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Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Strangest thing you've ever caught yourself saying Posted: 9/28/2008 12:42:13 AM
This past August I went to a Ticats vs Argos game in Hamilton. Me and my g/f were lost finding our seats. We circled the stadium a few good times trying to find our spot. We were in full Argo's gear so we didn't want to approach the scary Hamilton fans so we found a group of security guard(very very good looking ones too) and I walked up to the one guards showed him my ticket which showed us to be sitting in 'G40-41' So I politely as him " I'm looking for the G spots, can you show me where to?" My g/f couldn't contain herself and that's when I realized what I just said. I must've turned 3 shades of red in 30 seconds.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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organ donation: if Posted: 2/17/2008 6:30:19 AM
I would no doubt have my organs doanted when I pass. The body and the 'contents' is really just your vehicle that use when on earth... what am I going to need it for when I die? I would much rather save 7 or 10 people than keep everything in the ground for the bugs and worms. Also makes you wonder that if someone who choses not to be a donor but then receives an organ if their views would change? I don't want to be kept alive with tubes and wires and such, let someone else have a chance. I think that would be the greatest honour to achieve.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Should Dr. Henry Morgenthaler should receive the Order of Canada? Posted: 2/16/2008 11:18:27 PM
Actually, The majority of women who are choosing (love that word) to have an abortion are women in their mid 20's and upto their 40's. Women who already have had their children and don't wish to bring another child into the world. Call a Pro Choice clinic and they will tell you the stats of the women who seek their services. Of course there are still women who are raped, and forced into incest and teens getting pregnant. But teen pregnancy is quite low compared to many years ago. I've always wondered why complete strangers would have so much interest in another strangers uterus?

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Should Dr. Henry Morgenthaler should receive the Order of Canada? Posted: 2/16/2008 1:22:42 AM
He should! The men in Government have been making this choice for women since 1869! In 1988 they finally found it that it infringes on a womans right. Dr. Morgantaler brought this to the forfront, in hopes that women don't have to go through unsafe practices. Between 1926-1947 as many as 6,000 women died from such unsafe abortions. Let's see... illegal abortions and thousands of women die, or legal, safe, clean professional abortion clinics where it's a routine procedure. I'm in favour where it's in the best intrest of the women and her rights. Which is what he has been fighting for nearly half his life. That man has done so much for Women's rights, he's almost 85 and has not stopped. Give him the medal that he rightfully deserves

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Anybody Had Their Tonsils Out Posted: 2/3/2008 2:26:49 AM
Had mine out last year. After about 20 something years suffering with Strep throat atleast 6-7 times a year. I would lose my voice then have to take days off work because I'm an operator. Went to the ENT who was shocked that I never had them out years ago. His exact words "looks like a cat tried to claw it's way out of your throat, that's how scarred your throat is" Booked surgery while I was due for vacation 5 days later. I was the first day surgery of the day and the last person to leave at 6PM. Had a bad reaction and was sick a few times on the nurse looking after me :( But the sleep you have after surgery is AMAZING! Recovery was longer due to my age and my Dr. advised me of that, I was off for a total of 2 weeks, lost 15 lbs. Was on a diet of a pudding a day and enough water to take my pain medication. Can't take T3's so I had the good stuff. Glad I had opted for the surgery, haven't had any throat problems since then. Pain wise- hurts more than you can imagine. At times the pain in my ears would wake me out a painkiller sleep in tears. If you have a weak stomach don't bother taking a look at what's left at the back of your throat... such a disgusting sight.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Night Shift.... Posted: 1/6/2008 2:40:47 AM
Currently sitting in work... I work both midnights on the weekends and days Tues-Thurs. With a 6 on 1 off then a 4 on 3 off alternating weeks. Same schedule for 5 years now. Because I'm an operator and work the phones with no other help, I love the question that all new employees ask "What do you do when you need to pee" (because we work alone at night) Now I just point to the garbage bin at desks, that usually gets them. I prefer to work the midnights. I can eat when I want, I can read at my desk, listen to what ever music I want... and best of all, no management on me!

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters! Posted: 1/5/2008 3:19:49 PM
OP, unless you were in the bedroom witnessing the conversation I'm going to take your word with a grain of salt. Sounds like your 'friend' was embarrassed she got played, lied to, tricked... whatever word makes her feel better. Have you personally spoken to the man in question and got his side of the story? And you sound just far too involved in someone elses matters.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

Msg: 266 (view)

Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters! Posted: 1/5/2008 3:24:06 AM
Oh geez.... There are far more important things that should be made into effect, tougher sentencing for gun crimes, wiping out the Young Offender Act, harsher penalties for drinking and driving causing death, longer jail time for animal abuse.... but hey... there are thousands of people who are 'hurt' by people after being misled lets throw those people in jail and throw away the key. Pffft Personally, if someone is sooooo wracked with emotion after being 'tricked' into a sexual encounter after many times of chatting, meeting and so forth she/he should be evaluated for her own good. Life goes on, don't believe everything someone tells you. If it sounds too good to be true... It very well is.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Ladies Nights Posted: 12/29/2007 11:16:18 AM
Well considering women pay more for things we need (clothes/beauty products/dry cleaning/haircuts) I think you have no room to complain about having to pay cover and drinks for your entertainment purposes. Don't like it, find a sports bar crammed with men fighting over a game hmmm a club with a tonn of women or a rammed sports bar??? Obviously there are men who don't mind Ladies Night

Vanessa~

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How do you feel when someone asks you about your friend in a picture? Posted: 12/25/2007 3:06:14 AM
Just recently I had a man inquire about my friend in my second pic. When I politely messaged him back stating she's taken... he messaged back saying that's too bad and that he can't even flirt with me now. I guess he knew it was not a good idea ask me about my friend. however, with that pic... her face isn't shown, the other pics of my other friends they know their pic is up here

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Does it bother you to be watched? Posted: 11/11/2007 2:44:13 AM
Whew... I didn't think there were many people who didn't like to be watched. Personally, I don't really like it. I'll put up with it, but it takes me out of my zone. And plus, I would rather my guest(s) see the final big picture so to say. Same goes for when I put my make-up on haha. (not that I can't go without it) It's odd though, since I LOVE watching the Food Network and watching other people cook. And I tend to take over someone elses kitchen too if their cooking... isn't that terrible? haha

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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hearing impaired???? Posted: 11/10/2007 10:59:30 PM
DC- Your friend's analogy was soooo spot on. I have Ménière's disease and as a result I live with fluctuating, progressive, unilateral hearing loss of the left ear. I can relate to struggling to hear and decipher what was actually said. I find myself turing my head to hear out of my right ear but that usually never helps. I wear a aid when I am out, but not in work since my aid doesn't have telecoil. As for whether or not it is 'right' for parents to decide to help, restore their child's hearing... I feel only a parent can make that choice when it comes to their own children. Parents make choices for their children since the minute their born to what name they have and what religion they will be. It's a family's decision that I am sure is not made on the spot. They're doing what they feel is best, and they shouldn't feel backlash from anyone who is not in their shoes.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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the real pedophile behind the profile Posted: 10/7/2007 11:38:14 PM
Actually Scorpio her posts relates to your post. I found her post to be quite humourous. It's shows the thought process you have.. she just put it into a different context. You cannot simply take a strangers word (which btw is coming from a strangers girlfriend whom you don't know) that there is a monster on here. News Flash... they're everywhere. And yes, this person in question who you don't know from Joe on the corner has rights. Like it or not.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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guys does this bother you about a girl Posted: 9/16/2007 10:40:11 PM
A few things... A) You weren't there... B) How do you know she displayed the same talents with her other b/f's C) Maybe she has found someone in which she can let her inner animal out. D) I think if she reads this, she's going to think you're an ass and you've blown it. E) You've cursed yourself if you ever hook up with someone from here. They're going to be so put off by what goes through your mind durring sex that your next partner is gonna be a dead fish in bed. I'm sure the next gentleman she chooses to be with will appreciate all of her.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Help...I have a very dysfunctional dog...any dog trainers around? Posted: 9/16/2007 9:45:45 PM
If you're still having issues with your pup I suggest contacting Bark Busters. They do in-home training with you and your dog. They're all over Canada and I checked to see where you're posting from and there is a few trainers in your area. If you go online to their Canadian site you can actually take a test to see how well your dog grades A-F. Good luck!

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Self-Proclaimed Pedophile Posted: 8/21/2007 11:57:33 AM
Very well stated Wise guy. It's nice to read posts that aren't full of anger. To the post above his, I think it's safe to say that every pedophile lives in fear of being murdered. His sexual deviance is not an easy one to swallow. But if he doesn't act on it it's not illegal. Is that right? of course not. Is killing someone because of their own sexual thoughts right? of course not. I think the anger and animosity on this thread would be better served if we concentrated our energies on lobbying for laws that protect children, not molesters. My thoughts exactly. And that's what should be done. But then again, killing someone is far too easier than lobbying for tougher laws right? I wonder which one would make your children proud of you?

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Self-Proclaimed Pedophile Posted: 8/21/2007 10:25:32 AM
some of you would rather wait for a child to be victimized before doing something. I think you and many others have it wrong here. What many people here are saying is that 'shoot em before they act out on their thoughts' which is absolutely the wrong thing we should be teaching our children. What people should be doing instead of plotting out the murder of someone is to fight to have laws changed. Change the laws in your area so that taking pictures of your children is against the law. Instead of focusing on the killing of someone else they should focus all their anger towards the law makers. Yes it would be nice if one bullet would take out all the monters who prey upon children but reality is it never will, it never will solve the problem, it never will take away the fact that children are being victimized. But fighting for your childrens rights will save children. I hardly think that any of the people here who are pro killing a person has ever written a letter to their lawmakers. Beause they are so quick to jump to pull a trigger first.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Self-Proclaimed Pedophile Posted: 8/18/2007 2:08:15 PM
Some things are just dead wrong I 100% agree with you and, and anyone who doesn't needs to give their head a shake. I don't think anyone here is disputing the fact that acting on desires of sexually harming a child is wrong. But so is killing another human being. What the few people are saying is that A- you cannot call out the murder of someone who thinks or acts out on their desires because that is just as wrong. B- Like any other mental illness these people need serious serious medical intervention. It's people like the majority of the posters in this thread that we have innocent people sitting in prison. Very quick to shoot first ask questions later. Again, no one here including me think what these people do is OK. And we are not trying to justify any actions. Also for the parents who would kill someone and risk their own freedom for their children tell me how effective that would be when there is only one of you and thousands of these people? And the only one to protect them is now sitting in jail? How would you then protect your children from all the others that are out there preying on your children?

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Self-Proclaimed Pedophile Posted: 8/13/2007 6:16:12 AM
It's extremely unfortunate that we do have live in a world where the most vulnerable are preyed upon. However, I firmly believe in being informed is just as good as being armed. The laws are not designed to treat these people with the treatment they need. Here in Canada we have a classic case of Peter Whitmore. Constantly being released and each and every time he is released he offends. Serves a few years they release him and he;s back at it. Obviously something isn't being done. And killing someone isn't the way to stop it, for we know that every 1 person we hear about there are 50 others hiding. I've seen on the news here and there EX- 'man molests 4 yr old daughter get 5 years' that to me is just as sick and twisted as the act itself. Yeah these people are the lowest of the low ever, but that doesn't mean they don't deserve our help. Maybe not yours directly, but being educated enough to know that killing off these people is not the solution. Talk about a knee-jerk reaction. I know there has been forms of sexual abuse within my family personally, but I am thankful for the education they've provided to me to understand that we need to educate ourselves not wipe these people out. I wonder how some of the people who are( pro) killing would feel if ever someone they know or a relative were to say they have sexual thoughts of children. It's a sickness, and not all sicknesess have a cure... but there are treatments. And I'm not saying every sexual offender should be let back into society because a lot if not most have proved they cannot be. But they do have rights. Rights to receieve treatment for their illness.

Vanessa~

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taking a day off work Posted: 5/26/2007 2:28:46 AM
I've had to do that once... We hadn't seen each other for about a month. Needless to say we had some catching up to do. By the time I hit the pillow it was 5ish and I had to be up for 6. There was no way I could get by on a hour sleep after that night. Well worth missing a days worth of pay.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Romantic sportsmanship Posted: 5/26/2007 1:54:23 AM
That would be the ideal thing to do. I can see that happening if things were left on good terms. Unfortunately I don't think that would happen with most people in my age group. I wouldn't recommend sending off all relationships that way... may seem a lil passive. Well to me is does at least.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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What part of a man's body do you find the most attractive? Posted: 5/26/2007 12:46:28 AM
mmmm men..... I actually find the mouth highly attractive, but.... I like a certain look. Think Bruce Willis. You know how he has those lines on either side (and it's not because he's 50... he had those lines back in his Die Hard days) And the other part you would have to see him with his shirt off for it. But the 2 dimple like spots right near the tail bone. And the hands of course, because nothing is sexier than a nice pair of hands finding all the right spot to touch.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Whats his deal??? Posted: 4/9/2007 7:18:49 AM
All else is a game, and from the writ of it Vanessa~, its one you enjoy playing with your Ex's, rubbing it in their faces, blatently or not to their preceptions. Using hapiness as a weapon with a tainted edge, its very despicable. Please do not assume that I play games because I wish to not let a man pull me down, and I choose to go about my life. Unless this person has committed a heinous crime and I couldn't forgive him I see no logical reason for erasing someone out of my life like they never existed. Yes, they are Ex's for a reason, but in that same breath... they were apart of your life for a reason. In the Op's case it was a simple request for them to have a committed relationship. Surely not a request that is asking too much. He chose to not oblige and she chose to call it off. How is that not a clean break all in it's self? Clearly not a logical reason to swear him out of her life. So he called and he was taken aback by her 'happiness' OH NO! .... The nerve of her to answer the phone and sound chipper! Well ... he should definitely now block/delete/erase/forget all about her for 'playing games' Oh and BTW... Whats next, more sugar coated AIDS? talk about something totally irrelevant. But anyways... I would never put a break up and AIDS into the same basket like you just did. I know the complete difference but thank you for such an odd analogy EDIT Guys with massive egos can get nutty and you do want him to go away, right? THANK YOU!!! if she was to block and make him vanish from her life totally I would bet the farm that he would not go away so easily had he not heard that she's actually doing ok.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Whats his deal??? Posted: 4/8/2007 11:21:04 PM
Firstly, you should of broken clean from your Ex. That means ALL of their personal stuff is gone and all the relationship memorabilla is removed on your terms. That means changing your number if necessary. That means if he contacts you, then explain it in CONCRETE TERMS that its over, and any involvement by the Ex or friends of, is intrusive and unwanted. No lee way, no what ifs, might have beens, or resurection of positive emotions toward your Ex. It doesn't matter whom left whom and why, ITS OVER! WOAH!!! a lil much over a break up don't ya think? She didn't say that beat her up and called her nasty names and kicked her dog or anything... so I don't see the deal in being so harsh. My ex whom even cheated on me still has not been blocked/deleted/erased from life totally. And I even went through a similar thing with him getting in contact with me after I broke up with him and he was curious as to why I was doing so good. You hurt his ego, that's all... he had it in his mind that you must have been a totall wreck after the break up and was probably expecting you to reach out and call first. Good for you for not doing that. Happiness is the sweetest revenge!

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Breaking up with a Fcuk Buddy while still single Posted: 1/14/2007 6:09:40 AM
Top ten things a man can do to feel instantly better about himself. Number One on the list was "Say NO to a slut". oh for fvck sakes! Can you men please grow up and get a clue!... if you're sleeping with a 'slut' what the hell does that make you? Just love how men have this image of them being better than women... OT- There is nothing to break up, nothing to divide up between each other. Say your thing and move on.

Vanessa~

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Women using less cosmetics[makeup] Posted: 1/13/2007 11:26:55 PM
It's not so much that women are using less... I think it's the colour selection. The colours that are in are more muted than a few years ago. I remember watching my mom apply her makeup when I was a kid (in the 80's) and the colours... oh man... pinks, yellows, greens, blues and that was just the eyelids lol I wear make-up... but it's more to compliment my features than to change em all together.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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education versus intelligence? Posted: 1/13/2007 11:04:53 PM
“To repeat what others have said, requires education, to challenge it, requires brains.” One of my favourite quotes. I have many friends who have gone onto university and all they do is repeat exactly what they've been taught.... but ask them their opinion and they cannot form one for the life of them. I would gladly date/settle down with someone who has not gone onto university, sometimes earned streetsmarts are higher in value than any post education could ever be worth.

Vanessa~

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Do You Believe in Suicide? Posted: 1/13/2007 12:45:56 AM
For personal reasons there is only one time where I'm glad someone took their own life, after he took my cousins life in front of her children he then committed suicide. Had he not I'm sure I would be visiting some family in jail. I've had one childhood friend take his life, I was much to young to understand the impact of it all. Still to this day I think for that moment in time my memory is paused at that age when I think of him and what could have been going through his mind. I believe in dying with dignity, I've told my mom and some family if I get to the point of sickness where I'm only living because a machine is helping me, I don't wanna be around anymore then. There is a very good documentary filmed at Toronto Grace Hospital called Dying At Grace (or Dying with Grace) great true story of patients who know the outcome and they are just waiting to ... really... die. Visiting my Nan there only made me positive I don't want to be a burden to my surviving family.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Weird but true Posted: 1/13/2007 12:22:27 AM
G-d damit... then I never ever want a tall dark and handsome Firefighter to cross my path. Me and my g/f's all know this... when you're finally getting nice and close to a guy you like, it seems as if all the cuties from your past seem to sense that you might actually be happy and they just gotta try and butt in! Always happens. We live in a cruel cruel world sometimes.

Vanessa~

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Oprah's $40 million dollar school... Posted: 1/9/2007 2:50:38 PM
I THINK I WOULD WANT TO USE IT TO BENIFIT MORE,MAYBE IN THE REALM OF HUNGER,POVERTY,MEDICAL CARE Oh so a band-aid type deal? yeah that's great and wonderful, but... how about giving children the tools to change that. They are after all Mine and yours future (I don't know how many times I heard that growing up and now I finally see) These children are going to get best kind of education they could ever possibly dream of. Just think about all the good things these kids will achieve thanks to someone like Oprah. Isn't that the main point... there are now 100 or so (plus many more in the coming months) children who are now getting educated. Can you not comprehend what good these children will do with their new found education? It's not about money.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Oprah's $40 million dollar school... Posted: 1/8/2007 4:36:17 PM
This is to Keljo... after reading a few of your posts I can't help but get the feeling of being selfish 'MY' this... MY country, MY U.S.A, MY Schools... this is the difference Oprah is NOT selfish and she clearly sees where there is need of help. She has done her duty to YOUR country countless and numerous times, much more than many of your neighbours have. Give her credit where credit is much due. I still can't believe there are people here arguing over the fact of a DONATION! (personal time and money) (edit) Sorry if this came off harsh, that was not my intent by anymeans.

Vanessa~

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Msg: 64 (view)

Oprah's $40 million dollar school... Posted: 1/8/2007 3:23:50 PM
To all the critics who chose to say how and where Oprah should spend her own earned money... We should all be thankful that there is someone who is so generous with her money that she wants to help children who otherwise would never have such an opportunity. This lady has been through so much and has done so much in her lifetime... let her spend her own money the way she chooses to. Makes me ill to read about people whining about this and that when she just donated $40M !!!! For education!! Think about it... whether it's in your country or not... she is making sure that children who really really want this will have their dream come true.

Vanessa~

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The question that has been on my mind all these years... Posted: 1/5/2007 7:08:26 AM
I have no idea when we gals 'take our relationship to that level' lol. I've always known women go to the restroom in pairs/groups. Even in middle school we all went in pairs (buddy system I think). Plus we use stalls and sometimes you don't notice until it's too late that it has no tissue so you need your friend who is using the next stall to hand you some.

Vanessa~

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Quirky things... Posted: 12/31/2006 2:42:37 AM
* brush my teeth in the shower * I slide my feet backwards on the floor to take my socks off * Food on the plate cannot touch other food * I can't touch cheese * When I sit on the couch I never lean back, I sit on the edge with my chin resting in my hands and elbows on my knees * There always has to be a window open in my house especially after a shower and durring sleep. * I strain salsa to take the chunks out * I clean my house in the exact order all the time, step by step * I have to wear 2 pairs of socks... all of the time * I didn't notice this until someone at work pointed it out... I swish my tea in my mouth when I take a mouthful. * I'm a product junkie- soaps, shampoo/conditioner/lotions

Vanessa~

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Women can be really shallow. Posted: 12/23/2006 5:43:51 PM
Don't be just as immature by bashing her. How is she being immature? I think she is being quite intelligent by not going forward with this relationship that has potential to be a disaster. However.... she is 19! But even if she was 19 or 39 dating a boss who is pushy is a nono! This woman has some deep-seated issues. Please don't quit your day job.... you summed up this OP's own view of this situation to the woman having deep-seated issues??? I hope you don't charge people for your advice. Take a step back and cast aside your own personal related issues and think about this 19 young female who is living the last of her teenage years 33 year old man who has his own clock ticking 19 year old female is a co-worker working under the 33 year old man 33 year old man clearly has a thing for this younger women he continues to pester and try and persuade the younger co-woker into considering a possible long lasting relationship She in other words says no... he doesn't get the picture.... Can you not smell a sexual harassment lawsuit?? I'm all for May/December relationships. Don't get me wrong.... but in this case the "boss chasing the co-worker' takes trump over a May/December anyday.

vanessa~

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Women can be really shallow. Posted: 12/18/2006 1:44:58 AM
Also to add........ But all of these men can pick and choose Wouldn't that make those men 'shallow' also, after all that's what this woman in question is doing too? If that's your definition of being 'shallow'

vanessa~

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Women can be really shallow. Posted: 12/18/2006 12:23:27 AM
b) You're 33 and you want to find a woman who will appreciate you for who you are. She's 19 or 20 and is flitting around clubs, flirting with "hotties." ========================= You still miss the poitn m dear. This girl is grizzling she can't find a quality committed mature guy, around the bars when theres the perfect right man right under her silly nose. Funny that the only person who thinks the OP has the slightest chance is a 50 year old man. You know, us women (or just me for that matter) have this way of letting 'nice guys' know that we're not interested in them by confiding in them our problems about other men. This is not a matter of 'nice guy' not getting the girl.... this is about a man who is in a boss type position fawning over a much younger women. Sounds like infatuation on his behalf. He is caught up in the fact that a younger attractive female is letting him in on her woes with men. Of course she thinks he's a nice guy.... he is there listening to her problems. He should do the smart thing and tell her that maybe she should talk to her g/f's about her men problems as this seems to be affecting their work relationship. (by 'their' I mean his). Leave her alone and let her figure out her problems and learn from mistakes, she doesn't need advice from a man who has other intentions.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Women can be really shallow. Posted: 12/17/2006 12:27:28 PM
What's wrong with this is... this is a young co-worker and you know way too much. If I was her and in her position I would have said something to management about your behaviour. And I'm going by what you wrote. She is young and not tied down to anyone, I'm sure you were the same way when you were around her age. BTW... she has clearly told you in other words that you and her will never happen. IE- venting to someone about her 'single' life and not taking you up on your offers is one huge hint.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Can't Outsmart A Newfie Posted: 12/4/2006 3:29:28 PM
SUBJECT: Can't Outsmart A Newfie A Newfie went hunting one day in Ontario and bagged three ducks. He put them in the bed of his pickup truck and was about to drive home when he was confronted by an ornery game warden who didn't like Newfies. The game warden ordered the Newfie to show his hunting license, and the Newfie pulled out a valid Ontario hunting license. The game warden looked at the license, then reached over and picked up one of the ducks, sniffed its butt, and said, "This duck ain't from Ontario. This is a Quebec duck. You got a Quebec huntin' license, boy?" The Newfie reached into his wallet and produced a Quebec hunting license. The game warden looked at it, then reached over and grabbed the second duck, sniffed it's but, and said, "This ain't no Quebec duck. This duck's from Manitoba. You got a Monitoba license?" The Newfie reached into his wallet and produced a Manitoba hunting license. The warden then reached over and picked up the third duck, sniffed its butt, and said, "This ain't no Ontario duck. This here duck's from Nova Scotia. You got a Nova Scotia huntin' license?" Again the Newfie reached into his wallet and brought out a Nova Scotia hunting license. The game warden was extremely frustrated at this point, and he yelled at the Newfie, "Just where the hell are you from?" The Newfie turned around, bent over, dropped his pants, and said "You tell me, you're the expert."

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Are moments of fear part of a women's life every day? Posted: 11/24/2006 8:10:09 AM
Well if I am afraid or have fear in me... I never let it show. Took a self defence class and was told the worst thing to do is walk alone with your head down, or not being fully aware of your surroundings. Have never crossed the road to avoid a man/persons for the sake of fear... for many reasons. If I cross the road 10-20 ft before I actually see you up close... how will I identify you had you attacked me after I cross the road? Most likely I will be attacked from behind after he sees that I have totally avoided him, he will know that I didn't get a good look at him which makes his 'job' easier. I will walk right towards you, and look at you... make note of clothing, scent... everything. I work midnights and walk to work, I take the same route (so the regular ppl that I see out always know that I will be passing them roughly the same time) I never walk with ear buds in my ears at night time, never have my hair in a ponytail, or my purse drapped over my shoulder. There are better ways to feel less fearful, but avoiding it totally is giving up your power.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Pap test Posted: 11/24/2006 8:02:54 AM
heheh (inside and out). is that supposed to be pun intended?

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Pap test Posted: 11/24/2006 6:00:07 AM
Oh dear! Go get one done. I remember my first one... not bad at all. My mom made me go when she found I was sexually active with my b/f. The Dr was very understanding (I was 16) I was given loads of information. If not for sexual reasons you should always have a pap done... And someone please correct me if I'm wrong, but I've heard if you're a healthy female with healthy sex life (1 constant partner) and under the age of 30 a pap every 18 months is good. Over 30 regardless of anything a pap every 12 months??? In the past year or 2 I've had a few ovarian cysts rupture so I've had my share of pap tests. PS.... ask your Dr to warm up the speculum under the light. Oh and no douching!!!!

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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curious? Posted: 11/24/2006 5:49:50 AM
Cheat on my wife? What are you talking about... I tell everyone that I am married and have nothing to hide This is a whole other debate.... but just because you tell everyone (aside from your wife who is worth 10000 and a 2000 sq ft home) that you're married does not make what your doing considered 'not cheating' The point that everyone is trying to make is the fact of expression vs worth. A engagement should never break your budget, if I was with a man and he proposed to me with a ring that has now busted our savings... I wouldn't be the most happiest person. I would be furious at him not understanding the importance of starting our life off together on the right foot. For the 10 yr mark... then maybe a nice upgrade. But at the begining when we're just getting established... no way. I want what has been a tradition for most of the women in my family, most of them have been proposed to by their husbands grandmothers/mothers engagement ring. My mom's engagement ring was just appraised at over 12000 and it's only white gold. Then spending the money on the wedding ring to custom fit the engagement ring was costly enough. If you can live above your means, then good on ya.... but someone like the OP's age will usually not find someone who can fork over that kind of money... unless she wants a more older well established man.

Vanessa~

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Crucial spelling errors.... Posted: 11/20/2006 1:28:18 AM
yeah... maybe a few months ago, chatting with someone on MSN... he was about to leave for a night shift and we were saying our 'goodnights'... and I typed to to him "Have a good shit" (was supposed to be shiFt) :O I was sooo red, I hoped he didn't notice it, but then he typed back "Do you want me to call you and tell you about it too? lol" just that one letter can turn it into something so dirty

*Dolce*

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Over-plucked eyebrows on women !! Posted: 11/19/2006 7:18:19 AM
^ lmao.... Oh dear! that got me laughing outloud.... next time I see a chick with the pointy eyebrows I'm gonna imagine that.

*Dolce*

Joined: 4/11/2005

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The Marcel Proust Questionaire Posted: 11/19/2006 2:30:54 AM
1) What is your idea of perfect happiness? To be fully content with myself, my choices, and where I lead my life 2) What is your greatest fear? Being alone, with no family left 3) Which historical figure do you most identify with? 4) Which living person do you most admire? My mother 5) What is the trait you most deplore in yourself? I cannot organize for sh!t 6) What is the trait you most deplore in others? Not having basic common-sense 7) What is your favorite journey? Have not reached that point yet. 8) What do you consider the most overrated virtue? too trusting. 9) Which living person do you most despise? I've learned to forgive... so no one at this moment. 10) Which words or phrases do you most overuse? Eh! *I'm Canadian... so I can get away with that. 11) What is your greatest regret? Letting 'him' go 12) When and where were you happiest? When I was with 'him' 13) What is your current state of mind? I'm actually tired. 14) If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? To actually 'listen' to others and not just 'hear' 15) What do you consider your greatest achievement? Being as independent as I am 16) What is your most treasured possession? Photo albums. 17) What is your most marked characteristic? I'm very perceptive. Everyone knows that ;) 18) What is the quality you most like in a man? Humour 19) Who are your favorite writers? Deaver 20) Who is your favorite hero of fiction? 21) What is it that you most dislike? Animal cruelty 22) What is your motto? Listen without defending, speak without offending.

*Dolce*

Joined: 4/11/2005

Msg: 52 (view)

Over-plucked eyebrows on women !! Posted: 11/19/2006 12:20:05 AM
Aside from the obvious reason of eyebrows giving expression... they serve an even better purpose. They keep sweat, rain, and debris out from your eyes. I remember in highschool this girl sitting in the cafe who just got in from the rain and her eyebrows were running down her face... I never understood the whole idea of removing them in the first place then drawing them back on in a different spot and an un-natural shape.

*Dolce*

Joined: 4/11/2005

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Ok, I'm gonna get a visible tat... Posted: 11/4/2006 1:48:01 AM
and nowadays, you have to be very careful not to go someplace that might be using "dirty" needles. Quite the opposite I must say. Tattoos are so mainstream now shops cannot afford to be running a sh!tty shop. I've never stepped foot in a shop that was run poorly. (I have 6 and counting) Now when my dad was getting tattooed 'back then' you had to worry about stuff like that. To the OP, 5 of my tatts are hidden. This summer I became more brave with the placement of my last 2 and had them done inside both wrists. I am comfortable in my choice and thought about it for a year before I chose to put them there. Mind you my dad wasn't too pleased with my choice lol

*Dolce*

Joined: 4/11/2005

Msg: 18 (view)

Babysitting Fees - what do you pay ? Posted: 11/4/2006 1:31:48 AM
When I was 14-17 I babysat for a neighbour, picked up his kid from school and watched her in his home. Made sure homework was done and dinner fed, and room tidy for about 3-4 afterschool 5 days a week. I got paid once a week $200.00 Only because that was like a part-time job. if I babysat for someone else over night it was usually at the most $50. But that was their choice. Over nights we usually were paid higher. And late school nights were the same. I always found parents to be very generous in our neighbourhood. But please, for the parents who know their children can be a bit of a handful... consider that when paying your sitter. Especially if you plan on asking the teenage-sitter to sit for you again lol.

*Dolce*

Joined: 4/11/2005

Msg: 22 (view)

Why do women always try to redecorate a man’s home? Posted: 10/31/2006 2:48:50 PM
froo froo stuff purple flower wreath hanging on the wall a yellow daisy toaster coozie on my toaster Then sheets get little flowers on them! long curtains that go to the floor with a big fricking bow sash on them Stop dating old women from the Bingo Halls. All that is terribly tacky and outdated lol.

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