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MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

Msg: 27 (view)

What's the point? Posted: 3/21/2008 9:31:11 PM
That sucks. From the fact that she asked on date two, she wasn't looking for long term - and throw in the race card, she was just looking to fufill her black man fantasy. Sucks that you bought dinner twice for a racist.

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

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Ladies how important are shoes -----Be Honest!!! Posted: 2/21/2008 12:04:02 PM
Just please please please remember to take off your socks later. And as for your shoes.. as long as they don't look like they rolled out of the garbage and into a pile of crap, or are so completely mismatched that they stand out (like lime green, don't laugh, its happened) I don't really care. I put too much thought into my shoes to spare yours a bit.. :-D

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

Msg: 9 (view)

hiding orgasms? Posted: 2/10/2008 5:57:57 PM
Sometimes if the guy is really quiet its hard to be vocal as well. I find it difficult to show my O face when I'm getting no encouragement.. but thats just me, don't necessarily take it to the bank (or some other advice euphemism).

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

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I am So fed up with men these days Posted: 2/5/2008 10:13:55 AM
I still don't see this advice being taken seriously, despite the fact that everyone has basically said the same thing for two pages now. It seems Ms. Honey feels validated in acting this way.. Honey, do you realize the issue in this post is not men, but you? Can you accept the change that needs to happen? Are you willing to put forth the effort that it takes to be independent?

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

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I am So fed up with men these days Posted: 2/4/2008 9:19:48 PM
Well it seems that there are 18 topics at hand here anyways. Save yourself some frustration, grow up, and get a job. Quit hiding behind a man and be a woman. Be independant and end this nasty cycle you seem to have going. But although you ask, I doubt you understand, follow, or care about the advice given as you respond to each and every one with a story and an excuse.

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

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Please review my profile Posted: 2/4/2008 9:15:27 PM
I would help, but its been a month and you haven't followed the advice of the previous posters.. so.. mmm.. sorry.

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

I am So fed up with men these days Posted: 2/4/2008 9:07:19 PM
Wow. Generally I opt to not reply to messages like this. But, Honey, here's the rub -- you apparently want someone who needs you, not one who wants you. Most people are looking for companions, and those men who want only your household skills are looking for a maid without the weekly charge and the dirty feeling after sex with the help. You need to cease this neverending need to have a man (or woman, I get it, you're bi, whatev) in your life and reevaluate you. Or do you feel that your identity is truly expendable for that of your significant other's? If you can't value yourself as a person, Honey, why do you expect someone else to? What scares me most about this is that there is a child involved who is most likely being tossed about. Where was this child while you spent DAYS at this man's house? With you? I sincerely hope not. Do not cheapen yourself by praying for a relationship while giving up sex and free domesticity, and DO NOT do such in front of your child. Find someone who loves you, worships you, respects you, and wants whats best for you and yours. DO NOT find one and hope he'll eventually do it once he realizes he loves you. I am done emphasizing. You worry me frustrated, Honey. All I can say is truly do well for yourself and your child, if you read any of this at all, read that.

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

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Am I missing something? Posted: 12/10/2007 8:11:04 PM
I don't have anything constructive to add.. other than my amusement at your dog preference for retreivers and spaniels, whilst holding a soft coated wheaton in your main picture. Oh, and I like the picture of you in your leathers by the bike. Niiice.

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

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Do this or else.... Posted: 10/30/2007 6:26:23 PM
Lovely.. Thats not a boyfriend at all. Thats an a**hole. I've heard nicer things from FBies.

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

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Venus Butterfly Posted: 10/16/2007 11:35:51 PM
Bossy, thanks so much for the reading! I have not been so lucky, as of yet, but maybe soon I too will sing.

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

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Ladies, would you please review my profile, thanks. Posted: 9/12/2007 11:00:57 PM
I don't mind the bear, but I'm not sure that its a more approachable picture. It causes too much speculation in my mind. As for your profile itself, I found it to be a good representation of you. Detailed and the tone is enthusiastic. If that is your personality, then bonus, you got what you were going for. And you have to be one of the first law enforcement officers to not mention his cuffs that I've seen in a while.

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

Msg: 62 (view)

Sex in the afternoon Posted: 8/23/2007 8:59:58 PM
Lots of people have fantasies about sex on a train with a total stranger .. i know i used to have that fantasy I don't ride trains, no trains here to ride. But I am a frequent flier and... mmmm... planes. Loooove me some planes.

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

Msg: 51 (view)

Sex in the afternoon Posted: 8/23/2007 10:40:31 AM
There are advantages to being the boss (at work) and having a stay-at-home-mom wife. Especially when the children are back in school. ^^ Thats sooooo gloating ;) Lucky lucky guy. But seriously sex at anytime. Before you get out of bed, breakfast table... all day long I'm plagued with thoughts of "hey, thats a GREAT spot", or "Mmmmm... I'd like him to.." Afternoon is excellent too. Maybe even outside in the heat with the lawn men going next door, lounge in the poo... See, it begins again.

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

Msg: 88 (view)

Masturbation while in strong relationships. Posted: 8/23/2007 10:28:47 AM
I hang out with a lesbian couple that either brings their problems out for everyone, or likes to bring me into them specifically because I'll give them advice to shut them up. (For reference to anyone else who does this: DON'T. No one who is not you and your SO gives a crap about your relationship issues. This of course excludes the forums, obviously. But in a social setting, I don't want to address why you bring up your exes after sex, etc.) Anyways, their issue stemmed from one (I'll name her Jane) being jealous of the other's (Mary) masturbatory time alone. Jane felt that if Mary needed to release sexual tension or just was that aroused she should wait for her and they could play together. She did not want her masturbating alone, ever. I disagree. Masturbation (not mutual) is a solo thing that can have nothing to do with your SO. It is a personal right of sexual expression or even just relaxation and release. If not an addictive issue, it is not cheating and it is not taking away from the sexual relationship you share. Now if your partner is releasing to avoid sex, or it is becoming an addictive issue, then its a horse of a different color. But masturbation is a natural and effective stress reliever and can only help along a sexual relationship by allowing the individual to discover alone what will better their time together. And avoid the spilling on the ground Bible issue by going in the shower, a towel, or a tissue. ;)

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

Msg: 115 (view)

Oral fixations....do you have one??? Posted: 8/23/2007 10:08:43 AM
I just had my wisdom teeth out and my whole mouth hurts. I can't chew, can't suck, can't do anything. It huuuuurts :( And not being able to satisfy that fixation makes me twitchy.

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

Msg: 55 (view)

Funniest thing ever happened to you during sex? Posted: 8/22/2007 10:24:43 AM
Okay I have two... Freshman year of college this guy I was seeing and I took a walk and ended up near this old cemetary and in the shadows of this tree. We started making out and then I decided to give him head. As soon as I'm on my knees and he's... free to the air.. this ghost tour walks up to the entrance of the cemetary and begins their presentation maybe 40 feet away. We're under a tree and by a fence in the shadows, so we thought we couldn't be seen, so I continued. A good 15 minutes went by and vaguely I realized they hadn't moved, when I finally stood and straghtened, they moved on and by us, only to stop in front of our tree and present it as the "Kissing Tree" with us standing there red in the face, definitely right under it. When they finally walked away and we walked in the direction they'd come, I stopped at the cemetary entrance and turned around. There was a street lamp behind where we'd been at the street corner that PERFECTLY illuminated us. We gave a show for about 20 mixed company tourists. Annnnnnd... My mom's house is in a cul de sac, and one summer in college I was home, and we were just coming home from lunch and our next door neighbor stopped us to say hi and ask about some function. He grinned at her and made some comment about "enjoying" the sounds of the evening, and the fact that my mother and her new boyfriend don't close the bedroom window (which is only 10 feet from his bedroom window) at night. She laughed in his face and told him that at least she had something to make noise about, and wasn't it funny that in all the years she'd lived there she'd never heard anything from their window. He was beet red as she winked and drove away. Go moms.

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

I didnt know Posted: 8/13/2007 11:12:59 PM
[quote:brawnydog]They're both prolly bi. I'd suggest that you all get together and play twister. I concur.

MyNameSpaghetti

Joined: 7/31/2007

Msg: 59 (view)

Weirdest song you ever found yourself doin' it to Posted: 8/13/2007 10:52:10 PM
"Daughters" by John Mayer.. On loop. That played ALL NIGHT LONG. We were drunk, and it was in the other room blasting, terrible terrible. It didn't affect us, however, or not to a point where we needed to stop.

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