seriously as if it were some guy breaking into your bedroom with a knife.....yet its just as scary and leaves many of the same emotional scars....and has nothing to do with sex....its about power and control.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 971 (view)

Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs? Posted: 12/17/2008 5:37:34 PM
If your honest about your past, to the point that your comfortable...any man that would insist on you 'going there' needs to be left curbside.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 41 (view)

How come so many people seem to be clueless about sex? Posted: 12/16/2008 9:48:50 PM
I'm often surprised too about grown adults with such lack of basic sex education. But I guess if your parents didn't teach it, and you were too embarrass to inquire as a teenager about these things, then you get to adulthood with little knowledge. I'm glad I grew up in a forward thinking house with parents that were open and honest and encouraged reading! I try to do the same for my kids now.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 27 (view)

You think you have it wierd??? Posted: 12/16/2008 4:44:42 PM
Good for you for not responding, I probably would have to give him a piece of my mind....I gotta give it to him though....he's got balls for trying. There was that little chance you might have said yes. Good riddance to bad rubbish. Sorry it had to hurt though.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 146 (view)

Red flag? Posted: 12/16/2008 1:12:50 PM
Wow! BIG red flag.....I'd call her out on it, see what she says....if she gets all defensive about it....RUN don't walk away.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 68 (view)

Am I to wait for him to fall for me? Posted: 12/16/2008 1:10:53 PM
Hmmm....bitter much? Guys aren't useless.......just clueless at times....its part of their charm

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 272 (view)

Global Warming Real? Posted: 11/7/2008 6:12:45 PM
I find its often generational....people can find quotes and information to back up any position, but your right its frustrating when speaking with someone who denys what's in front of them.....siting media fear creation as the culprit instead.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

Has technology surpassed our humanity? Posted: 11/7/2008 6:03:57 PM
I agree, I love humanity and the human condition....but I'm lost without my email!!!

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 80 (view)

Good books Posted: 11/7/2008 6:00:20 PM
If you liked the Kite Runner...you will LOVE A 1000 Spendid Suns also by Khaled Hosseini

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 403 (view)

Best bumper sticker Posted: 11/7/2008 5:57:33 PM
Ok that is a good one....you should write them for a living! Ha, that one will keep me laughing for days!

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 51 (view)

Dead Fish F*ck Posted: 10/21/2008 8:59:50 PM
Hot does not always equal sexy! Sexy is a state of mind and a confidance thing.....she doesn't like herself....it won't get better.....find an ugly confidant girl and start having hot sex...

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 110 (view)

Good looking women and sex Posted: 10/19/2008 10:06:53 PM
some people figure all they have to do it show up.....goes for men and women and the ones more likely to have that attitude are the really good looking ones. The rest of us..know we got to put in a bit of effort.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 59 (view)

Would you date a guy or girl who didn't drink? Posted: 10/19/2008 2:58:52 PM
I don't drink myself, but I'll date social drinkers...why not?....as long as socially means to the other person what it means to me....so he stops at a few and doesn't get wasted while out with me....

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 54 (view)

Dating for a year but I've never been to his/her place. Posted: 10/19/2008 2:56:24 PM
Major red flag....its probably where his wife and kids live!..

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

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First message to a girl??? Posted: 10/15/2008 9:41:39 PM
Try to be funny.....but actually make an effort to I don't know...like read her profile....and comment on something specific she wrote...compliment her on her values or something....but try not to make it about her smile or eyes....we've heard those a million times! And God whatever you do....don't say 'hey sexy' or 'U so hot'....we HATE that! seriously we do....it reeks of hounddog!

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 50 (view)

Should You Remove Your Profile While Dating? Posted: 10/15/2008 9:39:08 PM
I think it's something to have a conversation about...its a modern day dating issue afterall....whatever is mutually agreed on...but I'd only bring it up after you've maybe made the decision to be intimate or are seeing each other/talking daily for at least a good solid month or so....otherwise its still just casual dating regardless of what you personally may be feeling. Got a be a mutual thing....otherwise there isn't a relationship.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 1076 (view)

If someone emails you with misspelled words and bad grammar, do you respond? Posted: 10/15/2008 9:35:28 PM
I will read the profile to see if perhaps English isn't a first language....but if there are no indicators of that....nope won't respond....take the time to proof read...I also hate all those ttyl and u r crap....you want me?....spell it out!

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 915 (view)

Favorites List????? Posted: 10/15/2008 5:25:58 PM
I've had guys add me because they are seeking IE or something I have on my settings that keeps them from messaging....I guess they hope I'll lower my standards or something

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 79 (view)

Dating more than one person.... Posted: 10/14/2008 9:59:46 PM
I agree there is a difference between dating an a relationship. Once you feel your in a relationship with one...its time to get rid of the others....you'll know when the time is right....but in the meantime....have fun!...but dating doesn't mean sleeping with.....at least not in my books...

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 136 (view)

Does No Car Mean No Action? Posted: 10/14/2008 9:54:26 PM
depends on the city you live in. Here in Calgary - no car = no action

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 10 (view)

difference between a date or hanging out.... Posted: 10/14/2008 9:53:17 PM
My experience..guys that have hang out....means seeking sex on the first date....if you can even call it that. At least guys that select dating are actually looking for dates....as in out in public with dinner or something....trust me on this one!

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

What do i do if she ends up unattractive? Posted: 10/14/2008 9:49:22 PM
This is why its important to meet after 1 or 2 emails....if she/he shows up ugly or fat or whatever, then its just coffee, no big loss. But after weeks of online chats you feel invested and very let down when the person looks different than her picture.....everyone in person looks a bit different. Look for profiles with a few to get a sense of what they really look like. We all pick our most flattering for our profiles

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 105 (view)

What exactly does hang out mean Posted: 10/8/2008 10:38:10 PM
it means if I don't like you...I am just looking for friends...if I do...let's get it on!...for now.....

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 394 (view)

Starting to get turned off with shaved women Posted: 10/8/2008 10:34:06 PM
so your bored with shaved women...but your honey doesn't have one...does she know your bored with these other women's shaved pubes?

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 91 (view)

oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 10/8/2008 10:31:30 PM
your getting a blowjob bud....don't complain......swallow - don't swallow...its still a blow job any way you look at it

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 723 (view)

Curvy Vs Slim Posted: 10/1/2008 12:58:58 PM
Men love confidence....not your size.....and God whatever you do...if he didn't notice your flaws and celulite....don't point it out to him!!

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 57 (view)

needing space ... Posted: 9/29/2008 6:01:01 PM
I agree - need space=f**k off whether a man says it or a woman....I've never had one come back after uttering this phrase....be happy he got that....its better than the 'disappearing act'...

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 107 (view)

Why is a great person like you single? Posted: 8/10/2008 9:30:47 AM
cos' if I wasn't....cougars might become an endangered species...I love Al Gore too much to let that happen

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 10 (view)

What do women want you to talk about when you message them? Posted: 8/9/2008 7:40:45 PM
I love it when they tell me that they just masterbated to my picture....what a turn on.......NOT!......stay away from anything that makes you sound sleazy or that your just looking to hook up. How about a nice "Hi, I read your profile, you seem very sweet and we might have a lot in common and I would like to chat a bit with you if your interested".? Hmmmm that might work

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 136 (view)

Masterbation...How much is Too Much??? Posted: 8/9/2008 7:37:10 PM
I love to post replies here because the subject lines come up on the bottom of my profile.....so guys know what I do online : )

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 86 (view)

on t-shirts Posted: 8/9/2008 7:30:28 PM
I'm a Vagintarian....

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 77 (view)

Are women over 35 looking for a LTR Posted: 8/9/2008 5:19:05 PM
Women who have been married and now aren't......don't usually look to do it again because they've discovered there isn't a lot in it for women....unless picking up dirty socks is your thing.........men on the other hand.....after years of being committment phobic....then get married and then divorced and realize its a great institution for them....imagine...no more Christmas shopping....or buying underwear....or any housework for that matter.......not that I'm one of 'those' women mind you

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

Are Women Really Attracted to Sissie Boys? Posted: 8/2/2007 10:48:48 PM
I agree with Leeanne. There's a big gap between Truman Capote and Velco chest hair with a Bert Reynolds mustache! We want a man without hair on his back, smells good and can dress himself without embarrasing us in public

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 7 (view)

thoughts on a hobby Posted: 8/2/2007 10:34:25 PM
As long as a man's hobby doesn't involve hookers, or driving around with duct tape, robe and a large trunk. I'd be ok with it.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 81 (view)

thongs aren't for everyone... Posted: 8/2/2007 10:31:20 PM
I agree with Welder.................Is this even a serious question????

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 6 (view)

Why does Men Want Honesty But When They Get It No Way Posted: 8/1/2007 9:22:58 PM
When a man says he's looking for honesty in a woman, it means tell me only good stuff! Honestly, I'm horny for you Honestly, it happens to a lot of guys Honestly, its not that noticeable Not: actual honesty, or brutal honesty. Oh and it means you can't cheat, even if he is.........cause thats not honest

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 133 (view)

so many smokers... meaning so few choices... Posted: 8/1/2007 9:09:48 PM
[I cannot believe how many stupid men that I am coming across when I look at their profiles!} dharmaf: too funny I am not a smoker, and I have kids so I don't think I would date a smoker, but I'm certainly not self-righteous about it. To each is own. I thought these dating sites were on in free countries, not communist nazi ones. I used to smoke, and I quit, it was hard, I respect how hard it is and I respect a persons right to do what they want........I have more of a problem with people who walk into McDonalds EVERY day and then get all upity about having to buy two tickets to ride on a plane because they can't fit into the seats..............Life is a series of choices. choices=consequences good or bad.

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

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Per chance a review Posted: 8/1/2007 8:43:45 PM
OK, Now it looks good, lets get married!.........wait a minute you would move to Canada if more girls were like CinemaCatChick............I'm from the same frikin city as her!!! Fine, slightly devastated, but I'll move on...........I'd be embarrassed that George Bush is from Texas tho.........oops did I say that out loud???? Sayter.......Why do I feel after reading your review that theres going to be an exam at the end worth 80% of my grade.??????

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 16 (view)

Which would you rather be rejected for? Posted: 8/1/2007 8:27:09 PM
WAY rather it be something in my personality. If someone says your not my type, it makes me feel ugly or discusting in some way. But if someone says, its because I'm not adventurous enough or, we don't have the same sense of humor. Thats ok because your not going to click with every person. But ugly is not all that subjective.......ugly is ugly! And I may be ugly to you, but not to the next guy........but I don't want to hear anyone thinks I'm ugly.........A ****? now that I can live with!

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

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Per chance a review Posted: 7/31/2007 8:32:22 PM
I don't see anything wrong with your profile, theres humour in it and I always respond to humour. And it appears sincere. I'm more interested in what you mean by not getting the responses you'd like. Not enough as you expected or not from the right kind of girl. Maybe you can clarify what your looking for. What kinds of girls are you sending messages to?

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 54 (view)

Ladies, You Are To Easy Posted: 7/31/2007 7:49:56 PM
Hey Fran, I think I just saw one of your wives making a run for it! quick catch her before she exercises her right to vote........or trips over her burka

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 7 (view)

Questions about the ex Posted: 7/31/2007 7:34:44 PM
No even close Shallow. But thanks for the pep talk....Jack***

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 5 (view)

John Edward's comment about Hillary's outfit Posted: 7/31/2007 2:59:25 PM
Some people have WAY too much time on their hands! A political debate for the Presidency of the United States and this is what people are commenting on?????

kimasaurus

Joined: 7/12/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

Why do women say they want one thing, when they really want another? Posted: 7/31/2007 2:39:01 PM
Some women look for guys that are good fathers, but then expect them to drop their own kids later to become a father to her kids.......like any truly good father would do that. Keep looking because there are plenty of us out there that expect your kid(s) to be your top priority as mine are for me. Thats why I have no intention of marrying or blending families until the kids are out of the house (his and mine) The kids should come first. Also be wary of any woman that gets upset over the amount of child support your paying because she may say she just doesn't want you to be taken advantage of, but what she's really saying is "quit spending all my kids money on your kids'. Good riddance to bad rubbage.

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