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Joined: 8/3/2007

Msg: 151 (view)

why do men say they love you? Posted: 9/24/2007 6:28:31 PM
So what about this scenario. Man says "I love you" after 2 months...and way after the sex started. But wants to take things slow. And us women are confusing...sheesh

Joined: 8/3/2007

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Ever have a crush on a cartoon? Posted: 8/29/2007 6:50:13 PM
Speed Racer! Completely. And I have a slight crush on Master Shake from Aqua Teen Hunger Force...it's something about that Shake that makes me all giggly.

Joined: 8/3/2007

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Compliment or insult? Posted: 8/16/2007 8:04:18 PM
it would be an insult...i think Especially since I just got a message saying Hey Sexy, would u like to chat. u r cute! Um...I don't even have a picture up

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Msg: 176 (view)

women always marking their territory. What the hell is that about? Posted: 8/13/2007 4:51:59 PM
I mean sometimes things are left behind..( I am bad with leaving my sunglasses) and I hate doing that cause I need them. but underware?..I would think one would need those before leaving someones house. Hey now, I did this once. Running late for work the next day, I couldn't find my underwear, so I left. I figured they'd so up eventually and I didn't want to spend the day searching. They did end up showing up. I still haven't gotten them back though.

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Msg: 41 (view)

Who should make the first move? Posted: 8/9/2007 6:22:40 PM
What? We're all adults? Since when? Seriously though, I'll make contact if I want to do so. The end. Actually as lame as this might make me sound, I find it easier to make first contact here than IRL. I can be a bit shy and stumble on my words. So yeah, if you're interested they make contact! But what do I know! I mean, I've been known to pay my own way as well as for a date.

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Advice wanted regarding a date i had last week Posted: 8/8/2007 6:31:18 PM
Okay, I could be an oddball here. But I met someone that I absolutely thought was a doll to look at and had wonderful conversations with prior to meeting. I was so taken with his attractiveness that it was hard for me to look him in the eyes. Seriously. I knew that if I did, he'd see me blush. I'm not saying that's the situation here, but while not making eye contact could me no interest, it could mean the opposite as well. sometimes we get too nervous to do the most obvious of things.

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Msg: 61 (view)

Does it matter what terminology is used? Posted: 8/8/2007 5:46:30 PM
What a glorious thread! Seriously! I call everything a date. Heck, when I met up with my ex husband's girlfriend for drinks one night, that was a date. But I agree that if there is something after the first "outing" then it is a date. If not, then a meeting. Sometimes it's an instant realization...sometimes it is not. There was this guy I was "dating" for a month. When it came down to it, he told me we were just hanging out. What? I was confused. But figured it was my skewed views on the dating world. A month of "dating" or "hanging out" equaled four outings. I could understand the misunderstanding. Recently I went on a second outing with another guy and he referred to it as our second date. So it's all individual and frankly it's all wacky

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How many dates are people actually going on from this site? Posted: 8/8/2007 4:42:22 PM
As in this is my forum only profile now, but before on my dating profile I had been on since April. I had corresponded with many men. Conversed on the phone with a limited amount but only have met 5. That being said, out of the five, three ended up being a one time meeting only (with two of those ending as friends-go figure); one just ended as quickly as it began; and the last one...well we're seeing where that goes at the moment. I'm sure there are people on here that are in it for the flattery aspect. I've read testimonies to that fact. However you can weed those out promptly. My protocol for this all is correspond by email; if that's good progress to phone calls then a meeting. Timing is an individual thing. Don't wait around forever though. And you better believe when I wanted to meet someone face to face I'd let them know. It would be crazy not to do so.

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So what does YOUR book state as the definition of dating Posted: 8/8/2007 10:32:04 AM
Nice little thread here! I hate the term dating!!! HATE IT! Because there is not definite meaning. We all know what a relationship is; marriage is; etc. Dating is so up in the air. As stated, communication is key. But what is most important is being honest in that communication. As in, if you are getting together with someone be honest about what you want and expect. Don't just give some lip service just to see this other person. that's almost as insane as not talking about it. but again, as stated before in a previous post and I agree, I know whether or not a "date" will be something I'd like to persue after date one. When I decide this, I date no others, but I don't use that fact to persuade the other party to do the same. This is how I operate and don't expect all to do so. If asked, sure, I'll tell that I'm dating no other. But in my mind, this conversation should be brought up prior. Everyone I date knows how I operate. I don't date excessively (for one, I'm a single mom and just don't have the time) and I don't sleep around. Whether they respect that or not is not my issue. I'm sure I had a point in all that rambling.

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