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smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

Msg: 30 (view)

he won't commit to dates Posted: 11/29/2008 10:34:42 AM
I agree with Diablera Bruja That a 17 year old son does not need that much father/son bonding time and if he does then something is wrong there. Ever heard of a troubled teen? We dint all have glorious teenage years. Also any time that a Father & Son can spend together not at each other's throats would be pretty damn cool! Off topic, my bad..

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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he won't commit to dates Posted: 11/28/2008 6:55:03 PM
True: The guy should be just as energetic as you about making time to see each other. Helping make plans around your schedule, and splitting the trips. If he's kind of selfish remind him that it's a little onesided right now. That way he can consider what might be in your head. This'll help get rid of any excuses that he just dint know, while voicing your opinion. Communication "should" be a blessing not a boon with your sweetie. (Opinion)

smoove1121

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Drink, Ink, & Wink Meet PartIV @ Shady Jack's, 12-5-08, 7:00PM, St. Louis! Posted: 11/28/2008 6:29:52 PM
So Many events at the end of the year.. I love socializing, and I'm getting used to meeting new people at these PoF Functions.. I'll make an earnest attempt to get to this one..

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Pre-Holiday Party @ Side Pockets St.Charles November 11-22-2008 Posted: 11/13/2008 6:21:38 PM
Hi Sunnie, yeah I have been in hiding just watching the days go by. I have a few Hugs reserved for you Sunnie, I should mention you barely got in under the wire,! lol I am booked up from the moment i get in the door.. j/k My hugs are best when I'm buzzing :sigh: I should just become a male escort, and charge a cover fee, (with discount options for friends)..

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

Msg: 162 (view)

Pre-Holiday Party @ Side Pockets St.Charles 11-22-2008 Posted: 11/13/2008 6:13:08 PM
Bring the GOOD hotties with them! ;) Someone called the Hottie POLICE?? Yeah I guess I can make an appearance just to spice it up a little.. Fun fun fun for everyone.. (Say hey to the fam for me Kat)

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Pre-Holiday Party @ Side Pockets St.Charles November 11-22-2008 Posted: 11/12/2008 4:50:18 PM
Another fun night, I love that Side Pockets.. Looking forward to getting together with good friends! Most definitely coming to this one.. Though the waitresses act like they dont want business, the food is pretty good there..

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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CrAzY 8's PaRtY @ Stratford Bar Ballroom {St. Louis & Surrounding} 080808 6:30p.m. to 1:30a.m. Posted: 8/7/2008 3:57:50 PM
So... I "might" not get a room this time; if that's the case can I sleep with someone??? he he Oooops.. that came out wrong (maybe) Is there a kind hearted lady with enough space in her room to house this poor unfortunate soul for the night..? I mean I can work so.....me type of payment out.. I promise I'm a Hard worker if it came to favors .. All Dirty Jokes aside, lookin forward to C'ing you all.. Cheers, Man in Distress..

smoove1121

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CrAzY 8's PaRtY @ Stratford Bar Ballroom {St. Louis & Surrounding} 080808 6:30p.m. to 1:30a.m. Posted: 7/27/2008 12:00:42 PM
I remember having a problem with my shower last time I booked a room. HOT or COLD , there is no "warm".. lol The rooms are not by far gorgeous, but it served it's purpose; all the same very glad to have it at the end of the night.

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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St Pats Party at the Strat! St. Louis Area, March 14th Posted: 3/15/2008 8:29:51 PM
First Thank you to Cammy and Bill for a spectacular event! That was a fantastic gathering!! Thank you also to everyone who helped set up and particate in making this event great for everyone.. The Drinks were great.. I'm glad to get a chance to get out and socialize with my friends, & other good people.. I came a little late, and missed a bunch of folks, but I enjoyed every moment I had.. Some of you all are some BOLD cleptomaniacs!! ha ha ha stealing me Lucky charms while I was looking right at you! I know that I might be a little off on this one, but as I understand it (ladies) you pinch people's asses if they are NOT wearing green... Thanks for showing the love though.. Oh and for the Denny's group thank you for not getting us thrown out, Dave was havin a rough night.. Who was that kept trying to get my leprechaun off..? I trust he's in good hands Now that you got him off..

smoove1121

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St Pats Party at the Strat! St. Louis Area, March 14th Posted: 3/14/2008 8:36:04 AM
For the new people.. Please dont be intimidated by the numbers.. This started off small, and it grew because Good people invited other good people to come.. If you have butterflies it's O K A Y.. I'm sure the butterflies want to have fun too, ne? Please come and have fun socializing with everyone..!! (hey that rhymes) Like any party enjoy it one conversation/drink/dance/laugh or smile at a time.. You have an opportunity to make an impression on some lives tonight that really need what you got to give.. That's my 2 cents.. "Now then, has anyone seen my Drink?"

smoove1121

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St Pats Party at the Strat! St. Louis Area, March 14th Posted: 3/13/2008 5:37:42 PM
Are the Door Greeters allowed to Drink and Greet? "No officer I'm not inebriated, I've already thrown up twice, you're just in time for round 3"

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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St Pats Party at the Strat! St. Louis Area, March 14th Posted: 3/13/2008 4:24:37 PM
So my Friday Just officially started.. is it too early to get started on the drinks? Point me toward the BOOZE!! Actually that's my 1st and only question for my door greeters.. Where R the BOOZE at.. I've got a room reserved, and I'll just safety pin my room number to my shirt.. and hope for the best...

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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St Pats Party at the Strat! St. Louis Area, March 14th Posted: 3/13/2008 5:20:30 AM
As long as they shave and have teeth they will do fine. LMAO

smoove1121

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St Pats Party at the Strat! St. Louis Area, March 14th Posted: 3/10/2008 7:16:58 PM
Monday's already gone.. Time to break out the Kiss--me I'm Irish gear... I'm wondering what I should wear? I'll dress for the occaision if I can..

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Answer me this please.... Posted: 2/28/2008 7:01:26 PM
LMAO that's a riot.. so I have a lot to look forward to as I age.. decorating chairs & walls..

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Answer me this please.... Posted: 2/28/2008 4:47:26 PM
lol.. Ok that! Yeah we had a few guys try that in boot camp, when it was winter in Michigan.. within seconds they had frozen Booger weapons sticking to the inside of their ski masks..

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Answer me this please.... Posted: 2/28/2008 4:26:14 PM
What is a farmer blow?

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

Msg: 146 (view)

Answer me this please.... Posted: 2/28/2008 4:21:34 PM
The Navy officially considered me dead for 3 hours when I got into a fender bender in Atsugi Japan.. Guy in front of me slams on his breaks, and wanted to test my reation time! He won.. & we both got hours of paperwork and translators screwing up the report. When i got back to the base the report was FUBAR, and my supposed (SEXY) body was unrecovered from a totaled car.. ?? lol Ok here's the kicker Not even a week later, I was in a bad accident that rolled the car, caught on fire, and destroyed it completely.. Morale of the story: Dont leave Prank messages on the Grim Reapers answering machine.. He *will return* "your" call... SMV

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

Msg: 142 (view)

Answer me this please.... Posted: 2/28/2008 4:01:04 PM
HA HA HA, SMART ass !! SOMEONE please explain to me the whole concept of the washable hanky?! So my best guess without looking into the history books for a real answer, NO NOT LAZY (just got off work get off my back people) lol is: Washable Handkerchief's were probably one of those status pieces.. Kinda like riding around on a fatboy with saddlebags.. It just looked cooler, a lot more "appropriate" to have them on you, minus the Mucus.. ye....s you can actually use the saddlebags, but I'm juss sayin.. Status! Washable status.. SMV

smoove1121

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St Pats Party at the Strat! St. Louis Area, March 14th Posted: 2/27/2008 4:21:17 PM
Ooo La la Shrink babe!! Horny partier's?? I'm liking where this thought is going!! Charles' eyes glaze over as he ponders a Horny partying Shrink Babe To be honest I think that might include over 50% of the guest roster

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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St Pats Party at the Strat! St. Louis Area, March 14th Posted: 2/27/2008 3:47:59 PM
Ha ha.. Kiss me I'm Irish!! Yes I'm going to be at the event. I already know my schedule for the day of Mar 14th, I just dont know what will happen once the FUN begins.. I suppose I should register & make it all official. It's looking good for the home team, i'll be able to kick it, and meet all the new faces, and some that I've only talked to on email.. (I've reverted to email only) Less expectations. It will be great to meet a few new faces, and entertain the friends that I know and luv already.. I saw that Singlemommy & Celtic81 signed up recently.. I'm glad so many St. Louis fish are down to have fun. St. Patricks is a great opportunity to let your hair down & celebrate age old tradtions!! Charles

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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St Pats Party at the Strat! St. Louis Area, March 14th Posted: 2/27/2008 10:17:31 AM
Yeah Cammie, I'm coming to this event.. Wear green right or get pinched!! It has been a while since I've seen any of you, thing are good, and it's all been worth it.. I wonder if I should get a room.. Any one have a status on reservations and how much room they have left? I'd truly hate to shack up with an willing soul, after having gotten liquered up, lol.. Oh and hear you about the willing lips.. You never know what can happen at these paarties.. Charles

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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St Pats Party at the Strat! St. Louis Area, March 14th Posted: 2/26/2008 9:00:57 PM
kenharleyride --> wrote and damn you are all ugly in the morning! HarleyKat~ ---> replied with Hey Kenny! I resemble that remark! Ugly in the morning, eh? Kat!, i Double Dawg Da...re you to allow me be that desirable Hunk to decide whether that flawed theory is true... I have yet to meet the woman that's not radiant and glowing after having shared the morning's first kiss..with me! I just need a willingvolunteer.. to put those lips in front of mine... Your favorite, Charles

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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St. Louis & Surrounding Areas POF Mardi Gras Par-Tay 2-23-08! Posted: 2/23/2008 2:30:51 AM
Damn, I keep missing these events.. I should be able to go to the next Strat event!! People are getting rooms and planning to stay late and drink and party.. n'stuff, sigh Well I'm excited for everyone who's going to be there.. Have fun, & DONT be good.. But do look out for one another, and be safe.. Charles

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Too Fast Too Furious..?? I want more intimacy... Posted: 12/17/2007 4:26:58 PM
It's all still a matter of Tact . . Romance . . and . . Respect . . !! You seem to be have the right idea too 2Blovedeternal ..

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Too Fast Too Furious..?? I want more intimacy... Posted: 12/17/2007 4:24:28 PM
Thanks for the compliment! I like the logic behind the "just ask" ideas. Communication is key then you'll know where you stand. After all this is someone who's opinion you can respect.. So I'm hearing you say that intimacy conversation is no different than any other one, though the subject matter is slightly more sensitive? Thank you Kat, and thank you CassaGo. The step to becoming more physical is bewildering at times, because it's natural for some maybe even most, to fall into the groove and voila things are peachy! We all like to feel close to someone. In the past I've felt like I was moving too slow or did something wrong, and ended up in the friends zone with someone I felt more than just friends toward. That example is based on the classic myth (ha ha) that "you'll just know when it's time". Well, "I kno..w" when my pets need to go outside to fertilize the lawn. "I kno..w" when it's time to go to sleep. I even "kno..w" how to ask for help on subjects I'm weak at ; because experience, good feedback from wise people, & certain signs pop up that let you know when it's time to make those things happen. Sometimes the signs take a vacation, and there's nothing to go off of... ------------- ------------------------------->

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 12/17/2007 11:58:15 AM
I'm Charles from North City.. Damn someone keeps putting snow in my back yard..lol I've been on the site a few months just chatting the forums, and attending the local POF get togethers. Lots of fun! Give me a buzz, I want to know what's going on out there in St. Louis..

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Too Fast Too Furious..?? I want more intimacy... Posted: 12/17/2007 11:53:46 AM
Welcome.. This question is posed from a general point of view. In an example of a close distance relationship, & is open to all who have some constructive criticism.. Thank you for your participation I'm genuinely interested to know what "your" take is on the subject. (?)You've started seeing somone, and you talk/meet pretty regular in your new relationship. However you'd like to move on to a more "physical" (intimate kisses, heavy / playful petting, perhaps... OMG even sex. lol) It takes two to TANGO, but how do you know (when you're ready to move it up a notch) WHEN it's right to make that known(?) (?) What do you do about that(?)

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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10-20 Halloween Aftermath...Party Pics!! Posted: 10/25/2007 1:17:31 AM
Did we ever find out who the trooper/police girl was in the pictures 4th row down 4th row over?? Who's friend is that?? I um, just wanted to commend her on um, an outstanding job (yeah that's it) keeping the party under control, and setting such a professional standard with a very clean & delicio--er appropriate uniform. um yeah.. I've said my piece, Thank you, Charles

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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10-20 Halloween Aftermath...Party Pics!! Posted: 10/25/2007 1:02:13 AM
I knew I was going to miss a great thing at the Halloween party. I planned for well over a month to attend make a costume, only to have something important pop up a right before hand. / It's awesome that you had a great time! Parties come natural to St. Louis folks, we have a knack when it comes to doing it up RIGHT, here in the St.L Congratulations to all contest winners, and to everyone who found what they were looking for at the event. From what my eyes tell me there were some cute "Kitty Kat's" out and about, Mee...ow... Kudos to the hostess, planners, and the lovely lot that did such an outstanding job on erecting decorations and pre-party staging/planning.. I was enjoying the pictures you all posted, lol some of you party goers just aint right, lmao I'll keep an eye out for more H.O.T. events in the future of course.. Charles

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Calling in sick Posted: 9/24/2007 2:20:27 PM
That's the good stuff, keep em coming.. lol

smoove1121

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Strat Event #2...Halloween PAR-TAY for St. Louis and surrounding areas! Posted: 9/14/2007 4:57:15 PM
Ok Kat, you do that, I'll just have to be careful not to bump up too close to you on the dance floor.. Lest your "cosutme" malfunctions in a very pleasant way..

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Lonely and Unhappy Posted: 9/6/2007 1:21:45 AM
Sgt is right.. Lovely profile.. Of course that does'nt explain anything, lol.. I dont a lot of replies myself. Is it an online dating problem, or local area problem? I'd say that location may have a part in a local dating scene. Not enough of what you want, or just not the quality of man that you deserve. I dont mind the lonely so much at times, but the unhappy should be easier to fix. Do the things you like to do, share those moments with friends. It's easier said than done when you are currently unhappy. I realize that, but there is always a distraction that can help take your mind off of the negative issues. Perhaps it's time you took a vacation to another country. 1: To relax and eplore something new. 2: There are men there too.

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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WOULD YOU STICK WITH YOUR MATE???? Posted: 9/6/2007 1:04:57 AM
Did I raise the bar too high there Hose? Thank you for the constructive critism. It's almost as though you directed that last comment at me. It's an appropriate question for this forum, and I believe you gave more than your share for an answer... Perhaps this topic strikes very close to home for many. However misplaced anger isn't going to replace the sadness in your heart. Accept my apology for inciting your incorrigible anger.

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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WOULD YOU STICK WITH YOUR MATE???? Posted: 9/5/2007 11:17:07 PM
There are some really good points in this discussion.. We've all got opinions.. I believe the original question is a good question, but i also think it is just a little leading. The illness was not mentioned, and the hope of recovery is clearly stated in the question. To piggy back off of the original question would you remain solid like an oak by your mate if the illness was: Sexually transmitted like HIV, or a (vegetable) person whose mental and physical functioning is severely impaired, and who requires supportive measures (as mechanical ventilation) to survive for an undetermined period of time?? These pose a little more challenge to the moral decision. I think that my limits would be at the peak if the illness were as serious as these examples..

smoove1121

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Fitness and attraction Posted: 9/5/2007 10:29:09 PM
That 's good advice Silent.. " find someone who is ok w/u being how u are." That goes well beyond physical boundaries..

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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Strat Event #2...Halloween PAR-TAY for St. Louis and surrounding areas! Posted: 9/4/2007 7:03:14 PM
Hey folks what's good with you? I smell a PARTAY cookin up!! There's another B-day coming up eh? Buddy you are in for a helluva Night!! Could'nt have planned a better night, or group of people to be with. Woooo!! I lost count how many (B-day) drinks/shots I had. Multiply that # and that's how many hugs & kisses I got from the Finer selection of the female clientele that came that night... In the morning I was still wiping off lipstick Did I mention my (gift)contest prize was the very 100% edible "Cherries Jubilee undies I got. Oops I just gave away my Halloween costume, LMAO... ::sigh:: I feel bad for the other PoF states that dont have what we HAVE. Maybe they should just move to STL where all the action is... Even still, after 2am we have IL side to back us up to prove the party just dont stop... Confidence is thru the roof on this one, I love Halloween parties, it's a night to be a different you. Explore a little, and be around FUN people. I'm better at meeting people in person than online. This just gives us all the perfect reason to make new friends and reunite with the one's we already got...

smoove1121

Joined: 7/17/2007

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AFTERMATH...The St. Louis POF Strat Party Pics! Posted: 8/25/2007 7:18:53 PM
I want a recount on the MEN's Ass contest..! I mean was the judging based on softness, muscle, overall size, the way we presented our Our asses? Even the Olympic athletes have a chance to train for months before hand beforehand.. One of the judges had heavy hands , and I save the right to return the favor to that fine ass of hers... That's ok though, maybe I'll just wear those edible undies I won for 2nd place next time, and see the results I get then!! All those hours of "Buns of Steel" Wont be for nought.. While I'm posting, thank you all for a VERY well done party Aug 24th.. Organizers get kudos for suprises and games! The events and general attitude of the people were superb! By far my best birthday in at least 5 years. Also thank you to each individual that said happy B-day to me. I felt the LOVE Charles

smoove1121

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St. Louis POF get together! 8/24 Posted: 8/23/2007 3:53:21 AM
You've got to be kidding.. This all happens on my Birthday, I swear, you all could'nt have picked a better day to Host this Event..! A fleet of St. Louis' finest ladies all in one establishment with a sole purpose of having fun! ::Charles drools uncontrollably:: Let's do the damn thing!! Charles

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