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Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

Msg: 6 (view)

Lock me in the stocks and critique this profile, please! Posted: 1/8/2008 7:49:27 PM
I love your profile just the way the way it is- except for the love at first sight stuff/its too rare. Wish more guys wrote that way.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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I know MANY here would never again... Posted: 1/5/2008 4:17:18 PM
Why yes!- heres a popular alternative to those pesky rings and includes a armor+100 bonus against all that dangerous equipment, machinery and those power tools. http://www.neosteel.de/

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

Msg: 1681 (view)

Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 1/4/2008 5:00:57 PM
Its brave? - I didn't know that! The first time I spoke to someone on a computer ( alright it was a terminal) was in the 70's. I guess no pic just seems normal or familiar to me. Pics are fine and no pics are fine with me. From there its about profile and mail content and substance, something of interest. The only pics I don't care for are blurry, out of focus, dark, too light, funny pixels, etc. clearly from different ages especially when the main pic is from some more youthful time in life. Pics make for annoying pic collectors with nothing in common and no interest beyond the surface. And they get pissy when you turn them down! A males home phone number is more important. An actual determining factor. Yes great dates from no pics.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Easy super meal for those when they are strapped for cash and looking in the cupboards Posted: 1/4/2008 4:31:20 PM
Once I heard a story that some fellows subsisted on giant bags of costco beans and rice while working on a little thing called google... Heres something tastier but not for the spoiled from my time at the Uni. Get a big stock pot. Add chicken. Add rice. Add a yellow vegetable. Add a green vegetable. Cook. Stick in refrigerator and pull out a cupful when you're hungry. You don't have to cook everyday. Leaves lots of time for more important stuff.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

Msg: 59 (view)

The Car you prefer driving: What is it? Posted: 12/29/2007 8:15:33 PM
Actual real life preference?- whatever runs and theres a mechanic who knows how to work on it. Moneys no object? lambo murcielago or an atom type 1 or a tommykaira.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Review please Posted: 12/29/2007 7:06:07 PM
You're cute- could be your profile. Flesh it out, sweeten it up a bit, clarify a few points. Your handle, not warm and inviting. The only literary reference I can think of. .. well read the wikipedia article. Pics- you're claiming photography skills. To my eye, if I were quickly glancing at my mail, says he still lives at home.Thats just the impression from the wall decorations and wood paneling- I didn't say it was correct, only that folks spend a few secs sizing up profiles. So since you're a photographer, get more than pic, indoor , outdoor. Since you claim thin , show it in a pic. Smile in at least one pic. If you do live at home, think up some reasons why it wouldn't interfere with dating. Cars are a draw. If you have a car, mention driving. You have a lot of interests many of which I would like and my friends teen kids would like, however its a bit heavy on image/fantasy stuff. Are there any interests girls and 20- something years generally like? Leave out what friends say you are, everyones friends says nice things about them. Include something in your own words and skip the adjective-list. Can you think of something in your own words besides your brand of wit combined with wanting a gal that is funny with a sense of humor? Include it instead.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Please review my profile Posted: 12/29/2007 6:23:25 PM
"my profile smelt of me still being raw from divorce." same impression here. How longs it been since the divorce?

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Why shouldn't men be put off by a tomboy? Posted: 12/29/2007 5:15:46 PM
I wouldn't use the word revulsion but its curious that brought it up... I'm not sure I have your answer but I know why cds get turned down by the more savvy, liberal and um...classy- dressing ladies. I thought about telling you why , but since you're not a cd, theres no point. Oh well.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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irriated and restless... and, and angry?? Posted: 12/27/2007 12:19:58 AM
Theres too many things you'd have to rubber-stamp as "okay". I'd drop him, leaving him to sort out his "stuff". Yeah, snapping at the girl is a red flag. Not being being able to handle at the movies is not promising. I'm sorry because you were liking him; but irritated, complaining, restless, snapping, giving his date a chill, thats way over the top and I don't you need to spend a second-guessing yourself. Date behavior or first date behavior is as good as it gets before they let hair hang down- follow my drift?

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Double Standard & Discrimination: At 50 date 20s! Posted: 12/26/2007 11:14:36 PM
When 20 something year girls chase 40/50 something year old guys just like 20 something year old boys chase 40/50 something year old ladies , I'll give your question a proper hearing. 'Til then, it sounds a lot more like sour grapes than a double standard. Its more like girls will be girls and boys will be boys.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Shopping Meetup Posted: 12/26/2007 1:27:48 PM
Usually unwelcome like hitting on random chicks who were trying to do other stuff. Kinda like this...Question to OP Say, is that "new leather" interest stuff and "unexpected fun and fool'heartiness" date idea on your profile supposed to be bdsm? If so, would that be rack or edge play? Its all so vague...

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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When is time to meet family and friends? Posted: 12/26/2007 12:52:40 PM
"Want to see this whole thing from different perspectives." This is my perspective. Just my opinion. There are three basic dimensions to relationships. 1) How much time each wants to spend with the other. Both happy with it or not? 2) The question "Who else is included when?" Differences here. 3) The matter of respective rights. Differences here. Another thing I personally would have a problem with is that you seem to be going steady/exclusive but only as it suits him. http://www.divorcerecovery101.com/going_steady.htm Mebbe you'd like to read over this page and see if you like anything. Its more about going steady/ being exclusive than divorce and doesn't appear to be a dating site.( Almost forgot, I'd skip the click on links.) Other folks have addressed that it may only be embarrassment about something. It's late in the game to not have met his "people" other than relatives from abroad who may not be very familiar with his home-life. To me, so far, it seems like separate lives, weekend bennies, and the someday-syndrome. Hope this helps and everything works out for you. Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Why do men do this?? Posted: 12/23/2007 4:52:28 PM
Ah... the "little black book". Dump 'em. Everything not cool! They blew their chances. And now they want back...? I don't get it either & others have come along since . Its sad when they're long forgotten about and don't know it, isn't it...?

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Meeting at your/his house on first date Posted: 12/22/2007 9:48:55 AM
The only poll I found on "whats your ideal first date?" says home is chosen under 3% of the time with dinner, dinner and a movies or movie around 85 % and bars around 5% and dancing around 5%. So public locations are chosen over 97% of the time. Meeting an internet stranger at home is too risky for most folks.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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18 and still in hs Posted: 12/19/2007 10:55:09 AM
"California - 18; unless child still in high school, then on graduation or 19th birthday which ever occurs first." This is from 1999- did they change the law on age of majority since?

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Is it ok to leave up pics of deceased spouse when children still at home? Posted: 12/17/2007 7:12:20 PM
Most everyone will tell you ,well what they said. And its true if you aren't ready to date again. Otherwise, if you are ready- put the pics in the kids rooms , for the kids sakes,and get out and date.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

Msg: 38 (view)

Penciling in a possible relationship? Scheduling romance? Posted: 12/17/2007 4:18:13 PM
What is wrong with you!? Your profile stipulates coffee not a date. A hour and a half is generous. You had a perfectly good hour and and half for just coffee meet, not a date , went out out your way to make sure she was still showing and then YOU back out in a huff. I'd totally dump you.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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What to say to her? Posted: 12/14/2007 5:02:17 AM
Also relevant. Lots first check profiles before opening mail and if theres no profile just dump the mail.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Calgary cellphone user rings up $85,000 bill Posted: 12/13/2007 3:14:24 AM
"Bell Mobility charges its customers $8.95/month "System Access Fee"[6] which to some customers appears to be a federal tax. This fee is of a higher amount in comparison to other cellular carriers which charges $6.95/month. It is explained by the carriers as a charge to cover costs involved with network maintenance and upgrades. Bell and other Canadian mobile companies are currently involved in a $800 billion class action law suit on the matter.[" paste and cut from wiki*pedia article on "bell mobility" Think he can get in on the class action suit? A charge to cover costs involved with network maintenance and upgrades? I think he picked the wrong plan.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Playboy Facts - Raw Data - sex on first date Posted: 12/12/2007 11:21:59 PM
""The study used a survey placed on various online dating services and targeting women. The survey was completed by 740 women of which 568 said they had met someone in person. While 30% had sex on the first date, some were specifically looking for that.""---off the internet from the source you quoted. Gee - you think (?) they targeted specific sites instead of the general public? Anyone can put together a poll thats non-representative of the general public and keep polling until they get the "faqs" they're looking for...Most statistics and polls I've come across produce a much lower percentage. Two thumbs down.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Can somebody explain this to me? Posted: 12/11/2007 4:05:01 AM
Shes upset because you got ahead of yourself. The internet isn't" friends". Real life is friends. Theres no such thing as "meet on an internet site". That said, I kinda' doubt it was outta' the blue. The internet is only a preliminary /intial contact/screening to see about if mebbe theres a real life prospect. Shes upset because she thought you thought she was worth meeting as a FRIEND and then_ mebbe_....no pressure, no expectations. You haven't even met but upped the ante to romantic prospect too soon. Often this condition comes hand-in hand with undesirable meet location/activity demands. You haven't even met and given real life friendship a chance. Which her her wish. Holding out for a prospects of romance/sex /a sure thing before meeting in real life gets a lot of fellows dumped. Until you meet in real life, you're really just some stranger on the internet. As far as meeting "somewhere else for that matter" again, its not the same thing. Theres no comparison to meeting in real life vs. on the net. In person, you're yourself; on the net, you could be literally anybody. Shes right to not lead you on if you haven't met in real life. To do otherwise is to invite hassles especially since you already have a complaint or an objection or expectation.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Why are men attracted to the Drama Queens???? Posted: 12/11/2007 2:47:38 AM
Yeah.. I know. I asked them. Their answer. Crazy fun! ...sound like anyones dumber emails requests?

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Women don't really want friends. Posted: 12/11/2007 2:41:34 AM
Duh... its no lie. Girls don't give ALL their guy friends a shot at sex. They get a shot at friendship- what the heck is wrong with that? Didn't she forwarn you? Not her fault some guys didn't appreciate the 'shot' of her offer of friendship just because their was no sex reward just furniture moving - & as if I really think she has furniture to move eveytime she meets somebody new! What like once a twice a week- get real. Friendship is its own reward. A guys buddies are friends (usually) with no expectation of sexual favors. __Treat it the same way and there will be no disappointments___ or 'shatup' and pass on the gals offers of "friendship first, later* mebbe. They're weeding out jerks who don't give a sht , just wanna a quick easy piece of a** at their expense. Its easy enough to see that anyone unhappy was only in it for the 'I'll get her in the end' aspect of it which weren't the terms she offered. If it happens, anyone running a guilt trip on her for being upfront but actually only in it for the payoff of sex deserves to get dumped as a user. Treat them the same way you treat other friends except you can't punch them in the arm. / /

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

Msg: 34 (view)

Gun Enthusiast - Should I worry? Posted: 12/11/2007 1:48:19 AM
Main rule. When you get a chance check out his place. If the guns are up in a locked cabinets or display case. No excess ammo. * No 'cranking' talk 'bout this that wrong with the country, etc. Good.* Guns loaded laying around all the the house. Bad. Runs his month crankin' on everything -bad. Coin dealers need guns on their person. Bakers don't.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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I'd like a woman's opinion on a small matter Posted: 12/9/2007 2:03:51 AM
A few days and you're getting anxious?! Dude, you only have 8 different relationship options on your profile. Get real. Theres no opinion until you make yourself available for one.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Saturday night...I'm bored and he's asleep on the couch, again! Posted: 12/8/2007 6:45:43 PM
Gee I'd be bored " out of my gourd " and can't relate to it at all! Six o'clock on a Saturday night with your interests in your location - unfathomable. Depression perhaps....anyway, let him sleep, definitely go with friends and find out if hes sick. I'd ask if he were sick but I used to have a relative by marriage who was ill, bedridden in fact but still was up for parties and holidays. I'm talking like 30 people over to the house! Always had a great time with them....

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Should men be judged for Cut'nPaste? Posted: 12/5/2007 10:17:52 PM
Question. "What's he got that I don't?" ANSWER. He doesn't hit random chicks. All the rest..blah,blah,blah....

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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If someone emails you with misspelled words and bad grammar, do you respond? Posted: 12/5/2007 9:06:10 PM
Hey- if you wanna be picky - no problem by me ; you have to live with it.... Personally, I don't care that much, although I'm considered to know better and know how to write and edit very well, thank-you.... I test high and am considered to know how to write well if I deign to...I don't care that much. I look for general knowledge, general comprehension and vocabulary which I consider to be a rarer find that the the nuts and bolts of grammar and sentence construction. Oh, almost forgot... basic questions like "Do I like him ?" BTW, when I was going to university it annoyed me no end that I was stuck in the English class of 6 ( out of 30,o00+) with editors and professional writers, etc- I just don't care that much! If you infer from this that I dated others- you be right! - whatever.... ...did I say I don't care? Have a cyber-beer. er=0>

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Is he too controlling? Posted: 12/5/2007 7:16:03 PM
Dump his butt. Yes hes controlling and selfish and slams you're friends. Nothing good is gonna come of this. Theres plenty of fishies who don't pull this crap and lemme tell you- theres more to come in his repertoire if you stay with him....This is only the start. DUMP HIM.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Shy and standoffish women - do they ever open up? Posted: 12/5/2007 7:05:17 PM
Sorry, neither shy nor do I date them but here goes anyway because I have something to tell you. You have a friend who you admit is both naturally a little standoffish and shy. Good enough to date and sleep with. And you're happy with the sex. The problem is not the introverted lady. Introverts don't "fix" and become extroverted. They're fine just the way they are. Relationships are more about accepting someone, not fixing someone ( Pygmalion projects). Its doesn't have to do with gender role stuff. Its more like personality theory and whether the individuals have what it takes to accept others in an intimate relationship. Do you want to pursue a relationship, spend time with her, have friends and family in common, share mutual goals or not? Thats the real question. My $1.02 cents worth.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Developing relationships: calling and seeing each other Posted: 12/4/2007 10:39:07 AM
That hes angling for a FWB. One call and one date per week isn't my idea of a relationship. Its a minimum of twice a week and calls. Four times if you're serious. Once a week or less is popular with FWB seekers because it does a good job of keeping 'separate lives'.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Why do people say you have to love my dog/cat/animals Posted: 12/4/2007 8:29:36 AM
They did say " love my children/family" but you missed it. Its not a strange request. Some people regard pets as animals and some regard pets as small furry children, permanent members of the household and family. --Enter new guy with own ideas on how to raise the furrkids. Result, new guy loses. Animal lovers are always likeable/lovable- well, almost.... Mebbe its you.... Some folks don't care for ( for example) for animals on furniture and regard it as "bad behavior" Others deliberately purchase furniture for them. Some let them sleep on the bed. Others make them sleep outside. Theres a saying. If a man wants a woman, he'll take whatever she comes with( kids, petwise).

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Am I right? Posted: 12/4/2007 5:14:20 AM
First off, you're probably both like in your thirties or so- all grown-up not kids. That being the case he wants FWB. His saying " I don't want a relationship" translates " I don't want a relationship with YOU". You basically have it right. Stick to your guns and fish up another fishie.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Why do men always start taking about sex or tits? Posted: 11/28/2007 5:41:17 PM
No, no, no...most guys are cool and have normal sexuality and ways of talking to women. It's hard to say because we aren't privy to your IM and mail and thee guys profiles. All of the old-time pervy crank phonecallers and flashers seem to have found a second life on the internet. Regular guys don't do this stuff. Here are some basic pointers since you say this is all kinda new to you. If you're running your IM wide open be more selective set it so only your friends can IM you. Don't answer mail from guys with no pic/1-2 line profiles who message with one-liners. Don't answer guys whose profile are full of stuff like"intimate" "cuddling" "kissing" ideas of first dates/meets/dinner is at home and watching a movie. Or a bunch of trite "flowery" romantic language. Pay attention to what days and hours hes calling. Is he going around times and days singles are usually free. Is he guarding his name, land-line phone, work, address like a cheater? Is he only getting in touch during work hours- bad sign. Browse the forums and read the respected ladies posts to learn about internet dating- they'll call BS when they see it.....

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Is His Brother Fair Game? Posted: 11/28/2007 1:34:23 PM
Your guy may be different. Brother/brother and son/dad is definitely on my don't do list.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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women's input Posted: 11/28/2007 1:00:42 PM
Option 1: Surrender ourselves to our carnal lusts and commit sins of biblical proportions. Go to confession together. Ever made out in a confessional? Cut n paste out of dimitrib's profile. So exactly what are you complaining about or are you adverting??

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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stay on, delete, or hide profile, what would you do? Posted: 11/28/2007 12:52:31 PM
Small town girl. This is what you do. Keep your profile up, reference him in his profile , when you get to exclusive, change your status to exclusive; have him do the same. When you're post a together couple photo and stay on for the forums. Have his picture in so he can show hes dudley do right. Find out if hes a privacy buff or hes hes open and lets you have his passwords and all his profiles on other sites also mention you and isn't secretive with his cell phone. That should work or at least I see it working for couples I know who are really together and aren't hiding anything. They SHARE.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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I used to be gay Posted: 11/28/2007 12:40:14 PM
Peeked at your profile. Hes probably surprised your " all kinds of turned off". Try making your profile less "alt friendly" if you don't care for these "surprises".

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Why do guys fear when their woman initiates that serious talk Posted: 11/27/2007 9:44:12 AM
Because its 90% probably the wrong guy, not right for you, or cut from the wrong cloth for serious relationships. If its not going somewhere or serious, why be exclusive ? Some fellows don't mind keeping arrangements loose even if they know you want more so long as they're okay with things the way they are/aren't. Guys who are going to tell you will tell you soon enough, anywhere from 2 weeks for very together older gents to a few months to around 6 months for younger guys.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Why must you know my bra size prior to a date?? Posted: 11/27/2007 9:30:55 AM
The straight guys just want your bod. The trannies looking for a gal pal to hang out with and do girlie stuff want to know if you can swap clothes.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Should wives be submissive to their husbands? Posted: 11/27/2007 9:18:46 AM
Could you elaborate? You list as desiring "other relationship" and looking for fun and now bring up the topic of "submissiveness". Can't wait for your explanation.... The Bibles standard of real men is "in Christ the Lord" (at least for Christian husbands) not just things men of other religions also accomplish.Edit to add to post.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Dinner Date - Who Pays? Posted: 11/27/2007 1:01:15 AM
What a mess. Whoever invites, pays. You already invited. Question- what would you do if she were broke and didnt make 3 times what you make seeing as you've already invited her and its to an expensive restaurant? Makes the whole thing look as though you were counting on dutch and lemme tell you any girl who makes 3 times IT is used to offers to pay the whole thing. Its just the way the world works and most guys wont let us pay- maybe the tip, maybe later on or reciprocate with home-cooked. You invited- you pay and discuss an abrupt, awkward change nest date. Also, she'll likely understand if you need to go to less expensive places, but if you bring this up now after plans are made, you'll look bad.* So would I if I invited a guy and then asked for money.*

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Role reversal....I think ? Posted: 11/27/2007 12:27:21 AM
Did you turn the light, flip her over and do a parts check? Thats my first guess, but then I li ve in nevada.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Women and Question asking Posted: 11/27/2007 12:19:16 AM
Sassy is defunct. Sassy was for girls- jr.high and high school . Little teenage girls. What are you doing reading it? We don't really want to know.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Very interested and the next second he's gone.. what happened? Posted: 11/27/2007 12:04:58 AM
Men are never too busy to keep in touch with someone special they're interested in. They are too if they're not that interested, or if they're collecting for just one on a string. My guess is there are others, or a mistress- someone your family doesn't know about. If so, calling would only make easier for him to string you along and he may not be interested at all. If you're right, mebbe hes a workaholic and will never have a lot of time. You're hardly exclusive or committed, by all means date!

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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whooaaaa.......big guy! Posted: 11/26/2007 11:53:43 PM
Big surprise. The rare guy who goes way out of his way to blow it, deliberately screws it up- intended to but wont admit it.... No point trying to figure it .... Leave him alone and get another one. He justs wants the appearance of things, "credence". And don't try to fix him!

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Why do men have their friends call you? Posted: 11/26/2007 11:38:04 PM
Guy secret- they already know on the first date whether they're gonna be a second date. Hes not that into you. It's probably not a good thing that he passed off to a friend of his. Things that make us go hmmm........

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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First Christmas Posted: 11/25/2007 5:43:06 PM
Christmas cards. Send 'em out early and eventually you get a bunch back and start setting them out on the mantle or else put a string and drape them in garlands in the living room. Christmas carols. Extra touch, not necessary- Some folks have a special picture make at a photographers and then have custom cards printed up. Music. Christmas carols. At least one cherry, upbeat CD playing at least some the time. Extra touch- candle light walk and choir sometime during December. Our is Dec 6. (?)Ride to Christmas Mass. Really special to some. Mebbe mandatory. Tree. Any. Special. Douglas fir. Decorations any store-bought or homemade or that resemble things on a childhood tree. Very important- a star goes on top. Skip tinsel if there are pets that eat it. Christmas lights-outdoor strings go strung up on eaves. Extra, unnecessary- theres rather unsubtle competitions for best lighting and yards decorations. Not everyone does a nativity scene whether under the tree or outdoors but its very special to those its important to....Or, a ride around a neighborhood that has some yard decorations out. Prezzies are neat but not essential for adults. Still, everyone gets some anyway. Doesn't matter what it is. Doesn' t matter if it fits . Its mandatory to forever keep (in the closet) all Christmas prezzies even if its undies up to the armpits that great-aunt so-n-so picked out. Its the thought that counts ( Bless her heart). Wrapping- just like birthday presents except a special to/from card gets attached. Customary to write. "From Santa" Extra- gift wrapping and ribbons is an art-form only one step down from origami. Not essential. Guessing whats in the package and reading the cards is fun. Dinner. Whatever Mom made. Even if its just one special dish with other fixings. Phone calls home. Real important. A really good friend who cares even tho 'we' don't do Christmas. Priceless.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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Do I still have a chance? Posted: 11/25/2007 12:29:50 AM
Get over this guy. I'll tell you why. The second, he didn't tell about the girl. Tigers don't change their stripes. I'll put five on theres still someone you don't know about who was their the first time. He blew it credibility wise when he didn't fess up about the girl who had to contact you rather him telling you. See? Hope you see.

Dominique777

Joined: 8/10/2007

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need your wisdom! - should I keep the baby? Posted: 11/25/2007 12:10:47 AM
"It's very hard for me to think of getting rid of it, and I think I'd regret. " You can always put the little one up for adoption later or keep, but regret is forever....He knew what he was chancing when he had sex- you shouldn't have to pay with your feelings of regret for the rest of your life because he didn't take precautions and thinks abortion is easier for you than for him to wear condoms. He is ready if he wont take precautions. And you want another anyway. I say keep him or her- you already know how to raise kids and everything involved. Give "Enspermanator" a thump on his little head for me just for ha-has- Ive never "gotten rid" of one!Edit to add to post.

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