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Why do men ruin relationships with video games? Posted: 5/30/2007 9:44:36 AM
Boys play video games. Real men don't play video games!! Yeah, real men design new games!

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One Squirt In.... Two Squirts Out.... What? Posted: 5/30/2007 8:55:27 AM
Well, if She says she doesn't care, aim for the curtains... I heard thats a great way to make a woman scream after sex.

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looking for older women but why? Posted: 5/10/2007 1:47:25 PM
Here kitty kitty....

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Never married & no kids Posted: 5/10/2007 1:36:00 PM
I would assume it was someone I should look into contacting... Just to chime in and join the over 30, no ex's no kids club... Its a rare thing indeed. For a while i thought there was something funny in the water supply as every girl I met had at least one child, some more than one, and lets not forget the guys I worked with, one having 5 kids with three women. I swear its like a Maury Povich show sometimes... Congrats to all the Over 30 Undivorced childless singles who are out there. We are a rare breed indeed! Someday I hope to have a flock of my own to corrupt and teach all the mysteries of the world to.... and the ways of becoming an evil genius!!! muhahahahahaha!! Just not this week. Chris

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Why do women want Friends but then have stipulations? Posted: 5/10/2007 12:22:17 PM
well corpses are somewhat boring, don't you think? At least the corpse allows me to win most of the arguments... yeah, most of the time.

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Can a fat guy find love? Posted: 5/7/2007 2:21:12 PM
..the statement about not being agressive unless you have to be ...concerns me....if someone cuts you off while driving do you grab the ax from the trunk, cut them up real good, and later say they made you do it? Thats a bad thing? Oops... I better get the Axe out of my van.... In all seriousness, you've made some of the best steps already, thats self acceptance. Sure, many people around you will be a little weird and caught off guard when you say the F word.. I say it all the time. My friends have kids, and those kids I've know for a long time. Each one has asked me about being fat in turn as they have grown. Over the last 8 years I've gone from embarassment and hurt feelings from a 4 year old asking me why im so fat, to answering the question. And when Eli, the youngest get to the asking age, I'll just look at him and say, well, its because I ate too much and never exercised. As for you, try to find a counciler to chat with, to get the feelings out, and discuss your life, your concerns, and your feelings. It Sounds like Kevin was your Rock, and your stability... you need to shift that to a professional now. I know, because I spent 3 years in therapy with a great person, she helped me greatly. I now know that everything is not my fault, and that I control my future.. Good Luck, Love the Images with the Storm Troopers and the Dr. Who"esque" Phone Booth Photo... Geeks RULE! Chris

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Guys' Profiles Deciphered Posted: 5/7/2007 1:43:35 PM
Appearantly there are a few who do... I love the list... Its great.... I do have one questions... If a Guy who drives a Sports car does so because he has a small unit, what does it mean when a woman drives an SUV the size of Texas? Chris

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I would love to have mine reviewed! Posted: 6/13/2006 10:47:11 PM
Quite Honestly, I think your profile is just fine. Maybe add a few more interests, maybe describe your artistic side a bit more. Just my opinion of course. Recently I took and art class, it was the last requirement for my Associates Degree. So Now I know more about art than I rmeber from all my years in school. Sadly, I've abandoned my art skills, and they are not coming back to me. But I was told I just need to start again, and practice. So far It's Stickmen with shows and big hands. But for your profile, again, all I can say its good, and not hard to read. Some men do prefer thinking women, however, all boys prefer gullible and needy ones.

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Can you pass up a Profile like this? Posted: 6/13/2006 10:30:18 PM
Well, Thanks for the comments, I do appreciate them. I'll work on switching some of the interests a bit, and tweaking the games out a bit. Also, I will work on breaking down the first huge chunk of Info. You mean Stalking isn't funny? Thanks fort he constructive help, I do appreciate it. Changes will be made, and oh the places I'll see!

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Can you pass up a Profile like this? Posted: 6/11/2006 11:02:52 PM
I thought so. But Tell me what it is that you like about it. Tell me what it is you don't like about it. Then tell me what is takes to get out of a restraining order. I really want to know.

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the so called sense of humor Posted: 6/11/2006 11:00:44 PM
Precisely. Keep it as boring and dull as possible, and show your firm grasp on reality. Really, I mean it.

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AnAnswer to that Age Old Question Posted: 5/22/2006 4:48:28 PM
Why do nice guys finish last? Because, the nice guy is sick of being called a nice guy, and does not embrace the nice guy persona, always looking at it as a stigma. Its not bad to be a nice guy. The Problem is that many who think of themselves as nice guys are yes men. Never saying no. Never being totally honest with their confidants for fear of hurting them, when they are already hurting. I've stopped (a few years ago infact) listening to whiney little girls who complain about their abusive nasty boyfriends who do nothing but run them down. I Started questioning them, and telling them what they need to hear, not what they want to hear. Did it get me laid? Did I get any Action from this? Hell no! Thats not the point. The point was to be honest and stop pulling my punches. Does this answer anything? If you look as being a nice guy as a bad thing, you will see yourself as a victim of being a nice guy, and you will stay beaten down by your own beliefs. Once you embrace the fact that being nice is fine and good, and that to be nice, you dont have to be a yes man, you will start pulling your head out of the ground, and start living more successfully. So, the choice is yours. Be the Nice Guy, or be the victim of the Nice Guy Syndrome.

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Why don't tall men choose to date tall women? Posted: 5/22/2006 4:03:09 PM
Do Men really choose to date any women? Men persue women, and the woman is the one who seems to make the choice. Yes, I know, yet another vast sweeping generalization... Honestly, I've been attracted to all shapes, and sizes of women. Personality goes a long way, but attraction needs to be there first. Chris

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Whats more important.sex,drugs or alcohol? Posted: 5/21/2006 5:57:19 PM
Rock and Roll. Thats where its at. Don't get Drunk (anymore), Only do Prescription Drugs (ADD RAWKS!!) Never taken the time to crawl up a chickens ass.

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going over to guy's place uninvited... Posted: 5/21/2006 5:37:38 PM
It's a matter of privacy, respect, and space. Everyone needs their own time, and their own space. I would call first, I really get bothered by spontaneous drop ins, especially when I am trying to do something, like the laundry, cleaning the house, etc. Things that get me in a "mode". I think it steps from the chronic Procrastination Syndrome I experience. Once I start some of these tasks, I like to see them through until the end, that way Its done. I would never just drop in on someone, I always call first. Just me, the way I was raised, the culture I have been around, and the fact we lock the doors to our house. Its a bit Control, and a Bit Paranoia. Chris

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No Pic = Hot Chick? Posted: 5/21/2006 5:01:25 PM
btw... i'm not one of the beautiful people, and mine is lack of self esteem and a have a very real phobia of disappointing others. A Lack of Self Esteem... I Totally have that, in fact, the only place I feel totally free and comfortable is in my house, and communicating with others online.... When it comes to social situations, my self opinion plays a huge role, and I withdraw. Now, once I have made friends, and trust me, they are generally very outgoing people in order to crack the shell, but they really do find out what makes me tick. I've tried being friendly, but sometimes, no matter how nice I am with someone, they have to be willing to respond. And frankly, i've found people are afraid to speak to someone who looks like I do, dont know why for sure, but I have my suspicions. At any rate, oce I start meeting people in different areas, I'll meet different people, with different thought processes, and hopefully less judgemental. But I know that has to go both ways. Generally the people I try to speak to, will not even return a simple hello. So my low self opinion, I've just got to jump that hump, and go into a new place, to meet some new people, but since I "feel" that everyone stares at me when I enter a room alone, I tend not to enter too many rooms alone. What was my point?

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Why are men so scared of women who know what they want and have it? Posted: 5/21/2006 9:33:37 AM
Now, for a real answer tot he question.... Men, may in fact be scared by a woman who knows what they want because there is no need for a man. If a woman is not in distress, whats the point of being a man, an gentleman, a romantic, and trying to save them Damsel? Personally, I've always been one to look at a room full of women, and have the great gift of being able to find the one with the most insecurities, problems, and has probably been beaten by dirtball boyfriends the longest, single her out, and make her my charity casem and rescue her. Unfortunately, for them, they like their abusive screwed up world, and need to wallow in it a while longer. Now, I've managed to learn some about human nature, people, and some psychology, and I no longer am as attracted to the sickest, most f'd up little girl in the room. I've started noticing women. Now, A little more information about a woman, who has her "stuff" together... She is frightening because she doesn't "need" a man, because she is fully capable of being on her own. This may frighten many men because the man would not be the center of her world, and the most needed thing to make her existance seem necessary. Of couse this is a sweeping generalization, as now, as many men are learning, stabil people are the best counterparts. Who needs unneeded drama and craziness, unnecessary headache and heartache dealing with someone who doesn not her her "stuff" together. Over the past years, I've learned many valuable lessons. One is that how can someone else love me If I don't love myself. How can someone else love me if She can't love herself. And How can two people really love each other if both of them do not really know who they are respectively. Ok, That will be $125 and hour. Chris

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Why are men so scared of women who know what they want and have it? Posted: 5/21/2006 9:21:54 AM
so, what was the website you are plugging? Interesting profile, not much substance about you though.. Too bad I missed the Juggs Pic.

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No Pic = Hot Chick? Posted: 5/21/2006 9:16:09 AM
Great Idea!! I'll delete al my pics right away!! I must be scaring off al the natives with my supreme hotness!! Ouch!! Nope,. sorry, thats just a sunburn.... too long in the sun yesterday... stupid flea markets. I did see a great shirt though... Fat people are harder to Kidnap! Off with my head!

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Rude stuff on dates! Posted: 5/19/2006 1:43:53 PM
I guess it depends on if you knew he was a huge "insert sports team here" fan or not. If It bothered you, call him on it. I would if I was out with someone and they kept answering their phone, talking to their clients, I would consider that rude, unless I knew they worked for a suicide hotline...

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Whats Wrong with Dating..... Posted: 5/19/2006 1:30:01 PM
Seriously, It seems to me, in the area I live anyway, and appearantly in some areas from some of the stuff I have been reading, that people no longer date people. If you meet someone, you immediately have to be in a relationship. Its called a date for a reason, to get to know someone, and possibly meet some new people, broaden your circle of friends, and maybe meet someone eventually. Every time I turn around, its all about the long term, the finality, and what will the kids look like. Why not just live for the moment, and take it as it is. I'll admit, I'm guilty of this as well. In the past it has been all about the hook up, and the "soulmate", and she's the one. Well, I've managed to learn so far that none of the women I've been with for any length of time are the "right ones" and honestly, my thinking of "she's the one for me" has ruined some really potentially great friendships. So now here I am, my mindset is changed, and I'm starting to see more clearly and see that my main "problem" is that I just need to meet more people, and even date some, go and have some fun, and see what happens. So my question is, what is behind the drive for everyone to be in a relationship, and the necessity to jump from barely knowing someone to being an exclusive Item? Why can't people just Date? Then let nature happen. Responding to an email, or a message, or going on a date is not a life sentence, its just a few hours, have fun with it. Ok - Back to Lurk mode.... Chris

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Ever Wanna... Posted: 5/19/2006 12:48:28 PM
Hypothetically ~ WTF ????? (Says it all!!!) I actually had someone write to me, included was a proposal and an offer to relocate to Alabama where I could shovel horse sh!t for my room and board!!!! I am soooo not kidding. I printed it just to remind me that no matter how bad someone is, there is ALWAYS someone just a hair less balanced!!! That was a tough one to be nice to (OH, and what was the sex about ~~no animals, but close!! EKKKKK...) I sent back 10 rows of the laughing hysterically dude!!! How many times Do I have to say I'm sorry for that, sheesh!! Actually, some people are just funny and like to make up stories when they send someone a note. I've sent some crazy things, and some of the people that respond actually get it, and realize that I'm hardly being serious. I did have one lady a while back want to meet, and said that her Husband is out of town..... etc etc. I politely responded that I'm really not looking for something with those kind of complications. It was all nice and dandy. So anyway.. If not Alabama, where? Maybe Northern Illinois, help me start up a Snow Shoveling and Lawn Care Business, we can live in my Van... I'll park it down by the river...

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Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers? Posted: 6/6/2005 11:28:35 AM
Just one thing to add, where I live in Northern Illinois (USA) there is a rash of single mothers here. The Biggest Issue I have is that these girls seem to "allow" 2-4 guys to father a child (Donate the sperm) and then he buggers off. So She has a child, and then, within the net year, finds another boy, who makes a deposit, and she has a second child. So now, she has 2 children, and there are 2 different fathers, who are not taking responsibility for their children. Thats until she finds a 3rd guy, and ends up with a third child, with another different father, who will be long gone before this child is born. So Now, she's 21, got 3 kids, living on state aid, and completely unsupported. So you try going out, and whoa - just who are you to discipline my child... Not to mention, that by now the 5 year old has met 3-5 different "fathers" that the mother has drug home from who knows where, and has no idea of even trying to warm up to you, besides, this is just the 2nd date, and he's met you 2 times. She constantly talks about how lousy this guy was, and this guy was, and how this guy used her, and this guy was a jerk. So now what? I guess in a perfect world, young girls wouldn't get pregnant on their first encounter, and the guys they choose to share the experience with wouldn't be deadbeats. Oh well. Yeah, I woudl personally prefer meeting and eventually marrying someone with out children, only becuase of fear. Fear of the rights I wouldn;t have to teach, educate and discipline some other man's child. I also have fears about whether or not I would treat the children fairly when I have one of my own with my partner. Would I Favor this Biological child over the other one? Its a concern, and I really wouldn;t want to have to find out how i would react.

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Favorite Retro Song Posted: 6/6/2005 10:45:52 AM
A While back Someone flooded the newsgroups with rush. I Think I'm missing 2 albums. Someday, I'll buy them, but it wont be this week. As for my personal "retro" songs, I guess my all time favorite is timeless. Weird Al. He has some great parodies of some lousy songs, and the polka's... Oh the Polka's!

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PRE JUDGED- I BLEW IT! Posted: 6/6/2005 10:35:32 AM
Hey, I'm usually just lurking, but you should be thankful you got a date in the first place. Many people dont get even that much. Its Just the way it goes. And I too have been guilty of the "stalking" syndrome of calling someone until I am out of minutes, Emailing so much I get messages about spamming people, and the worst was the Drive by's. Knowing where they live and constantly watching to see where they are at all times. Whew. That was about 10 years ago, but I was there. Just need to let go a bit. How would I have reacted now? Well, Someone backs out on a date and gives me an excuse, I guess I would just accept it, wallow in self pity for a while, and plan on never hearing from them again. Bleargh!

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