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I don't do separated...
Posted: 11/5/2007 6:42:18 AM | | I'm listed as separated but I completely agree with you! My own husband used to tell people we were separated and/or "getting divorced" while he was running around on me. (even though we'd never discussed it!) He's lived with his mistress since May, and *I* filed for divorce in July after giving him every opportunity to make things right with us. Our divorce is supposed to be final this month. But who knows if that will actually happen on time. But I respect people 100% who choose not to interact with me because of my legally married status. I do have plenty of copies of my divorce petition though to prove my story, unlike most of the people who are "separated and divorcing". From what I've experienced, those people say what they want to justify their adultery, and often times their spouse has absolutely no idea about it. Like someone said, I think WAY too many people use it as a way to be "married but looking". Even though my situation is completely honest and valid, I realize that many more aren't. | | | |
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