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Joined: 7/23/2007

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Ladies, would you be insulted? Posted: 10/11/2008 11:33:20 PM
I would be insulted if we were making out and he didn't get rock hard. I find that a turn on because something is being done correctly.

Joined: 7/23/2007

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As a single parent, would you rather date someone with kids or not? Posted: 10/11/2008 11:25:51 PM
I have gone back and forth with this question because you can date men with kids (they already know the responsibility that comes with children, but you have the "meshing of the family") or you choose to date a man without kids (he can hopefully accept your kids as his own, possibly have more, but not as much experience). I really think it goes more with what you want. At this point in my life, I want the right person for me and if they have kids, great, if not, great, it is not a deal breaker either way. I would personally prefer a man without kids, but that is the selfish side of me. But that isn't to say I wouldn't be attracted to men that have children already. The children factor isn't what makes a man attractive to me anyway. I've read some of the thread posts and some very good responses.

Joined: 7/23/2007

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Why some women don't like receiving oral Posted: 10/11/2008 11:08:33 PM
Young men are the BEST and I do mean young. I beg to differ that younger men are better. The experiences that I have had with oral on myself is older men know exactly what they are doing. (won't take anything away from younger men) I'm a giver by nature, so that has been what I'm used too. It's not that I don't like receiving oral, it's just I haven't received it as much as I have given. My ex wasn't really into performing oral. He loved to receive, but when it came time for him to put up or shut up, it was him down there long enough to get the wetness started. I can count on 1 hand the number of guys that have really pushed me to the cum point with oral stimulation and most of them are older men.

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Do You Want Children? Posted: 10/10/2008 10:19:08 PM
I wouldn't mind having more children. My profile says Undecided/Open. It all depends on when I find that special man and if he wants more children than what has already been brought into the relationship. I have 2 beautiful ones of my own already and if I'm not meant to have anymore, I would be blessed to have what I have.

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When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice? Posted: 10/7/2008 8:02:15 PM
eyes (a sucker for blue eyes), smile (not fake and put on, natural), lips (goes hand in hand with smile, but they need to have kissable lips) arms (could have them around me at some point and they need to be cuddly and strong), ass (self explanatory) Those are just a few of the first things I notice. After talking to him, I build more in depth opinions.

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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 10/7/2008 7:26:29 PM
spit=waste swallow=taste Yeah, it's a different taste, but mmm-mmm it is goo-ood.

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How careful is to careful? Posted: 10/7/2008 7:11:28 PM
After my divorce, I spent a lot of time with my kids, almost trying to over compensate for the absense of their dad. (he still isn't too much, but that's another forum.;-) ) I wanted to make sure I was involved with their activities as much as possible. The ones you choose to date will understand your situation and if they can't accept it, then they are not worth dating. Your kids should come first, but there should also been room for that special person in your life. Being a single parent, you have to do that, unless you do want to remain single for the rest of your life. Just as carolann0308 mentioned, there are family groups out there and once your kids reach a certain age, they will want to spend more time with their friends than with dear ol' mom/dad. (mine are still young and still enjoy my presence at the moment.) Give it a shot and see what happens. Good luck!

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Too Picky Posted: 10/7/2008 7:00:17 PM
This was the perfect forum for me to post a comment in. Being picky is almost a necessity. I have specific standards that I want in Mr Right. I've been divorced once already and I don't want to do that again. I have physical, emotional, and sexual characteristics that I am looking for, some I can compromise on, but others, I won't. I don't think there is anything wrong with being picky. I wonder sometimes just like others on here, if maybe I am too picky? Then I think, there is nothing wrong with wanting the best. Isn't that what we all want? All I would say is don't settle for less than what you really want because in the long run, you will hurt not only yourself, but your partner as well.

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single parents who date and introduce their kids Posted: 10/5/2008 6:56:46 PM
I, like yourself, do not want to introduce my young children to guys. I have introduced my kids to a few guys, some they have really liked and some they didn't. Kids are very observant, but also impressionable. I always say introduce them to each other when the time is right. You'll know when that is. I've introduced my kids earlier with some men and later with others. You really go with your gut instinct and take chances. Dating as a single mom is tough enough. In my experiences, when men have met my kids, I can usually tell if they are someone I want to continue with or not. If a man does not like my kids or show interest in them, no matter how I felt about him, he's gone. I've been fortunate to talk to men that understand and respect my kids do come first, but there is room for Mr Right up there as well. My kids have worked with me and they do understand that sometimes things don't work out. It's hard but it can work.

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