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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: am i leaving my daughter behind?  isisinvenus Joined: 3/31/2005 Msg: 11 (view)   am i leaving my daughter behind? Posted: 6/24/2005 9:20:38 AM I have one question for you...HOW?!? Seriously, I am not trying to hurt your feelings but I won't leave my son to go to a wedding! The first five years of a childs life are crucial! That is when they develop a sense of self worth, morality and trust. You want to get over the father??? I have a feeling you are really gonna regret leaving her someday. Then again I am one of those mommies who's dreams and goals were all about having, nursing, raising and most of all loving my child. Do you realize you are possibly turning your child into an orphan? Finishing what you started??? Correct me if I am wrong but you started a human life! What about her? Selfish...you got that one strait!  isisinvenus Joined: 3/31/2005 Msg: 9 (view)   Do Guys shy away from Women with Kids? Posted: 5/9/2005 1:04:18 PM First of all, Congratulations!!!!! Though it can be tough at times mothering a child is like no other love! I just had my first in February, and like you the "father" went crazy. I love you untill baby is on its way then the horns grew. He has never seen his son, and has made no attempts to even find out the baby's sex. Gotta tell you though, I have MORE offers now than I did before. I guess the maternal side that shows through not only attracts men, but a different type of man as well. You will now attract more of the "good" guys! I am actually resorting to this site instead of the typical meet in a mall type stuff to weed out the scary guys before a meeting ever happens. I have had guys who never noticed me much before looking at me as though I had wings since they caught glimpse of me holding my boy. One said I had a "glow" about me. You will find that some run, but the REAL men only hold the highest respect for a mommy. Good luck sweetie, nothing is better than motherhood!  isisinvenus Joined: 3/31/2005 Msg: 122 (view)   Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/6/2005 5:44:42 AM I know I actually prefer it! I have a very young son, and my focus is "will this man be good to my boy?" And since people are who they are, I get to see first hand how they treat children if they have thier own. I have decided against going out with some guys who had kids because I didn't like how they treated thier little ones. Children are a blessing and to be honest. I wish I could find a guy who had full custody of his kids to settle down with. Instant family works for me!!!! I LOVE kids...   Show ALL Forums