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browneyedgirllygirl

Joined: 4/8/2005

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Do guy really respcet you more if...........? Posted: 4/17/2007 3:34:52 PM
I think the question might be, do you still respect yourself if things don't go the way you wanted them to, and now you are wondering if the reason the relationship didn't work out was because you let your guard down too easily? You opened yourself up, and now you want to put a wall up because you think the guy was only out for one thing. I have to agree that there are "friends with benefits" all over this thing. I think it must work for some, and it probably isn't just the boys. Remember we girls still have to take someone home to our family, and then there are the boys you don't bring home to mom as well.

browneyedgirllygirl

Joined: 4/8/2005

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Instand Messaging Posted: 6/18/2006 6:05:50 PM
I finally turned it off since I got sick of seven people trying to message me at a time. OK, little exaggeration, but not too much. People would write to you, and depending on your speed of typing it was a pain in the butt. I type like a rocket and pardon me when some wonder is trying to message me at the speed of death. I know that makes me sound like a *itch, but remember boys this is what it feels like being a girl. So remember that when someone says - "Let's chat?" It isn't always as big a thrill for them as it is for you. Some boys type so slow I could change an engine while they type, "How are you?" I hope not everyone thinks I am a real jerk for saying these things, but well, sorry.

browneyedgirllygirl

Joined: 4/8/2005

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Let's get a Plenty of Fish Pinic going Posted: 6/18/2006 4:37:43 PM
I would be thrilled to go to a POF picnic. I also think August would be great. I know there are a lot of Canadians, and that is probably because one of the guys that started the site is Canadian. I wonder if they would want to have their own. I don't care. I am up for it. I am willing to be a coordinator, a helper, or a bystander, but I want in darn it. Please let me know what is going on. Thank you. CB

browneyedgirllygirl

Joined: 4/8/2005

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Need Advice IMMEDIATELY...HELP!! Posted: 6/17/2006 11:25:53 AM
Make other plans, and if worse comes to worse I guess if the mood strikes you - you could always change them if he actually calls and shows. However, I would think he would really want to make sure you guys have made a connection. I know some men are looser about getting together these days, but that is just me.

browneyedgirllygirl

Joined: 4/8/2005

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I have a question Posted: 8/15/2005 8:41:04 PM
I have to agree with Rstyduck on this. The only thing is that if she is still talking with you then she is probably not ready to let you go either. If she is doing that she must be hung up on someone else. Move on!

browneyedgirllygirl

Joined: 4/8/2005

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Hair beautiful hair Posted: 8/15/2005 8:36:49 PM
HUH? I don't think it is worth changing your hair for a man. It is worth it "if you want to" change your hair. However, nobody wants to keep their hair the same way forever or we would all still be wearing mullets. Sometimes a little advice in a long term relationship is one thing, but this sounds like a first date. The only thing I would want to hear is that I like your hair better than your picture. It sounds like he is a picky quack. Don't walk, run!

browneyedgirllygirl

Joined: 4/8/2005

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Have you been asked the question WHAT are you looking for here on POF??? Posted: 7/31/2005 5:12:23 PM
I have been asked it, and I always answer honestly. I am sincerely looking for long term, but I want to date and get to know someone first. Sometimes I have met people that turn into a leech doing that too. I don't know that this is a win-win situation no matter how you look at it. If the guy turns you off it is just as hard to get them to "move on," as it is to long after someone you think is pretty hot. Which is worse?

browneyedgirllygirl

Joined: 4/8/2005

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why do men say they will call and then don't? Posted: 7/25/2005 10:15:19 PM
I am going to go out on a limb here and say it could be many things. I have so many people write to me that I get confused sometimes on who I told what time or something. I also have two kids, and they seem to make my life spin. So if the guy has a lot going in his life he could be in the same boat. He probably thought your last conversation was great, and he wanted to exchange numbers, but really truly forgot. The world is going very fast right now, and if he has kids and an ex wife to deal with, plus work and all this stuff all over the computer, he might just get screwed up on occasion. I personally don't keep up with everything that well, and my kids seem to plan my day like a nut. Some people aren't that organized either. I know you posted that you were going on a date in your later post. How did that go? I hope well, and if it didn't keep trying anyway. You seem like a nice girl.

browneyedgirllygirl

Joined: 4/8/2005

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I found the one!!! Posted: 7/25/2005 9:55:58 PM
Wow! I am so happy for you. Ok, a little jealous too. LOL No congrats! Also I have met one or two really decent guys on here. DON'T GIVE UP WHEN THINGS GETS YOU DOWN. You just never know!

browneyedgirllygirl

Joined: 4/8/2005

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Do women enjoy masterbation and being watched? Posted: 7/20/2005 3:36:14 AM
I think some women are really embarassed about it, but if you are both doing it it is great. I have only recently come to to find that it can be as much of a turn on, as it is to watch. There it also depends on your partner. If your partner is inhibited and makes you feel that it is wrong you are going to feel out of sorts. If you are into it, and a partner makes you feel confident in yourself then it is all good. Of course we know what we want better than a man because they aren't mind readers, but doing it in front of someone makes us hot if the feedback is good.

browneyedgirllygirl

Joined: 4/8/2005

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WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?!!! Posted: 7/20/2005 2:45:48 AM
I hope my two cents can help you, but why don't you change your profile a bit and try to make your personality shine through. I see you said that no matter what you do you will have a good time. Sometimes humor or a kooky story might interest someone. Have you ever done something that you thought was going to totally blow, but you ended up having a wild evening. Why don't you relate a story like that? I find that humor, and interesting things help in a profile. I imagine that mostly women just let men write to them because that is pretty much all I do, but if you have something that shows your "happy personality," in your profile, and at the same time it gives people the idea of what a fun person you are, I don't think you can go wrong. Also I don't think you should place such a high value on whether you are getting responses or not. I think people are very active in the winter, and it comes and goes. Eventually someone will notice you, whether that be on here or elsewhere, it will happen.

browneyedgirllygirl

Joined: 4/8/2005

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delete account Posted: 7/14/2005 10:08:55 AM
I guess we all have to make our own decisions about that. I tend to wonder why you posted this for all the world to see, but I am thinking you might want other people's opinion before you actually do it. What is it that made you want to delete your account? Was it a bad experience? I think you just want everyone to wonder what is going on with you. I think it would have been more interesting if you would have put down your reasons for deletion of your profile.

browneyedgirllygirl

Joined: 4/8/2005

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Why does a strong person become weak? Posted: 5/28/2005 4:28:28 PM
Gina, Number one you aren't becoming weak. You may still have some post partum depression, and you might want to talk to your doctor about that. Once that issue is resolved, the best thing for you to do is to keep yourself very busy. Yes, you may have perceived him to be your soul mate, but obviously he didn't see the situation that way. When you do have these alone times you want to try to think of the things that weren't "so great" about him. IE: Maybe how he snored, or just something stupid. Anything where you can remember he wasn't as perfect as you have him so modeled in your mind because right now that is all he is, just an ideal of what you think you wanted. Now that the weather is getting better try to get outside everyday and go for walks around local parks. Stay very active. You could even frequent some local hardware stores where you might meet some nice men even if it is just pick up something you could have found at Walmart. The important thing is to keep as active as possible, and I know with a baby that is easy, but you need to stay involved with a lot of adults. You have made this man into your ideal, and there are probably plenty of men that would love to get a chance to get to know the real Gina. You just have to remember she is in there, and don't give up!

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