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cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 23 (view)

What are these guys doing? Posted: 11/23/2009 5:27:13 PM
The answer is: because he is a crude, repulsive, greasy, leeching, using, slimy, woman hating emotional predator who under any other circumstances would be serving time (until the incredible day he dropped dead if the world were that lucky). IS THAT CLEAR ENOUGH. I'm sick of men in here who are so brainwashed and part of his cult. You keep preaching about his common sense crap and crude approach like he's a god or something when he offers nothing yet convinces you he's "helped" you. If that isn't pure evil I don't know what is. I've read a LOT of his crap. Anything that wasn't just common sense basically preached complete and utter disrespect for women and totally insulted their intelligence. Personally I don't want to be brainwashed into becoming a man like that. I guess if it gets you "laid" at the price of your dignity and your partner's that's all that matters though, right? Pathetic.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 16 (view)

What are these guys doing? Posted: 11/23/2009 11:27:49 AM
Why do people keep bringing up descamgelo? He is such a con artist and so full of sht that you can smell it when you read his crap. You might land an idiot and get some meaningless sex with his bullsit but you will never obtain a quality person with any intelligence or self respect. I seriously wish this guy would get put in prison or just vanish from the planet all together. I despise people like him who prey on insecure men when they are at their most vulnerable. It takes a special kind of evil to do what he does and still go to sleep at night. At least when a normal con artist dupes an old person out of their money they don't screw with their emotions as well.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 49 (view)

pee Posted: 11/23/2009 11:17:06 AM
One way to avoid the situation is to stop dating obese men who drink to the point of urinating all over the place. Doesn't sound much like dating material to me but then again women seem to chase the opposite of everything they say they want in a man.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 20 (view)

when someone of age hasnt had a relationship Posted: 11/23/2009 8:22:47 AM
I disagree Wild. I'm single and it's sure not by choice because I hate it. Somebody else has to agree to be your partner before you aren't single and most people seem to dismiss others in a split second so it isn't exactly easy to just choose not to be single and have it magically happen. Especially for men.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 53 (view)

met my 1st psycho ( might belong in the humor section)(Long read) Posted: 11/23/2009 5:51:04 AM
aSydneyMale: Totally agree with you. The really pathetic thing is insulting an entire group of people and then trying to take it back by trying to convince everyone it was a "joke" to cover up the fact that the OP is a bigoted assole. Anyone buying into the "just a joke" excuse is equally stupid in my opinion. People do that constantly in here which is REALLY annoying and shows they have no spine and also no willingness to stick be their opinions. At least if you know you were wrong or that you're an assole you should admit it.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 28 (view)

met my 1st psycho ( might belong in the humor section)(Long read) Posted: 11/22/2009 11:48:10 AM
So, you both sound like drunks to me. Not only that you think being an athiest means she's a serial killer. Wow. You're a fu**ing idiot. An ignorant one who spells like a 4 year old to boot.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 318 (view)

over 40 and never married...is this a RED FLAG! Posted: 11/21/2009 10:55:18 AM
^^^34. No kids. Never Married. Pot meet kettle. Hardly think you're in a position to presume to know the reasons why someone isn't married at 40 or doesn't want to be married. You sound like an ignorant hick moron to me. No one with more than 2 brain cells left would actually equate having a piece of paper with magically having a worthwhile and respectable relationships. You should shut up while you simply sound stupid instead of completely idiotic. Not to mention you're a complete hypocrite to boot. There is NOTHING I despise more than a person who's a hypocrite.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 26 (view)

Have you ever decided against messaging someone because of uncertainty about racial requirements? Posted: 11/21/2009 6:50:42 AM
Have to agree with NappyKat for the most part on this one. Black people are usually very clear in profiles when they won't date outside their race and when they will date outside their race. Other ethnicities don't seem to give as clear as indication for some reason. I may be able to shed a little light on the reason some white people don't make it as clear. I personally am open to dating any race, but I do have a preference for black women and find I will see beauty in certain things about them that I wouldn't find in any other races. That being said, tastes change and go back and forth over time as to what you find attractive. All races have attractive things about them in my opinion but if you state ANY preference in your profile, you risk all the other races not considering you as a dating opportunity because they will misunderstand what you may be getting at with your preference. I would hate to miss out on a great person because they just assumed I wouldn't be interested because they aren't black. As far as white people that will only date one race and refuse to bend the rule, they should definitely state that in their profile. Then again they may be scared of people thinking they are intolerant or racists.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 99 (view)

Men and self esteem Posted: 11/21/2009 6:17:20 AM
kjacks: You are completely clueless. Not only do men feel the competition pressure from other men they have ALL the same physical pressures as women. We are made fun of and pressured by women and society alike concerning hair loss, weight, penis size, looks. Lets's not forget height and muscle mass. Both of these women seem to get a free pass on. Using porn as a reference is a complete joke. Men may have been out of shape in 70's movies (the women weren't that great either) but these days a great way for a guy to feel like crap is to watch an adult movie. Even the guys that are almost 10 years my senior who still do it look like they just stepped out of a body building magazine. The women, although very pretty, aren't required to put forth this kind of effort. Not only that, they get paid about 20 times as much as men. Using adult movies as an example to prove your point is completely ridiculous. The only films where the guy would be unattractive and overweight compared to the woman would be in a homemade movie.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 34 (view)

Is it Wrong to call a woman handsome? Posted: 11/18/2009 5:09:04 PM
It may be a compliment but personally I don't know how I'd feel if a woman said I was "pretty".

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 346 (view)

after 40 it is really hard to find a date(READ THIS!!!) Posted: 11/18/2009 4:48:07 PM
nazth: Stereotype much? All the "youth" and "muscle" in the world won't make up for the fact you're an arrogant, immature, ashole meathead. FYI not everyone over 40 is in bad shape. I'm grinning from ear to ear because cocy idiots like you don't realize 25-40 goes by in a blink so you'll be eating your words REALLY fast. I find it funny that you're putting down older men and women but according to your profile you'll date a 38 year old. I'm assuming that means you only want a woman for sex and then you'll kick her to the curb since you obviously have no respect for older women from what you just said. What a laughable pathetic piece of crap you are...and a hypocrite besides. Wow. What a winner.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 332 (view)

after 40 it is really hard to find a date Posted: 11/18/2009 6:35:12 AM
So men need love and are more caring than women? I totally agree with that. They may be the truest words I've seen in here. Women tend to be colder emotionally and romantically from what I've seen in the relationships I've had and those of the men I know. It must be a very common belief because the media even portrays relationships that way on television and in movies most of the time.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

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Twilight Review Posted: 11/18/2009 6:14:47 AM
This may be the WORST movie in the history of movies. It's a train wreck for a movie supposedly about vampires. It's just a poorly written and acted 90210 episode with weak vampires thrown in. Pure mindless drivel only appealing to the most brain dead of 12 year old girls. Pathetic is a weak word to describe it but it still suits it.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 319 (view)

after 40 it is really hard to find a date Posted: 11/17/2009 11:50:35 AM
Spot4username: Sorry. I was referring to the second poster and her really negative "man list" (which I thought was the OP. I must have banged my head today.) Actually you have a very positive looking profile and a great smile. No reason for you to be dateless or without a quality person from what I see.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 310 (view)

after 40 it is really hard to find a date Posted: 11/17/2009 5:39:58 AM
Wow. You'll never have any luck with a crap attitude like that. I'm 40 and I look and feel better than any other point in my life for the most part. I'm also a really loyal guy and love being in a committed relationship. I doubt I'm the only guy like this so you're just being negative. The problem is getting women to stop being negative and suspicious enough to actually give a guy a chance. So far it's been an uphill battle.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 291 (view)

The Game and its effectiveness Posted: 11/16/2009 11:22:47 AM
gycraig: What the hell are you saying? I can't make out half of what you typed. How did you get that I think I'm "too good" for anyone? I think the point of my post WAS that I can't take rejection so I try to make sure that won't happen because I lose it when confronted with arrogant people who think they're better than me. I've never really had to deal with it because I usually get approached and never do the approaching. Learn to read properly before shooting off your mouth.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 33 (view)

How long does it take for you to get sick of people? Posted: 11/16/2009 6:24:13 AM
If you actually like someone you shouldn't have a problem seeing or talking to them every day because they will be a part of you. Wanting "space" is just an excuse people use when they have commitment issues and don't actually want a real relationship with you.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 304 (view)

She is barely legal, He is 48 Posted: 11/15/2009 8:19:40 PM
^^^^Riiigggghhhhht.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 279 (view)

The Game and its effectiveness Posted: 11/14/2009 6:43:47 PM
OutMind: Wow. That was a big noise signifying nothing. My point is that I don't go chasing people that will treat me like crap or aren't interested. I don't "play it safe" to protect my emotions, I play it safe to protect the other person because I don't take being embarrassed, or stepped on well and to be honest I don't want to find out what I might do if that happens to me. Like I said, my reaction may go in a dangerous direction, so I like to know what I'm getting into and if it's actually going to work before investing in it emotionally. The problem is that when I'm stepped on I tend to step back twice as hard.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 30 (view)

MATCH.com V p.o.f Posted: 11/14/2009 4:01:46 PM
I think Lavalife is the best dating site around. Good matches, good payment options and a pretty good response/date rate. POF seems to be a dead end most of the time despite having tons more people.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 274 (view)

The Game and its effectiveness Posted: 11/14/2009 7:41:40 AM
Actually being told "no" by a lot of people most likely does mean you're not attractive to the majority. People who don't see that they are unattractive and continue to believe everybody else has a problem aren't full of "self esteem", they're delusional and arrogant. In my mind "eating dirt" means someone put you to the ground and had the final say. If you make it a practice to fight back and get even, then technically the other person will be the one that ends up "eating dirt". Heaven help the person who thinks they can make me "eat dirt" because it won't be taken lightly.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 48 (view)

Are disproportionate age ranges requirements a red flag? Posted: 11/13/2009 7:06:55 PM
I notice that as well. Almost every older women's profile has an age range that barely goes above her age but 15-20 years below. Can you say insecurity/mid life crises?

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 351 (view)

Strong opinions on pot smoking here and abouts; why? Posted: 11/13/2009 7:02:52 PM
I think that whole "pot leads to hard drugs" theory is a load of crap too. As much as I can't stand marijuana, one good thing I've noticed about pot smokers is that they rarely ever seem to drink which is great.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 535 (view)

Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 11/13/2009 6:41:33 PM
wild: Why do you and others feel the need to play internet god and go on these little power trips threatening people with getting "banned" as if it would be the end of life as we know it? Is your life really that boring? Grow up. It's nobody's business if they have a disagreement. The fact you butted in and are completely off topic is a big "no no" as well. Oh no. People are using free speech in the nazi dating club, we'd better goose step over there and put a bullet in them. No one needs anyone else to tell them what gets people "banned" in here. I love getting banned. Who cares? The only thing worse is losers who go ape sh*t because people type with upper case text.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 43 (view)

The Kids Hate You? Posted: 11/13/2009 4:12:44 AM
That's all well and good if you happen to be a child psychologist dating someone who's kids hate you but nobody normal would expect that kind of drama from just going on a date with someone. It would be different if the guy was a complete idiot to the mother or kids but not if he's acting like a cilvilized human being.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 271 (view)

The Game and its effectiveness Posted: 11/12/2009 9:33:08 PM
OutMind: Not all of us will "eat dirt" at some point. I know I don't. That's why I make sure to have all my bases covered so that won't happen. It's the reason I don't play the game. I can't afford to get "stepped on". Let's just say I'm pretty sure my reaction might be.....a little unsavory. Nothing good could come from that scenario.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 520 (view)

Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 11/12/2009 12:00:05 PM
golden: Good point about the blonde hair hiding the gray better. Makes me thankful for lighter hair these days. Watch it with the "midget" comments though.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 39 (view)

The Kids Hate You? Posted: 11/12/2009 7:58:52 AM
That behavior from children shows bad parenting in my opinion. Being mean or rude towards an adult shows this woman isn't raising her children properly. I wouldn't stay in that situation another second if I were you. You're being abused and she obviously has no control over her own kids. Stick around long enough and who knows what kind of evil s*it they'll probably end up doing to you.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 264 (view)

The Game and its effectiveness Posted: 11/12/2009 2:45:57 AM
I HATE those kinds of books. It's teaching men to be pathetic and basically do tricks like some sort of circus animal to get a new woman's attention. I can't stand all the back and forth head games that seems to be required to date someone. It's ridiculous. I don't do anything to capture anyone's attention. No games. I'm polite and act like a decent human being. To me that's all that's required if two people like each other. Making a fool out of myself over someone I don't know to get them to date me is a big no no in my book. I'd rather be alone and miserable forever than sink to that level. There's plenty of time for jumping through hoops for someone later on in a relationship when you actually care about them. lol.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 655 (view)

Very long hair on a woman is very femine and sexy, but few women have long hair Posted: 11/11/2009 7:27:23 PM
rdunton: That is a very excellent point and probably true.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 56 (view)

Another kissing question... Posted: 11/11/2009 7:25:06 PM
Any date I've been on always seems to end with the woman wanting a kiss and sometimes even more contact than that. This usually confuses me considering these same women say they want to wait a while before anything physical. I'm not big on rushing into things so it usually just irritates me and makes me wonder what else they lie about. I'd have to say it's probably safe to steal a kiss goodnight if the date went well in most cases given my experiences.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 18 (view)

Addicted Posted: 11/11/2009 7:14:27 PM
My guess is that being with someone who is very insecure and controlling is compelling him to possibly keep his options open. I can only assume that his profile is listed as looking for someone else if it upsets you so much. If it just says looking for friends then you have obvious trust issues that need to be addressed.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 473 (view)

Sarcasm red flag or not? Posted: 11/11/2009 4:36:39 PM
^^^^Total bulls*it. Sarcasm is a form of humor. When used in the above way it's argumentative and the sign of a failing relationship. Not sarcasm. Whoever wrote that is an idiot who doesn't know the difference between intentionally hurtful comments and humor. Anyone who tries to overthink sarcasm this much is weak and obviously dealing with SEVERE insecurity issues, trying to find blame anywhere but within themselves where it actually is. Pathetic if you ask me.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 470 (view)

Sarcasm red flag or not? Posted: 11/11/2009 10:53:13 AM
chitown: Quite the load of psychobabble. Not to mention insulting. There's nothing "passive" about it. Sarcasm isn't the same as cruelty or rudeness. I'm very rude and cruel and don't use sarcasm as some kind of an excuse. Sarcasm is just another form of humor. Both can bring pleasure in different ways but are completely different. Don't confuse the two. I know I don't.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 457 (view)

Sarcasm red flag or not? Posted: 11/10/2009 8:01:54 PM
Awww. The poor wittle insecure people can't take sarcasm. Boo Hoo. Personally, I LOVE sarcasm in a woman. Everyone has a preference. No need for all the psychobabble because you either have no sense of humor or just don't get it. Grow up.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 453 (view)

Sarcasm red flag or not? Posted: 11/10/2009 5:53:38 PM
^^^Paranoid much? You wouldn't be Vulcan by any chance?

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

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What's this I see, he says suspiciously ... Posted: 11/10/2009 5:51:50 PM
The ads are a bit much most of the time. I try to ignore them although the "get ripped abs in 3 weeks" one makes me laugh. Took a lot longer than 3 weeks for me to see abs. lol. There are no short cuts. Just hard work.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 46 (view)

Insecurity issues Posted: 11/10/2009 5:44:11 PM
OP: You should be proud that you lost weight and it makes me sad that you still have the insecurities that go along with it. I was the fat kid in school when I was young, so I feel your pain a bit. I look better now than I ever would have thought possible physically yet those old insecurities about your body will still creep in from time to time. Your pictures look great to me regardless of excess skin from losing weight. I can't speak for every man (but I bet a lot think this way) but I know when I'm into someone, I find everything about them beautiful, scars and all. If the man you're with is worth keeping he'll be crazy about the way you look no matter what, so be confident and proud of who you are and the weight you've lost. Just my two cents.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 137 (view)

Is she too young for me? Posted: 11/9/2009 10:49:50 AM
Great. Just what the forums needed. Yet ANOTHER thread to bash men and make them feel like crap for dating younger women. Amazingly hypocritical given the positive attitudes towards older women robbing the cradle in here most of the time. Threads like these should be removed before they even get a chance. There is NO point to them given the one sided insecure opinions that consistently spring up.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 51 (view)

How Many Of You Are Doing This? Posted: 11/8/2009 9:55:23 AM
Most people that say they won't "settle" and need the perfect mate not only seem to settle in the end, but usually end up with a complete train wreck of a person. I see it all the time. Funny how that works. Most people are too arrogant to see that anyone they date is also "settling" because they aren't so perfect either. That's why an open mind makes more sense than dismissing everyone for every ridiculous little reason. People that do this have other issues which need to be addressed before they are actually open to dating.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 451 (view)

Sarcasm red flag or not? Posted: 11/5/2009 6:07:36 AM
A big "red flag" are these people that think every single aspect of every single person's personality is a "red flag". These people obviously have extreme insecurities, are too suspicious of everyone and are best left alone.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 109 (view)

How to build chemistry with the nice guy after always going for the bad boy? Posted: 10/31/2009 11:39:39 AM
Rick: You scared me there for a second. lol. I'm with you on the classic car issue. As much as I hate the idea of polluting the environment, there's nothing like the power and beauty of classic automobiles (especially muscle cars). They are real works of art and great pieces of history in my opinion. Given that auto makers seem to be marketing cars with outrageously large engines and ridiculous amounts of horespower these days (which seems strange), I don't think I'd feel too guilty about taking your classic for a spin on the weekends if I were you.

cw35

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Msg: 99 (view)

How to build chemistry with the nice guy after always going for the bad boy? Posted: 10/30/2009 10:46:02 AM
Wow. I can't believe someone as old as you wrote this post. It sounds like a grade 9 girl wrote it. Guess it just goes to show that age doesn't always bring wisdom and maturity. Ricky: Don't do it! Hold onto that challenger for dear life my friend! Are you crazy? They're a rare find (and an expensive one) these days. Just my two cents.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 173 (view)

What sign goes good with an aries? Posted: 10/29/2009 6:04:11 PM
Why would I do "research" to find logical evidence of something completely nonsensical? That's ridiculous. This is the equivalent of calling me "uninformed" about a disbelief in Santa Claus and telling me to do research on him because you say he exists. No amount of reasoning or research can make things that are obviously imaginary become real to a sane and rational person. Some things in this world are imaginary and some things aren't. End of discussion. You can think or believe in anything your mind can conjur up but it doesn't suddenly make it real. It may eventually land you in jail or a sanitarium but it won't make it real. As far as love and other emotions go they are obviously a real thing because they are the result of real chemical reactions which we interpret in different ways. It's comparing apples and oranges.

cw35

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Msg: 168 (view)

What sign goes good with an aries? Posted: 10/29/2009 3:39:25 PM
The fact that people can take this kind of nonsense so seriously makes me realize just how little we've evolved. It's kind of sad really. To think a person's brain chemistry and the three chemicals which make up what we call our "personality" (or "soul" to people who believe in yet another ridiculous concept) are dictated by when you happen to be born or where a planet might be is utterly preposterous and you'd have to have the IQ of a two year old or be completely insane to take it seriously. Every sign I've ever looked at has something that applies to everyone and even then it's so far off it's laughable.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 156 (view)

What sign goes good with an aries? Posted: 10/28/2009 7:12:10 PM
Basing a relationship on a superstition seems silly to me. I can't believe it's 2009 and people still care about "sign" nonsense. Date who you get along with. Pretty simple.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 141 (view)

seeing guy for 2 months and he still on pof Posted: 10/28/2009 6:34:23 AM
Well I actually didn't "photoshop" my head onto anything (what purpose would that serve?) and anyone who thinks I have a "beefcake" bod must not have seen too many good bodies. I've been working out for a long time and I think it's kind of skinny. I've been doing p90x for quite some time and actually look a lot better than that picture now. I only decided to post a pic like that to show that I was thinner because a lot of women seem picky about that and I didn't want to mislead anyone. The only thing I did was change the background to black. brandnew: I don't think you're the one to be laughing at someone else's pics.

cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005

Msg: 531 (view)

Decent guys: are they all either taken or gay? Posted: 10/28/2009 6:27:19 AM
Gentle: You're pretty ignorant. Last time I checked you didn't have to be in a certain weight class to throw a heavy object, swing a bat or fire a gun (which are the things women are more likely to do when enraged). Good luck finding someone that wants to give you the time of day with you're shty man hating lies and bullst.

cw35

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Msg: 39 (view)

Asking someone out in a drivethrew ??? Posted: 10/28/2009 6:20:38 AM
Learning how to spell "through" first might impress her.

cw35

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Msg: 108 (view)

Wouldn't it be great... Posted: 10/26/2009 8:17:56 AM
...if we could wish all the people who annoyed us constantly into oblivion.

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