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ronniroo

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Have you met anyone on this site? Posted: 9/17/2005 6:15:17 PM
Meet the woman already!! I met a few men from this site...all very nice...but one special man form here has stolen my heart. So- go for it!! Enjoy the date!

ronniroo

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If you could change one day in your past, what... Posted: 9/15/2005 7:32:49 PM
Friday, October 25, 1985 My father came home from a week long business trip, and I was, as usual, rushing to go out with my friends. Actually, they were really pushing me to get going because they had a surprise birthday party planned for me and a few of the girls were at my house getting all dolled up with me when Dad came home. I remember the look in his face, so happy to be home with his family, with his girls (there are three of us). I had looked up at him as I was moving en masse with my friends towards the door and said, "I hate to leave so soon - you just got home." And he said, "Don't worry, we'll catch up over the weekend. Have fun tonight." Followed with a quick kiss goodbye as he walked us to the door. Several hours later, I found him on the laundry room floor...the kiss earlier long forgotten as I tried in vain to revive him. I wish I had spent his last few hours with him - not because I could have changed the outcome of that day, the heart attack was massive and his chances of survival were minimal, but just to get in every last minute I could with him. Let him know one more time how much I loved him....

ronniroo

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divorced female with kids seeking a nice guy Posted: 9/13/2005 3:12:24 PM
OK - I am neither the 'nice' guy, nor the divorced woman with kids...I am, however, well over 30 and have never been married. So we aren't that rare.... I think this thread is odd, because whether a person has been married, divorced, widowed, whatever, does not make them unstable as -+ has stated...every event, every realtionship, every hardship or challenge met, every moment, has made each of us who we are today....no ONE thing, event, or disappointment has created our personality. As far as dating goes, as we age we all collect baggage: ex's, children, habits(and not all good, either), responsibilities, so just because someone has had something wonderful (children) come out of something (a marriage) that didn't work out - why does that make them less than you or me? WE are somehow less, not complete, in that we have never fully given our life over to another human being, that we created and now need to nurture. Maybe, if the request on the ladies' profiles are for "nice" guys and this is how you feel about it, well, maybe you are not the guy in question.

ronniroo

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reality show you'd like to be on Posted: 9/7/2005 6:34:02 PM
OK - I must be crazy - but I'd like to be on Martha Stewart-the Apprentice. I actually think it would be a hoot!

ronniroo

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The Importance of looks test Posted: 8/30/2005 6:33:16 PM
The Preferrer You are 55% non-critical of a guy's and/or woman's appearance. You may prefer that a person dress a certain way or really want a great feature or two on them, but sometimes that can be all it takes for you to drop your jaw at the way someone looks. Take lead singer of Evanescence Amy Lee for example. She has some modest curves and a semi goth thing going on. For those of you into men, perhaps lead singer of Linkin Park, Chester Bennington, has a bit of the bad boy image you've been looking for. ***usually the eyes and/or the smile!!!!

ronniroo

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Who would relocate. Posted: 8/30/2005 6:17:56 PM
If he was "The One" ---ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!!!

ronniroo

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What is it about the backwards baseball cap? Posted: 8/27/2005 2:35:52 PM
I love men in BB caps....forwards or backwards ONLY, please; none of that tilted sideways thing. And I used to sport one myself - a lot - until I lost all of my favorite fitting ones....forward when trying to keep the sun away (with my ponytail hanging out the back), backwards when i want sun or need the unblocked vision.... note to self need to go bb cap shopping this week....

ronniroo

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Canadians embrace Celtic Heritage, Americans remain clueless Posted: 8/26/2005 4:10:41 AM
I know that in my family, my Irish grandfather as well as my Italian granparents, came to this country in a time when the push was to be a "true American." My mother's father came from County Cork, and was part of the Wexford Society in New York, but that tradition was not shared, nor passed down to my mother and her siblings, as at that time, the majority of the family was Italian and looked down on the "Irish" side. I have since read a lot about Ireland and the United Kingdom, and still read many Irish authors as well as books on Celtic legends and culture. I think too, that as we get older, we want to be more in touch with our past, we we come from, how we got 'here.' So, I still read, and imagine my grandfather as a young man, what his life must have been like 'in the old country' before he crossed 'the pond' and met my Italian grandmother (also an immigrant) and then met an untimely, early death in the New York Harbour. And yes, true to tradition, he was intoxicated when the tug boat he was piloting was hit by a larger boat.....

ronniroo

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what put a major smile on your face today? Posted: 8/24/2005 5:43:20 PM
an incredibly sweet text message in the middle of a crappy day

ronniroo

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Ever laughed during sex ? Posted: 8/24/2005 5:13:16 PM
Laughed - yes Giggled -yes Once, I think I laughed so hard that even snorted!!! Life is hard, so when you are relaxed, its good to lighten up a bit.... Think about all the noises, the strategic placement of body parts, the rearranging of those same body parts....it can be quite comedic! **of course, the laughter only works if you are laughing together, and not laughing at your partner!

ronniroo

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relationships with women (to make a geniune connection) what does it take? Posted: 8/21/2005 8:25:07 PM
It is never 'just' the photo....but having one helps...it also helps if there is a bit of a smile in the photo... It's also imagination, respect, being yourself, and being a little playful that can grab attention.... And the other stuff...compassion, honesty, trust, that comes after you have her attention, after you start talking or communicating. Starting a relationship is like peeling layers off....don't give it all away or ask for everything right up front....enjoy the process....

ronniroo

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Wouldn`t it be nice!!!! Posted: 8/21/2005 8:16:05 PM
YES!!!! I have met a 'decent' man on POF... we started as friends with lots of flirting and a bit of distance between us....after many phone calls and many, many IM chats, and lots of laughs, and a bit of anguish shared about our dating experiences..... well, let's just say.....

ronniroo

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is 2 much sex bad for a relationship? Posted: 8/21/2005 8:10:55 PM
Being in the way of his career and having too much sex are two different things..... He may have just said that as a reason when maybe you were wanting something different than he was...or he was keeping himself distant-being in the military requires so many moves, so many changes.... As far as the 'too much sex' thing - THERE IS NO SUCH THING!!!! Fiery passion usually fades over time - so enjoy as much of it as you can while it is still burning!!!

ronniroo

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who's more horny..men or women Posted: 8/21/2005 7:59:39 PM
I have always been a very sexual, sensual woman, and have, until now, have also been more 'horny' than my partner. And, when not in a realtionship? Let's just put it this way - If the old wives tale is true - I should be blind! But now, I have met my sexual equal here on POF - and it is AMAZING to be with someone as sexual as I am!!!! (and the other stuff -outside the bedroom- is not too bad either!)

ronniroo

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Out of the shower.. Posted: 8/20/2005 8:23:04 AM
While still wet - I oil my body - paying special attention to any shaved areas....I usually use almond oil scented with essential oils - but will use plain old baby oil in a pinch! Then I step out into my terry cloth flip-flop type slippers-brush my teeth- and swipe on a facial toner. Head into the bedroom and remove the towel and air dry if I have the time.... Add more essential oil behind the ears....slip on some soft cotton low rider panties, my bra, lip gloss...then decide on what to wear....

ronniroo

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Penis Requests A Raise! Posted: 8/20/2005 8:16:51 AM
Kelt- you are outta control!!!!!!!!!LOL!

ronniroo

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Best email Posted: 8/20/2005 7:06:02 AM
An email from my butterfly man - he typed my first name followed by his last name.... So simple, so silly, so wonderful...... ~~any email that makes me laugh!!!!

ronniroo

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Men don't seem to believe.....that's it's not all about the O! Posted: 8/20/2005 6:56:29 AM
GIVE ME AN "O!" ~~~or not~~~~ I can stay in an aroused, 'tingly' state ALL DAY with light touches, sexy words, deep kisses, and really love feeling all tingly, sexy, and naughty for hours without that "O"! Try it for a day - go shopping - go to a bar - see how men just 'know' that sexual state you are in!!!! Being out and about like this draws more men the the best lipstick or scent you have ever worn!!! **the bonus here is that when you do get that "O" (or OOOOOOO'S) after a day like this - - OMG!!!!!!!

ronniroo

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Simple Question Posted: 8/20/2005 6:45:21 AM
It sames time - I bet that one could send 20-30 emails in a minute or too if only one word is typed! **Scenario*** You are scanning through dozens of profiles - see a picture that you like, don't really want to read the profile, so you send a "hi" then move on - 5 seconds flat!!!!! See- so easy, bet you get lots of responses being such a wordsmith and all! ~~~better scenario: tell a joke, tell a story, show some imagination, show some thought in an email - send less emails but put more into them

ronniroo

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Kissing Posted: 8/19/2005 8:32:24 PM
ok - both men above me have now said pecker ot - kissing the pecker just sounds silly.... kissing a hard c*ck is a another story!!!! (not silly sounding!)

ronniroo

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SEX !!! Now that I have your attention how many of you like it in the water Posted: 8/19/2005 8:21:09 PM
in the warm ocean waves my legs wrapped around his waist his hands on my waist holding me, him deep inside me..... the feel of his thighs under my cheeks.... does that answer the question?b

ronniroo

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Kissing Posted: 8/19/2005 8:12:51 PM
Along with the forehead kiss that shows tenderness....the light kisses on the eyelids, the tip of the nose, the brush of lips on lips..... mmmmm....need to have those kisses.....need to give those kisses too!!!

ronniroo

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do women like being shaved by their man? Posted: 8/19/2005 7:56:22 PM
Yes!!! So intimate!!!! Picture the scene here: Legs open....lying on a soft, fluffy towel on the bed First, the warm washcloth...he gently wets you with it....dips it back into the water...lightly drips more warm water over your ...... Next - the soft brush with the shaving foam....he uses one of those old fashion brushes...the kind you swirl against a bar of soap(my best lavender/vanilla bar) and it makes the softest, sweetest smelling lather....then he swirls the lather laden brush on your most sensitive areas....and keeps repeating this until you have a mound of foam where your legs meet.... The Shave- he gently swipes the razor - you must be still in his hands and not move - he rinses the razor and slowly shaves another row....you feel a light pressure, then coolness where the foam and your hair are now gone....as he shaves closer in, you feel his fingers gently hold your skin taut as he drags the razor lightly over your lips, leaving your skin soft and exposed.... You feel immobile, at his gentle mercy, he decides when are hairless enough and he has been checking his progress by letting his fingers graze over the just shaved areas.... finally, you know when he is done... He dips the cloth again in the warm water and gently, but thoroughly rinses off all the soapy lather while inspecting his work, you feel his concentrated gaze on your newly shaved skin.... He says he's done a great job, you are all soft and silky now....of course he now must inspect his work more intimately and you next feel his warm, wet lips....mmmmm OK - So who doesn't like this?

ronniroo

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Honesty Posted: 8/19/2005 5:19:21 PM
Honesty is elusive - it is not an absolute because everyone has a version and people aren't always honest with themselves. How can someone be honest with you about his (or her) needs or wants when he (she) has not even been honest with himself? Most people say they want a boyfriend, or a girlfriend, someone to love - but have they really thought about this? Often times they haven't thought it through, and are not ready, or willing, to commit, compromise, act less selfishly in order to make a relationship work. On a bright note - there are many people, men and women, looking for that honesty, that realtionship, so don't give up - just ask tougher questions!

ronniroo

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Penis Requests A Raise! Posted: 8/19/2005 5:01:29 PM
LMAO! Let us address the original question now....in order to earn a raise in today's world, one must be an 'engaged employee' that gives the 'wow' factor. Special projects are a must, and to really get ahead one must develop and implement new techniques and procedures. So is a raise really warranted?

ronniroo

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Seduction, Adventure, and Faithfulness??Can you have it all? Posted: 8/18/2005 8:46:39 PM
I truly believe you can have it all. Long ago, i decided that I would not settle, would not give up having it all because I knew that there had to be the one that took my breath away, yet made my life whole, a man that would be an extension of me, and I of him... And I should know..... I have shopped, fished, sampled and traded in enough models that were missing a piece or part, or just didn't do the job they advertised they would do. Along the way I have met great men, nice men, funny men, and some a**holes, and insecure/insincere boys, but I have always believed there was at laest one 'good fit' that makes me laugh, excites me, desires me all the time, cuddles me, listens to me, explores with me, and has no desire to dip his stick elsewhere. Finally, I have met this man....we giggle, disagree, have amazing sex, complain about (but are amused by) some of each others habits and hobbies, we share some habits and hobbies, we both want the same things, see similar futures....we admit to loving and caring about each other, we are planning to live together, and still get excited to talk to each other... -oh yeah, he takes my breath away, leaves me reeling, then makes sure my feet are planted square on the ground again....

ronniroo

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Who Have You Connected with here in the Pond Posted: 8/18/2005 6:55:10 PM
Thanks to being here in the Pond, I have connected with myself - the person I almost forgot that I was.... Part of this rediscovering of me really has to do with the forums and the people that post here.... Reading what others write and share about themselves and their experiences, their joys, their sorrows, their desires made me think about what I want to say, or write, and I found the courage to write it...write about me, get to know myself... Could I name everyone that has made me stop and think? Given me a laugh (or several)? Made me cry? Pissed me off? Nah! But I have followed or posted a response to everyone that has sparked some truth or emotion.... Thank you all!!!! And, as my profile indicates....I have made an amazing connection, complete with laughter, comfort, excitement, intimacy and, yes, butterflies.....

ronniroo

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Slam sex or not? Posted: 8/15/2005 10:59:26 PM
yes....but love the cuddle after!!

ronniroo

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3 out of 10 club. Posted: 8/15/2005 6:20:53 PM
Jackson - nope - not an experience that I have had - nor do I want! Definitely a bit odd.....have you contacted the other 7?

ronniroo

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What's your fav. color? Posted: 8/15/2005 6:17:52 PM
BLUE AZURE COBALT SKY CADET get it? The soft blue of my favorite old jeans The rich denim blue of my new bootcuts The color of the sky, just before the stars show (a perfect purpley-blue ) The color of cornflowers My new favorite T - just a hint of teal to that blue The pale-sky blue around 6 am The clear cobalt that rims my Mexican glass margarita set All the soft-faded blues that grace my quilts... ^blue too!

ronniroo

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Does your friends know you here?? Posted: 8/15/2005 6:09:03 PM
Most of my friends know....some not-so-friends know....and my profile and my forums have been discussed behind my back with much tittering, gufawing and well....a generalized consensus that I may be a bit more 'out there' (euphemism used here) than originally thought! So, my conclusion is what kind of friends can they be if I am immediately dismissed for speaking my mind or expressing myself?

ronniroo

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The Hottest thing women can do in Bed! Posted: 8/14/2005 6:19:29 PM
Ok - he thinks this is HOT! And so do I.....right after we both climax, I LOVE to take him in my mouth and taste US together..... mmmmmmm.......

ronniroo

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How important is vulnerability in a relationship? Do you need Posted: 8/14/2005 5:56:42 PM
It's not about planning the exposure of your vulnerability....its about just being yourself and letting it happen....I am in a relationship now and as we get closer, more intimate with each other, our vulnerabilities surface. They draw us closer, allow us to see all of each other.

ronniroo

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who do you miss? Posted: 8/9/2005 6:23:18 PM
I miss my father...it will be 20 years the same weekend that I turn 37. It is sad to realize that I have spent more of my life without him, then with him....I miss that I can no longer imagine his voice....his scent....how safe I felt in Daddy's embrace.... All this time, and I still miss him so much when I think of him.....think of every milestone, accomplishment, setback that he has missed in our lives.... OK back to another forum....need a laugh now.....

ronniroo

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What makes a good lover? Posted: 8/9/2005 6:13:19 PM
Intimacy Imagination Adventure Affection Playfulness A great laugh Nice hands Master in the art of kissing He is both a teacher and a student when we are together He understands my needs, wants, desires He lets me satisfy his needs, his desires The way he can spank me and carress me at the same time The way he looks at me How he says my name, both in a soft whisper and in a plea for mercy, for release The way he holds my hand The way he gently washes my skin when we shower together His need for me, for my body The way he tells me he can almost smell my hair, my shower gel even when I am not around... sigh...ok need to call him now....

ronniroo

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What is your current cell phone ringer, and why did you pick it ? Posted: 8/6/2005 10:32:41 AM
"Call Me" by Blondie - seemed an appropriate song to use as a ring tone!

ronniroo

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Relationship w/BEER or Relationship w/PERSON Posted: 8/6/2005 10:30:37 AM
you can try 10 different beers in one night and not be called a slut!

ronniroo

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When is it ok to show clevage Posted: 8/5/2005 7:50:26 PM
SK - You show those girls off !!!! - And, make sure you wear a necklace that draws the eye there even more!!! Use what you've got!

ronniroo

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In the Bedroom .... Posted: 8/5/2005 7:39:24 PM
Him - sexy, confident, a mix of agressive and tentative explorations Me - all shyness behind closed doors, until.....just before he pentrates my territories Then - total all out invasion on both sides until someone cries 'MERCY'

ronniroo

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How long does it take you........ Posted: 8/4/2005 6:52:59 PM
When I go 'natural' - wavy, messy hair, mascara and gloss, jeans and fitted T - out the door in less than 30 minutes from last 'SNOOZE' on the alarm.... When the hair gets sleek and silky.....polished makeup (less is still more).... capris, heels, and camisole (or sweater set for daytime) ....about an hour plus 5-10 minutes....

ronniroo

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what was the highlight of you summer Posted: 8/4/2005 6:31:00 PM
Meeting the fishie here that......

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forgotton memories Posted: 8/4/2005 3:00:24 PM
The sound of my father's voice...it's been almost 20 years since I have heard it....

ronniroo

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what put a major smile on your face today? Posted: 8/4/2005 2:58:36 PM
Seeing a friend get 'giddy' before a second date with a new man!!

ronniroo

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Are YOU hot or not! Posted: 8/4/2005 2:56:27 PM
I have my moments of "HOT" - and then I have those of 'not'.... so does that make me just warm?

ronniroo

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Does sex get better with age Posted: 8/4/2005 3:30:05 AM
YES!!!!! Sex is so much better for me now than it was in my 20's... I am moreintune with my body....every sensation is more intense... more confidence more pleasure more orgasms OK - where is he when you really need him?

ronniroo

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How many pair of shoes do you own Posted: 8/4/2005 3:25:29 AM
Ummm....lets just put it this way, last year when I moved, during Hurricane Jeanne, even my girlfriends that helped me move my personal stuff commented on the number of shoes that I have....I have purchased about 15-20 pairs since, and weeded out some of the nonwearables.... total count exceeds 70......

ronniroo

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News flash just in for the year 2035 Posted: 8/3/2005 1:02:25 PM
Thanks for the laughs!

ronniroo

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what women like in bed Posted: 8/3/2005 12:11:29 PM
Passion Imagination Soft touches Demanding touches Laughter Messy sheets! Variety of positions Trust Adventure What he said^^^ Lots of oral by and for both -includes licking, kissing, etc.... To hear him moan my name

ronniroo

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Does true Passion exist anymore? Posted: 8/3/2005 12:04:03 PM
Yes...passion exists.... Passion, as Frrosty and Artist, pointed out, can be an intense, overwhelming force in a negative way and be about hate and prejudices. An unforunate reality that violence and war can be brought on by passion. We have all heard the term "crime of passion." But, it is truly wonderful when passion is what makes artists create beauty, scientists invent cures and technologies, and doctors and others give up their high paying jobs to just practice what they were at one time passionate about and dedicate their time to help others through charitable work. Mother Theresa was passionate... Da Vinci was passionate.... Henry Ford was passionate.... A relationship needs passion....each passionate about each other...and each having a passion for life. Can you be passionate in public without being offensive? Absolutely!! Laugh together Giggle like children Explore new territory together Play like children Give a quick unexpected kiss on the cheek Sigh when you are the recipient of one Flash a 'hungry-for-you' look at each other Whisper, 'I can't wait to get you alone' Then order another round of drinks Enjoy life, enjoy your time together Love each other passionately

ronniroo

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i found my fishie :-) anyone else found theirs ?? Posted: 8/2/2005 10:48:11 AM
I THINK SO!

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