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Joined: 4/10/2005

Msg: 28 (view)

Older guys-Younger girls Posted: 8/8/2005 8:24:00 AM
Hi Tonik, I can't really agree or disagree with what you say as I am still a very young woman. I think your ethnicity and your family history plays a part also in the aging process even if like you say that'women age faster than men.'As I don't know if this is a scientific or biological fact. I feel in my personal opinion most older men gravitate towards younger women because older men when they hit mid-life feel old and inadequate as a man and want a young woman to feel virile and sexy again. Younger women on the whole don't really like men that much older than them. Most older men look old-many of them are bald, out-of-shape, graying and I have heard they are not really that great in bed either. Moreover, if a younger woman takes an older guy he has to look really good for his age. Most older men when they take a woman much much younger than they are are trying to reclaim a piece of themselves that was lost a long time ago.

Joined: 4/10/2005

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Looking for a gentleman Posted: 8/5/2005 8:52:59 AM
Hi Bearhugz 4u, I definitely agree with you to an extent concerning skylar. Sorry Sky. She is projecting the wrong image if she really wants a guy or guys to take her seriously. Her pic that she's posted would give any guy the wrong impression.

Joined: 4/10/2005

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Looking for a gentleman Posted: 8/5/2005 8:47:11 AM
Hi djhskylar2, I hear yah! Unfortunately it's getting harder and harder to find a gentleman now-these-days. Almost all the guys online with the exception of a few want to have a sexual encounter. Guys online aren't really looking for a committed-mature-honest relationship. They just want to have sex. Now no one is saying that we want a guy to be committed to us right-off-the-bat now. But I think you and I are on the same page when it comes to this subject. Be careful too some of these guys online are very convincing and when you really get to know them you'll see they are the biggest creeps.

Joined: 4/10/2005

Msg: 26 (view)

Older guys-Younger girls Posted: 8/5/2005 8:29:47 AM
Hi Tryingthisonce, I disagree with your statement 'that culture to younger women is rap music and going to Mcdonald.' This is a stereotype. Culture in my opinion is born and bred. It's either you have it or you don't. Culture also is not definitive of a person's: race or class. It also has a lot to do with exposure and education. Even when I was in my 20s and I've just now in my 30s. Going to Mcdonald's and listening to rap music wuoldn't have been my definition of culture.

Joined: 4/10/2005

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why do the jerks and nerds get the women???? Posted: 8/5/2005 8:13:03 AM
Hi Fun4u, Why do the jerks and the nerds get the women? Well this is a difficult question to answer! But here goes- it all depends on the person-the woman. Not because a person is in a relationship means that a person is happy. And not because a woman goes out with a guy- a nerd or a jerk means that she really likes that guy. People are in relationships with other people for different reasons. Some people are afraid of being alone, some people are in relationships because they are financilly taken care of by another person and some people have low self esteem or some people aren't finding the person they really want to be with- people with the qualities you've mentioned you possess and are just holding on until someone better comes along. So it may be a number of the above mentioned reasons. People aren't in relationships necessarily for the obvious reason you may think-love.

Joined: 4/10/2005

Msg: 26 (view)

wow, anyone getting isults for no reason? Posted: 6/17/2005 7:42:17 AM
Hi cinderella7475, You don't need to apologize for anything girl! Whether you fat or not you're confident and openminded enough to put your picture up. Hope you don't get discouraged by the negative responses you receive from some very insensitive folks! Pay them no mind. Girl if you're going to get a good, decent, honest man you're going to get one in due time. This guy is totally insensitive.

Joined: 4/10/2005

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do the majority of guys lie on these sites? Posted: 6/10/2005 10:58:17 AM
Hi Cinderella, Today not only over the net- which I feel is one of the most unsafe place to meet someone- but in real life people are not very honest. More so today as there is a breakdown in everything especially values. Moreover, if a man really wants you he's not going to be very honest with you most of the times! Not to say that all men are deceitful. Some people will tell you up front that their divorced and so on, but most people won't. You have to remember that you met this guy on the 'net.' No one you knew I figure knew this guy or his wereabouts. You're so very lucky that you didn't get yourself intimately involved with him! I commend you for that. I myself last year met a guy over the net - my very first real internet connection and he was very polite, told me everything I wanted to hear and seemed to be the perfect match for me in a sense. Like you we spent hours talking until one day he told me he met somone and he has to see he it goes with that person. We never actually met in person. But he impressed me so much that I felt we could have eventually been boyfriend and girlfriend. People especially women have to realise that the internet is 'not a very safe place' to meet anyone and so we should treat it as such. Not all men I feel are dishonest, but we must exercise precaution with meeting men online and believing what they say. Most men online are looking for casual sexual encounters and are not looking for a real relationship! I suggest that you try meeting more men offline- men who you may know a little bit more about their wereabouts. You can still talk to men online, but be careful. This goes to all young women out there -be CAREFUL!!!!

Joined: 4/10/2005

Msg: 40 (view)

What the F---! Posted: 6/10/2005 10:36:15 AM
Hi Crazy, I hear you! I myself am looking for a guy who can hold a decent and stimulating conversation with a great sense of humor. Keep looking! I think you guys are a bit hard on yourselves! Why are you guys so down on yourselves? Once you change your negative way of thinking and think more positive I feel you'll eventually get a friend. Who knows! It's not only the way a person looks that makes them attractive but how they feel about themselves. Most people on the net are loosers in the sense that they just wanna talk about sex. It's the net and it's difficult finding good people in real life much else here. Guys don't be so down on yourselves!

Joined: 4/10/2005

Msg: 39 (view)

What the F---! Posted: 6/10/2005 10:25:12 AM
Hi RickP, I don't have a pic but managed to get 4 penpals! I think sometimes you have to make the first move and not always rely on another person replying to you! Two of the 4 penpals responded to my profile and the other two I seeked out. Of course they don't write everyday or every week but on the occassions I have written to them they have responded to me. Think positive and don't be so down on yourself.

Joined: 4/10/2005

Msg: 161 (view)

Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 6/8/2005 8:24:45 AM
Hi Boss, I don't have a picture posted! The thing is I don't want to attract the wrong kinds of people. Moreover, I'm not quite comfortable with posting my picture as I'm a very private person to an extent! But if somone interests me I think I'll send them my picture via email. Anyway I was corrseponding with a guy for about 2 weeks and the third week he asked give me his number. I didn't call him, but the day we agreed to meet, I called him I liked his voice and decided to meet him. He never asked me for my picture. Wierd right! I knew what he looked like from his picture and profile, but he hadn't a clue what I looked like. He turns out to be ok. A simple guy who's looking for someone who cares for him .We're friends I don't feel I like him like that. But what I'm trying to say everything turned out ok. It's a risk meeting someone who doesn't have a picture, but we always know what we want or what we're looking for even before we ever really get or see it. So if you end up meeting a person who you don't like physically all you have to do is not go out with them anymore. That's all! That's what I tell people here if you don't like how I look we don't have to see each other again if we ever meet! Take care.

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