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Thread: Over-weight and unhappy a question for the Broken hearted
goshilovey0u
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Over-weight and unhappy a question for the Broken hearted
Posted:
11/20/2009 9:27:12 PM
Big turn off= self doubt and pity.
I have a big ole disclaimer in my profile
I'M FATTTT
I KNOW I'M FATTTT
I KNOW WHY I'M FATTT
Take me as I am... or move on.
I have a few full body shots.
Most (males) would imagine that I wouldn't get a response from anyone.
Yeah, no. I get a flood of mail everyday.
I suppose there's a lot of chubby chasers out where I live?
Hate chicks that 'hide' their weight in pictures.
All in all... you aren't shallow.
Everyone has different tastes.
She was just defensive and one of the 'dumb' ones.
goshilovey0u
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What is sexy about FAT???
Posted:
11/11/2009 7:46:45 PM
I think it's funny
that the bigger dudes that I'm into
WON'T DATE ME BECAUSE I'M FAT.
But the really attractive successful men that I've encountered want me for themselves.
I'm not attracted to physically attractive people.
I have a complex, I suppose.
Fat is good to me.
If I were skinny, I'd probably end up dead from being so terrible.
goshilovey0u
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What is sexy about FAT???
Posted:
11/1/2009 7:58:56 PM
The guys who go for that are "chubby chasers".
I personally don't know any guy who is in to that..
I am willing to bet you have friends that are into fcking big chicks but just don't tell anyone because they know their immature friends will say sht about it.
goshilovey0u
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Have you ever fantasized about having sex with a transexual.
Posted:
10/30/2009 9:37:46 PM
I would pay to have sex with a transexual.
Not with money.
But maybe in make up or wigs or something.
That's not soliciting prostitution, is it?
Really.
A male
with working parts
that acts/dresses female
=
my dream mate.
goshilovey0u
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What is sexy about FAT???
Posted:
10/30/2009 9:09:29 PM
They simply tire way too fast for my liking. Positions are extremely limited and that's a definite turnoff....
Have you ever had sex with a fat chick before?
No two 'types' of people are the same.
Some girls are reallllly flexible, thin or not.
Some girls have great stamina, thin or not.
It's easy to categorize EVERYONE that is overweight = lazy, doesn't exercise, always eats crap.
There are a lot of people working on becoming better people for themselves.
Some people have medical problems, as well.
Sht just doesn't change overnight.
I love bringing my best friend who is thin to the gym. She's tired after 20 minutes of walking on the treadmill. She eats fast food three times a day. She only likes 5 mins of sex because she gets too tired. I'm the COMPLETE opposite.
Gah.
/end rant.
And I've liked bigger girls and guys because they are soft and there's more to lick and rub and touch. Yummy.
goshilovey0u
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The morning of the one-night stand
Posted:
10/23/2009 9:13:29 PM
Sleeping beside the one night stander?
Yeah, that would never happen for me. I wouldn't stick around a whole night afterwards.
I think the two should just not talk and go their separate ways unless they plan on making it a regular thing.
goshilovey0u
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Do I Offend?
Posted:
8/24/2009 9:01:50 PM
Well.
In my opinionnn
you should become friends with the enter key.
Spacing sentences out makes it easier to read.
goshilovey0u
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Quitting smoking
Posted:
8/11/2009 8:00:54 PM
I quit by throwing out a new pack of cigarettes out my window of my car and rolling over them.
Pretty much cold turkey because I REFUSE to be a mindless drone to cigarettes.. I have more self control and respect than to be addicted to a killer.
The hardest part has been the urge to smoke again when seeing others smoke... but then I smell them and thank god I don't smell like smoke any more.
A plus of quitting has been 4 other friends have quit with me.
They said if I didn't want to smoke, neither did they.
So maybe if you found a friend to stop smoking you can have more comfort and support?
goshilovey0u
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Bitch take this dick.................
Posted:
8/7/2009 10:37:09 PM
I love the dirty names in bed.
Being thrown around, smacked, hair pulled, hickies, bruises, etc.
All that is good and dandy. If I'm not sore and don't look like I spent a night in a cardboard box, the job is not done.
Can't do slow sex. Not my thing.
Out of bed, I don't mind the term 'woman' and the female dog word either.
If my guy said
GO GET ME A SANDWICH!
I would say
What would you like on it? Drink as well?
:P Submissive nature. I like it.
Some girls don't.
Whatever floats your boats.
goshilovey0u
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Big and Beautiful
Posted:
8/6/2009 5:43:23 PM
Are you sure? While my boobs got smaller when I lost weight, they didn't go away, and I still thought they were fantastic. Ideal weight they were a C, 50lbs excess, they were a DD. Not every woman loses all her TnA when she loses weight.
I lost 20 lbs from a surgery and my boobs went down 3 cup sizes.
So I ate until I gained the weight back and the boobs.
goshilovey0u
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Teased for liking bbw's
Posted:
8/6/2009 10:12:57 AM
Anyways...*throws you a box of oreo cakesters*
Those are some good cookies, hahaha.
Put one in a blender and mix it with water and send it my way!
goshilovey0u
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Do all men HAVE to give oral during sex to be happy? Haha
Posted:
8/6/2009 10:11:14 AM
Hey.... have a question: Do women HAVE to give oral sex to be happy?
I love love love giving.
It's probably my favorite thing to do.
But if a guy I'm with doesn't enjoy it
I'm not going to force it upon him or be unhappy.
There are plenty of other ways to have mutual satisfaction.
goshilovey0u
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Do all men HAVE to give oral during sex to be happy? Haha
Posted:
8/6/2009 10:09:03 AM
Men DO have some great attachments....don't they?
I have to disagree with you on the tongue option though.
Some men fly by the seat of their pants,but others...well
Haha
If women could make babies
I would be a lesbian.
Gotta love an honest bi chick!
It seems to me, from limited past experience,
women know just how to please a eachother orally
because we know what it feels like and what
will get eachother off.
Also I find girls softer, nicer, more attractive, and more emotionally attachable than men.
Men can't think who two heads at once.
goshilovey0u
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Do all men HAVE to give oral during sex to be happy? Haha
Posted:
8/6/2009 10:05:52 AM
So you don't like oral with men, but if man likes it, he's the deal breaker if he doesn't completely want to give it up? Sounds like your part the deal breaker too, no?
I can lay there like a dead fish reading a book if he really insists.
I'm not going to NOT date someone because they like/want to do stuff.
They're NOT going to date me because I do not like the stuff/want to do the stuff. I don't mind giving anything a whirl. Just don't expect me to put a smile on my face or be excited about it. LIKE I said.. it's a waste of time.
goshilovey0u
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Big and Beautiful
Posted:
8/6/2009 1:10:01 AM
After reading this
the question that always strikes me
in the 'fat talk'
is
why do you care?
why is it your business?
and if you don't want to look at it, close your eyes and walk in front of a bus!
Putting down fat people only makes them fatter.
If there were NO fat people in the world
what the hell would people btch about then!
It would surely be a boring place!
I know I'm fat
because
I used to eat my feelings
I have emotional&mental defects
I'm selfish (I will not lose a lot of weight until I can afford a boob job. I have perfect breasts and they will leave me when the rest of my weight does)
and
my thyroid is all mucked up. (I found out I have cancer in my thyroid last week.. and I've had it for a while now.)
I haven't eaten solid foods for the past two months. Go me. My hospital bracelets fell off my hands the second week of not eating.
Yet
I still find people that love me and treat me well
and guys that want to be in serious relationship with me (the guy I'm with now who I met off here is thin and amazing).
I wouldn't take back being fat from my childhood.
It made me miserable and depressed at times.. but I also grew a tough shell and became a better person because of it.
If I were skinny, I would be Hitler Jr... the most evil hateful terrible btchy girl on the face of the earth.. and sadly, more people would 'like' me.
Ahem.
End rant and good luck to those trying to get help for their problems.
My favorite quote is probably
I can lose weight
You can't lose ugly.
goshilovey0u
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Do all men HAVE to give oral during sex to be happy? Haha
Posted:
8/5/2009 10:42:13 PM
I never will understand women who don't enjoy oral sex.
I only enjoy it with women.
Men, not so much.
With men I feel it's a waste of time and I'd like to just get to the good stuff.
If it was a deal breaker for the guy, I would have no problems being without him.
People with 'deal breakers' aren't my type.
goshilovey0u
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Do guys like it when u call them daddy in bed?
Posted:
8/5/2009 10:19:54 PM
I know a lot of people who call their men "daddy" or "papi" while having sex. And the men go crazy for that.. I personally feel very uncomfortable saying "daddy" in bed becuz thats the one place where i do not want to think about my dad. So why do men like it so much? and do ALL men like it or some might feel weird about it like me?
Gag.
That request would send me running home, for sure, haha.
I had a guy call me MOMMY... it was just plain creepy.
I tried my hardest to like him.. but the mommy thing was just too much.
goshilovey0u
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Do Women Know If She Will Sleep With You In 10 Secondes?
Posted:
7/30/2009 10:00:34 PM
I have been told that a women knows within seconds if they will sleep with you. The time ranges from 10 seconds to 60 seconds.
True for me.
I can tell within 2 seconds whether or not I'd hit it.
And of course, I don't go after it... but I am human and I have a pretty open/wild mind therefore every male/female I encounter this thought runs through my head
goshilovey0u
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Ever heard Big girl vaginas are tighter than thin girls is this true??
Posted:
7/30/2009 9:15:38 PM
Maybe big girls are tighter because they're having less sex?
This is a dumb question.
goshilovey0u
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Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted:
7/30/2009 9:11:35 PM
Porn is awesome.
That is why they love it so much.
I think that about sums it up.
A guy can't masturbate while in a relationship?
I would DIE.
goshilovey0u
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Who has used dental dams for oral sex?
Posted:
4/15/2009 11:14:11 PM
They are pretty gross.
I dislike them.
goshilovey0u
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My girlfriend is bi-curious, help!
Posted:
2/20/2009 1:20:10 PM
If your girlfriend is bi, she's not going to leave you for a woman.
And you know this how?
I'm bisexual and I have left a boyfriend for another girl.
It's a big possibility especially if she keeps getting on websites looking for girls. Bicurious my bottom.
goshilovey0u
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CONDOM? or NO CONDOM?
Posted:
2/8/2009 1:09:12 PM
I want to feel skin, not latex.
I would only do this with someone I really wanted to spend the rest of my life with.
goshilovey0u
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Cum placement
Posted:
1/26/2009 9:03:01 PM
Girls: Where do you like us guys to cum? and where is off limits to you?
Guys: Where do you find is the hottest place to cum on a woman?
For me, I prefer the face... Nothing hotter then looking down and seeing a beautiful face covered in cum... but its sooo hard finding a girl willing to let someone cum on their face... ladies can u tell me why?
Ass, stomach, tits, and I don't know about face.
I'd love to try it.. but even when water hits my face I jump pretty bad.
Off limits? Where babies are made.
goshilovey0u
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Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted:
1/4/2009 11:27:04 AM
The thing I would like to know is do ladies mind if we as men look at your breasts when you wear clothing that exposes them moreso?
When we are across the room and don't have the opportunity to actually talk to you. Or even after we meet you when is it ok with you to actually look at them without incuring disapproval through facial gestures or similar?
Do you mind if we look at your breasts and appreciate them for their beauty or do you get self conscious and frown upon that entirely?
At what point can we safely look (not stare) at your breasts and have it be ok?
I say, if they're on display, it would be rude not to look.
And for all the ladies that have practically their nipples staring at you and complain that they don't want guys looking at them.. wear something different and grow up!
goshilovey0u
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Deer Dinner
Posted:
1/2/2009 11:01:23 PM
Hehe, now that was cute.
goshilovey0u
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First meeting someone from Online
Posted:
1/2/2009 9:44:45 PM
You aren't alone!
I'm horrible at phone talk.
Awkward silences make me sick.
If anything, put on a fake sense of confidence and just do it, haha, that's all I can do.
goshilovey0u
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Hermaphrodites and dating(definition:born half male and half female)
Posted:
12/31/2008 1:01:35 PM
Best of both worlds?
I believe I would.
goshilovey0u
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Would you have a relationship with a registered sex offender?
Posted:
12/3/2008 7:55:04 PM
If you are dating someone and are really into them, then they tell you that they have to register every 90 days for the rest of their life and that their classification is listed as a sexual predator, would you still consider an involvement with them even though they have served their time or stop all contact with that person?
Usually I'm a prude.. but..
Not all sex offenders are horrible evil people.
I was reading through the Virginia list in my area... and I'd say about six of the ten men I looked at were charged when they turned 18. Their crimes were relations with "children" 15-17.
Take a good look at the world around you.
Just because a 15 year old has an 'innocent age' doesn't mean they're bad.
The offender can be just as bad as the 'victim'.
In short; I would not stop all contact.
I'm not going to judge someone on that information.
Do me wrong, then I'll judge you.
goshilovey0u
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Total Turn Off
Posted:
11/3/2008 12:59:09 PM
Maybe she feels that her 'appearance' down there is not like the girls in porn who have the vaginas of children.
Just a thought.
goshilovey0u
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MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted:
10/31/2008 12:19:41 PM
I would never want to have a 3some.
I don't want to share and I don't want to be shared.
It seems a bit disgusting.
Just my opinion. To each their own.
goshilovey0u
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The chili-eating contest
Posted:
6/25/2008 6:32:02 PM
I read this somewhere else ...
I had to read it like 3 times to get it. xD
Too funny.
goshilovey0u
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do you ever wish you were asexual?
Posted:
2/2/2008 10:12:45 PM
Sure.
I really don't care about sex.
I'm a virgin.
I could go the rest of my life being a virgin and not care.
I do want kids though.
But. There's always money and turkey basters.
That's pretty much my plan.
goshilovey0u
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At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex?
Posted:
2/2/2008 10:08:10 PM
Aw.
Poor girl.
I feel bad for her.
Why is she dating you again?
She's probably having sex with someone else.
Especially if you see her six times in two months.
I guess you're just not that important. :)
goshilovey0u
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Most women will have sex very early in a relationship
Posted:
2/1/2008 9:08:51 PM
I am just saying that when I do date a lady if not the first date than certainly by the 2nd date , I can go all the way without much of an effort if I so desire. I know whats going to happen I am going to get ripped by many women and other women will post on this thread about having a sex life equal to a nun blah blah blah
I've made that statement about myself.
I just don't give out the goods to someone I'm just dating.
Not my style.. if someone else wants to do it they're free.
And not all women are as into sex as anyone else on the planet.. nor men.
Don't generalize so much.
Some women actually stick to their guns.
goshilovey0u
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Sex 1st - Relationship May Follow..
Posted:
1/29/2008 3:19:52 PM
Excuse me but every single person you have ever had sex with was a stranger at some point. The only thing that varies is the degree of acquaintance people require to feel comfortable having sex with them and even that probably varies widely from one to another.
For the record, I'm a virgin, thanks.
At one point.. exactly. Having sex with someone and you don't know their background or even if they have STDS is not something I would ever consider doing. I'd rather get to know the person better and have a relationship.
Sex first.. sounds like a bootycall and that's probably all it will ever be.
There might be someone you meet someday who so strikes you as to make your panties fall off right then and there. .
Uh no.
I have more self control than that.
And I have morals that I plan to stick to.
Dropping my pants at the sight of a person has never happened in these almost 20 years and it will never happen.
Don't be so closeminded to opinions other than your own.
Thanks :)
goshilovey0u
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Sex 1st - Relationship May Follow..
Posted:
1/29/2008 12:00:30 AM
I guess if you're up for that.
I'd never have sex with a stranger, though.
It's a little tacky.
goshilovey0u
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Faking Orgasm - not just the girls?
Posted:
1/28/2008 11:08:08 PM
I'm a little guilty.
I faked a few noises during oral before.
I didn't want to hurt his feelings, and he sometimes put the dart on the board.. so props :)
goshilovey0u
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Marital Commitment Issues... but not what u think
Posted:
1/28/2008 10:39:11 PM
Oh wow.
Eh. If your friend doesn't agree with it, why do it?
Maybe she should ask him for a mfm threesome in exchange for a fmf. :)
Unless that's what he already wants.
But, seriously.
If he cannot respect her wishes then he is not worth her time.
He'd most likely cheat on her and have a threesome anyway behind her back.
I think they should talk more.. and if he won't marry her because of one dumb little thing, she should find a better, more understanding guy to get with.
If it was something he's always wanted to do he should have done it before getting into a serious relationship.
goshilovey0u
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is Sex a Normal Human Need, or is it simply a Social Treat?
Posted:
1/28/2008 10:19:19 PM
Do not believe nuns do not desire sex as according to my friend an x-catholic nun
masturbation is a lot more common then you think in the monasteries .
I think I'm a nun.
goshilovey0u
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is Sex a Normal Human Need, or is it simply a Social Treat?
Posted:
1/28/2008 10:14:41 PM
Everyone is different.
Sex is needed for a species to survive :)
and sexual urges are natural.
But honestly.. you will not die without sex.
I could go the rest of my life without sex.. I want to have children and still be a technical virgin.
Sex is important to you and not to me, so I suppose it could be a 'need' but you would survive not having sex the rest of your life. (Unless you killed yourself)
goshilovey0u
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washing up BEFORE sex
Posted:
1/28/2008 10:00:30 PM
Uh, clean.
The taste of piss and grim doesn't appeal to me.
And the feel of it.. not attractive.
But..
I like sweaty men.. love the smell.
goshilovey0u
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MULTIPLE PACK CONDOMS
Posted:
1/26/2008 8:36:02 PM
hehehehehe.
amazing.
goshilovey0u
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TALKIN' DIRTY ON THE BUS
Posted:
1/26/2008 8:32:11 PM
hehe.
i owe you five dollars.
hilarious.
goshilovey0u
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YOUR ASS LOOKS BIG
Posted:
1/26/2008 8:30:41 PM
Lmfao.
More people should read this.
goshilovey0u
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ONE HUNDRED DOLLARS
Posted:
1/26/2008 8:29:25 PM
:)
DAANG.
Told her.
Never have heard this before, neat :)
goshilovey0u
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The Pasta Diet and Your Health
Posted:
1/26/2008 8:28:19 PM
That was really cute.
goshilovey0u
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Teacher and cop comments
Posted:
1/26/2008 8:26:41 PM
The cop ones were pretty hilarious
goshilovey0u
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womens labia (vagina lips)
Posted:
1/26/2008 8:15:02 PM
Not really, you sound like a Lesbian.
Ahaha.
You never fail to make me laugh on these forums.
goshilovey0u
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womens labia (vagina lips)
Posted:
1/26/2008 8:11:20 PM
Sheridan: Thats not true at all. Sometimes its something you are born with and I had this issue when I was a virgin.
I'm still a virgin and I have one slightly larger than the other and it's always been this way.
I'm getting my surgery in a few weeks.
Hope you can find someone to do your surgery.
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