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do men actually exist that date women with kids??
Posted: 9/27/2005 8:00:03 PM | | Shedevil I agree I was in a relationship after my divorce that was great he knew I had the kids and he would be at the house if they were there or there Dad's house. My little one was always so excited to see him. My oldest well lets just say she did not like the idea because se thought Mom and Dad were still going to get back together and my son well he just goes with the flow for the most part. All of a sudden when we had a girls night out and ended up at the bar he tends a few nights a week the girls were talking about some guys that was laughing about giving a girl Mono ... I know what a jerk right well it got me thinking and I asked him later that night that "if he was going to or did sleep with someone else would he have the consideration to tell me?" Well need less to say I got the I don't want a relationship with anyone .. not like I was asking for a ring again ... please not for me. It's just called respect. Since then I have really started seeing things like the outsider looking in. I have noticed that when women with kids get in a relationship we see things differently and the men we are attracted to are not well a nice way to put it ... truly happy with themself and they use the kids as the lever to walk away ... So I cahnged my attitude ... I became blunt right up front that I have three kids and they come first and you don't like there is the door ... Amazing the attitudes that I got before I don't get anymore. Good luck to you and take a breath just go have fun put your self first with your children and everything will happen. | | | |
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