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 Author Thread: Is sci fi fantasy and horror more a guy thing or the women out there hiding
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Is sci fi fantasy and horror more a guy thing or the women out there hiding
Posted: 12/26/2006 10:28:45 AM
That is too true - I love SciFi, fantasy and some horror (mostly written - King, Koontz and McGammon) and I find it really scares off the "normal guys". I do like reading up on the real science too - I know I am pretty nerdy for most guys that just want a fluffy chick.
Chick flicks - ewww!!!
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Profile reviews offered - men or women
Posted: 12/12/2006 7:07:38 AM
Scott - could you please review my profile I know if needs tweaking!
Thanks!! Want to catch some
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Where are the geeky girls?
Posted: 11/20/2006 12:44:17 PM
I am geeky and proud... and I never realized the Sandra Bullock laugh was a plus - I had that down pat before the movie came out!

[I agree, geeky girls are hott!, its that simple, sweetness, and if she has a snort type laugh like sandra bullock in the movie miss congeniality, all the better!]
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Have you ever had a psychic connection with someone?
Posted: 8/31/2006 7:04:19 AM
OP- Yes, I have had this happen with a few people I have known. My most current one used to know exactly when to call me (and vice versa) - it tends to come in handy actually. No guessing!
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Looking for a psychic in the Pittsburgh area
Posted: 8/24/2006 7:02:25 PM
ookristyoo - can you email me with her information please. I can't email you because my gender is blocked - thanks so much!!!!
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 702 (view)
 
Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles?
Posted: 8/24/2006 12:38:22 PM
I clearly have listed on my profile that I am not looking for a date or fb's or anything like that. I have quite a few relationships offline that I am happy with, and they keep me busy. Yet I get emails from people interested in long term relationships. I try to be polite in my emails - but I really don't think they read them. I had one even say he was so great he hoped to change my mind.... please....
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Looking for a psychic in the Pittsburgh area
Posted: 8/24/2006 7:48:53 AM
X - I am with you on that. The breathing excercises I learned through yoga and mediatiation are the best!

iamasquare - if you ever met someone that was truly gifted at it, you would change your tune. Expand your mind and see what is out there in the universe that challenges your current beliefs. If you stop searching, you become stagnant.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Looking for a psychic in the Pittsburgh area
Posted: 8/23/2006 4:32:00 AM
Thanks for all the replies - Tamera and X I am going to email you privately.

masquarade - I am in the South Hills, although I don't mind travelling to find someone that comes recommended.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
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Looking for a psychic in the Pittsburgh area
Posted: 8/22/2006 1:39:05 PM
Has anyone out there been to a good psychic the can recommend in Pittsburgh and/or the surrounding area. I would like to find one, and since none of my friends use them - I am hoping that someone on here can recomend a good one (you can email me too if you like as well with info.). Thanks!!
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
cancelled dates
Posted: 8/7/2006 6:34:29 PM
I usually set up dates by text message - so I actually don't think it is odd when one of us needs to cancel by text. No matter how bummed I was though - I would not dog him all day about it. If something comes up it comes up - sometimes life happens at inopportune moments.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Why no relationship - just fb's?
Posted: 8/6/2006 6:32:51 PM
My_Island - actually I am new at the forums and did not realize there were that many other posts asking the same thing. I didn't even mention the age difference until later in the forums- and it is no bs. How unkind of you to comment on that without even knowing me.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Why no relationship - just fb's?
Posted: 8/6/2006 5:31:14 PM
loopydo - you mean work with the relationship as in go for taking it to fb's - and just go with where that leads - or just stay friends??
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Why no relationship - just fb's?
Posted: 8/6/2006 12:15:25 PM
Killer_Smile - the age difference does not bother me at all - and I didn't even realize how much of one there was until recently. It is something we did not discuss.

john6-81
I think your advice is right on the nose - I really do not think he wanted to change our relationship just for his benefit - he only offered after I complained to him how awful my dates had been lately. He thought we should give it a try - to see if I liked him. I appreciate all of the responses, but my gut feeling tells me he is not just doing it to use me. We are very close friends - and very open with one another.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Why no relationship - just fb's?
Posted: 8/6/2006 8:20:22 AM
kerrymh - I already do have a friendship with him, have for some time now.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Why no relationship - just fb's?
Posted: 8/6/2006 7:32:47 AM
I do - and I am wondering if I accept his offer will it eventually lead to a relationship? He is much younger than I am - 12 years - and I don't know if this is how the younger guys do it - sort of take you for a test drive before deciding if he wants to be with you in a relationship?
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Why no relationship - just fb's?
Posted: 8/6/2006 7:11:09 AM
He had told me that being friends and fb's is much better than dating - is that a line of bull? He said that he would treat me better than if we did date.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Why no relationship - just fb's?
Posted: 8/6/2006 5:30:42 AM
Hi guys! Little confused and need some input. I have been friends with this guy for over a year now. I really like him and I know he likes me (he stares at me when we are together when he doesn't think I am looking - stuff like that plus have been told by other people he likes me). We flirt alot, have a great time hanging out, confide in each other, etc. We kissed and talked about taking it to the next level - but he doesn't want a relationship and just wants to be fb's. What is up with this? Guys can you enlighten me please? He truly values my friendship - so why wouldn't he want to just date? And isn't being in a friendship a relationship anyway?
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 50 (view)
 
No Strings Attached Sex... Why Is It So Popular?
Posted: 8/6/2006 5:18:00 AM
Those of you involved with this - how long does it go on before it turns into something else or stops? Curious about this.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Okay I need to know
Posted: 8/1/2006 7:00:39 PM
Chrissy - you are welcome. I really enjoyed the post!
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Female Sex Tourism - it's not just men
Posted: 8/1/2006 10:22:16 AM
Zentral - what a very interesting article! Thanks for sharing it.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Okay I need to know
Posted: 8/1/2006 10:01:09 AM
After he got me a drink and calmed down he did tell me his other plans were important, and made sure I knew it was worth cancelling them.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Okay I need to know
Posted: 8/1/2006 8:32:01 AM
Adam and ubkobalt - so a guy that originally was unable to see me one night, but cancelled all his plans as soon as he found out a had a really bad day at work - that is showing it?

And ubkobalt - I really appreciate the player comment. I think that is one of the reasons I had to ask - you get paranoid reading the forums sometimes
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
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How much time do you spend in getting to know a man
Posted: 8/1/2006 7:32:44 AM
I would spend more than just an hour - most of my first dates go well over that anyways. The only reason I would not, is if they make me feel uncomfortable (i.e. keep talking sex when I already told them I wasn't interested in that on a first date)

If I feel a click with someone, but they are not my type to date - I most certainly would consider them as friends or a hang out buddy. I have lots of guy friends, and if I liked them enough to meet them - they might be perfect for someone else I know.

That is sad that you aren't getting to meet more women that will spend a little more time getting to know you. Hang in there - you will find one!
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Hairstyles on men.
Posted: 8/1/2006 6:46:48 AM
Hair is one of the first things I notice on a guy, especially if it is a head shot on his profile. I like all different styles on guys - as long as it is neat and clean it is all good.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 19 (view)
 
No Strings Attached Sex... Why Is It So Popular?
Posted: 8/1/2006 6:38:14 AM
Hello Kitty - I like your take on gradually attaching the strings and not being brought down hard and fast! Great insight
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Okay I need to know
Posted: 8/1/2006 6:26:34 AM
This goes along with the OPS question - when a guy does fall in love, but hasn't said anything yet - how does he act or what clues does he give off that you can tell he is in love? Sounds like you guys fall in love faster than us ladies thought - but you keep your feelings to yourself and do not verbalize.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Just curious
Posted: 7/31/2006 1:30:48 PM
I don't ask about how many girls a potential paramour has been with - I just want to make sure he has no diseases to give me. I do however, think experience is good - so I have to lean from mediocre to large amount.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Is it the hair
Posted: 7/31/2006 1:28:04 PM
sddc420 - I love the hair - looks great - and I vote for you looking like Billy Joe from Green Day. You are much to cute to be compared to Jack Black!
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Do you girls find it rude when guys check out cleavages while you are bending ?
Posted: 7/31/2006 12:35:35 PM
I have to agree - if I didn't want it looked at I would cover it up. Heck - I get upset if they don't check it out! I am amply endowed, and am darn proud to show it off!
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 31 (view)
 
How does she win your heart?
Posted: 7/31/2006 12:01:17 PM
I see alot of guys want their women to make them feel like a man - does loyalty to you count a lot at winning your heart?
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
A Present... for ME?
Posted: 7/31/2006 11:36:42 AM
I do not guilty feel guilty at all - I would think it was sweet he was thinking of me. I often surprised my loved ones (men and women) with little gifts just to let them know I was thinking of them. It makes me feel good.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 21 (view)
 
haha..
Posted: 7/30/2006 12:43:50 PM
I think it depends on the guy - I have been called all 3 by the same one depending on how I am dressed. I usually get lady love or lovely though. Guys - what does that mean? I had never heard that one before.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Romantic Dinner Ideas
Posted: 7/29/2006 9:03:10 AM
burnamen - what is montral steak season?

You know - I actually considered the kraft dinner and hot dogs prior to your post - lol - easy to make and everyone likes them.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
What is the hottest thing a girl can wear....
Posted: 7/28/2006 1:13:02 PM
White button shirt tucked in, out, or tied up to show the navel??
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
What is the hottest thing a girl can wear....
Posted: 7/28/2006 12:10:58 PM
Guys - what is the hottest thing a girl can wear that will make you forget about everything else? And for the sake of argument, let's assume this wearing is in the privacy of one's home, and not in public.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
I'm Not Ready For A Relationship
Posted: 7/28/2006 6:38:38 AM
Gaull - thanks!
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
cell phone and texts
Posted: 7/28/2006 6:31:02 AM
RoamingSiris - I love that! I have never heard of cellphone ken before - too appropriately funny!
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
I'm Not Ready For A Relationship
Posted: 7/28/2006 6:15:56 AM
Gaull - I hope he will - as he tells me how much he loves the things I do for him. I will give it time - and it is nice to hear from a guy on the subject, and it is a beautiful thing now, I just never thought of it that way. Thank you.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
I'm Not Ready For A Relationship
Posted: 7/28/2006 5:49:01 AM
Gaull - I think what you said makes a lot of sense and it is pretty close to the truth in my situation. Recently I had a really bad day, and he re-arranged his schedule to hang out with me and cheer me up. It is just a wierd relationship - since I get benefits, but we always spend at least 5 hours together when we get to see each other.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
I'm Not Ready For A Relationship
Posted: 7/28/2006 5:39:19 AM
I have been friends with him for a while before he said that - but just friends - and we took it up a step and he said that at the beginning. I thought at first it was to blow me off - but we see each other a lot more now. I did try to ask him about it and he told me I had a very special place in his life and I had a lot more priveleges than he would give someone he was just "dating". He didn't elaborate on that - ideas?
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Romantic Dinner Ideas
Posted: 7/28/2006 5:34:23 AM
turkeymel - I am going to try your suggestion and let you know how it goes. That marinade sounds so yummy!!! And what a great way to do the veggies - I actually never thought of putting them in the ziplocs!
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
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I'm Not Ready For A Relationship
Posted: 7/28/2006 5:28:56 AM
What if I guy says that at the beginning and still continues to hang out with you and let you know how much he likes you?
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Looking for LSU tailgating recipes
Posted: 7/27/2006 4:41:02 PM
tailgating is parties in the parking lot before football games.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Looking for LSU tailgating recipes
Posted: 7/27/2006 1:22:35 PM
I keep hearing from friends in the south that LSU is the best place to tailgate. Does anyone have recipes for good southern tailgate food? Thanks a bunch!
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
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Romantic Dinner Ideas
Posted: 7/27/2006 1:15:22 PM
I am cooking my first dinner for someone and I want to make a great impression of my cooking skills. I know he likes steak - and I need to avoid onions and tomatoes. Anyone have some good recipes??
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 8 (view)
 
screwing but still dating
Posted: 7/26/2006 10:03:39 AM
I have been on the other end - and it isn't very nice. I know I am the female opinion - but I just wanted to put my 2 cents in.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
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Do you guys do this??
Posted: 7/26/2006 8:15:58 AM
Well said trailsman - I don't understand why anyone would be with someone and think they can change them. It might happen temporarily - but not in the long run. I have gotten lots of good answers from the guys on this one - I think I have a much better understanding of thought processes of the male - and you have definetly helped one of your brothers with enlighting me. A beer to all
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Do you guys do this??
Posted: 7/24/2006 1:15:38 PM
long - thank you for your answer. That sounds like exactly the situation I am in (for both of us).
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Do you guys do this??
Posted: 7/24/2006 10:41:58 AM
Yes they really do exist - and they have naughty toys there as well. But don't tell all the guys - they will all want to tag along

I think Tom-Girl is probably the only one I have heard of.
 MsMichPgh
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Do you guys do this??
Posted: 7/24/2006 10:29:12 AM
ubkobalt - I would certainly invite you along to the lingerie parties with my friends! You are a cutie and they all would like you.
 
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