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northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

canadian men and dating Posted: 2/10/2009 5:08:31 PM
canadian men..hard bunch to figure out! the women are just as bad! I am an older canadian fellow, and most women here are victorian in their approach. You are good looking woman!

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Would you date someone from the USA Posted: 2/10/2009 5:05:21 PM
yes..I love american women..they are different from Canadian women. They seems more aggressive, and quite sexually satisfying!

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

Msg: 237 (view)

Do Men Really Beleive That Blondes are Stupid? Posted: 2/10/2009 5:03:18 PM
yes! change your hair colour..and see what happens!

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Why would a guy turn down a fuck buddy? Posted: 2/10/2009 4:58:13 PM
well, thats all he wanted from you, a one night stand..amazing, wet sex..thats it babe! Your that good? But be careful, looks like you want more than a ** buddy! A relationship. now..get on with your life, and get another ** buddy.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Having sex when there is no emotional connection- Posted: 2/10/2009 4:52:50 PM
me also. I love it, but if they want more, as in they love having you for sex and no commitment, go for it. If its good sex , and you feel great after, and both of you cum...let there be light..ENJOY! I wish there were more women like you. But the woman choses the sex partner.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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She revealed to me that she has been an escort for over a year Posted: 2/10/2009 4:49:30 PM
nothing wrong with that..not all escorts sleep with the client! Who are you to judge her! I think it would be fun!

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

Msg: 38 (view)

Are men getting more addicted to online dating and cyber sex instead of actually dating? Posted: 9/29/2008 5:33:59 PM
probably..because its safe! people are so afraid of getting hurt emotionally today. Cyber sex..yech!! I rather have the woman cum with me, feel the woman, touch, talk. I rather get a hard on and share it with you. The internet Its a safe way of meeting people. Lets met over coffee, but perhaps HE is afraid of himself. its like touching someone with gloves (on the internet)..you dont get the feeling. I wonder how messy his screen is! If it were me, and we felt comfortable with each other, we would be walking different the next day. A spring in our step.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Why can't I seem to get over him? Posted: 9/29/2008 5:23:15 PM
he is filling a need! Your empty somewhere in your emotions! Occupy your mind with other stuff, it takes time! But he is also taunting you! He knows where you live, and you know where he lives. Come on girl...get another life! Go out with the girls, get wasted, but dont go home with anyone. Worst case scenerio...move!

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

Msg: 273 (view)

all guys wants from me is sex.. but not a relationship... why is that? Posted: 9/29/2008 5:17:44 PM
how are you coming across to the boys? clothing, body language, being lonely? Keep your legs closed, dont wear cleavage clothes. Block this boy that wants between your legs. Come on...girl..use your common sense..go with your gut. OR are you fooling yourself, perhaps you do want to! you have got quite the conversation going. 12 pages of people telling YOU what to do! thats a lot of advise (?). Talk with your friend, ask them to tell you the truth. Are you an easy lay, and why? What is your background? Broken family, seeking love and attention. Why did you divorce your husband, you have kid? Are you looking for a father for your kid?

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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older women younger men Posted: 9/22/2008 5:06:26 PM
I think its great! I am an older man who loves dated and fooling around with younger women..but not too young. I dont need and feel very awkward having a relationship or sex with a woman who is old enough to be my daughter. That to me is just...wrong! Older women, similar to older guy, sometimes look for a sexual relationship with a young person. Its the experience..make me feel young! And they share different perspectives, if they decide to talk. Older women are more adventurous in bed. Depends on how young the younger man is! Women in their late 30's & 40's, I love. Married or divorced or widowed! The older woman is wanting to recapture her youth (and so do I)...maybe her husband , the old man is not paying attention to her. The older woman is usually dynamite in bed! She will be experience or wants to be held more!

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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i was wondering and looking for genuine advice Posted: 9/22/2008 4:56:56 PM
partner..is he/she gay? gay friends have just as many problems as us straight guys.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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kissing on the first date? Posted: 7/1/2008 4:13:29 PM
you kiss on the first date and a nice hug..if you had a good time! Depends on how YOU feel toward him. If you enjoyed yourself, initiate the kiss..on the cheek, but make it nice! And tell him, we need to do this again..the date that is! or on the mouth.....but dont make it a I WANT YOU in my pants!! kiss. If HE initiates the kiss, and you like him...give a gentle kiss on the mouth. NO TONGUE! that is sexual. If you feel horny toward him, a little rub of the breast against him..but beware this can drive him away or give him the wrong impression. go with your gut! Women are good at that.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Should I let him know I'm interested? Posted: 7/1/2008 4:00:31 PM
give him a nice long hug..and tell him...thank you! Put your head on his shoulder, and have a good long cuddle.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Should I let him know I'm interested? Posted: 7/1/2008 3:59:15 PM
yes..but question is how to show him you are interested. Constant contact is good. Become friends first. what did you do to the other guys that make them drop off the radar screen.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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My virginity is affecting my ability to form relationships. Posted: 4/11/2008 8:08:57 AM
so your a virgin...tell the girl...its your first time...they may chuckle, but what the hell. enjoy the feelings of the girl being close to you, and stroking you...make sure you are gentle and nice to her. if a girl wants you..she will tell you, or her body language will tell you...be open. enjoy the feeling of being inside of her..its a wonderful feeling. Enjoy her closeness. but why are you having difficulty trying to form a relationship...why are you so up tight.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Does a parents seperation affect..... Posted: 4/11/2008 7:55:08 AM
yes, it will affect the child/children, especially young ones. It takes a while for them to accept that mom and dad are splitting. They feel they are to blame. So take it from there. What is mom and dad going to tell the child. If there is bitterness, between the mom and dad, it will probably show up in the way the child is treated when mom or dad take the child on the weekends. Children, not the 'kid', are very sensitive. But adults do not see it. Good luck..but keep the child in the loop, talk to them frequently, let them know its not their fault. And, don;t forget..the hugs.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Do you believe friends are more important than lovers? Posted: 4/10/2008 4:46:49 PM
I agree! I have a woman friend in florida, that is a great lover, and we are better friends. We get together, and if the urge hits us, we make love. But we are quite satisfied to be friend, we share a LOT both mentally and physically. I am her sounding board, and she is mine. But she is 'seeing' a guy now, but we talk often, but not as much. We are both physical people.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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What is great sex Posted: 3/29/2008 5:04:53 PM
subjective. Great sex is when you both feel comfortable after having an orgasm, you lay and cuddle, then go out for munchies. It takes a woman a while to come down from her high after cumming. So the guy needs to cuddle and stroke her. If they fall asleep, all the better. Great sex usually last a long time..there is a spring in your walk, because the sperm has a happy hormone that changes your attitude. You feel great for a few days, and look forward to another session. I love good and great sex..make the woman and me feel close and comfort. Great sex is also foreplay...whether its standing in the check out line and feeling each other, or sitting in a bar and she starts being suggestive, and he compliments her, by prining. All in all..have fun..its free and its good feeling.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Is it an orgasm Posted: 3/29/2008 4:59:58 PM
an orgasm is like a sneeze! the squirting is similar to a mans precum..its the prostate that is clearing the way for the sperm. some women expect too much..and orgasm sometimes are highly overrated. from what I have read above..you have orgasmed. Some women have small orgasms and some have the usual TV rated high explosive orgasm. If you are with a guy that you are comfortable with, have him, insert his finger gently into your vagina, and curve his finger and gently stroke you. There is a spot where you can feel the urge coming. If it feel like the urge is building..try to relax and let it happen.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Married Women Looking For Sex Posted: 3/29/2008 4:54:06 PM
initially, a married woman looking for sex, may actually be looking for a guy that she can talk and share things with. Sex is quite often a distant thing. She may be a physical girl who likes the feeling of having sex but her husband is either too busy with work, away from home, or has changed. I love sex, and the feeling of making love to a woman. And making her and seeing her having a orgasm under my touch. Woman have told me I am a very good kisser..translation? Things have changed, women take the lead. If they want something, and they are not getting it at home..they go looking for it. I love it when woman comes on to me...complimented because it makes me feel attractive, and when she takes the incentive to meeting with me again..I feel privileged, BU T KNOW your boundaries. If a married guy is having an affair, both need to know the boundaries, and set up guidelines.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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what are women looking for Posted: 2/22/2008 4:47:16 PM
its good to see so many responses from people that are quite fluent through the internet. It takes all kinds, negative and postive. Most of the women that response, must have a hard time with finding a man they like, they are so vindictive. now if they could learn how to write like they talk. Its not stupidity, it is just a question! Most of the women and some guys that have responded, sound very angry. Perhaps its because they themselves have not good relationships. Its only a forum, but some of the responds are quite interesting.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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what are women looking for Posted: 12/27/2007 5:44:23 PM
interesting responses. But I was intrigued by the slander and downplaying of my original question. Keep up the good work, good to see an open forum on interesting questions. I laugh at some of the responses in other forums. Its easy to knock someone down that you do not know, especially on internet forums. Have a Happy New year, Time to get off the computer, and see what reality is like. Good luck in your cyber persuits.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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what are women looking for Posted: 12/24/2007 4:19:34 PM
great..those are the responses I was hoping for! Merry Christmas to you all! But like most...as my daughter tells me..she has gone out with a few guys on POF, and all have been losers. She finds most guys are immature. Time to check out reality, and get away from the computer, and see what reality is like. YOu meet the most interesting people, any where...elevator, grocery store. U just have to relax and let it happend....mm, nice grapefruits. Firm, nice to handle and play with.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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is it so bad to want an older man? Posted: 12/24/2007 3:34:37 PM
I love dating a younger woman. I am 57, and younger woman crave an older guy for comfort, worldly, and sometimes better sex (we know how to make a younger woman feel good). My daughters date guys their own age, and they tell me they are SO Immature. I prefer a woman younger, because they are craving someone to talk with who is not into video games, have social graces. A tall long hair woman is what I want.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Marriage & affairs????? Posted: 12/24/2007 3:29:52 PM
why do they cheat in the first place. I cheat because the opposite sex (women) start flirting with me, they know I am married, they want a taste of the forbidden fruit. When they find the forbidden fruit tastes good, they want more! OR they are being ignored by their husband/wife. Usually its because no attention at home, no sex, something is amiss! We give each other company, or good sex (not necessarily orgasm!). Good cuddling, being held, someone to talk to that is open to actually hearing what they are saying.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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why are there so many men without photos.......... Posted: 12/22/2007 10:37:28 AM
mine is without pictures because I seek outside of my marriage lover. My daughter patronizes this site. but I get a lot of hit (tire kickers), but no response. If I get a response, the woman teases, but for some reason, she backs off. Maybe she does not know what she is looking for, even though she indicates she wants an affair. Fickle?

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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When men get all GIRLIE. Posted: 12/22/2007 10:32:36 AM
I note most women love a guy that treats them as a equal partner...when in love, helping with what they do, listens to them, makes them laugh. I take charge as needed, guide as needed. But I include the woman. Women I know, like it when I take charge, because their men do not. My women friends show their appreciation in many ways....hugs mostly, plus other physical treats.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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what are women looking for Posted: 12/22/2007 10:25:21 AM
just curious, when a married guy is looking for an outside interest (an affair), noting the number of women that are tire kickers (read but no response). What are the women really looking for that deters them from answering the ad.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

Msg: 664 (view)

can you trust some one once they cheat? Posted: 12/22/2007 10:22:26 AM
why did they cheat in the first place?

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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has free porn on the net become the middle-aged post-divorced person's new & safe partner? Posted: 12/19/2007 5:46:22 PM
your cute!! Free porn on the net..YECH!! I rather have the real woman, that knows what she has, and knows how to use it. heels are good, she can tease the hell out of me..and I love her rubbing herself up against me feels me getting aroused. Then we do something about it. Its called FOREPLAY!! I love it. Plus a bottle of good white wine, to relax us. A bottle of wine, little kissing and playing...used to be called..fooling around.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Does Anyone actually Date Here? Posted: 12/19/2007 5:38:10 PM
I wonder that too. but you look great! Nice legs. Love your hair. I am in ONtario Canada...love american women.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Why are older men so SEX oriented??????? Posted: 12/19/2007 5:36:30 PM
we are?? I see at lot of women, that put the moves on me..I love it! Mostly its cuddling touching their hair, telling them they look nice. Sex is irrevelant, its the foreplay I love, especailly over the phone, just before you meet them. Its the teasing, that is the biggest turnon. I prefer sitting on a couch or in a bar, the woman always takes the lead, if she is interested...its her body language and her low cut top, with a nice pair of jeans, leaning towards me, that makes me hard. Her kiss will let you know, if she is interested. But you have to get animated with your kiss, she takes the lead as to where she want to go from there. IF the guy does not respond...well there are other fish! If he brings an overnight sack with him, you know where this is going. I prefer married or divorced older woman, they are hot! Well, some are!

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Fat Flushing soup diet. Posted: 12/19/2007 5:31:31 PM
Pure B.S. Losing weight and keeping it off is a permanent change in your life style. Drink lots of water..portion your food, and lots of cardio (sex is good). Otherwise, why go to all that trouble and get bored. Its hard work, but its worth it. Get rid of the fat so people can see your belt buckle. Your sex life and appearance improves + your energy level goes up because you are not carrying around so much fat.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Attraction in your 50's Posted: 12/8/2007 12:58:48 PM
I prefer someone younger than I. some women look at me as a father figure, and/or a confident! If she is young in her thinking, I like it. She brings a fresh aspect to my life. My wife is old thinking, does not like change, and dead in bed, which is why I am looking outside for fresh thinking, a good cuddler, and kisser.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Dating - A Game At Our Age?? Posted: 12/8/2007 12:52:35 PM
still is, never will change. But it depends on the guy! If he is covering something or maybe he is just a nervous as you are on the first date. If he brings his knapsack, well, its up to you to say no! Perhaps some guys do not shoot straight from the hip, so to speak. talking a lot on the internet (IM or email), can tell a lot about a person...generally. Remember the term 'penpals'? Only now is more immediate. I prefer meeting the woman, talking...if the concensus is comfortable, lets meet again. Its like a job interview!

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

Msg: 649 (view)

Long hair on older women Posted: 10/22/2007 6:08:55 PM
I love long hair on a woman! it falls great in my face when we are making love. It looks sexy, and a great turn on. its also a evolution thing. Long hair is a sign of being attractive. She teases me with her hair, and I love giving her scalp rubs, makes her relaxed, and wet.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

Msg: 153 (view)

Why are women over 40 so desperate to get married? Posted: 10/22/2007 6:06:26 PM
they do not want to be lonely. Without a mate, life is very lonely, for some! I am married, but I have a lover on the side, and she is great. Younger than I, but I like it. I do not want to be alone, so I am staying married. My lover is a great woman, my sounding board, and great affection, plus the occasional sex. But we TALK about anything. I got married because i was lonely, kids came along, and I love my kids! We talk about anything, and I mean ANYTHING! woman have a great social network..some relate to other woman, some relate better to men. I am unbiased to my lover, she talks, I talk. But mostly, I listen, and I listen good.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Maybe half way there, does anyone REALLY have a clue? Posted: 10/22/2007 6:01:38 PM
whoa! you are one heavy thinking woman. Ease up a lot. Very few people actually know what they want in life. They still have not found what they are looking for. They have ritualist behaviour, miserable at their job, but lack the guts to find out what they TRUELY would like to do. what is it that you are asking? I am confused. You write vague.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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SHOULD HUGE FINANCIAL DEBT BE A DEAL BREAKER? Posted: 10/22/2007 5:58:10 PM
its a deal breaker. It takes a long long time to get rid of $200,000 debt...seek someone who is not a hermit.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Should I tell him Goodbye? Posted: 10/22/2007 5:56:36 PM
get rid of him..if his life is in a mess..let him deal with it. if he does not explain why his life is a mess..its not your problem. Looks like you have a good friend in the picture. Your horse! if a guy likes horses (I have two arabians), then he has potential. Do you show your horses? a caption could be...Must love animals! Not the human kind.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Men on a Marriage Strike Posted: 9/22/2007 9:57:37 AM
I am on strike...the woman I married I have lost love for her. I got married because I was lonely and desperate...we have 3 great children together that I cherish. My wife has become fat, and has no interested in slimming down a bit, and has no interest in the 'family business', she is just there. I do all the work, including marketing. She is not affectionate. I have to make the first move. Then she is too tired. I have become involved with a woman, 20 years younger than I...she is great. Affectionate, loves sex. But its long distance. She is divorced, easy to talk...tell me where to go when I need it. comments, ladies or gentlemen. YES, I am on strike/

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Long hair on older women Posted: 9/9/2007 6:01:39 PM
I love longer hair on a woman, very sensuous, but it depends on HOW long the hair is. If its shoulder length, and its clean, I love running my fingers through her hair. And its great, during sex, having her hair fall into my face, makes me all warm and fuzzy, and its very sexual, especially when she drags her hair down my chest.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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How do you deal with lazy men!! Posted: 9/9/2007 5:57:54 PM
you should be out or kick him out..he WILL NOT CHANGE, so wake up! You have a kid by him, so what! Become a single mom, but warn the boys you want to date, you are a package deal, If they can't accept that, too bad. I love kids, I have dated some woman that are a package deal, and the kids love me because i play with them, and read them stories, depends on the age, but I also tell them I need time with the mom! Depends on the kids age, some men do not like kids, and this will come out after a few dates. Good luck! But GET OUT of your current lazy relationship.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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the first date and he wont respect your pet Posted: 9/9/2007 5:51:24 PM
your pets have an innate sense of people. I usually let the dog or cat, sniff, and If I pass sniff test (I call it 'customs'), then we can relax. I let the dog or cat come to me. I am a big guy and I love animals (dogs, as long as they do not bounce up on me (read that as trained). But I have to pass the dog test first. Sounds like the guy you dated did not like animals from the start. So let him pass. The animals smell my dog and cat on me, so I am usually safe. You have to be careful some people say they like animals but this is usually BS. Let the dog be your guide.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

Msg: 314 (view)

OVER 50 And Alone....again. Posted: 8/23/2007 12:47:59 PM
point made! me..I meet the girl, we get to know each other. If the girl starts talking about her ex or marriage, I let her talk. I play no head games, women love to laugh, and that what I provide them. A glass of wine does not hurt for both of us. I make the women's men jealous because I make the woman laugh. Sometimes just a touch or carress on the shoulder is enough to make the woman relax. Most women have never been touched, not intimately, but just a nice touch or hug, is all it takes. I love to hug a woman, with nothing intended.

northwoods57

Joined: 7/17/2007

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My EX was Sexually Assulted as a Teen and all the memorys re-occured Posted: 8/23/2007 12:41:01 PM
your EX..why are you so concerned about the problems she is having, unless you are having sex with your EX. Could she be not wanting to re-encounter the problems because she is afraid. If she is refusing therapy to get rid of her baggage, maybe its the only exciting thing that has happened in her life, which is unfortunate. Perhaps while making love to her, something about you, is bringing memories back. Perhaps you need to make some distance between her and yuo. And stay out of her pants. IF she is refusing, not much you can do. Its her problem.

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