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mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 90 (view)

Age differences in dating - What's the gap for you? Posted: 11/23/2009 9:14:48 AM
age difference? I think it would be different depending on the age of person. A younger person will likely have a smaller gap than someone who is older.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Female Tool of the Trade Posted: 11/20/2009 1:14:57 PM
Yeah, a machine can be more efficient and reliable than a guy. But you can never replace a guy in the bedroom.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 85 (view)

Blowjob buddy Posted: 11/20/2009 1:13:18 PM
I would say its FWB but I'm not sure how well you know her

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Conflict in the bedroom. Posted: 11/20/2009 1:12:15 PM
Relationships are about working with each other. Find out her limits but don't push her if she is not comfortable going outside her limits. It might be awhile before she has any desire to go outside her limits so you have to be patient. Hopefully, things work out. But don't break up if the sex is the only 'problem' aspect of your relationship. If everything else in the relationship is going great, then you have a keeper.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 80 (view)

do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith?? Posted: 11/2/2009 8:18:25 AM
Agewise. I guess it doesn't matter to some extent. I know some 20 year olds who act like they are 40. I know some 40 year olds who act & LOOK like they are 20.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Sex in parents house while parents are home Posted: 11/2/2009 8:16:43 AM
too many problems with this. Always easier just to wait till the parents were not around.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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How to end a FWB relationship that is soooo good Posted: 11/1/2009 8:56:56 AM
good luck with this. Hopefully, your relationship will still continue

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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fighting because of facebook..... Posted: 11/1/2009 8:55:51 AM
She is acting quite childish. Soon, she'll be questioning everything that you on your facebook. And really, do you want that? Bottom line.... just dont close your facebook.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 372 (view)

Hair pulling during doggystyle Posted: 11/1/2009 7:59:21 AM
can be great! Just hope the guy knows the difference between pulling her hair and trying to rip her hair from her scalp

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Whatcha Gonna Do....when the jilted starts wanting you?!? Posted: 10/29/2009 7:25:09 PM
I think you already know the answer. Its one of those times to trust your gut.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith?? Posted: 10/29/2009 6:00:45 PM
yes, if we are talking about out in public..........then its the complete opposite of what I've experienced on POF.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith?? Posted: 10/29/2009 5:52:19 PM
Okay, this is specific just to POF and what I've noticed here. The older males here are indeed more respectful, more mature, grounded, relaxd, and articulate. The stereotype is that they are perverts which is the case for some. But, generally speaking, the older males here do seem more confidant and know to how to show off the personality & charisma.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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looking for intimate encounters on pof Posted: 10/29/2009 2:07:15 PM
Also, not too many users want to put "intimate encounters" on their profile. This tag can attract the wrong sort of people.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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People won't share or exchange pictures Posted: 10/29/2009 2:04:26 PM
same here. Not to mention, I think POF does require pics on all profiles.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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attracted to blondes last ten years...all of a sudden brunettes...anyone else? Posted: 10/29/2009 1:47:38 PM
swine flu maybe?

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 10/25/2009 1:36:17 PM
"Whatever makes her happy!" Yeah, but if you are not comfortable with it...then you shouldn't have to do it.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 117 (view)

women as pure sexual objects Posted: 10/5/2009 10:01:55 AM
I have to add: "Rhode Island is neither a Rhode nor an island. Discuss." Not sure if she meant Rhode or road though

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 117 (view)

What is your number one fantasy? Posted: 10/5/2009 8:29:21 AM
Congrats to ForRumOnly for accumulating that vacation time. You taken step#1 to fulfilling your fantasy

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 71 (view)

Big men, tiny women Posted: 10/5/2009 8:21:18 AM
big guys and small chicks seem to be the norm. You almost never see the opposite.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Personality matters - only if they're hot? Posted: 10/5/2009 8:19:48 AM
Have to agree. Acting desperate is worst than acting rude or stuck-up

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 132 (view)

Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls? Posted: 10/5/2009 8:17:34 AM
If Ludacris says it, then you know it must be true!

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 9/2/2009 12:27:37 PM
it sounds like you've just had some horrible dating experiences.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 59 (view)

Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls? Posted: 9/2/2009 12:25:56 PM
I always thought guys like girls who knew when to be sweet and when to be naughty?

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 52 (view)

role playing..is it a turn on or no? Posted: 9/2/2009 12:25:09 PM
Turn on only if you both can get into character....that only happens if you both are interested in role playing and in the characters

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Should I go out with a girl 16 years younger? Posted: 8/16/2009 7:49:31 AM
I think the bigger question is a 39 yr older hanging out with college students at a club??

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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How do you tell a guy your not interested. Posted: 8/16/2009 7:47:30 AM
just say that you're not interested and not attracted. That should end things right there.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Would you go to a party by yourself? Posted: 8/16/2009 7:45:23 AM
If its a singles event, the whole point is to meet new people. So, I think going by yourself is the best thing to do. If its another function, then you have to look at the circumstances.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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UPDATE Posted: 8/16/2009 7:43:21 AM
Tundra, I don't have anything to add. But I just wanna say thanks for sharing your expereinces & letting us into your life.. You have given me and I'm sure many others food for thought.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Bye Everyone Posted: 8/16/2009 7:41:21 AM
You know...you can still be a member of POF and not be searching. There are actually plenty of POF'ers that are like that.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 42 (view)

I want to met this girl,but have no money. Posted: 8/16/2009 7:39:55 AM
There are always free events taking place. You just have to keep your eyes open. During the summer, there are free concerts and performances/shows...you just have to find them. Also, going on a hike...zero dollars. Going out for coffee or tea. Little dollars.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 105 (view)

Does honesty hurt more than just dissapearing? Posted: 8/16/2009 7:37:31 AM
Tough question. But I have to go with disappearing. It typically does bring some sort of closure. Granted, the other person might not get the hint. Being honest has a way of dragging this out and even then, no resolution comes along.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Who was it that wrote the rules on Love?? Posted: 8/16/2009 7:35:17 AM
have to second that......I love you Pof'ers Rules? Whats that? There are rules for relationships and for dating. But you cannot have rules for 'love'.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Are professional pictures better? Posted: 8/16/2009 7:32:56 AM
have to agree with all the other posts. These pics can be photoshopped so much that the real you doesn't come out.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 87 (view)

Deodorant, perfume and cologne: Do we really need 'em? Posted: 7/28/2009 12:16:08 PM
Regardless if its the summertime, some people just have bad BO.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 26 (view)

Friends zone after a few dates Posted: 7/28/2009 12:14:36 PM
I've never heard of anyone start a conversation with Hi My New Friend. I think its a nice way of saying she's not into you.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Why would someone not want to meet in person?? Posted: 7/28/2009 10:25:10 AM
try to find out early on if he/she has any interest in meeting in person. Hopefully, you can tell early on if they are hiding something. No need to be strung along and no need to play games the whole time.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

The Four favourite questions guys love to ask.... Posted: 7/28/2009 9:48:40 AM
You forgot to include the bonus fifth question..."So do you have a twin sister?"

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Celebrity one-nighter Posted: 7/28/2009 9:34:38 AM
Bret Michaels just so I can be on that reality show and channel my inner-reality tv whore. I would have to warn my parents to never watch it though.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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NOT shy and NOT NERVOUS about first dates/meetings. Posted: 7/28/2009 9:02:33 AM
I think it helps to keep expectations really low. I mean you can't really get nervous or excited if you are excited close to nothing from a first date.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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LYING ABOUT AGE ON DATING PROFILE! Posted: 7/28/2009 8:54:47 AM
sounds great Gaddflye! Hope things work out. Keep the POFers here updated!

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 79 (view)

friends with benefits.... Posted: 7/28/2009 8:52:53 AM
It works both ways. While guys may have their Mistress, girls can have their Mister-tress too.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Why do guys insist on telling women theyve got a tight vagina? Posted: 7/28/2009 8:50:17 AM
agree with earlier post. Its the female equivalent to "You are so big!"

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Office romance anyone? Posted: 7/28/2009 8:16:56 AM
probably best if you are just a temp or intern. Don't things to go long term in this sort of relationship.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Can any girl learn how to deep throat??? Posted: 7/28/2009 8:15:47 AM
Sure any girl could, but the guy really has to cooperate to make it happen. If not, the girl could wind up choking and coughing......and that would instantly kill the mood.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 66 (view)

do men get more sexually perverted as they age? Posted: 7/26/2009 9:43:31 AM
Thats a funny thing about society. Single women get older and they become cougars. Single men get older and they become perverts.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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Is being a virgin a turn off ? Posted: 7/26/2009 9:42:03 AM
I agree that many in todays society would generally prefer the already sexually experienced. I don't know if I would say its a turnoff but it could make the guy/girl less appealing.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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How loud is too loud when does it become a turn off? Posted: 7/26/2009 9:39:55 AM
if it stops the flow and mood, then it becomes a turn-off. Oh, and if the neighbors come knocking on the door, then its too loud also.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 215 (view)

Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter? Posted: 7/16/2009 12:23:13 PM
Don't think men should expect it. Most guys don't care too much about a girls wardrobe.

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

Msg: 186 (view)

Wearing Lingerie for no reason but to feel great for yourself! Posted: 7/16/2009 12:22:18 PM
that applies to work too!

mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007

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RETURNING THE FAVOR Posted: 6/13/2009 7:50:28 AM
It all depends on the partner. There really is no right or wrong answer for this. Just figure his comfort zone and expectations.

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