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Joined: 4/2/2005

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Ladies, Please Check out my profile & Advise Posted: 10/15/2009 9:04:20 PM
First, thankyou for taking a chance on me Lynnette39, I'm rarely ever 100% serious, that doesn't come across in text too well, but I was joking. Gentlemen, your input is taken as it was intended, I can see I'm not very good at selling myself on my positive qualities, but I divulge far too many of my negatives to hope for any interest, it would explain my problem of attracting the total opposite type of women than what I would call "my type" I'm coming off as a whiny, needy, mamas boy, and that I am not. I guess I shouldn't expect all the good advice to come from women, I really didn't think about that when I posted. Thanks for the input, and being honest in the face of my possible retaliation... lol

Joined: 4/2/2005

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Ladies, Please Check out my profile & Advise Posted: 10/1/2009 1:52:20 PM
I don't know if I have something in my profile that's an instant turnoff or if I just tend to seek women that aren't looking for a guy like me. I've been mistaken as being way too nice, probably from being polite. If a guy doesn't throw out a pickup line or say something a bit on the sleazy side, do you get the impression he lacks confidence? It seems that most women I meet aren't attracted to me until they get to know me a bit, I'm a very complex person, but I wonder if I come across as plain vanilla boring, or what. I've had this experience in person, and on the internet. What gives? when I do get a positive vibe from a woman and approach her, I either get shot down in flames or things move too quickly for my liking. I've been out of the loop so long, I'm starting all over again at something I wasn't that comfortable with last time around. You can be as blunt as you like if you reply, I can handle it, just be sure you can handle the reply it gets from me, I'm not too nice all the time

Joined: 4/2/2005

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destined to be alone ? Posted: 8/19/2006 2:39:10 AM
I feel that way all the time! I have lots of friends, when I meet women through them, I've found the ones I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me, and the ones that are attracted to me are so not my type, it's scary. I can't understand why I'm supposedly so likeable (according to others that is) yet I'm constantly meeting women I like, only to find I'm not what they're looking for.

Joined: 4/2/2005

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So You Wanna Be a RockStar? Posted: 9/14/2005 1:43:20 PM
I can't tell you cuz even though I'm 40 I might still get that band thing going.... lol

Joined: 4/2/2005

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How To Keep A Healthy Level Of Insanity Posted: 9/14/2005 1:00:11 PM
I haven't had to think of ways to keep my level in years..... it all comes so naturally now.

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Compatiblity by Sign Posted: 9/14/2005 11:04:01 AM
BTW, I'm a Libra so my reading is not too good either! I still have to laugh once in a while, even if I am laughing AT myself!

Joined: 4/2/2005

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If you could change one day in your past, what... Posted: 9/14/2005 10:35:26 AM
The day she told me she "needed her space" and was going to look for her own place. I begged her to stay, tried to be more thoughtful and romantic, it took a few weeks then she decided to stay... and I spent 10 more years trying to be more like what she said she wanted.... now I see that she never really knew what she wanted and was ever changing as to what she thought she wanted.

Joined: 4/2/2005

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Whats wrong with relationships? Posted: 9/14/2005 9:54:07 AM
With all the political correctness, gender and racial equality, poor examples set by prominent ppl in our society, all these new found "illnesses" to blame for all of our imperfections, it seems to me that ppl stereotype, generalize, and categorize each other more than ever. My own sister told my ex when we had only been dating a few months, not to beleive everthing I told her cuz all men lie just like her ex husband did to her! this is a sister that hadn't really been around me in years and really doesn't know me at all!

Joined: 4/2/2005

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Compatiblity by Sign Posted: 9/14/2005 9:34:41 AM
If you take astrology too seriously you'll be sorry.... I found this site and had a good laugh when I read my ex's reading. She's a Scorpio, read it and laugh with me. http://www.flooble.com/fun/horoscope.php

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What is the best way to forget about an ex? Posted: 9/14/2005 8:36:04 AM
When I feel bluesy cuz we aren't together anymore I find myself thinking of her as a complete angel, think long and hard about all the sh*tty things they did to you and maybe you'll have a better perspective of reality. I'm not saying to hate them, just don't put them on a pedestal cuz you're hurt and confused. As far as the partying goes... be careful you might end up doing something you'll regret, I got back with my ex while severly depressed and alcoholic! I can forget what I did the night before and how I got home, but I can't forget the pain I've felt from any of my relationships.

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